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HellVictorinho6:
Which stupid pressure!

Get a job..no matter how little ...improve ur life and skill ...it will open better opportunities...
.....slow and steady u will get there.......

.if u want a family ...get a good woman....no be all this entitled women that won't work and will be demanding...

All these "u must be a billionaire before u have kids"... is merely putting pressure on ur life..... U already have a mentality that u can't do a job yet u an drop account number to collect free money...na entitled person dey talk like that..

iLegendd:
The level of suffering and frustrations I have been through in this life, the OP can't smell it.

Do you know how many times I have been scammed of 57k by different people on Nairaland in 2021 or thereabout?

I'm not dumb. If people can scam me, anyone can be scammed. I didn't call you a scammer, but sending me another person's account looked somehow.

I don't even ask my own father for money or any living thing for money even though he was working, but always end up giving it to other relations and by the middle of the month, while waiting for another salary, we'll be suffering as if God doesn't exist. You no suffer reach me, but in my suffering, I was never entitled. I don't even bother my rich uncles. I believed that suffering is temporarily and a story to tell you stay focused no matter how long it takes.

Have you showered with Omo before? No.
Have you drank garri for 1 week straight before? No.
Have you fallen on the road before because of lack of food? No.
Have you worn 2 clothes for a year before? No.

The reason I never asked humans for money or steal even at my worst was because I don't want to be disturbed or get my money stolen when I start making mine too.

I love rendering help when I want, not when I'm told, coerced or asked. I knew all these things from childhood that's why I don't steal or beg. I don't make my problem look as if it's everyone's problem. I don't blame my dad for not managing his money well and always ready to help others first. But, it's his money, not mine.

I also don't like sending people on errands because as a kid, I hate people bossing me around to this and that, go here and go there.

The reason I deactivated my main WhatsApp is because of people that act entitled like you. 5k is nothing, but I have never stolen 5k before another person, so it's something even though it's nothing. Those of us who sweat for every penny know the value even when it's small.

We've built ourselves never to be entitled.
We've built ourselves never to steal or beg.
We've built ourselves never to be controlled.
We've built ourselves never to let anger take over.

We've built ourselves in many ways through experience.

This is why we can bear or handle almost anything. The ones we can't, we handle it to God.

My account is opay 8184275086



But i wont get an alert


U will have 2 notify me

Thats the problem

U still have 2 notify me

iLegendd:
I have sent 5k each to both of you. Now I can walk out of the thread. You guys should have a nice day.

Ilegendd u are a good man. And for this I want to patronize you again. Do you have any book u can recommend to help me stay focused psychologically?

advanceDNA:
Get a job..no matter how little ...improve ur life and skill ...it will open better opportunities...
.....slow and steady u will get there.......

.if u want a family ...get a good woman....no be all this entitled women that won't work and will be demanding...

All these "u must be a billionaire before u have kids"... is merely putting pressure on ur life..... U already have a mentality that u can't do a job yet u an drop account number to collect free money...na entitled person dey talk like that..

The job is at lekki



No money 4 feeding there


Transport is barely available


What on earth is this all about?

HellVictorinho6:
My account is opay 8184275086



But i wont get an alert


U will have 2 notify me

Thats the problem

U still have 2 notify me

Okay, Sir.

Tynaclem1:
Ahah he's trying to help you and look at how you're addressing him... entitlement mentality.

Mr. "If not because you were born poor", how are you sure he wasn't born poor too but struggled and worked his azz off to be able to dash you 5k that you're low key ridiculing.

This is how people lose connections and favours because of their mouth and you end up going to Shiloh to ask God why?...

Was getting mentally exhausted

iLegendd:
Okay, Sir.

Honestly you be legend sha.

Walahi if nah another person e for don bounce but you try oo.

iLegendd:
Okay, Sir.

Thanks ,sir

Neva mind my tone.



Itz due 2 too much stress.

[quote author=Tynaclem1 post=127392673][/quote]Av heard u

HellVictorinho6:
Was getting mentally exhausted

Sorry about that, don't worry with time things will get better, it won't always be like this🙂

HellVictorinho6:
The job is at lekki



No money 4 feeding there


Transport is barely available


What on earth is this all about?

I should ask u....na u mention me

iLegendd:
The level of suffering and frustrations I have been through in this life, the OP can't smell it.

Do you know how many times I have been scammed of 57k by different people on Nairaland in 2021 or thereabout?

I'm not dumb. If people can scam me, anyone can be scammed. I didn't call you a scammer, but sending me another person's account looked somehow.

I don't even ask my own father for money or any living thing for money even though he was working, but always end up giving it to other relations and by the middle of the month, while waiting for another salary, we'll be suffering as if God doesn't exist. You no suffer reach me, but in my suffering, I was never entitled. I don't even bother my rich uncles. I believed that suffering is temporarily and a story to tell you stay focused no matter how long it takes.

Have you showered with Omo before? No.
Have you drank garri for 1 week straight before? No.
Have you fallen on the road before because of lack of food? No.
Have you worn 2 clothes for a year before? No.

The reason I never asked humans for money or steal even at my worst was because I don't want to be disturbed or get my money stolen when I start making mine too.

I love rendering help when I want, not when I'm told, coerced or asked. I knew all these things from childhood that's why I don't steal or beg. I don't make my problem look as if it's everyone's problem. I don't blame my dad for not managing his money well and always ready to help others first. But, it's his money, not mine.

I also don't like sending people on errands because as a kid, I hate people bossing me around to this and that, go here and go there.

The reason I deactivated my main WhatsApp is because of people that act entitled like you. 5k is nothing, but I have never stolen 5k before another person, so it's something even though it's nothing. Those of us who sweat for every penny know the value even when it's small.

We've built ourselves never to be entitled.
We've built ourselves never to steal or beg.
We've built ourselves never to be controlled.
We've built ourselves never to let anger take over.

We've built ourselves in many ways through experience.

This is why we can bear or handle almost anything. The ones we can't, we handle it to God.

Note: I'm not saying people shouldn't beg. It's still better to beg than to steal. I'm just saying even at my worst, I controlled my anger, didn't beg, and didn't steal. Though, a cousin once helped me with 10k.

is anger associated with begging or stealing ..

Lol. Craze man!
You will be okay las las.

HellVictorinho6:
Am going 4 a job at lekki

Can u borrow me 10k?

I will pay in two months time

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@ ILegendd, God bless your good heart.
Asides your hard work and perseverance, I think you overcame all life threw at you cos you are an all-round good humanbeing

victory36:
I don't even know why people are so crazed about 'starting a family'. Even someone who earns minimum wage wants to bring not just one child but children to suffer with him in poverty. So unfortunate

I posted about this on twitter last month, sometimes I wonder who ever advice Nigerians that having children is the solution to poverty doesn't mean well for us

iLegendd:
The level of suffering and frustrations I have been through in this life, the OP can't smell it.

Do you know how many times I have been scammed of 57k by different people on Nairaland in 2021 or thereabout?
.

This is why we can bear or handle almost anything. The ones we can't, we handle it to God.

Note: I'm not saying people shouldn't beg. It's still better to beg than to steal. I'm just saying even at my worst, I controlled my anger, didn't beg, and didn't steal. Though, a cousin once helped me with 10k.

Long time, I haven't seen your post in a while.
Please, I have no other option, I'm broke need
Opay 9067 329 755

iLegendd:
I have sent 5k each to both of you. Now I can walk out of the thread. You guys should have a nice day.

Thanks for helping them, you have a kind heart. God will bless your hustle. It always hurt me to see homeboys going through hell In this useless country. Poverty everywhere. As they say, election has consequences. Most of them begging now are part of the problem one way or another.

Lol people funny sha.
So you think by doing giveaway GOD would forgive your sins.
Dey play.

iLegendd:
I don't borrow even my mom (whom I love the most) money talk more of a stranger. I don't borrow humans money.

I give for free if I have, but unfortunately, I don't have Naira. All my money are in crypto and I don't touch them.

Also, when I give money on Nairaland people come to my inbox to ask for their share and if I don't give, they start abusing me with different monikers. I hate when it happens.

I'll send you 5k — look for where to borrow the remaining 5k. You don't need to pay back.

Boss are still into amazon kdp?.. I would like to learn some things from you.. Can I have your number?

@op this is right and realistic, but many people overlook it and keep on importing innocent kids into this planet without proper planning.

@ilegend. you are one of the best soul on earth.. helping people is worth doing in this earth and thereafter.God bless you the more.
Me too I want to be a giver.
I Don't know if u can show me some online biz? I can finance myself.

iLegendd:
Okay, Sir.

Excuse me sir


How do i get my money when i have no android?



I opened the opay months ago with a code i cant remember



I cant get OTP since 9mobile has no service



i wont be happy with u if u dont say it bcuz we could have avoided all this if u had sent it to some other account.

Pineapplelove:
Long time, I haven't seen your post in a while.
Please, I have no other option, I'm broke need
Opay 9067 329 755

if u can tell me how to get my money, i will send u 1k.


i have no android

i cant remember my code


i cant receive otp

HellVictorinho6:
if u can tell me how to get my money, i will send u 1k.

i have no android
i cant remember my code

i cant receive otp

Have you given the Customer representative a call?

HellVictorinho6:
Excuse me sir


How do i get my money when i have no android?



I opened the opay months ago with a code i cant remember



I cant get OTP since 9mobile has no service



i wont be happy with u if u dont say it bcuz we could have avoided all this if u had sent it to some other account.

Guy you're fvcked-up

Kingrshd3:
What do you mean by proverty I guess that have different definition.

But for giving birth to kid/kids requires only a job at least u can earn monthly or weekly not necessarily u will be rich but as long as u can feed comfortably please 🥺

Give birth to a child 🙁 you can train him/her unless if u don't have a job .

Mumu.

Silly statement. Most people see breakthrough when years after having their families.

Johnson225:
Guy you're fvcked-up

Big time… 😢

victory36:
I don't even know why people are so crazed about 'starting a family'. Even someone who earns minimum wage wants to bring not just one child but children to suffer with him in poverty. So unfortunate

e Dey tire me. Person Dey earn 50k wan rush go born. Me wey I Dey earn good still Dey fear cus I know what it entails

Bambiala done use another flow .. person weu them give work him reject , interview ncor . Las Las the 5k go finish , you go see another flow .

victory36:
I don't even know why people are so crazed about 'starting a family'. Even someone who earns minimum wage wants to bring not just one child but children to suffer with him in poverty. So unfortunate

I just don't understand.

Two of my classmates we used to trek to school together are now married, they are guys o. One married in 2018 and the other married last year.

I'm yet to see a single reason they both married that early.

My drummer who is currently a graduate trainee and a corps member told us he hopes to marry next year.

I just can't wrap my head around what is pushing these guys into premature marriage. When e no be jazz.

Godson1996:
Silly statement. Most people see breakthrough when years after having their families.