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Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by Opanka44(op): 9:09am On Dec 10, 2023*

Happy Sunday to everyone here.
I've been with this Beautiful lady for two solid years. She comes to see me every weekend, cooks for me and she's being exceptionally Nice to me. She kindhearted. The major issue that causes conflict between us is her constant communication with some other guys. Some guys call her everyday like they are dating. She keeps insisting that there's nothing between herself and those guys, and that they are just Toasters. I believe that if u actually Respect your man, and he tells u he isn't comfortable with some certain behavior, you'd change. This is a very serious relationship which we plan to settle down together in two years time. I have seen her WhatsApp chats with some of these guys.
I have never had a Penetrative sex with her, except MouthAction. She claims she's a virgin. She's 28yrs of age. I've told her countless times to allow me find out by myself so I can be sure. I suck her pussy but she wouldn't allow me dip my fingers into her, anytime she notices I want to dip my fingers, she will move away. She will close her legs so tightly & ask me to mount her & insert my Dick around the hole so I can release. She asks me to stimulate her clitoris to make her cum, but I can't confirm her claim of virginity. I even asked her to dip her own fingers into it, so I can watch to see if the fingers can go in, but she doesn't. I'm really very worried and confused. I feel like I'm being played and dribbled here. I feel like I'm a fool. She has continued to SWEAR IN GOD'S NAME AND HER LATE FATHER'S GRAVE that she's a virgin. I am so so CONFUSED.
I know she loves me, but I feel she's seeing someone else and also lying about her Virginity. I'm not even bothered about any woman been a virgin or not. I just want a peaceful, good and accommodating lady.
Elders pls help me out

Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by Nwodosis(m): 9:14am On Dec 10, 2023

If you are not bothered about a woman being a virgin or not, why then are you bringing the matter here?
Listen, virginity is good but it doesn't make one the best wife!

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by immortalcrown(m): 9:17am On Dec 10, 2023*

If you actually do all you said here, she is no longer a virgin.

Virginity is when you have not indulged in any sexual activity. Penetration is not the only thing that ends virginity. A man that had never penetrated a woman but masturbates is not a virgin. A woman whose hymen is broken by a non-sexually-related physical exercise but she has not indulged in any sexual activity is still a virgin. A woman with her hymen intact but she touches her clitoris and cums is no longer a virgin. Penetration is not the only sexual act, just as penetration is not the only thing that defines sexual assault.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by brain54(m): 9:27am On Dec 10, 2023*

A 28 year old virgin...

She must be adept and a pro now at mouth gigs.

Years of practice and experience. You know... Area of specialty!

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by Solofresh2: 9:47am On Dec 10, 2023

From your story, you suck her private part without even considering the disadvantages you might encounter doing that. A girl asked you to suck her private part and rub your penis in her vagina and you are asking us if she is a virgin or not. Will a true virgin ask you to do those stuffs huh

Bros the fact that a lady is kind to you does not mean she loves you. A lady who will allow you suck her private part but not let you penetrate inside her,lying she is a virgin doesn't love you.
You need to study women well if you don't want to be deceived.At least, two or more of those guys texting or calling her her sleeping with her and they will still continue sleeping with her even after you get married to her
You have being fooled all along you need to wise up

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by Vinnie2000(m): 9:53am On Dec 10, 2023

OP,

You are a Private school teacher.

But you have NEVER made a thread on Finances, Education or the Economy of the country.🙁

Always about Girlfriend and TOWTOW issues.😒😒

What kind of a Teacher are you? 😕😕

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by Opanka44(op): 10:57am On Dec 10, 2023

Solofresh2:
From your story, you suck her private part without even considering the disadvantages you might encounter doing that. A girl asked you to suck her private part and rub your penis in her vagina and you are asking us if she is a virgin or not. Will a true virgin ask you to do those stuffs
Bros the fact that a lady is kind to you does not mean she loves you. A lady who will allow you suck her private part but not let you penetrate inside her,lying she is a virgin doesn't love you.
You need to study women well if you don't want to be deceived.At least, two or more of those guys texting or calling her her sleeping with her and they will still continue sleeping with her even after you get married to her
You have being fooled all along you need to wise up

I'm not forced to suck her pussy. I wanted it. She didn't tell me to do so.

Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by Geovanni412(m): 11:04am On Dec 10, 2023

Opanka44:
Happy Sunday to everyone here.
I've been with this Beautiful lady for two solid years. She comes to see me every weekend, cooks for me and she's being exceptionally Nice to me. She kindhearted. The major issue that causes conflict between us is her constant communication with some other guys. Some guys call her everyday like they are dating. She keeps insisting that there's nothing between herself and those guys, and that they are just Toasters. I believe that if u actually Respect your man, and he tells u he isn't comfortable with some certain behavior, you'd change. This is a very serious relationship which we plan to settle down together in two years time. I have seen her WhatsApp chats with some of these guys.
I have never had a Penetrative sex with her, except MouthAction. She claims she's a virgin. She's 28yrs of age. I've told her countless times to allow me find out by myself so I can be sure. I suck her pussy but she wouldn't allow me dip my fingers into her, anytime she notices I want to dip my fingers, she will move away. She will close her legs so tightly & ask me to mount her & insert my Dick around the hole so I can release. She asks me to stimulate her clitoris to make her cum, but I can't confirm her claim of virginity. I even asked her to dip her own fingers into it, so I can watch to see if the fingers can go in, but she doesn't. I'm really very worried and confused. I feel like I'm being played and dribbled here. I feel like I'm a fool. She has continued to SWEAR IN GOD'S NAME AND HER LATE FATHER'S GRAVE that she's a virgin. I am so so CONFUSED.
I know she loves me, but I feel she's seeing someone else and also lying about her Virginity. I'm not even bothered about any woman been a virgin or not. I just want a peaceful, good and accommodating lady.
Elders pls help me out

Op, if you are above 23 yrs...

Dem no suppose dey use you catch this kind cruise

You just dey allow am give you blue balls for months

The truth is this....

brain54:
A 28 year old virgin...

She must be adept and a pro now at mouth gigs.

Years of practice and experience. You know... Area of specialty!

There is a small probability that she is a virgin but even if she is...

If her head game was out of this world, just know that she may have given head to at least 30-50 guys.

It takes 20 hrs to be decent at any skill...even if she is a fast learner, her cumulative time doing it will be at least 5 hrs across several sexual encounters.

It is, however, more likely that she has been engaged in sex several times but she sees you more as a boyfriend material than a Bleep boy...she is afraid of losing you if she has sex with you too quickly.

To understand this more, check what Nina Agdal was doing to Logan Paul and compare her actions with her sexual history.

Either way, you are dealing with a *slut*

As long as she makes you happy, do what is best for you.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by Opanka44(op): 11:12am On Dec 10, 2023

Geovanni412:
Op, if you are above 23 yrs...

Dem no suppose dey use you catch this kind cruise

You just dey allow am give you blue balls for months

The truth is this....

I'm 33. Did u not read where I said she's 28yrs old? So it means I can't be anywhere near 23. I am far above that.
I love this girl so badly. She says she loves but most times I doubt. We have been together for 2years. I'm only just waiting for her to go for her NYSC and complete it. She has other features that betray her claim of Loving me but this particular one is what I find very disturbing. She's had lots of exes, does it mean none of Dem ever slept with her?

Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by Geovanni412(m): 11:23am On Dec 10, 2023

[quote author=Opanka44 post=127408896][/quote]Ok. Read the remaining part of my post and you'll understand what she is doing to you.

Watch the video from Derek Van schaik on YouTube below...she is playing you the same way Nina Agdal was playing Logan Paul

https://youtube.com/shorts/-UzDX28EbzA?si=tP4TaY2B_8ooMZGT

If she is not getting it from you, she is getting it elsewhere.

Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by Makamatic: 12:16pm On Dec 10, 2023

Mae girlfriend no kills this bros oo . And na red pilla or apha meil as them they call themselves oo

Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by pete1234: 12:18pm On Dec 10, 2023

Guy wake up, she is not all that emotionally attached to you, once she finds a better suitor she will dump u, ladies are damn smart. Be wise

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by Solofresh2: 12:20pm On Dec 10, 2023

Opanka44:
I'm not forced to suck her pussy. I wanted it. She didn't tell me to do so.

Okay happy sucking grin

Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by Rexymania(m): 1:34pm On Dec 10, 2023

Is she below 25? Chill that's how they behave

Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by NOGRUDGES(m): 1:50pm On Dec 10, 2023

Na ludo you dey describe for here

Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by spencekat(m): 1:53pm On Dec 10, 2023

Makamatic:
Mae girlfriend no kills this bros oo . And na red pilla or apha meil as them they call themselves oo

Na SIMP him be o

Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by Ollytblex(m): 7:00pm On Dec 10, 2023

Opanka44:
Happy Sunday to everyone here.
I've been with this Beautiful lady for two solid years. She comes to see me every weekend, cooks for me and she's being exceptionally Nice to me. She kindhearted. The major issue that causes conflict between us is her constant communication with some other guys. Some guys call her everyday like they are dating. She keeps insisting that there's nothing between herself and those guys, and that they are just Toasters. I believe that if u actually Respect..He r your man, and he tells u he isn't comfortable with some certain behavior, you'd change. This is a very serious relationship which we plan to settle down together in two years time. I have seen her WhatsApp chats with some of these guys.
I have never had a Penetrative sex with her, except MouthAction. She claims she's a virgin. She's 28yrs of age. I've told her countless times to allow me find out by myself so I can be sure. I suck her pussy but she wouldn't allow me dip my fingers into her, anytime she notices I want to dip my fingers, she will move away. She will close her legs so tightly & ask me to mount her & insert my Dick around the hole so I can release. She asks me to stimulate her clitoris to make her cum, but I can't confirm her claim of virginity. I even asked her to dip her own fingers into it, so I can watch to see if the fingers can go in, but she doesn't. I'm really very worried and confused. I feel like I'm being played and dribbled here. I feel like I'm a fool. She has continued to SWEAR IN GOD'S NAME AND HER LATE FATHER'S GRAVE that she's a virgin. I am so so CONFUSED.
I know she loves me, but I feel she's seeing someone else and also lying about her Virginity. I'm not even bothered about any woman been a virgin or not. I just want a peaceful, good and accommodating lady.
Elders pls help me out

Your girl name is Deborah Samuel..With the description u gave that should be her name

Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by Gaspardd(m): 9:12pm On Dec 10, 2023

Nah ur type go university dey focus on book 24/7 without any social life. They say make money first and girls will chase u.

Lol u see life now. Where re d girls? I have a friend like u too, the moment this dude traveled, this his supposed loyal babe came to my House...for what?
But I no tell my guy ooo cuz I no wan spoil parole for d babe.

My point is.... You need to build your social intelligence at early stage in life so as not to face issues like this at a later stage in life when you're supposed to be focused on making money.

And you might think it's d lady's fault but I can bet it with u....you will still experience the same thing with another lady cuz u re really a dancing monkey looking for validation.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by BlackhatMentor: 12:48am On Dec 11, 2023

The night she accepts to _fuck you in a bit to continue the false truth of virginity she'd claim someone has raped her before (With fake tears).

Their popular lie if they want you to believe they didn't want the sex and didn't want to break their virginity but was forced into _fucking.

I believed one... The. Heard same story from 3 other girls.... Then googled online and saw some articles where they claimed they were raped after lying to you they're virgins for years.

Or if you ask them if they're Virgins and they don't know how to reply without appearing bad they'd tell you their uncle raped them with the most useless of lie and context

Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by JustPowerApps(m): 1:54am On Dec 11, 2023

She's already leading you 10 - 0 cheesy

You dated a 28yrs girl for 2 years and didn't do anything with her. Shame on yoh bruh.

WTF!!! You actually expected a Nigerian girl to be virgin at 28? Egbami!!!

Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by ednut1(m): 2:50am On Dec 11, 2023

This guys again with same story. Its now clear you are mentally deranged

https://www.nairaland.com/7891780/girl-trying-smart-me/1 this is you 3 months ago

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by eazzzy1(m): 2:59am On Dec 11, 2023

The reflex action of her legs closing whenever you try to insert your fingers is proof that her hymen may be intact. Fingering could be painful for most virgins.

I think your major problem is her behaviour of doing whatever she wants despite your objections. If she doesn’t mind losing you now, it’s going to be worse in marriage. The toasters are not going anywhere, the more unavailable a woman is the more toasters she will get, if she puts herself out there.

She’s told you expressly she doesn’t see chykers as a problem. If you see it as a disrespect that’s a compatibility issue. If you can’t be on the same page, you need to stop taking her seriously, just as she isn’t taking you seriously.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by Kingluqman(m): 7:45am On Dec 11, 2023

Bro, you are the virgin here and not him!!

Maybe the lady dey treat one kind infection and she no wan make you jam sweetie for en body.

As I dey look am so, you are the virgin and not her

Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by deanoffaculty: 8:18am On Dec 11, 2023

Opanka44:
Happy Sunday to everyone here.
I've been with this Beautiful lady for two solid years. She comes to see me every weekend, cooks for me and she's being exceptionally Nice to me. She kindhearted. The major issue that causes conflict between us is her constant communication with some other guys. Some guys call her everyday like they are dating. She keeps insisting that there's nothing between herself and those guys, and that they are just Toasters. I believe that if u actually Respect your man, and he tells u he isn't comfortable with some certain behavior, you'd change. This is a very serious relationship which we plan to settle down together in two years time. I have seen her WhatsApp chats with some of these guys.
I have never had a Penetrative sex with her, except MouthAction. She claims she's a virgin. She's 28yrs of age. I've told her countless times to allow me find out by myself so I can be sure. I suck her pussy but she wouldn't allow me dip my fingers into her, anytime she notices I want to dip my fingers, she will move away. She will close her legs so tightly & ask me to mount her & insert my Dick around the hole so I can release. She asks me to stimulate her clitoris to make her cum, but I can't confirm her claim of virginity. I even asked her to dip her own fingers into it, so I can watch to see if the fingers can go in, but she doesn't. I'm really very worried and confused. I feel like I'm being played and dribbled here. I feel like I'm a fool. She has continued to SWEAR IN GOD'S NAME AND HER LATE FATHER'S GRAVE that she's a virgin. I am so so CONFUSED.
I know she loves me, but I feel she's seeing someone else and also lying about her Virginity. I'm not even bothered about any woman been a virgin or not. I just want a peaceful, good and accommodating lady.
Elders pls help me out

Snap the Kpekus and post the picture here.......then, we analyse it and tell you the result.

Re: Is My Girlfriend Actually A VIRGIN? by 22just: 10:23am On Dec 11, 2023

Are you sure she doesn't belong to the streets? My brother check well to avoid being a victim of breakfast

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