mayor2013:


Are u a slow poke. U sound so unintelligent. Look at you justifying why she should have those dirty chats with a foolish colleague. Gosh!!! This your myopic reasoning questions your background

You are a cesspit, your breeders shouldn't have let you germinate, you are really foolish for quoting me to say trash because I'll go so low you'll question your existence, if you cannot quote a comment a d respond civily, it will be given back to you much worse than you can ever imagine, you below par dreg of the society not fit to exist.

YourGFsnatcher:

Bulshit! All of you are pro cheats

Your mother included.

BrighterSyde:


As always. That natural tendency in females to support females without much deeper thinking. And the message they exchanged where the man says she should come so they make babies coupled with the reply doesn’t mean anything right?

She’s cheating already albeit emotionally but she believes she’s doing nothing wrong hence her freedom in talking about him to her husband.

The question is will something not happen if they continue or are left alone? Stop this soft spot for women when they are obviously wrong.

Maybe when you get married one day and your husband invites a woman over and she gives that reply you will think nothing of it. I pity you.

Do you lack attention offline? Why exactly do you jump at the slightest opportunity to quote me? Abeg fvck off from my mention next time, it is not by force to quote me.

It is the likes of you that will cheat then let your wife or gf know and think it is your right as a man to have multiple women then expect her to see it as nothing, your gf or wife will cheat on you clean and clear under your roof and you will never know, ordinary flirting see how all of you dey foam for mouth all over this thread as if Op's wife remove una eye.

Time will tell.

RulerIAm:
abegi shut up!

Abeg fvck off!

Godoverevery:


Once again my condolences to the unfortunate
Man who marry a hag like you.

What is bad is bad......only a retard would try to justify a married woman allowing a colleague flirt with her all in the name is happens in offices....otumbo.

Your breeders are everlasting hags

You are a born retard so I'm not surprised you think everyone is like your demented self, condolences to the unfortunate lady that will end up with a daft below par nonentity with no purpose in his existence, doofus.

amadiama:

Not with a married woman...it's only a matter of time the deed will be done..

I don't relate with people's wives except old girl friends but not intimately.

You be mumu!
You need us to tell you the obvious abi

YourGFsnatcher:

Why do whorez always support each other?

I can't think of a better ally

Op… Just travel for 2weeks he go lash your wife like IndecentStar

Fountainofyouth:



A very stupid assumption

Men and women say a lot of things to those they are close with either male or female jokingly, that doesn't mean they've had sex.

Are you married? Hope you won't let hell loose if you see a chat of your husband asking another woman to come for them to make babies

Okay.Okay....

Ladiesdream:
if what you said is true what is the explanation to your hands are full. I like to learn.

the explanation is as simple as plus 1 .

He's gisting the wife about all his runs with other babies ,despite that he's making the wife to know that she's the one he love most and in that case the wife must have seen evidence of one or more ladies fighting over the dude and the dude is still busy trying to give wife bele and wife said dude you're well aware that you and I know that you have a lot in yours hands which simple means you have ladies fighting over you so you need to settle things first before looking for who to give Belle.


No man I repeat no man can ever tell any married lady let's make baby if they're not sharing romantic moments together.

If the guy will open up in all honesty you go fear .I like ladies but they're something else .

DrAda:


I can't think of a better ally

Your HUSBAND should be a better ally, not a fellow hoe

Fountainofyouth:


Your mother included.

Shut the Bleep up! Concentrate on the dick before you and stop sucking every bulge

YourGFsnatcher:

Shut the Bleep up! Concentrate on the dick before you and stop sucking every bulge

An advice to your mum, that's good.

No don't conclude. It was too forward, yes agreed but that's not concrete to say they are already shagging.

Aaaaarghmed:
They are already fucking.for him to get mind tell a married woman that.Omo,the relationship is too cordial between them.obviously dem don already knack

Nebes:
They are yet to knack but their flirting has gone very far. They'll knack if they meet privately. The guy is obviously a reckless and immoral fellow. Your wife is currently the one restricting the knack. Thread carefully so that you don't send her to him.

This is the only valid point here
All other are unnecessarily emotional

Lol

just like I once saw a Whatsapp chat between a married man and a married female friend of mine whereby the man told her "I want you to have a baby for me" ...but then, she tells me she's not sleeping with the man. they're just friends. but that the man has been wanting to take her to bed.

Me as a guy man, I just dey look her dey laff

mcdon024:
Mature advice only please.
I will keep this very short.
There is this her colleague she talks about almost all the time. He is also married. I became curious and decided to go through her WhatsApp chats with this guy. I saw in thier chats selfie pics she sends to him (normal selfie pics), and the one that really got to me is the part he invited my wife to come over and "lets make babies" according to him. But her reply was "No I can't, your hands are full"....Please who can decode this her reply to him?....I confronted her but she denied ever having anything to do with him beside been colleagues. But my worry is why chat flirty chats with a guy and what would give him the mind to ask her to come over and .......... Please I need mature advice only

You don't need a mature advice, you need a mature "beating" for being a weak man.

You want to know what it means for her to go and make babies with another man.


Mumu men everywhere...

Ur wife indeed. She is just a dynamite that will explode later. Unless u are the I don't care type and not fully responsible for house rent n heavy house expenses, but if not, state the rules and always make ur stand known to her

YourGFsnatcher:

Your HUSBAND should be a better ally, not a fellow hoe

Is there any difference?

mcdon024:
Mature advice only please.
I will keep this very short.
There is this her colleague she talks about almost all the time. He is also married. I became curious and decided to go through her WhatsApp chats with this guy. I saw in thier chats selfie pics she sends to him (normal selfie pics), and the one that really got to me is the part he invited my wife to come over and "lets make babies" according to him. But her reply was "No I can't, your hands are full"....Please who can decode this her reply to him?....I confronted her but she denied ever having anything to do with him beside been colleagues. But my worry is why chat flirty chats with a guy and what would give him the mind to ask her to come over and .......... Please I need mature advice only

I don't think she has started cheating. But if care isn't taken, under the wrong circumstances, she could.

1. Good you've confronted her about it. The next is to let her know you're nor comfortable with her closeness with said colleague and demand she ends their relationship. See her reaction. If she's not willing to end the relationship to save her marriage, then there's fire on the mountain. You might need to speak to her boss about it. If you wish to salvage your marriage.

2. Find out what is missing in your marriage and what she would want you to improve on. Let her know what you will like wise want her to impirve on. Perhaps he gives her more attention. Women have a weakness for attention. Note that you can't try to hard, but the effort counts.

3. This generation of career women, you have to be sensitive about handling these things. The primary issue here is Trust and Finance. You both have to build your trust seriously cos as career people you spend most of your productive time with your colleagues than your family so it's natural to want to create a comfortable work environment. She has to build good relationships but there certainly is a line/boundary she must nor cross. Concerning finance, if you can't shoulder the bills alone, then certain sacrifices have to be made. The sole responsibility of carrying herself as a married woman lies on her.
If you ask her to resign to start business, if she wants to cheat, she still will. Never underestimate the creativity and tenacity of a cheating spouse.

Office romance is really at an astronomical high lately. In my office I can count few. Unfortunately I've also been there until God knocked senses into me.
May God help this generation. It's an eyesore, how the marrage means nothing to many.
I'm however hopeful and glad that the sanctity of the marriage institution is slowly being restored. Thank God for intercessors and marriage counsellors.

Uptheante:

Correct.
And they had probably made babies from the earlier fück when his hands were not full.
So, he's inviting her to make babies like they did before, but she thinks his hands are full now, but if his hands are free, she won't hesitate to fúck him & make babies like they did before.
The husband has to carry out a secret DNA test on her kids (if they have any), so as to know how many are his & how many belong to the office colleague or other random men fucking his wife...
To me, irrespective of the result of the DNA test, he should divorce her so that she can be free to make babies with her office colleague

bro suggesting that someone that came here to ask what he can do when he caught his wife dirtiness should divorce her is like wasting time, that lady hold that man down perhaps he earn more than him



I quit relationship immediately I saw such chats not to talk of marriage

mcdon024:
Mature advice only please.
I will keep this very short.
There is this her colleague she talks about almost all the time. He is also married. I became curious and decided to go through her WhatsApp chats with this guy. I saw in thier chats selfie pics she sends to him (normal selfie pics), and the one that really got to me is the part he invited my wife to come over and "lets make babies" according to him. But her reply was "No I can't, your hands are full"....Please who can decode this her reply to him?....I confronted her but she denied ever having anything to do with him beside been colleagues. But my worry is why chat flirty chats with a guy and what would give him the mind to ask her to come over and .......... Please I need mature advice only

go check the ones in your house if na you own them. Dna to the Resque

qtguru:


Visit the office and report to the Boss, blow the whole thing up, and let his wife know if you can.

Best advice so far.

Myer:

I don't think she has started cheating. But if care isn't taken, under the wrong circumstances, she could.
Office romance is really at an astronomical high lately. In my office I can count few. Unfortunately I've also been there until God knocked senses into me.
I'm however hopeful and glad that the sanctity of the marriage institution is slowly being restored. Thank God for intercessors and marriage counsellors.

Cheating is not just kissing and bed engagement. Any untoward chats that u don't want your partner to see is cheat. If dem never knack, the woman is already into that office guy and she enjoys it. She must have reported to him sef that the husband don catch dem, make dem relax things small. It will take a miracle to get that woman back into the marriage, she's heavily invested in emotions with that other guy and dey will soon knack if dem never knack yet.
The husband shd start a plan B and be ready for whatever. But if he's not dependent on her finance, he shd escalate and take it to their ogas.
I hate office romance ehn. Never did that sh!t and I won't.

Fountainofyouth:
Op is funny,

If your wife is cheating, she will never ever talk about the man she's cheating with all the time, you won't even know he exists, so stop with the unnecessary assumption.

infact if a woman one cheat,she can even mention the guy name many times and na that same guy she dey nack.your mind no go remember sef say na the guy.dey play.i have seen it all

mcdon024:
Mature advice only please.
I will keep this very short.
There is this her colleague she talks about almost all the time. He is also married. I became curious and decided to go through her WhatsApp chats with this guy. I saw in thier chats selfie pics she sends to him (normal selfie pics), and the one that really got to me is the part he invited my wife to come over and "lets make babies" according to him. But her reply was "No I can't, your hands are full"....Please who can decode this her reply to him?....I confronted her but she denied ever having anything to do with him beside been colleagues. But my worry is why chat flirty chats with a guy and what would give him the mind to ask her to come over and .......... Please I need mature advice only

Are you a saint

DrAda:


Is there any difference?

Your husband's a whoree? you are just looking for an excuse to suck more dicks

Fountainofyouth:


An advice to your mum, that's good.

Seems like it's only semen that's in your brain due to over sucking of dirks. If your left brain there's nothing right, in your right brain there's nothing left

seunmsg:
Just do your own cheating while still investigating so that you don't lose on all fronts. There is enough cheating in this world to go around.

Living under the same roof with A cheating wife is like sleeping in a room knowing pretty well there’s a King Cobra in your ceiling.

A cheating wife always need to go.

Fountainofyouth:



Do you lack attention offline? Why exactly do you jump at the slightest opportunity to quote me? Abeg fvck off from my mention next time, it is not by force to quote me.

It is the likes of you that will cheat then let your wife or gf know and think it is your right as a man to have multiple women then expect her to see it as nothing, your gf or wife will cheat on you clean and clear under your roof and you will never know, ordinary flirting see how all of you dey foam for mouth all over this thread as if Op's wife remove una eye.

Time will tell.

In other words you can chat with a man this way as a married woman? No wonder you are justifying it. I pity your husband.