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Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by NBAjunior: 1:30pm On Dec 15, 2023
I’m a 22 year old male staying alone as at the time of making this post I have only 54 thousand naira in my account with no hope for the future…

I have no job, no friends, no girlfriend, I have no hope of getting money cuz the work I do is no more


My house rent is becoming due I don’t want to go back staying with my mom it would add more to my depression

Please I need a word of encouragement from you guys
Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by chatupkay: 1:35pm On Dec 15, 2023
Are u in lagos? You reach me @notefarm2015@gmail.com. i have a job for u or watsapp 08098908218. Dont give up.

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Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by Psady(m): 1:37pm On Dec 15, 2023
Be hopeful, and prayerful and seek something next to do, many been through what u going thru and they are fine now . Stop being weak at heart just believe , what will be will be. Did u create yourself? U can never tell what next in few seconds. Just live your life ,be happy and hopeful that way positive energy takes over you and attracting good results, believe Me this phase will pass .
Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by 1TrippleCee: 1:43pm On Dec 15, 2023
NBAjunior:
I’m a 22 year old male staying alone as at now that I’m making this post I have only 54 thousand naira in my account with no hope for the future…

I have no job, no friends, no girlfriend, I have no hope of getting money cuz the work I do is no more


My house rent is becoming due I don’t want to go back staying with my mom it would add more to my depression

Please I need a word of encouragement from you guys



Get a job with accomodation and feeding like farm jobs
Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by Lifeisnotajungl(m): 1:48pm On Dec 15, 2023
chatupkay:
Are u in lagos? You reach me @notefarm2015@gmail.com. i have a job for u or watsapp 08098908218. Dont give up.

Can I chat up for this also?
Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by Bintabisiriyu2: 1:57pm On Dec 15, 2023
There are lots of jobs with feeding and accommodation just try and endure because they will be using you small in the job but at least it's better cos you will be gaining accommodation.
DON'T KILL YOURSELF O Tonight just look for one local brothel in your area go there and knack ashawo take action bitters tomorrow morning your head will clear.

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Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by Bintabisiriyu2: 1:58pm On Dec 15, 2023
chatupkay:
Are u in lagos? You reach me @notefarm2015@gmail.com. i have a job for u or watsapp 08098908218. Dont give up.
Which kind of job? Be careful of these kinds of people who would want to take advantage of distressed person

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Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by Yugoslavia247(m): 2:00pm On Dec 15, 2023
NBAjunior:
I’m a 22 year old male staying alone as at the time that I’m making this post I have only 54 thousand naira in my account with no hope for the future…

I have no job, no friends, no girlfriend, I have no hope of getting money cuz the work I do is no more


My house rent is becoming due I don’t want to go back staying with my mom it would add more to my depression

Please I need a word of encouragement from you guys

Going back to your mum doesn't mean you failed. You can leave the house pay part of the rent and tell the landlord you went for a serious family issue. Recuperate and go back
Sometimes pressure on yourself can make you feel you failed.

You need strategies.
You have a mother
Some don't
You still have a hope
A family
No matter what.

You need to recuperate.
22 years
When people reach 30 before staying alone.
Bro this life thank God.

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Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by NBAjunior: 2:03pm On Dec 15, 2023
Yugoslavia247:


Going back to your mum doesn't mean you failed. You can leave the house pay part of the rent and tell the landlord you went for a serious family issue. Recuperate and go back
Sometimes pressure on yourself can make you feel you failed.

You need strategies.
You have a mother
Some don't
You still have a hope
A family
No matter what.

You need to recuperate.
22 years
When people reach 30 before staying alone.
Bro this life thank God.


You won’t understand why I don’t want to go stay with her
Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by Girlee(f): 2:09pm On Dec 15, 2023
NBAjunior:
I’m a 22 year old male staying alone as at the time of making this post I have only 54 thousand naira in my account with no hope for the future…

I have no job, no friends, no girlfriend, I have no hope of getting money cuz the work I do is no more


My house rent is becoming due I don’t want to go back staying with my mom it would add more to my depression

Please I need a word of encouragement from you guys

That you even have 54 thousand naira in your account is hope, to me.
Since you didn't give life to yourself, you are in no place to take it. Please, don't.
Your signature says "God is good". I tell you, He really is a good God. I'm very sure that He will come through for you.
Taking your life is giving up on hope. Keep your hope alive by staying alive.
Hold on to Faith.

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Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by Smitaro100(m): 2:45pm On Dec 15, 2023
Don't ever have suicide in mind as an option, you even try to get N54,000 for this kind hard weather, avoid anything sure odd also, e get pple wey no get even N50 wey tear currently, if you even dash dem dat N4,000 ontop dat ur N50,000 they will be very grateful for life. It's hard in most homes currently, keep pushing you never can tell how close you are to your breakthrough..

D lord is your strength.
Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by jsp0: 2:54pm On Dec 15, 2023
please take it easy sir

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Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by Emmanuel30a: 3:17pm On Dec 15, 2023
jsp0:
please send me the 54k b4 u take ur life


Thanks, wish u well in ur endeavours
Take what you can, leave what you can't... You owns it? No! Of course you have it... So, give and take...it?... Give or take it?...
Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by LooneyLester: 3:20pm On Dec 15, 2023
Just end it already


It's not too late



You're useless now more than ever
Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by WesternPanzer: 4:01pm On Dec 15, 2023
Hello man, just keep on pushing. Its not easy for anyone out there. Even in America, millions are in red.

There is a way the world is designed. It favours some and is brutal to some.

Endure buddy. You will conquer one day.

As for moving out, find any of your friends and stay with. You can also join a Church and be sleeping there. Check relatives too.

As the last option, go back to your mother. Whatever it is that is pursuin you from her cannot be that bad. Unless of course she is a Witch and a Killer. Which I will advise you to flee without looking back.
Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by jeromestarks: 4:15pm On Dec 15, 2023
NBAjunior:
I’m a 22 year old male staying alone as at the time of making this post I have only 54 thousand naira in my account with no hope for the future…

I have no job, no friends, no girlfriend, I have no hope of getting money cuz the work I do is no more


My house rent is becoming due I don’t want to go back staying with my mom it would add more to my depression

Please I need a word of encouragement from you guys
We're too much on the surface of the earth. We need reduction so that others can have space.
Please die ASAP. Make sure you lock your door when you want to die so that no one will spoil your beautiful plan.
Thank you for your sacrifice.
Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by arthurwillia(m): 4:19pm On Dec 15, 2023
I was 22 in 2017, fresh graduate,i and no money no plan to even get money to work, no money to even pay for clearance fees for my uni. Went for internship and service, fast forward 2020, nothing to show after graduation, went back to living with my parents, saved up money, gathered money from my dad and japa 2022, now im not rich but im ok. Maybe all you need is returning home to start again. Some people don’t get it together at 22, don’t beat yourself, im almost 29 sef and still not getting it fully but it’s all process. So far you have something you are doing, it will yield

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Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by 1TrippleCee: 4:54pm On Dec 15, 2023
How can a 22 year old kid be complaining anout lifes challenges and people see it funny to leave very distasteful remarks.


Listen, you will all account for your negative remarks if any of the negative words those of you who spoke negatively affects him in anyway


If you cant speak reasonably in life, walk away. No one forced commentary on you. How can people be saying such vile things. What has happened to humanity for goodness sakes ?
Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by Breadistaken(m): 5:22pm On Dec 15, 2023
NBAjunior:
I’m a 22 year old male staying alone as at the time of making this post I have only 54 thousand naira in my account with no hope for the future…

I have no job, no friends, no girlfriend, I have no hope of getting money cuz the work I do is no more


My house rent is becoming due I don’t want to go back staying with my mom it would add more to my depression

Please I need a word of encouragement from you guys
No reason am just try to push forward by the grace of God everything will be alright
Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by Nicepoker(m): 5:50pm On Dec 15, 2023
Lifeisnotajungl:


Can I chat up for this also?
Its only for those on the verge of comiting suicide.
Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by MONEY247: 5:57pm On Dec 15, 2023
You get money ooo..
I don't even have upto seven thousand in my account.... really depressed the... prayed taya....


Sometimes I laugh at my self people think I am mad....
I usually pray I sleep and don't wake up...I do it everyday...

it's not easy sir... I pray you find a way to overcome..
Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by Prettygirl200(f): 6:37pm On Dec 15, 2023
LooneyLester:
Just end it already


It's not too late



You're useless now more than ever
Thats too harsh
Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by SuperOnyi: 7:29pm On Dec 15, 2023
NBAjunior:
I’m a 22 year old male staying alone as at the time of making this post I have only 54 thousand naira in my account with no hope for the future…

I have no job, no friends, no girlfriend, I have no hope of getting money cuz the work I do is no more


My house rent is becoming due I don’t want to go back staying with my mom it would add more to my depression

Please I need a word of encouragement from you guys


shocked


I almost screamed when I saw 54k grin, you should see my own account balance.

Nevertheless, I'm in the same boat as you but 21, all you have to do is to endure and pass through this path full of thorns. It might seem like living in hell forever but you will overcome.

Get any job to keep you busy and start learning a digital skill...
Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by SuperOnyi: 7:34pm On Dec 15, 2023
MONEY247:
You get money ooo..
I don't even have upto seven thousand in my account..
.. really depressed the... prayed taya....


Sometimes I laugh at my self people think I am mad....
I usually pray I sleep and don't wake up...I do it everyday...

it's not easy sir... I pray you find a way to overcome..


shocked


I'm laughing hard because we're all in the same boat grin — which is very depressing cry

Handsome guy with an empty pocket grin cry
Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by SuperOnyi: 7:36pm On Dec 15, 2023
Prettygirl200:
Thats too harsh


shocked



grin grin... I suggest you say something encouraging or sweet because there are a lot of us that relate to what the OP is talking about.
Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by TheFreshVanilla: 9:45pm On Dec 15, 2023
How much do you pay for rent?
Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by Foodqueen(f): 10:05pm On Dec 15, 2023
Be careful make them no collect the 54k from you o.
Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by JbravoAdodger(m): 10:26pm On Dec 15, 2023
jsp0:
please send me the 54k b4 u take ur life


Thanks, wish u well in ur endeavours

Na me get am!! I don send dm

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Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by Lovemeharder(f): 6:55am On Dec 16, 2023
You should drop your location and the skills you can do to enable people help you.

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Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by NBAjunior: 7:19am On Dec 16, 2023
TheFreshVanilla:
How much do you pay for rent?

150k
Re: Thinking Of Taking My Life… Is All Hope Lost?? by Foodhub2023: 10:45am On Dec 16, 2023
Am a family man, my wife deliver through CS and i have been out of job for 8 months. No chi chi in my account i can shoe you, caretaker is my regular visitor now because my rent have expired since june. Selfcon. A boy 6 month to feed a 8years old girl tp take care of, i cant think less of myself like you are thinking. One thing that keep me going is hope on God. Dont think negative in any situation. The future is in ur hand go out n smile. Tomorrow is bright dont worry. Put urself together n start sth with the little you have beta still go out n summit ur cv n hop on God. My survival has been God n people around me. Tho am owning one or two but taken my life is out of it.

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