kobams:

I need your advice boss, let me learn from you

Start by watching "AMS" and also "develop attraction" on YouTube. You will learn a lot

Karlifate:


I saw a very good & educative thread on Nairaland on this.


If I find the link, I'll post here

Abeg tag me if you do.

Tranquility2345:


The average man thinks about sex a lot more times than the average woman. The average man has a higher sex drive than the average woman due to the presence of testosterone. The average man is thinking about sex 247 and can get his preek standing at attention in less than a second.

On the other hand, for women, certain things have to be in place before she gets wet. 99 percent of viewers of porn sites are men. Why is that

Abeg stop consoling yourself say women dey think sex like you wey agro don finish sotey you turn redpill to hate on women. Any man that is getting regular sex and doing well with women will never ever be on this thread hating on women 247. He’s too busy out in the world enjoying life. Take that to the bank any fukking day!!!!

K

adambeatz:
Gentlemen people are suffering o, badly for that matter, this regime just made it too obvious, even the people who claim to fake it in order to make it have found faking it expensive. Left and right guys are delving deeper into fight or flight mood, same thing with women. Genuine people are finding out that if they stay good the might end up dying or worse get used by other people hence an option is become the bad guy. A guy that once had a good heart might be a wolf now because he has to place his survival above all else,you might think he is still that janded guy u knew only to do business and realize you were his prey.

Even most of the female gender know nice guys are running out, and the few with an intuition that's still alive know that good guys are scarce to find due to everyone been on fight or flight mood. If during buhari's tenure a book had to be checked 2 times, now one has to triple check and even randomly be gazing at the book to make sure it doesn't surprise you at any given turn. STD's are on the rise, lots of infection going round freely like jehova witness pamphlets, girls would rather use money to look hot instead of going for regular check ups, men would rather drink or f*ck than go for check ups.

I always have issues with my guys who have a bad habit of subconsciously putting their hands on their balls to scratch then when they see you dey remove their hands to shake you with that same hand. Me and hand sanitizer are friends every single day.


Gentlemen take care of yourselves so you can be less of a burden to your fellow guys, even if there is no money, make sure to be able to have a niche you dominate so no matter what nobody can point you fingers and say your completely useless. Cheers

Very insightful post. You did well bro👍

LadyKailz:
Redpillers are now on NL? Oh Gawd.

Bad news? I can feel your pain😆

Rukevwe999:

From everything I said, it's the sex drive part you chose to lay forward. Classic.

Ohh my apologies, where you expecting me to say the others you pointed out were wrong, bro give credit to whom credit is due. I'm not against your write up, infact your right and lemme add more.

There's a book called "The fourth Turning", I'd advise every redpiller to get a hold of it, it talks about the various cycles that take place every 80 to 100 years. You've head the saying nothing is new under the sun, this book does a good job In explaining why we need to study the past in order before walking into the future. One point I picked from the book is there is always a period when women who you see today been promiscuous would be shamed by the society for as much as showing her skin in public in order to get attention. The cycle goes like this, "a period of war or calamity that shakes nations to their core" = " a period of recovery and expansion"= "a period of society discovering that their nation is decaying"= "a period of decay and decandence", hence the cycle repeats itself, women have a propensity to be easily shaped by external factors compared to men and hence they Bleep around until something happens and they regret, why do you think its always women that carry religion ontop their head more than men.

Women need a strict hand when dealing with them,when I mean strict I don't mean the useless attitude of men trying to prove they are disciplined in public and then when she observes you at home, she discover your a bafoon, a man who doesn't know himself shouldn't bother camping a woman under his roof cause they are born to revolt at the slightest sight of perceived weakness in a man. Not all women though cause it takes longer in some than others hence a man may never see the day she revolts as long as he maintains his frame. Cheers bro ✌️

PstDapo:



I'm telling you my brother and we have our sexual urges on everyday just on seeing ladies

God will help us

Please don't generalise bro. Though most men were born and grew up as simps, but i have drilled my mind in such a way that it is condemned to place no single importance on a woman's looks no matter how beautiful. I treat every woman the same way.

They know it and they find it so mysterious... making them have to coordinate themselves when interacting with me.

Even a Nicki minaj's looks is non of my biz.. She isn't a virgin and her pussy is not unique or special. There are surely billions of other beautiful women out there so what's the big deal?
She fine like mammy water that na for her pocket. I don't give a bleep. How you make me feel is what matters to me.

Dem full my hood na... But dem dey always wonder if I know wetin fine girl be.😂

Tranquility2345:


The average man thinks about sex a lot more times than the average woman. The average man has a higher sex drive than the average woman due to the presence of testosterone. The average man is thinking about sex 247 and can get his preek standing at attention in less than a second.

On the other hand, for women, certain things have to be in place before she gets wet. 99 percent of viewers of porn sites are men. Why is that

Abeg stop consoling yourself say women dey think sex like you wey agro don finish sotey you turn redpill to hate on women. Any man that is getting regular sex and doing well with women will never ever be on this thread hating on women 247. He’s too busy out in the world enjoying life. Take that to the bank any fukking day!!!!

How many male prostitutes and strippers have you ever encountered?

When the average man and average woman is faced with strict financial crunch, which gender is more likely to exchange sex for cash?

Who moans the more during sex?
I mean, the gender that feels so much sensation that they must describe their feelings, voluntarily or involuntarily?
How many men have you seen displaying their sexuality on social media reels?

All the fake nails, fake butts, silicone implants, human hairs etc are for which gender and to what end?

How many fake beauty products are there for men?


Aroused women are easy to spot as men are, only to the informed.

Your good girl might have a trusted guy she chats naughty with late into the night. And the one who is not at all a virgin is prolly chopping, cleaning mouth and 'remaining' small for pedestal engineers like you.

The 99% porn-viewership statistics is obviously a figment of your imagination.

IAmHim1:
today is sunday. could bash u up n go find a church nearby to ask for forgiveness...since you redpillers believe jesus came to die for your sins.
lolzzz

Don't be foolish.

I've read the Quran cover to cover not once or twice, just to understand the doctrine of Islam and to intelligently engage Muslims when matters of faith are discussed.
Yet, I'm no Muslim and never intend being one.

Simply typing that verse on Google search will throw up the whole quotation but you chose to be daft.

Wallow in your ignorance.

PstDapo:
I agree with you with a lot of things you said until the last sentence. A broke Alpha will not get more sex than a rich simp instead a broke alpha will get the best sex with few ladies than choose him than lackluster sex they give to their rich simps.

Look around you, the sugar daddies and the rich betas are getting more sex than the broke dudes (even if Alpha) because they have the resources to get it, eventho the sex might not be good enough and they come at a ridiculous price. Some rich simps are ready to spend millions for a pussy a broke Alpha gets for free.

The broke Alpha don't necessarily get laid by all the women he comes across, why? He can't attract them all but the few he gets give him mind blowing sex which the rich simp can never get. The rich simp has the resources to get any girl laid even if watery sex is all they have to give him.

The broke Alpha gets few quantity but high quality sex, the rich simp get high quantity but low quality sex.

You deserve a bottle of beer

thought gurls were the only ones chasing attention

DIVINEEVIDENCE:


Don't be foolish.

I've read the Quran cover to cover not once or twice, just to understand the doctrine of Islam and to intelligently engage Muslims when matters of faith are discussed.
Yet, I'm no Muslim and never intend being one.

Simply typing that verse on Google search will throw up the whole quotation but you chose to be daft.

Wallow in your ignorance.

HARDESTNIGGAINT:
assume those were males on that sign post

what would you be thinking?

They dare not paste a male version of this😂

kobams:
Good day guys, so there’s this girl I’ve been smashing, then about 2/3 weeks ago she asked me why I haven’t asked her out yet, so I just evaded the question and later at night she messaged me and said she was letting me go, eventually we spoke about it and since then we’ve been having this back and forth mainly about this issue so during this period she started confessing her feelings, telling me how much she really likes me and all, the thing is i like her too, now the issue is that she told me she can’t continue whatever is between us cuz she’s trying to protect herself and her heart, that she’s gonna let go now frfr, so we talked and she said she’s gonna go with her decision because it feels safer for her, so I said No wahala
I don’t want to let go of her yet
Rizzputin pukkalolo and other gurus in the house please what’s my next line of action?

I'm guessing this isn't your first time in a friends with benefits relationship. If it is, welcome

But even if it's not, a few refreshers are important. Fwb relationships will constantly remind you of two laws of female nature:

1) Her present emotions are everything.

2) Her actions speak louder than her words

You see, fwb has a bitter sweet feeling to it. Sweet because you'd have sooo many funy, wild experiences with her. Sad because all those experiences must surely come to an end at some point


Either it ends with you guys in a relationship. Or she travels. Or she moves to a new guy ready to take her seriously

Before I dive in to your situation, let's zoom in to the nature and principles of fwb


----The Bittersweet nature of a Fwb

● You've probably read the stories online. A guy finds a sweet girl to be fùcking.

According to him, he proposes a "no strings attached" set up. She instantly agrees. Fantastic, everything is going according to plan

Except a few months later he's surprised that she's catching feelings. Then he makes another lengthy post about why girls always catch feelings after saying they won't at the beginning

The ignorance in such posts is laughable.

Remember the two laws of female nature I told you about at the start of this post? The guy has forgotten that women are loyal to their emotions.

Her emotions at the beginning of the fwb and her emotions after you've been fùcking her good are no longer the same.

A girl can swear in court that she will not catch feelings at the start of a fwb. But if you fùck her good and treat her well, she will catch feelings

And there's nothing she can do about it. You can remind her all you want but as long as your actions (fucking her, taking care of her) are favorable to her, she will develop those emotions.

The more you fùck her, the higher her chances of getting in her feelings

When I mentioned here that women are adult babies, these are some of the reasons for that.

That's why it's on you as the man to control how fast and deep she catches those feelings (I'll talk about that in another post)


● The second nature of fwb is that it must end.

And most times it's the girl trying to get you to commit to a relationship with her

"What are we" "What are we actually doing" "what do you take me for" "where's is this heading" "Don't you ever consider being in something more serious"

The above questions are tell-tale signs of a fwb girl in her feelings.

You see, there are few things a woman wants more than emotional security. She wants to feel safe. And the more she invests her time and body in you without your relationship with her well defined, she starts to panic

Time is no longer on her side and worst of all, if you're a doing things the hook up material way, she's terribly scared you'd leave her for someone else.

Hence, she starts doing things similar to what that girl is doing to you.

Which brings us to your solution…

----Your next moves

● First define what you want with this girl. To date her or just to fùck her.

If you want to keep fucking her bear in mind that at some point it might end if she finds a serious bf or she feels it's too much of her...

All you'll do with what I'll tell you is just to lengthen the relationship. Beginner seducers can make fwb last for 3 months. Average seducers for like 5 months. And advanced ones for 10 months and more.

If it's bf/gf you want , just slowly start to vet and test her. By test I don't mean those foólish loyalty tests on YouTube. I mean giving her tasks. Seeing how obedient she is, etc


● Next, Stop engaging in deep bf/gf convos in trying to talk about your relationship with her on the phone

If she wants to talk about it again, tell her to do it in person and invite her over.

When she gets there vibe with her normally and tell her you care about her. Remind her how sexy you still find her. I won't tell you the exact words to say so people don't go copying it everywhere like clowns

But the frame you should have is to Seduce her in your normal way with a bit more warmth and care. Then fùck her good.

After fùcking her… tell you're not ready for a relationship (with legit reasons) but remind her how much you enjoy spending time with her.

After the talk, fùck her again and again.

adambeatz:


Ohh my apologies, where you expecting me to say the others you pointed out were wrong, bro give credit to whom credit is due. I'm not against your write up, infact your right and lemme add more.

There's a book called "The fourth Turning", I'd advise every redpiller to get a hold of it, it talks about the various cycles that take place every 80 to 100 years. You've head the saying nothing is new under the sun, this book does a good job In explaining why we need to study the past in order before walking into the future. One point I picked from the book is there is always a period when women who you see today been promiscuous would be shamed by the society for as much as showing her skin in public in order to get attention. The cycle goes like this, "a period of war or calamity that shakes nations to their core" = " a period of recovery and expansion"= "a period of society discovering that their nation is decaying"= "a period of decay and decandence", hence the cycle repeats itself, women have a propensity to be easily shaped by external factors compared to men and hence they Bleep around until something happens and they regret, why do you think its always women that carry religion ontop their head more than men.

Women need a strict hand when dealing with them,when I mean strict I don't mean the useless attitude of men trying to prove they are disciplined in public and then when she observes you at home, she discover your a bafoon, a man who doesn't know himself shouldn't bother camping a woman under his roof cause they are born to revolt at the slightest sight of perceived weakness in a man. Not all women though cause it takes longer in some than others hence a man may never see the day she revolts as long as he maintains his frame. Cheers bro ✌️

Thanks bro, I'll check out the book.

Rizzputin:



I'm guessing this isn't your first time in a friends with benefits relationship. If it is, welcome

But even if it's not, a few refreshers are important. Fwb relationships will constantly remind of two laws of female nature:

1) Her present emotions are everything.

2) Her actions speak louder than her words

You see, fwb has a bitter sweet feeling to it. Sweet because you'd have sooo many funy, wild experiences with her. Sad because all those experiences must surely come to an end at some point


Either it ends with you guys in a relationship. Or she travels. Or she moves to a new guy ready to take her seriously

Before I dive in to your situation, let's zoom in to the nature and principles of fwb


[b]----The Bittersweet nature of a Fwb

● You've probably read the stories online. A guy finds a sweet girl to be fucking.

According to him, he proposes a "no strings attached" set up. She instantly agrees. Fantastic, everything is going according to plan

Except a few months later he's surprised that she's catching feelings. Then he makes another lengthy post about why girls always catch feelings after saying they won't at the beginning

The ignorance in such posts is laughable.

Remember the two laws of female nature I told you about at the start of this post? The guy has forgotten that women are loyal to their emotions.

Her emotions at the beginning of the fwb and her emotions after you've been fùcking her good are no longer the same.

A girl can swear in court that she will not catch feelings at the start of fwb. But if you fùck her good and treat her well, she will catch feelings

And there's nothing she can do about it. You can remind her all you want but as long as your actions (fucking her, taking care of her) are favorable to her, she will develop those emotions.

The more you Bleep her, the higher her chances of getting in her feelings

When I mentioned here that women are adult babies, these are some of the reasons for that.

That's why it's on you as the man to control how fast and deep she catches those feelings (I'll talk about that in another post)


● The second nature of fwb is that it must end.

And most times it's the girl trying to get you to commit to a relationship with her

"What are we" "What are we actually doing" "what do you take me for" "where's is this heading" "Don't you ever consider being in something more serious"

The above questions are tell-tale signs of a fwb girl in her feelings.

You see, there are few things a woman wants more than emotional security. She wants to feel safe. And the more she invests her time and body in you without your relationship we'll defined, she starts to panic

Time is no longer on her side and worst of all, if you're a hook up material way, she's terribly scared you'd leave her for someone else.

Hence, she starts doing things similar to what that girl is doing to you.

Which brings us to your solution…

----Your next moves

● First define what you want with this girl. To date her or just to keep fùck her.

If you want to keep fucking her bear in mind that at some point it might end if she finds a serious bf or she feels it's too much of her..

All you'll do with what I'll tell you is just to lengthen the relationship. Beginner seducers can make fwb last for 3 months. Average seducers for like 5 months. And advanced ones for 10 months and more.

If it's bf/gf you want to just slowly vet and test her. By test I don't mean those foólish loyalty tests on YouTube. I mean giving her tasks. Seeing how obedient she is, etc


● Next, Stop engaging in deep bf/gf convos in trying to talk about your relationship with her on the phone

If she wants to talk about it again, tell her to do it in person and invite her over.

When she gets there vibe with her normally and tell her you care about her. Remind her how sexy you still find her. I won't tell you the exact words to say so people don't go copying it everywhere like clowns

But the frame you should have is to Seduce her in your normal way with a bit more warmth and care. Then fùck her good.

After fùcking her… tell you're not ready for a relationship (with legit reasons)but remind her how much you enjoy spending time with her.

After the talk, fùck her again and again.

Bless boss I appreciate

At the bolded that’s exactly her scare, I’ve tried to make her relax that she’s just overthinking but she’s not having it, that’s why she brought up the idea of letting me go, now boss should I get in touch with her or I should wait for her to reach out because since she insisted on she wanting out, we’ve not contacted each other which is about a week or so, one of the chairmen on here said it’s a shit test

Actually a relationship with her is calm, but I don’t want to ask her out yet because it’s gonna feel like I’m doing it cuz she’s forcing me to with her bringing it up all the time, I wanna do it on my own accord

kobams:

Bless boss I appreciate

At the bolded that’s exactly her scare, I’ve tried to make her relax that she’s just overthinking but she’s not having it, that’s why she brought up the idea of letting me go, now boss should I get in touch with her or I should wait for her to reach out because since she insisted on she wanting out, we’ve not contacted each other which is about a week or so, one of the chairmen on here said it’s a shit test

Actually a relationship with her is calm, but I don’t want to ask her out yet because it’s gonna feel like I’m doing it cuz she’s forcing me to with her bringing it up all the time, I wanna do it on my own accord

It could be a test or she might have genuinely found someone more willing to take her serious or she maybe getting stressed out. And feel you're wasting her time

Go another week without contacting her. If she doesn't hit you up after that, mention me again... and I'll tell you how to re-engage and ping her

Also, next time (probably when you guys are back with another girl) if you actually want to take her seriously, do it more through actions.

If you tell her "Relax there's nothing you should be worried about" then go back to treating her exactly the same way you've been she'll stop believing your words. Because they don't match your actions. Of course, don't forget to tell her it can take some time for you to come around

So try to show a bit more care or seriousness. She'll notice and calm down a bit.

Rizzputin:


It could be a test or she might have genuinely found someone more willing to take her serious or she maybe getting stressed out. And feel you're wasting her time

Go another week without contacting her. If she doesn't hit you up after that, mention me again... and I'll tell you how to re-engage and ping her

Also, next time (probably when you guys are back with another girl) if you actually want to take her seriously, do it more through actions.

If you tell her "Relax there's nothing you should be worried about" then go back to treating her exactly the same way you've been she'll stop believing your words. Because they don't match your actions. Of course, don't forget to tell her it can take some time for you to come around

So try to show a bit more care or seriousness. She'll notice and calm down a bit.

Okay boss, bless I appreciate💯

Tranquility2345:


If a woman is really attracted to you, she can never see you as a disposable utility. She’s even willing to die there on your matter. And I’m not talking about those hungry girls that you sexually frustrated boys are exposed to. For these type of hungry girls, survival comes first!

I'm a testament, bro.

Two interviews that got me this month. Well, the focus for me is not even about their relationship woes but about how they were able to bounce back and keep their heads up:

1. Emeka Ike

https://youtube.com/watch?v=S0Hk6TRkhI0&pp=ygUJZW1la2EgaWtl

2. Dr. Olumide Emmanuel

https://youtube.com/watch?v=0acmbeYRoJo&pp=ygUTZHIgb2x1bWlkZSBlbW1hbnVlbA%3D%3D

Date girls who inspire you to conquer.

Not girls who make your life more difficult.

---MasculinePeak---

---

Your life is already hard.

Don't make it harder by dating a girl

Avoid women who drain the energy out of you.

Avoid women who brings unnecessary stress, drama and chaos into your life.

It's NEVER worth it.
📌

I guess nairaland was down yesterday..

heartofcity12:
I guess nairaland was down yesterday..

It started on Monday,18th December.

spencekat:
It started on Monday,18th December.

I see

Message to the female folks and feminist wannabe's.

"I do my best to keep my body sound & energetic by working out, I keep my personal finances upright, I try as much to keep my soul in check by spirituality & keep a clean and natural look by eating local grown products, taking water and avoiding junks, I have comfy bed and working space even though I don't own a home yet, I pay my bills, I pay my task and I'm law abiding, I try to stay away from trouble as much as possible and I'm a strong proponent of upholding integrity in whatever thing life throws at you as a means to an end; The least you could come up with is a clean puxxy. Alas no!, an unkept puxxy coupled with all the character flaws and billings. Yet, so much entitlement. All we ask is the barest minimum. We aren't asking for much.
1. Clean puxxy
2. Appear natural-no microplastics, beauty enhancement and all the artificial add-ons are a total turn-off.
3. Be kind & empathetic
4. Behave like a woman(masculine females are a turn-off).
5. Know how to cook and keep the house cause I don't eat and buy junks. I cook what I eat from scratch.
6. If we're in serious relationship, heck! will you just stop all the fwb's.
It's time to set the standard in 2024.
Additional snippet: Can't go through all these tough phase of personal dev and deep my precious rod without strapping up...hell na!"

It seems all the mods are going on Christmas break, hence ₦airaland shutdown.

All thanks to God,

Nairaland is back and happy our dear group is still intact.

Shame on bad belle who wants NL to be permanently shutdown.

🥰🥰🥰

Mould your women to whatever the mess you want.
You're the PRIZE KINGS

Jonathan Majors

Mentholated:
Jonathan Majors

...is in big trouble

richkal:
All thanks to God,

Nairaland is back and happy our dear group is still intact.

Shame on bad belle who wants NL to be permanently shutdown.

🥰🥰🥰

The Redpill haters & trolls right now: