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Please Advice Me by Goodlyhrt(op): 12:16am On Dec 27, 2023
I have seriously and bitterly complained about my poverty state here and how I have lost all appetite to live this life.

I have been asking anybody and everybody who cared to listen for help so that I can at least stand like a man beside I went home this Christmas to see my ailing mom.

I never knew she was suffering from a stroke. Apparently, my dad and the others couldn't tell me the full gist knowing the kind of person I am.

I was so heartbroken when I met her for the first time in 5 years since I left for Lagos in search of greener pastures. I felt useless a thousand times.. I was weak from sorrow for my mum, her form was not a good sight.

She tried to convince me that all would be well and that she was even getting better. Then gradually I dropped feeling so bad at least to not add to the issue.

I smiled after two days of staying to cheer her up she must have greatly missed her boy. But I am deeply saddened every day since returning non-stop.

Right now nothing is stopping me from joining my friend who is into Yahoo Yahoo. Safe the fact it will break her heart because she is a hardcore religious person.

But I can't stand seeing her this way.

Infact I had to liquidate my computer business to be able to make the trip to Aba. So right now I don't have much option.

And I don't know how long it will take me to be able to start all over again in a new town as I am worried things might get worse and I wouldn't do much to stop or prevent it.

I don't know what to do right now just please someone advice me.
Re: Please Advice Me by peter0071(m): 12:25am On Dec 27, 2023
my guy. It is sad to hear that you re in this kind of situation.

my advice on solution is to remain in the village...pick up a career in any streams of the Agro business ( agro plantation, agro Processing, Agro Logistics, Agro Packaging etc).

the returns from any of these can help rebuild your finance.

Peace
Re: Please Advice Me by Ynix(m): 12:44am On Dec 27, 2023
Goodlyhrt:
I have seriously and bitterly complained about my poverty state here and how I have lost all appetite to live this life.

I have been asking anybody and everybody who cared to listen for help so that I can at least stand like a man beside I went home this Christmas to see my ailing mom.

I never knew she was suffering from a stroke. Apparently, my dad and the others couldn't tell me the full gist knowing the kind of person I am.

I was so heartbroken when I met her for the first time in 5 years since I left for Lagos in search of greener pastures. I felt useless a thousand times.. I was weak from sorrow for my mum, her form was not a good sight.

She tried to convince me that all would be well and that she was even getting better. Then gradually I dropped feeling so bad at least to not add to the issue.

I smiled after two days of staying to cheer her up she must have greatly missed her boy. But I am deeply saddened every day since returning non-stop.

Right now nothing is stopping me from joining my friend who is into Yahoo Yahoo. Safe the fact it will break her heart because she is a hardcore religious person.

But I can't stand seeing her this way.

Infact I had to liquidate my computer business to be able to make the trip to Aba. So right now I don't have much option.

And I don't know how long it will take me to be able to start all over again in a new town as I am worried things might get worse and I wouldn't do much to stop or prevent it.

I don't know what to do right now just please someone advice me.
So sorry for the situation of things, but I think that what you need is not to go into fraud but to first and foremost detoxify your mind, then gain clarity of what will make you successful in life.
If it's money you need and you are in Lagos my best advice is to start from somewhere and have the habit of saving at list 30% of your earnings.

As regards your mum her issues are more of dietary and aerobics, she needs to be doing therapy that relates to exercise, stop some foods and begin to eat some foods.

Put your mum on Garlic drink, Moringa, Onions, morning and night

Also, let her begin to drink more of Coconut Water daily

Then fasting of skipping at least one meal per day

No starch for like 21 days

Lots of exercise and stretching of the bones using of balm too and

You will be surprised that things will change
Re: Please Advice Me by seanery: 1:00am On Dec 27, 2023
Ds is soo touching and heartbreaking at same time
Re: Please Advice Me by luminouz(m): 1:13am On Dec 27, 2023
Goodlyhrt:
I have seriously and bitterly complained about my poverty state here and how I have lost all appetite to live this life.

I have been asking anybody and everybody who cared to listen for help so that I can at least stand like a man beside I went home this Christmas to see my ailing mom.

I never knew she was suffering from a stroke. Apparently, my dad and the others couldn't tell me the full gist knowing the kind of person I am.

I was so heartbroken when I met her for the first time in 5 years since I left for Lagos in search of greener pastures. I felt useless a thousand times.. I was weak from sorrow for my mum, her form was not a good sight.

She tried to convince me that all would be well and that she was even getting better. Then gradually I dropped feeling so bad at least to not add to the issue.

I smiled after two days of staying to cheer her up she must have greatly missed her boy. But I am deeply saddened every day since returning non-stop.

Right now nothing is stopping me from joining my friend who is into Yahoo Yahoo. Safe the fact it will break her heart because she is a hardcore religious person.

But I can't stand seeing her this way.

Infact I had to liquidate my computer business to be able to make the trip to Aba. So right now I don't have much option.

And I don't know how long it will take me to be able to start all over again in a new town as I am worried things might get worse and I wouldn't do much to stop or prevent it.

I don't know what to do right now just please someone advice me.
The high population of scammers on this site made me skeptical about any sob story.

If there is proof, I might consider helping you. If not, I'm not helping anyone.
Re: Please Advice Me by Offpointng: 1:14am On Dec 27, 2023
There's nothing like Yahoo Nigga. You either go into money ritual full time or face another hustle. Hopping on a keypad and thinking one scope will make a white fowl dole out money to you is a laughable ignorance
Re: Please Advice Me by Chibuzoripob:
sad sad For your own good and if you want to live well and long,avoid SCAMMING, FRAUDSTERS,YAHOO PLUS any CRIME.Those that live FAST LIFE,dnt LAST.YOUNG MAN,HARD WORK doesn't KILL..Stop living a pitying life.Tell yourself, I WILL MAKE IT/SUCCESSFUL. Follow the comment of peter0071,ynix.Go to Agriculture section and read the wonders there.Follow their 🚶‍♀️ and you too will testify. Dnt say where is the land? Use the little amount and rent a farming space.I see GREAT potential,PROSPECT in u but CRYING, BEGGING will NOT solve it/OPEN HEAVEN for U.Learn from the ants
Re: Please Advice Me by PoliteActivist:
Goodlyhrt:
I have seriously and bitterly complained about my poverty state here and how I have lost all appetite to live this life.
*Politeness*
Believe me just seeing you around made your mom get better. She got better by the time you left. Either arrange to see her frequently or relocate to the village. She won't live forever

Even if you can't give her material stuff, give her your presence
Re: Please Advice Me by LikeAking: 2:29am On Dec 27, 2023
Goodlyhrt:
I have seriously and bitterly complained about my poverty state here and how I have lost all appetite to live this life.
E go beta.
Re: Please Advice Me by rickleye: 6:24am On Dec 27, 2023
luminouz:
The high population of scammers on this site made me skeptical about any sob story.

If there is proof, I might consider helping you. If not, I'm not helping anyone.
My thoughts as much … Nigerians can write 10 different scam and now with AI to check grammar without proof and pictures . I’ll pass
Re: Please Advice Me by Rejouir: 6:29am On Dec 27, 2023
To be a man is not a day job, you will suffer.
Re: Please Advice Me by UnfairLife7(m): 6:34am On Dec 27, 2023
Offpointng:
There's nothing like Yahoo Nigga. You either go into money ritual full time or face another hustle. Hopping on a keypad and thinking one scope will make a white fowl dole out money to you is a laughable ignorance
most average Nigerian youths are into Yahoo na and they're cashing out, though not heavily. but at least they can pay their bills and feed well
Re: Please Advice Me by Goodlyhrt(op): 7:46am On Dec 27, 2023
luminouz:
The high population of scammers on this site made me skeptical about any sob story.

If there is proof, I might consider helping you. If not, I'm not helping anyone.
what type of proof Sir? You can check my previous threads.
Re: Please Advice Me by Offpointng: 8:45am On Dec 27, 2023
UnfairLife7:
most average Nigerian youths are into Yahoo na and they're cashing out, though not heavily. but at least they can pay their bills and feed well
Do you know what is done underneath?? What you see are young guys into ritual using Yahoo to cover face
Re: Please Advice Me by UnfairLife7(m): 8:48am On Dec 27, 2023
Offpointng:
Do you know what is done underneath?? What you see are young guys into ritual using Yahoo to cover face
hmmmmm i can't really say about the ritual though, but i know some of them do apply bathing soap given to them by some spiritual men and women of God to aid their Yahoo work
Re: Please Advice Me by Offpointng: 8:53am On Dec 27, 2023
UnfairLife7:
hmmmmm i can't really say about the ritual though, but i know some of them do apply bathing soap given to them by some spiritual men and women of God to aid their Yahoo work
No men of God will give you soap to bath. God's blessings don't need the application of soap to get to you. Besides, God's blessings comes without sorrow
Re: Please Advice Me by 100smile(m): 9:05am On Dec 27, 2023
Offpointng:
Do you know what is done underneath?? What you see are young guys into ritual using Yahoo to cover face
Oga, there is nothing underneath.

Abeg rest.
Re: Please Advice Me by UnfairLife7(m): 9:11am On Dec 27, 2023
Offpointng:
No men of God will give you soap to bath. God's blessings don't need the application of soap to get to you. Besides, God's blessings comes without sorrow
They do. Muslim clerics and men of God, including women of God.
Re: Please Advice Me by abba190: 11:59am On Dec 27, 2023
UnfairLife7:
They do. Muslim clerics and men of God, including women of God.
bro there is nothing like yahoo oyigbo no dey give money anyhow those guys u call yahoo are ritualists and arm robbers
Re: Please Advice Me by UnfairLife7(m): 12:20pm On Dec 27, 2023
abba190:
bro there is nothing like yahoo oyigbo no dey give money anyhow those guys u call yahoo are ritualists and arm robbers
hmmmmm but some of these guys are small boys o. some are in their 20s

Although me I'm always wondering if those Oyinbo are so daft that they can be getting money from them.
Re: Please Advice Me by Balablue64: 1:22pm On Dec 27, 2023
Hnmm, this guy is very good in writing story. Anyway i pray you cash out big.
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