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PoliteActivist:
*Politeness*
Exactly why she and her people won't be desperate that she stay with you - she can't keep her money any longer. You know too much

Sigh!! Why won't she be desperate?? Where will her stingy áss find another man to parasitize so she can spend her own money alone....someone that cannot by sanitary pad on her own with all her money...

Copy and paste .

Remember men hate women doing better than them.
She did well.
And if she was me, I will continue to do it.


Trust me you did make her to be a shadow of herself and lavishing -carrying sidechivks with the money if she did open up about it .

Forgive her. She is your better half. Take it that she made a mistake out of ignorance .
Forgiveness is the way to go.

This story happened in Ghana na. Why did you rewrite it?? Nigerians sha

Dagger111:
In 2016 she told me her salary was N35,000. And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only N8,000 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. N654,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”

She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine.

The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.”

We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. Her father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?”
I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?” He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked him, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”

My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”

Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”

I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Lastly she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”

I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money.
She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all.
She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a separation for a period, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions.

What will you do if you are in my position and feeling deeply hurt??

jumokeadele:
i've read this story before , what's going on here

..
seun dey pay people to post fake news and articles like this..

I've read this same story too..

I don't believe this story. Reason being that the gap in the figures she gave to you as her salary and what her actual salary is was just too much.

You can't have a wife who earns such amount and wouldn't know unless you're an illiterate.

Knowing the name of the company where she works alone would make you know that there's no way such a company can pay their staffs 35k when it's not a private school.

It's like someone working who works in Microsoft Lagos telling you that they pay them 50k. You'll slap him cos you know that staffs there earn from 1m and above monthly.

Your story isn't realistic.

Dagger111:
In 2016 she told me her salary was N35,000. And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only N8,000 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. N654,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”

She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine.

The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.”

We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. Her father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?”
I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?” He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked him, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”

My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”

Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”

I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Lastly she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”

I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money.
She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all.
She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a separation for a period, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions.

What will you do if you are in my position and feeling deeply hurt??

Copy copy. I have read this earlier. Clearly not urs. That's plagiarism o.

advanceDNA:
Sigh!! Why won't she be desperate?? Where will her stingy áss find another man to parasitize so she can spend her own money alone....someone that cannot by sanitary pad on her own with all her money...

*Politeness*
That's the whole point, she can no longer do any of that. If anything, she'll now be paying back the husband. We are talking about her being DESPERATE, not just merely wanting it. Infact her husband is "damaged goods" - he knows too much

Dagger111:
In 2016 she told me her salary was N35,000. And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only N8,000 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. N654,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”

She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine.

The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.”

We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. Her father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?”
I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?” He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked him, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”

My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”

Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”

I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Lastly she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”

I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money.
She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all.
She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a separation for a period, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions.

What will you do if you are in my position and feeling deeply hurt??

Ooooolllllddddd story!

Nazgul:
I don't believe this story. Reason being that the gap in the figures she gave to you as her salary and what her actual salary is was just too much.

You can't have a wife who earns such amount and wouldn't know unless you're an illiterate.

Knowing the name of the company where she works alone would make you know that there's no way such a company can pay their staffs 35k when it's not a private school.

It's like someone working who works in Microsoft Lagos telling you that they pay them 50k. You'll slap him cos you know that staffs there earn from 1m and above monthly.

Your story isn't realistic.

*Politeness*
We know 99.9% "true" stories on NL are embellished. But sometimes they overdo it, as you rightly pointed out

Bro, this is woman for you. But this happens the other way around too. I have seen a case like this but this time it's the man.. may God guide us from evil being

Beat TF shit outta that bish

If she is earning wat u said monthly is it not possible for her to come up with such gross amount including bonus,y surprise

jumokeadele:
i've read this story before , what's going on here

is an old story

PoliteActivist:
*Politeness*
That's the whole point, she can no longer do any of that. If anything, she'll now be paying back the husband. We are talking about her being DESPERATE, not just merely wanting it. Infact her husband is "damaged goods" - he knows too much

She has better odds staying with him...he will forget her offence over time and start doing his duty as man of the house ....and she will go back to her stingy ways but maybe buy herself a sanitary pad and do a few things in the house .....instead of breaking up and doing it all alone.....

This story don trend for nairaland be4
Abeg rest

intruder15:
Copy copy. I have read this earlier. Clearly not urs. That's plagiarism o.

Go to court and file a suit on behalf of the Author.

Any company that pays 650k to it's workers can never be mistaken for a company that pays 35k to its workers.

Not in Nigeria. When it's not a business profit being declared. Any company that pays that much salary is a popular company whose pay range is popular..
Moreso if it's your wife that works in the company.


Make una sofry dey lie for this app o. No be everybody get low IQ. No human who earns almost 700k monthly will be demanding for 350 naira pad money (the story is over 6yrs old) from a husband who cannot buy a car without taking loan.

Uninteresting fake story.

advanceDNA:
She has better odds staying with him...he will forget her offence over time and start doing his duty as man of the house ....and she will go back to her stingy ways but maybe buy herself a sanitary pad and do a few things in the house .....instead of breaking up and doing it all alone.....

You are assuming her husband is the only man in the world. Why do men have that mindset?? We are talking her being DESPERATE for him. It's even better for her to find a fresh unknowing man to milk, than someone who already knows EVERYTHING

MSN1:
I doubt if u understand individual differences or read and understood wot O.P wrote.
If it were to be some men, that woman face for don swell with beating and slaps.

A woman knowing u are trying more than your BEST and still have the guts to put u through stress and unecessary hardship, is capable of KILLING U!, infact; she has been killing O.P, just that; THE MAN GET STRONG HEAD and that is worst than CHEATING.

Men dey suffer eh ...


Its just that some has been brainwashed to the point of no return ...


Wetin pussy no fit do..

PoliteActivist:
You are assuming her husband is the only man in the world. Why do men have that mindset?? We are talking her being DESPERATE for him. It's even better for her to find a fresh unknowing man to milk, than someone who already knows EVERYTHING

When did I say her husband is the only husband in the world?? Chatting with u is always weird....
Husbands are generally hard to find, especially responsible ones that will pay all ur bills including sanitary pad without being a billionaire.......... If u are the one at fault ,u will do well to salvage the marriage.....thats common sense, weda u have money to bankroll urself or u are stingy woman that won't even buy her own sanitary pad

fidelmarshal199:
Same here bro. I've read it before. It's fictional story filled with flaws, There is no way a Nigerian woman will be collecting more than 500k that her husband won't know

you don't know nothing ..


My big cousin's wife has multiple bank .. The husbands only knows about one .. She was going to do transaction through pos .. cant remember what went wrong but it was that day i knew she had multiple bank accounts which her husband doesn't know of ..


I just lock up no talk anything..

Didn't say nothing to big cuz till today make e no be like day na me cause marriage separation if the matter goes south...

advanceDNA:
When did I say her husband is the only husband in the world?? Chatting with u is always weird....
Husbands are generally hard to find, especially responsible ones that will pay all ur bills including sanitary pad without being a billionaire.......... If u are the one at fault ,u will do well to salvage the marriage.....thats common sense, weda u have money to bankroll urself or u are stingy woman that won't even buy her own sanitary pad

*Politeness*
Oh we've chatted b4?? Well you clearly implied and took it for granted she'd not be able to find another man - typical male mentality. I may want him but not desperate. Why would I be DESPERATE to stay a with a man who'd now be going through my emails and monitoring me and thinking I owe him?

Vinnie2000:
OP, comot your eye for woman money.

In Africa, Even if ur Wife earns 1million and you earn N40000,
You the husband will still, pay for all the Bills in the House.

Have sense. It's not about commoting eyes for woman money. It's about deception and secrecy. Taking another for a fool and playing him. U just be commenting rubbish

Una no dey tirẹ to be recycling fake stories?

I have read this story before here on Nairaland some years back

Nairaland and GOTV are 5 & 6

PoliteActivist:
*Politeness*
Oh we've chatted b4?? Well you clearly implied and took it for granted she'd not be able to find another man - typical male mentality. I may want him but not desperate.

I never implied anything...u are the one saying what I didn't say and fallaciously claiming it's a male mentality.....

PoliteActivist:
Why would I be DESPERATE stay a with a man who'd now be going through my emails and monitoring me and thinking I owe him?

Becos u are too stingy to buy your own sanitary pad out of 600k plus ....how will u leave and start paying rent and bills?? Remember u are the most stingy person the world.??....u will rather take ur chances with the man u know will buy it after forgiving you for ur years of stingyness.....

Even if he doesn't buy the pads and everything...he will still pay rent and other major bills, so u will still save ur money u don't want to spend in the first place

Dagger111

Nothing profits you in stealing stories to post

You copied this word for word and posted it

dkidd:
Have sense. It's not about commoting eyes for woman money. It's about deception and secrecy. Taking another for a fool and playing him. U just be commenting rubbish

When it comes to Income in Marriage, Deception/Secrecy is the name of the Game for women.

When u Marry, Be Expecting ur Wife to reveal her Salary or true earnings to you.

REAL men mind their Business and don't try to ask or Investigate.

Silentgroper:
Men dey suffer eh ...


Its just that some has been brainwashed to the point of no return ...


Wetin pussy no fit do..

The way i run far away from dangerous women is out of this world.

One had the guts to use fake pregnacy to rope me 3 times, i just simply moved ahead amid her tears and a lot beggings
, she even sent more than 5 diff. people to beg me, but MY LIFE AND PEACE OF MIND IS NOT NEGOTIABLE.
There is nothing i fear in life more than women wahala.

I have been opportuned to experience VERY GOOD and BAD women and i must say;
Having a good woman by your side is the sweetest thing that can happen to a man and having a bad one means, you are DOOMED 4 d the rest of your life.

CHOOSING PARTNERS IS THE MOST SERIOUS BUSINESS FOR ADULTS.

Never underlook little things or red flags u can't cope with.

This story happened in Ghana 😄😄😄😄