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Babaibeji2020:
You shatap clown.....
Any reasonable man knows its his obligation to take care of his kids. A desperate hoe pinning a bastardo on you to monopolize your life is despicable. Many such kids don't belong to the people they apportioned to....DNA tests are baby mama busters....I was a casualty of that trash...I was dragged to welfare, I provided mostly funds which the fraudster was balling with the pathetic mother....when kiddo was 6months,I demanded a DNA run,all expenses on me but in a medical facility that was nominated by dem....test came out negative....stopped the funding....stewpid girl's mother now dead....I won big time...!
Don't Eva allow a scum rope u in wit pregnancy because she's seen your pay slip....if the DNA result came out positive, I would have still killed her cos of the undue pressure she was giving me!

Gadafii:
maybe he wanted to trap the ma with the child, as most BM are notorious for

Ojagun:
In Nigeria and many parts of Africa and the caribbean,WM and other races of men have numerous children with BW and also runaway.

Speak about something else

nairalanda1:
Oga, please don;t make me angry with you.

The loser in this matter is the child both fools had.

Anyone defending either the man or his baby mama is wrong. They both messed up, and their child is going to suffer big time

Get married, have children, and you will see things my way. And you will understand. That is all for now.

nairalanda1:
Good evening.

And have a good day.

And avoid sex before marriage, and stay faithful to your wife, and don't stray. Your wife should do likewise.

You will live a stress free life.



I don't care what names you call me, the man, and his baby mana are fools, and you are wasting your sputum on that sad excuse for a lout that cannot see that the woman he chose to fahter his child with is a hoe.

komzy589:
Hey listen, this is not an issue of being decent but being careful for one’s own good.
I didn’t support any of them, that was why I asked you to read it again because it is not easy to understand it the first time.
To every action, there’s always a sequel, while one of them is about to get married, the other one is subbing.
One of them will clearly suffer the outcome.

Beverlyjean:
It's a woman's responsibility to make sure she doesn't get pregnant and not the man... just like it's a man's responsibility not to waste his funds on a woman... what of if the woman said she hates condoms , or assured the guy that she will not get pregnant, only for she to surprise him with the pregnancy news and pretended like she dint know how it happened ... we need to start holding women responsible for pregnancy and stop making them feel like it's a man's fault... as a woman we know , if we truly don't want to get pregnant, we will not ....so stop the pretence

Ojagun:
Your posts are littered all over this thread

You need to calm the fucck down son!!

Allthelight:
the guy will likely neglect the child in future....


If he won't why let the child stay at the mum's place

nairalanda1:


The way you nairaland boys carry baby daddy matter for head? It;s like you have forgotten he has a child, who suffers the most.

I'm not even defending the foolish gal who opened her legs for him even, and yet, you are here doing defender of red pill.

If a woman hurt you, move on. It;s life.

Good evening.

komzy589:
What do you mean by ‘if a woman hurt you’💁🏻‍♀️😊
How’s that related to what we’re discussing here.
If you give advice without telling people the truth, then you’re just fooling yourself.

If I have a daughter, I will simply tell her the truth and the truth is;
“If you give birth to a child outside wedlock, you will be the one to suffer the brunt, while your baby daddy will not. He will easily get a wife whilst you will be a second-fiddle”.
There’s no other narrative.

nairalanda1:
Good evening.

And have a good day.

And avoid sex before marriage, and stay faithful to your wife, and don't stray. Your wife should do likewise.

You will live a stress free life.



I don't care what names you call me, the man, and his baby mana are fools, and you are wasting your sputum on that sad excuse for a lout that cannot see that the woman he chose to fahter his child with is a hoe.

Babaibeji2020:
My experience was b4 I got married, so be guided.
I don't support extramarital affairs, but should it occur and u feel its a set up,run a DNA.....If the outcome is gonna make your life miserable....kill all....!
We re here to enjoy life,so far as u don't discomfort any human being, refuse to be discomforted too.....anything that disturbs u in you lair,destroy it...entirely!

nairalanda1:
You are supporting the man, and you are angry with me because you think I am supporting the woman.

You are only looking at one side of my response because the man is a hero to most of you on this site. Well, he had a child with a hoe.

I am someone who believes that both men and women should be virgins when they marry. I am that conservative. I do not believe in sleeping before marriage.

Some of my comments here are in response to people who are blaming the woman. As if she got herself pregnant. With some even insuinating that the man was not responsible for the pregnancy. Ok o. It takes two to tango.

Anyway, for me, both are wrong. I pity their child. I have known too many children from single parent homes that came about under similar circumstances (I exclude houses where a parent died). At the end, many of them weep, and some of them wish they knew their fathers better. That is why I am pissed at both the man and the woman, and pissed at those who hail the man.

If you truly did not support both sides, you won';t be quoting me up and down asking me to read it again. Oga, in my life work, I have seen this kind case so many times, e dey piss me off well well.

nairalanda1:
Thanks for letting us men off the hook, darling

So, women have brains, and men are just dull automatons who just respond when women open their legs.

True, women should use their contraceptives, and also use other stuff like Postinor 2...(and if you do love deek...you can always have your tubes tied, darling. It would prevent them weasly buggers from entering d'eggs....)




Well, you can always postpone the boudoir activities with the handsome automation you have there until the brideprice has been paid, and then you can get down to it like them bunnies do, or you can just simply grit your teeth and enjoy sex with condoms....or you can always have your tubes tied, darling. Now available at your local gynecologist's . And for every happy accident...there is Postinor 2. Works every time. (Available at your local pharmacist).







Okay. I here by propose a law, that when men marry women, they stay long enough to father five children with her, and then , leave the woman alone to assume responsiblity for all the children, financial and other wise, while they go find another mistress to rule over them.

Am sure you want your husband to do that for you darling.


Or we can stop the pretence. You are a man, and I claim my five thousand naira.

komzy589:
I will keep quoting you until you understand that I’m only advising the loser here.
Keep your legs close so that you will not be the person chasing the other person for attention.
This story clearly explains who needs 👆🏾that advice.

nairalanda1:
But not at the expense of a child...as the man you are defending, and his useless baby mama have done.

I pity the child. Simple condom, postinor 2, ....or even just not having sex till the marriage rites done, whould have stopped this.

Creamypie:
Baby mamas are left overs. How can a single man, after his parents trained him to become a complete man, look for a wife 2 marry, and then marry a baby mama? Its like attending night party by 5 am the next day. Very irritating, toxic, and smelly. Even a baby mama no go wan take ear hear say her son dey friend baby mama

Beverlyjean:
Simp

Babaibeji2020:
Bro,if u re a real street dude,u should know that those preventive stuffs u mentioned are not tenable always on the streets....
I'm not defending any ass#ole..
I was opposing your idea of supporting a baby mama...

Taribizy:
What does the man mean "she is just my baby mama?" They both have a child together and he hopes to just walk away like he doesn't know he is supposed to take care of his daughter? Truth be told the new wife may be laughing now but will be crying soon enough. Baby mama my foot.

Advice to young ladies will be marry first before giving birth to children to reduce headache and stress.

Advice to young guys is if you cannot marry her pls leave her as you met her to live long and avoid curses

nairalanda1:
Is handing money at set times to the mother of his child taking care of his daughter.

Oga, you are a young man. When you marry, you will find out that taking care of your children involves a lot more than the lowlife you are wasting your time defending.

Creamypie:
Baby mamas are left overs. How can a single man, after his parents trained him to become a complete man, look for a wife 2 marry, and then marry a baby mama? It’s like attending night party by 5 am the next day. Very irritating, toxic, and smelly. Even a baby mama no go wan take ear hear say her son dey friend baby mama

Beverlyjean:
It's a woman's responsibility to make sure she doesn't get pregnant and not the man... just like it's a man's responsibility not to waste his funds on a woman... what of if the woman said she hates condoms , or assured the guy that she will not get pregnant, only for she to surprise him with the pregnancy news and pretended like she dint know how it happened ... we need to start holding women responsible for pregnancy and stop making them feel like it's a man's fault... as a woman we know , if we truly don't want to get pregnant, we will not ....so stop the pretence

Gentlesoul2021:
I swear,the guy man use his head. U cannot tame this one rather u walk away....

ukaface:
Is as if u no understand English
The guy made her his baby mama. How is she a left over to him? His own baby mama o, not another person’s o.

Gadafii:
Damaged goods want marriage?

These girls do anyhow online and offline and expect men to overlook such and just wife them, men are now getting wiser, you had my child, does mean I must marry you, with your lifestyle I do t consider you worthy to share my life with, imagine marrying a liability of a lady, god forbid bad things

Men should start setting standard when it comes to the choice of a wife, let her be gainfully employed and affording her basic needs, responsible young woman, don’t just settled for the availabile if not you go cry tired

Creamypie:
y did they not marry! u don't have ability to understand. Me as them train me, my mama marry my father b4 she carry belle, born me and my offsprings, na so na go marry, then have kids by and only my wife, and its d one wey them train same way as myself. U are free to Marry who don born b4. Its ur call

Nonexisting1:
As soon as I read what she wrote, I knew she didn't have anything on the nigga. She is just another bitter 403 disgracing herself on social media. If she had anything on him, she would have opened mouth waa and penned down an entire book, lies included ofcourse. Whenever they curse without telling a story, they have nothing to tell. The street dog will remain in the streets and continue providing relief to street niggas until old age catches up with her.