https://www.nairaland.com/7954403/been-insensitive-should-just-neighbour

I read the story above and asked myself will she learn from her experience? As the story reminded me of one chick.


So this girl I once dealt with. She was chick and while we were dating she sent money to her ex that was in another state to come meet her. The ex didn't come. But the fact she wanted the dude to come was enough. I found out through her friend and dumped her.

At first I just locked up I didn't confront her cos I wasn't tired of smashing her yet. But this chick was the type that if she call you once and you don't pick she's calling you on video call the next second to know where you at. God save you to pick if not she will assume you with another chick and start keeping malice.
I don't even wanna talk about her sneaking into my WhatsApp at any given opportunity. But one day she went into my WhatsApp and called a random girl's number thinking she was my girl.

I got pissed and told her to bring her phone lemme check too then she refused. I insisted and all this while she rushed to her WhatsApp and cleared some chat she had of she and the ex. This got me mad but I calmly told her I know what she been up to. She tried to deny then I told her about her sending her ex money to come smash her in town. She was perplexed. She started begging..

Then I told her we can't be the same again. Even tho I wasn't tired of hitting I told her point blank I ain't taking her back. The only thing that would make me take her back was if she was gonna be paying me half of her salary monthly

She got mad that I was trying to make her buy me. I told her I don't care cos since she got enough money to send to a man to come smash her like she's some sugar mommy then it was only fair she pay me for what I been doing for free. If not no more fvking and I gave her a deadline if she don't start paying she should forget about me. I told her plain blank that it was my punishment to her for trying to cheat and still having the guts to check through my phone and even go dial some numbers.
She cried throughout the night and left the following morning. But before she did she cursed and spoiled my door knob


Chick came back after 2 weeks calling with different numbers cos I already blocked her, crying that she is ready to start paying me half of her salary..I told her the deadline was over and that was it.


This was like a year ago. Last night I saw her at my former hood when I went to check on a friend. We didnt speak cos the moment I saw her coming towards my direction I went inside the house. Her friends kept telling me how she keeps talking about me and how she fbcked up and wished I gave her another chance bla bla.
Now I am asking you fellas if I had given that girl another chance would she have made good use of it?

Because I haven't seen a woman that was given a second chance and she made good use of. It is always the opposite, cos instead of changing they rather device ways to be more sneaky.
This has always been what I observed from modern women. Our forefathers used to exert measures that will make their women not to repeat any mistakes they have done. And they used to Obey and fall in line. But women of nowadays tends to operate differently.

I think it is this evolution that made the statement "once a cheat, always a cheat" valid af.

So I am asking one more time. Are there any women that has learnt from her mistakes and adjusted after given a second chance

You did well.... I don't want to say more than this before fools tag me “woman hater”


For your question, only an honest matured lady can give you the answer.

Pal, 'am a typical Northerner and all this kind of things don't too happen here honestly but from the look of things, this bae has regreted her actions even though that they can be cunning and dangerous I suggest you give her another chance.

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Chick came back after 2 weeks calling with different numbers cos I already blocked her, crying that she is ready to start paying me half of her salary..I told her the deadline was over

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SPAMBOX7:
https://www.nairaland.com/7954403/been-insensitive-should-just-neighbour

I read the story above and asked myself will she learn from her experience? As the story reminded me of one chick.


So this girl I once dealt with. She was chick and while we were dating she sent money to her ex that was in another state to come meet her. The ex didn't come. But the fact she wanted the dude to come was enough. I found out through her friend and dumped her.

At first I just locked up I didn't confront her cos I wasn't tired of smashing her yet. But this chick was the type that if she call you once and you don't pick she's calling you on video call the next second to know where you at. God save you to pick if not she will assume you with another chick and start keeping malice.
I don't even wanna talk about her sneaking into my WhatsApp at any given opportunity. But one day she went into my WhatsApp and called a random girl's number thinking she was my girl.

I got pissed and told her to bring her phone lemme check too then she refused. I insisted and all this while she rushed to her WhatsApp and cleared some chat she had of she and the ex. This got me mad but I calmly told her I know what she been up to. She tried to deny then I told her about her sending her ex money to come smash her in town. She was perplexed. She started begging..

Then I told her we can't be the same again. Even tho I wasn't tired of hitting I told her point blank I ain't taking her back. The only thing that would make me take her back was if she was gonna be paying me half of her salary monthly

She got mad that I was trying to make her buy me. I told her I don't care cos since she got enough money to send to a man to come smash her like she's some sugar mommy then it was only fair she pay me for what I been doing for free. If not no more fvking and I gave her a deadline if she don't start paying she should forget about me. I told her plain blank that it was my punishment to her for trying to cheat and still having the guts to check through my phone and even go dial some numbers.
She cried throughout the night and left the following morning. But before she did she cursed and spoiled my door knob


Chick came back after 2 weeks calling with different numbers cos I already blocked her, crying that she is ready to start paying me half of her salary..I told her the deadline was over and that was it.


This was like a year ago. Last night I saw her at my former hood when I went to check on a friend. We didnt speak cos the moment I saw her coming towards my direction I went inside the house. Her friends kept telling me how she keeps talking about me and how she fbcked up and wished I gave her another chance bla bla.
Now I am asking you fellas if I had given that girl another chance would she have made good use of it?

Because I haven't seen a woman that was given a second chance and she made good use of. It is always the opposite, cos instead of changing they rather device ways to be more sneaky.
This has always been what I observed from modern women. Our forefathers used to exert measures that will make their women not to repeat any mistakes they have done. And they used to Obey and fall in line. But women of nowadays tends to operate differently.

I think it is this evolution that made the statement "once a cheat, always a cheat" valid af.

So I am asking one more time. Are there any women that has learnt from her mistakes and adjusted after given a second chance

At the end the day ,you guys would come back to ur vomits, one thing will lead to another, pregnancy would come up, u will start leaving like husband and wife, and a few years as couples, the character would out again like smoke, you will send her away and you would come to Nairaland to wail as usual.... Marriage Na scam ,.... Marriage not meant for everybody.



IF YOU ARE A WISE MAN, YOU WOULD KNOW THAT SHE IS A TYPE THAT CAN'T RESIST ANY GUY THAT FUCKKK HER BEFORE. AS SHE IS DOING TO YOU, SHE IS DOING SAME TO ALL HER EX THAT COMES NEAR HER.

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At the end day ,you guys would come back, one thing will lead to other pregnancy would come, u will start leaving like husband and wife, and few years as couples, the character would crop up again, you will send her away and you would come to Nairaland to wail as usual.... Marriage Na scam ,.... Marriage not meaifor everybody.



IF YOU ARE A WISE MAN, YOU WOULD KNOW THAT SHE IS TYPE THAT CAN RESIST ANY GUY THAT FUCKKK HER BEFORE. AS SHE IS DOING TO YOU SHE AS DOING SAME TO ALL HER EX THAT COMES NEAR HER.

Facto

If you dey expect make woman learn you go old. They only learn when they are old, frustrated, alone with no man or child and lonely. That's when they learn. Who the hell learns when it's already late?
That's Women

Op that your gf is the type that never let go of exes. As it is even when she is married if you want you can still smash her. The types that sacrifice their marriage to have a taste of their exes