We are yet ti see the worse of this Japa thing

tooth4tooth:
I am not surprised at all. Who want to marry a woman that will ruin his life. Because that is what many of them do when they enter foreign land.

Nigerian men in uk prefer Zimbabwe, Kenyan, other African women. They say the ladies give them peace of mind. Nigerian ladies in uk? I reserve my comments….

On a norm....Nigerian men are the BEST...I meant those ones wey get sense o...not all those riffraffs.

Very true.

Even if your accent is thicker than Wall of China or Benin Wall, as a 9ja guy, have a decent job, be a little bit decent as a human being and other African girls will snap you up. Even Caribbean and oyinbo girls. We don see all pass na.

Only the welfare system is saving the ass of badly behaved 9ja ladies in UK.

247man:


Nigerian men in uk prefer Zimbabwe, Kenyan, other African women. They say the ladies give them peace of mind. Nigerian ladies in uk? I reserve my comments….

True.
If you catch like better Ugandan babe, your own don better. Sweet dark skin. No yeye attitude.
Though there are still some good 9ja babes, but hook up, bad attitude and entitlement mentality habits cultivated back in 9ja have reduced the pool massively.

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matify83:
I am not understanding

Is it not these same Nigerian women that get to UK and start forming WOKE?

Is it not a Nigerian lady that sponsored her lesbian lover across only to send her Nigerian husband into the streets some few days ago?

This girl never reach 1 year for uk ohh. She done get accent.

SoNature:
I noticed that Nigerian ladies are increasingly becoming sincere. Most of them on YouTube have repeatedly maintained that there's no love for Nigerian ladies overseas. I just hope those who intend to relocate listen to her.

the sane ones are finding husbands. The ones with unrealistic expectations are getting discarded 🤣🤣.

There are many Nigerian women who want a man to be the sole provider which is not possible abroad, they want big weddings and engagements, multiple holidays, high class life on minimum wage. Men don wise abeg .

Nigeria men are the best they take care of their lady, seeee her mouth

All these our Naija fine ladies....wey dey do Shakara for guys for Naija...Abroad really humble all.of them...becasue all these Oyinbo guys know say Oyinbo babe fine pass our black ladies...and some black guys also are going for Oyinbo ladies instead of black ladies.... because it save dem a lot...no 1 the future of their unborn secure....the baby will assume automatic citizenship of that nationality unlike staying for addition years before the entire family get citizenship when you marry a Naija lady...
No 2. oyinbo government is always taking care of their citizen so...there is no point impressing the lady with money..like we do in Naija....flower is enough to express your love for oyinbo lady abroad...
No 3. Most of the Oyinbo babes I know are faithful and unlike an average Naija ladies with 10 sugar daddies...Oyinbo ladies prefer to break up with you than double dating....they are.relatively more faithful than an average Naija lady...
All the skimpy dress Naija ladies use to wear to seduce guys in Naija...for abroad..there are more skimpy dress..so, there's is not notice..
Naija ladies pay guys heavily for knack...instead of other otherwise in Naija...Single ladies coming from naija......abroad guys are ready for you


You go learn....

The sad truth is ...

1. Once overseas, the relocated Naija girl is under pressure to assimilate into society, live at a level which she was previously used to, often much higher than her legitimate "take-home" and also send some money back home.

Without any major back-up, this process takes the best part of 18-24 months for the non-professionals. The professionals might take from 6-36 months depending on the number of mandatory examinations. The biological clock is ticking.

2. Building a reasonable relationship to effect childbearing takes it toll, moreso for a very busy woman looking to fulfill all the elements of black tax without resorting to oloshoism.

3. The previous routes of sham-marriage or anchor babies are no longer guaranteed. The internet has blown those lids off. Whatever wasn't known, has been satirised by our Nollywood directors. The very few success stories no longer seem apparent.

4. Building relationships at this stage, becomes a little difficult as often, each partner has too much luggage which might make for a rather delicate tapestry or balance.

5. However, the woman who has a partner at home before the beginning of her sojourn, has a heavily- vetted someone in whom she's assured of, and can also be invested in. Undoubtedly there will be fights, but with the current protective cultural and social fabric and hypergamous needs of each party, there's a firm focus to resolve... "We're stronger together" remains the family motto.

Eventually, once there are children that further cements the relationship for the foreseeable future.

You've also got to understand that a woman who decides to make this rather difficult sojourn is not cut from the same type of cloth, a lot of our entitled ladies are cut from.. They are not necessarily feminist but just want to forget ahead , taking their destiny in their hands.
This is where some brothers miss it and poorly understand the motivations behind their behaviours.

Divorce rates 20 years down the line are similar for both domiciled and non-domiciled partners..

My perusals stand to be corrected.


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iHart:
We are yet ti see the worse of this Japa thing

Yes oo, all this exodus will surely result to something, already there are no jobs in canada...

SoNature:
I noticed that Nigerian ladies are increasingly becoming sincere. Most of them on YouTube have repeatedly maintained that there's no love for Nigerian ladies overseas. I just hope those who intend to relocate listen to her.

Oturu gbeke

Many were wallowing in denial before but it's too glaring to deny now.

Many 9ja guys I know are actively avoiding dating 9ja babes, never mind marrying one. Especially the divorced guys.

All I see here is a difference in value system.

Namaster:
Nigerian women who dream dreams of marrying a nice white man and having cute mixed kids are hilarious.

It's a pipe dream.

A research was conducted and it was discovered that Black Women are the LEAST attractive group of human beings.

Even DJ Cuppy the daughter of a Billionaire got dumped by a tattooed baby daddy YouTuber.

You get bad mouth

matify83:
I am not understanding

Is it not these same Nigerian women that get to UK and start forming WOKE?

Is it not a Nigerian lady that sponsored her lesbian lover across only to send her Nigerian husband into the streets some few days ago?

Are you serious?

Another relationship advice from women. Haba! What do women want set?

Meanwhile, if you dey "overs" no forget to buy real estate for Naija ooh

Namaster:
Nigerian women who dream dreams of marrying a nice white man and having cute mixed kids are hilarious.

It's a pipe dream.

A research was conducted and it was discovered that Black Women are the LEAST attractive group of human beings.

Even DJ Cuppy the daughter of a Billionaire got dumped by a tattooed baby daddy YouTuber.

They are the least attractive because they wear fake hair, the moment they take it off that’s the end

A white man considers hair and a natural face the most attractive thing on a woman, they describe their women by hair colors ‘I met a blond, talked to this hot brunette’

Many Black women wear fake hair, revealing clothes, have no poise and are lazy gold diggers, be the opposite of that and you will get any white man you want… women are women

I wear my natural hair and face always, if you want I can show you the scores of white European men on my socials trying to get with me

Two have even come to Nigeria because of me but I ghosted them because it was unbelievable

It's all about the paper and the document.
The way men are chasing them is also the way women are chasing them.

CameroonPepper:
Feminism created a big problem for women but most of them don't even realize it till now.

Exactly. A good reason many of them are still single. They have no respect for men. There are ladies I know, who are well to do but still single. Some of them are forming class too, instead of bridging themselves low

Eriokanmi:
Exactly. A good reason many of them are still single. They have no respect for men. There are ladies I know, who are well to do but still single. Some of them are forming class too, instead of bridging themselves low

Bringing themselves low. Lol.

I thought with the recent immigration policy enacted by the youkay Gofament will make this people stop disturbing us with their unsolicited opinion??

Mayplays:
Bringing themselves low. Lol.

It's not me who said so, but the bible. That's where the problem lies when we try to undo or jettison God's laid-down instructions. Men too always get it wrong by not following God's instructions on their roles to their wives .

Fiscus105:



And you? Have you ever contributed to any issues outside man and woman issues before? Are you not sleeping and waking up only on relationship stuffs? Are you not dreaming the day one guy will come to ur life to rescue you from jaw of economy deprivation that zoo had subjected into? Are you not feeling helpless with absent of quality" man in ur life?

hehehe wicked comment

Eriokanmi:
It's not me who said so, but the bible. That's where the problem lies when we try to undo God's instructions. Men too always get it wrong by not following God's instructions on their roles to their wives .

Na for women matter unah dy quick remember "the Bible says in John chapter 4 vs 6 , the Bible says in James 8 vs 10 ".

Eriokanmi:
It's not me who said so, but the bible. That's where the problem lies when we try to undo or jettison God's laid-down instructions. Men too always get it wrong by not following God's instructions on their roles to their wives .

Stop lying!

Crysallis:
A Nigerian lady based in the UK has advised her gender. She has advised that women intending to come to the UK should get married to their men before coming to the UK.

She further said that UK men have little or no need for Nigerian women, saying that they only prefer their UK women.

She stressed that Nigerian men are the best as they do all they can to take care of their women.

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Cultural reasons: where there is the diversity of races, cultural similarities come next in relationships. A white man bred in the UK has more in common with a black woman who was also bred in the UK than an immigrant woman who moved to the country in her adult years. Cultural similarity is extremely important, especially for women who are demisexual. Men can forgo this as the need to regularise visa is a test of survival.

The same man no dey UK also applies to Nigerian men. After all, our men first place dey ring light by shouting knack o before coming to the UK. The major difference between both genders is that only Nigerian men have been caught for sexual molestation and harassment in the UK. No Nigerian woman has been caught for the same offences.

Apparently, Nigerian women are better behaved than their men when it comes to sexual affairs.

Eriokanmi:
It's not me who said so, but the bible. That's where the problem lies when we try to undo or jettison God's laid-down instructions. Men too always get it wrong by not following God's instructions on their roles to their wives .

I understand what you meant, you just worded it wrongly.. I myself do the same thing with my fiancé because he deserves it and treats me like an egg whether there is money or not so I treat him like an egg too

However if you give many many men a inch, they will take 200km so many women are afraid of doing that

Very few men have the ability to live with a humble wife and not treat her like she’s a lesser being, the strength disparity is already there to even make things worse. When she knows you aren’t in anyway smarter than her and she might even do better on her own

When men start to appreciate humble women instead of mistreating them, you will see more women bring themselves ‘low’

They are learning the hard way. Lol