I Was Rejected, Humiliated And Denied An Opportunity Because I am From Ebonyi State - Nnajiofor Victoria Nnenna | #IgbereTV

14/01/2024, A Day I'll never forget!!!

Please be patient and read to the end 🙏

I don't normally write much because I used to think that this writing thing is not for me. But due to the kind of pain I experienced last night, I've decided to pen this down regardless of how it may sound.

My desire to start up a poultry business started becoming a reality few days ago. The goal was to stock my day old chicks latest before the end of this weekend so I'll be able to sell off during Easter period. I experienced lot's of challenges as regards this business proposal, starting from the financial involvement down to the least challenge you can ever think of in a poultry business.

Notwithstanding, I was able to navigate through some of these challenges and I proceeded with the other stages involved.

Along the line, the major challenge became "A conducive space to carry out this business" . I'm trying this for the very first time as a business and in a large scale, so I am not really sure if I will continue or not. For this reason, I started looking for a temporary place. I wanted a place i can lease for a period of three months. I believe that the birds must have be fully grown by then.

I searched and searched and there was no available space to use in my area. I went from one poultry farm to the other to know if they would lease the place to me, paraventure they will not be needing it this period.
It's either they are using their pen, or they will get back to me, which they never did.

I finally got a place through someone's recommendation and I was very excited. Though I have never gone to see the place, but the woman told me she will talk to the owner on my behalf and know if she would like to lease the place since they are not using it for now. But before she did that, she gave me a maximum assurance that the space is readily available and the owner is even looking for someone to lease the place to. An additional merit is that she told me the place is well secured, the pen is well constructed, and there's a good source of water there. On hearing that, I fell in love with the place even without seeing the place.

She finally talked to the owner and the woman agreed that I should pay 7k per month. Though the woman that connected me to her said I should bargain with the owner when I get there, that she's likely going to reduce it.

it was around past nine in the night we went to meet the owner of the place. This is because the woman that got the place for me said she doesn't have chance in the day time. she sells provision and she cannot leave her shop like that.

Getting there, I met the owner and she offered us a seat. we started discussing and everything was going smooth until she asked "where are you from?

I'm from Ebonyi State, ma'am, I replied...

Ebonyi State? no, I don't have any dealings with you guys. You came to the wrong place.

Why did you say that, ma'am?
Ebonyi people are nothing but bad people, they are full of evil. I don't want to have anything to do with them.

But you don't even know me ma'am. I am from Ebonyi State doesn't mean I am evil, I replied back...

while I was still talking, she cut me short 🤦 and she said "there's nothing you will say that will make me to change my mind. And don't even bother going to beg my husband because he will never agree. Even if you offer us 10million naira, (she said that's the worth of the entire compound), we will never lease that space for you as long as you are from Ebonyi State.

Omooorrr, that was how she shut me up. I was completely speechless. We bade her goodnight and left.

while I was going home it wasn't me walking. I was lost in thought and full of pain. So many questions kept pondering in my heart and I began to ask myself:

Is it a crime to be an Ebonyian?
Has it really gotten to this extent?
Is the discrimination really necessary?
Like, how did we even get to this point.?
Why are we being treated like fools 😭

The pain of rejection is a very bad one. I've never experienced this kind of pain in my entire life. My only offence is that I am from Ebonyi State.
But that's who I am. I can't deny myself even if the whole world denies me.
I didn't choose myself, God choose me.

I don't know what Ebonyi People did to her, but believe me, Ebonyi State is full of amazing people and I am one of them.

I was really broken yesterday 😢
I cried the whole night 😭

This discrimination must stop!!!
we are humans too and we deserve a better treatment.

Actually, I wanted to keep this to myself but I was led to share this experience. I really want to motivate every indigen of Ebonyi State out there hustling in one way or the other. Keep it up darling, don't let their negative mindset gets to you. They are free to reject us, but they they cannot stop us from shinning.

#Pain
#Rejection
#Previledge denial
#Discrimination

I remain my humble self,
Nnajiofor Victoria Nnenna
From Ishielu Local Government Area, Ebonyi State.

I am from Ebonyi State, and I am proud to be from Ebonyi State.

May God Bless Ebonyi State 🙌🙌🙌


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Mention the state you were rejected.

paramakina202:
Mention the state you were rejected.

Enugu state

Lie no 1 you are from ebonyi
Lie no 2 you cried all night
Lie no 3 you are telling a fake story by refusing to state where you were rejected
Lie no 4 no one will reject 10 million for a space she is collecting 7k

Op drop that phone and go and sleep

If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words, just shake the dust off your feet when you leave that house, town and state.

Ebubu don open another nairaland account...hahaha

Where in Ebonyi are you from? Type "this woman is a trouble maker" in your ebonyi dialect. Don't run oo

One person rejected you doesnt means everybody rejected or will reject you.

For her, to say this, I believe she had terrible experience with ndị Ebonyi though it is wrong to generalize.

Let it not bother you, there many out there that will accept you.
But least you have mentioned the state and location.

History555:


Ebubu well done. Happy new year. Abeg delete this poor girl photo in your rubbish propaganda

Oga I no b ebubu..I copy that post from Facebook...

Open the link ...

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Enugu state

Nawao
Enugu state kwa?
This one surprised me cos I thought Enugu and Abakaliki/Ebonyi people are close being in one state together before.
It is like an Imo landlord rejecting someone from Abia state because of where he came from.

I'm from afikpo south in ebonyi,Anambra babes have alway discriminated against me when I was still struggling,now they are not cos they see changes truth,take yourself sis things will get better,the best payback is to become better.

Na so

colossus91:
I'm from afikpo south in ebonyi,Anambra babes have alway discriminated against me when I was still struggling,now they are not cos they see changes truth,take yourself sis things will get better,the best payback is to become better.

Must you go for Anambra babes?? Ain’t afikpo girls that interest you??


Besides, no girl will like to keep up with a struggling guy even the ones from your side wouldn’t be that comfortable

Dunno whether you’re Igbo but if you’re one, stop disgracing us in public

Ebubu with his l0w self esteem will not allow us hear word with his n0nsen$e thinking mentality that everyone hates him syndrome

Is well with his soul🌚

Ozommadu:

Ebubu don open another nairaland account...hahaha

Where in Ebonyi are you from? Type "this woman is a trouble maker" in your ebonyi dialect. Don't run oo

I don’t understand these peoples level of hate and paranoia that they will be dreaming up schemes, day and night, on how to try and cause divisions amongst Ndigbo! Truly evil scumbags!

Jcoleworld911:



Must you go for Anambra babes?? Ain’t afikpo girls that interest you??


Besides, no girl will like to keep up with a struggling guy even the ones from your side wouldn’t be that comfortable

Dunno whether you’re Igbo but if you’re one, stop disgracing us in public

. I see you wanna chase clout, I was addressing the topic and and I only brought up my observation out of my own experience u didn’t have to attack me u know.

This clearly happened in SE.

KosiGee:


Are you by any chance mr Reno Omokri? He is one of few idiots with a morbid passion for spreading and propagation of lies, malice and hate about Igbos.

You need to repent. May hatred not consume you.

Which his posts can u counter to be lies?

No be today

Blue3k2:


But Umahi... condemned the change in name, saying that it was a way of marginalising Ebonyi, or even making Anambra feel superior to his state.

“There should be no part of Igboland that should be discriminated against. Ebonyi State has received the highest discrimination even from among her brother states and this is not healthy especially as we fight to unite our people and form a formidable economic and political bloc.

“... social media claims that the street was taken away from Abakaliki people because they are not qualified to answer such name of a major street in Awka,”

... change of name, which it gathered was done because Abakaliki was seen as the capital of a backward state...

Umahi frowned on every opportunity by other states especially Anambra to look down on Abakaliki man and called on Ndigbo to eschew discrimination and see every Igbo man as a brother irrespective of where he or she comes from.

https://www.nairaland.com/4570978/umahi-condemns-renaming-abakaliki-street

Is that not how Soludo was saying those disturbing Anambra are Ebonyi people.

That's life for you, one man refused to offer me employment in Abuja years back, coz I'm from oguta. He said I'm related to Authur Nzeribe, who he considers as evil man.

You are beautiful anyway

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14/01/2024, A Day I'll never forget!!!

Please be patient and read to the end 🙏

I don't normally write much because I used to think that this writing thing is not for me. But due to the kind of pain I experienced last night, I've decided to pen this down regardless of how it may sound.

My desire to start up a poultry business started becoming a reality few days ago. The goal was to stock my day old chicks latest before the end of this weekend so I'll be able to sell off during Easter period. I experienced lot's of challenges as regards this business proposal, starting from the financial involvement down to the least challenge you can ever think of in a poultry business.

Notwithstanding, I was able to navigate through some of these challenges and I proceeded with the other stages involved.

Along the line, the major challenge became "A conducive space to carry out this business" . I'm trying this for the very first time as a business and in a large scale, so I am not really sure if I will continue or not. For this reason, I started looking for a temporary place. I wanted a place i can lease for a period of three months. I believe that the birds must have be fully grown by then.

I searched and searched and there was no available space to use in my area. I went from one poultry farm to the other to know if they would lease the place to me, paraventure they will not be needing it this period.
It's either they are using their pen, or they will get back to me, which they never did.

I finally got a place through someone's recommendation and I was very excited. Though I have never gone to see the place, but the woman told me she will talk to the owner on my behalf and know if she would like to lease the place since they are not using it for now. But before she did that, she gave me a maximum assurance that the space is readily available and the owner is even looking for someone to lease the place to. An additional merit is that she told me the place is well secured, the pen is well constructed, and there's a good source of water there. On hearing that, I fell in love with the place even without seeing the place.

She finally talked to the owner and the woman agreed that I should pay 7k per month. Though the woman that connected me to her said I should bargain with the owner when I get there, that she's likely going to reduce it.

it was around past nine in the night we went to meet the owner of the place. This is because the woman that got the place for me said she doesn't have chance in the day time. she sells provision and she cannot leave her shop like that.

Getting there, I met the owner and she offered us a seat. we started discussing and everything was going smooth until she asked "where are you from?

I'm from Ebonyi State, ma'am, I replied...

Ebonyi State? no, I don't have any dealings with you guys. You came to the wrong place.

Why did you say that, ma'am?
Ebonyi people are nothing but bad people, they are full of evil. I don't want to have anything to do with them.

But you don't even know me ma'am. I am from Ebonyi State doesn't mean I am evil, I replied back...

while I was still talking, she cut me short 🤦 and she said "there's nothing you will say that will make me to change my mind. And don't even bother going to beg my husband because he will never agree. Even if you offer us 10million naira, (she said that's the worth of the entire compound), we will never lease that space for you as long as you are from Ebonyi State.

Omooorrr, that was how she shut me up. I was completely speechless. We bade her goodnight and left.

while I was going home it wasn't me walking. I was lost in thought and full of pain. So many questions kept pondering in my heart and I began to ask myself:

Is it a crime to be an Ebonyian?
Has it really gotten to this extent?
Is the discrimination really necessary?
Like, how did we even get to this point.?
Why are we being treated like fools 😭

The pain of rejection is a very bad one. I've never experienced this kind of pain in my entire life. My only offence is that I am from Ebonyi State.
But that's who I am. I can't deny myself even if the whole world denies me.
I didn't choose myself, God choose me.

I don't know what Ebonyi People did to her, but believe me, Ebonyi State is full of amazing people and I am one of them.

I was really broken yesterday 😢
I cried the whole night 😭

This discrimination must stop!!!
we are humans too and we deserve a better treatment.

Actually, I wanted to keep this to myself but I was led to share this experience. I really want to motivate every indigen of Ebonyi State out there hustling in one way or the other. Keep it up darling, don't let their negative mindset gets to you. They are free to reject us, but they they cannot stop us from shinning.

#Pain
#Rejection
#Previledge denial
#Discrimination

I remain my humble self,
Nnajiofor Victoria Nnenna
From Ishielu Local Government Area, Ebonyi State.

I am from Ebonyi State, and I am proud to be from Ebonyi State.

May God Bless Ebonyi State 🙌🙌🙌


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You did not disclose where you got this sour rejection, or the origin of the rejector....but me I already know say na Anambra dat woman be. Me i know.

The woman might have bad experience with ebonyi but she shouldn't generalized it for instance I know of a man that won't give anybody from ebonyi room in his house cause if you rent one person house the next day he will show up with up to five of his relatives to squat for the same house

Once beaten, twice shy. It's an old rule but very useful any day, any time.
That is life for you

Had to change my comment because the OP seems suspicious.

abobote:
That's life for you, one man refused to offer me employment in Abuja years back, coz I'm from oguta. He said I'm related to Authur Nzeribe, who he considers as evil man.

You are beautiful anyway

And you think the lady up there is behind the moniker. This is nairaland.

History555:
Lie no 1 you are from ebonyi
Lie no 2 you cried all night
Lie no 3 you are telling a fake story by refusing to state where you were rejected
Lie no 4 no one will reject 10 million for a space she is collecting 7k

Op drop that phone and go and sleep

Glad you saw through her lies.

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14/01/2024, A Day I'll never forget!!!

Please be patient and read to the end 🙏

I don't normally write much because I used to think that this writing thing is not for me. But due to the kind of pain I experienced last night, I've decided to pen this down regardless of how it may sound.

My desire to start up a poultry business started becoming a reality few days ago. The goal was to stock my day old chicks latest before the end of this weekend so I'll be able to sell off during Easter period. I experienced lot's of challenges as regards this business proposal, starting from the financial involvement down to the least challenge you can ever think of in a poultry business.

Notwithstanding, I was able to navigate through some of these challenges and I proceeded with the other stages involved.

Along the line, the major challenge became "A conducive space to carry out this business" . I'm trying this for the very first time as a business and in a large scale, so I am not really sure if I will continue or not. For this reason, I started looking for a temporary place. I wanted a place i can lease for a period of three months. I believe that the birds must have be fully grown by then.

I searched and searched and there was no available space to use in my area. I went from one poultry farm to the other to know if they would lease the place to me, paraventure they will not be needing it this period.
It's either they are using their pen, or they will get back to me, which they never did.

I finally got a place through someone's recommendation and I was very excited. Though I have never gone to see the place, but the woman told me she will talk to the owner on my behalf and know if she would like to lease the place since they are not using it for now. But before she did that, she gave me a maximum assurance that the space is readily available and the owner is even looking for someone to lease the place to. An additional merit is that she told me the place is well secured, the pen is well constructed, and there's a good source of water there. On hearing that, I fell in love with the place even without seeing the place.

She finally talked to the owner and the woman agreed that I should pay 7k per month. Though the woman that connected me to her said I should bargain with the owner when I get there, that she's likely going to reduce it.

it was around past nine in the night we went to meet the owner of the place. This is because the woman that got the place for me said she doesn't have chance in the day time. she sells provision and she cannot leave her shop like that.

Getting there, I met the owner and she offered us a seat. we started discussing and everything was going smooth until she asked "where are you from?

I'm from Ebonyi State, ma'am, I replied...

Ebonyi State? no, I don't have any dealings with you guys. You came to the wrong place.

Why did you say that, ma'am?
Ebonyi people are nothing but bad people, they are full of evil. I don't want to have anything to do with them.

But you don't even know me ma'am. I am from Ebonyi State doesn't mean I am evil, I replied back...

while I was still talking, she cut me short 🤦 and she said "there's nothing you will say that will make me to change my mind. And don't even bother going to beg my husband because he will never agree. Even if you offer us 10million naira, (she said that's the worth of the entire compound), we will never lease that space for you as long as you are from Ebonyi State.

Omooorrr, that was how she shut me up. I was completely speechless. We bade her goodnight and left.

while I was going home it wasn't me walking. I was lost in thought and full of pain. So many questions kept pondering in my heart and I began to ask myself:

Is it a crime to be an Ebonyian?
Has it really gotten to this extent?
Is the discrimination really necessary?
Like, how did we even get to this point.?
Why are we being treated like fools 😭

The pain of rejection is a very bad one. I've never experienced this kind of pain in my entire life. My only offence is that I am from Ebonyi State.
But that's who I am. I can't deny myself even if the whole world denies me.
I didn't choose myself, God choose me.

I don't know what Ebonyi People did to her, but believe me, Ebonyi State is full of amazing people and I am one of them.

I was really broken yesterday 😢
I cried the whole night 😭

This discrimination must stop!!!
we are humans too and we deserve a better treatment.

Actually, I wanted to keep this to myself but I was led to share this experience. I really want to motivate every indigen of Ebonyi State out there hustling in one way or the other. Keep it up darling, don't let their negative mindset gets to you. They are free to reject us, but they they cannot stop us from shinning.

#Pain
#Rejection
#Previledge denial
#Discrimination

I remain my humble self,
Nnajiofor Victoria Nnenna
From Ishielu Local Government Area, Ebonyi State.

I am from Ebonyi State, and I am proud to be from Ebonyi State.

May God Bless Ebonyi State 🙌🙌🙌


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Sorry to hear this

Bit if you don't mind, I can offer you a place but it's in ihiala...MY land and a room

What you just need be say you just keep the compound tidy and no make trouble