₦airaland Forum

nedekid:
Bros, the truth is that you should not have any links to where your spouse works, do not work in same company or have paddies that work in same place, why, you go hear tori you no suppose hear.
See, either you like it or not, possibly as high as 80% of women would cheat or misbehave in their place of work. The issue is does it get to your ears as the spouse? Walai as high as 90 if not 99% of women are cheating or close to. As they say, the only cheater is the one caught.
The one you look as innocent, God fearing, you met her as virgin and other crap are the ones that will likely even fall for infidelity. The issue is that it should not be too much ie if you marry a hot pant.
See, all the smallies my paddies had as girl friends, those that have now married young men are still disturbing, wishing to continue the sugar daddy runs, codedly. Some still sleep with them. There are the ones that will disturb, sending nudes, discribing how they are still "tight". One even wanted to bang while 8 months pregnant, another 2 months after giving birth.
Point is very few marriages will remain if on some misadventure homes are broken. As I always say, when a man gets a child, do DNA immediately, applies to all kids. Make sure they are yours, further to that, marriage is then companionship which we all need. But if you are over 50, omo, no need for DNA, your kids are already grown and you don't need the heart attack. Take life as it is.
If you doubt and want wahala, this night, suddenly take your wife's phone from her and go through it thoroughly. Just try it, if it is not divorce you will be talking about by tomorrow. Lol

woginid967:
For what exactly


I have great friends from both genders

I have cooks n maids

I have strong family

I can get premium sexx with clean excorts and your so called influencers.


So exactly tell me why i need a wife. When i can adopt children...


Many of you dwarf minded men dont understand that it is women who need us, not all of us actually need women.


Marriage has always been an option even in the holy books. So dont confuse your destiny

woginid967:
Errrm she cheated with a younger boy who was a junior staff, whose gf was her colleague.

Her reasons was I was too strict and i wanted to know her wherabouts and I corrected her often, so she confided him the guy and used him secretly as back up, for 6 years, till the guy publicly insulted me and i fired him.

Then the truth came out.

I left her quietly, till now I wonder how i kept forgiving her MANY misgivings till she got confident enough to do this 🙄

Anyway now she is for many guys and being used by rough guys, i leveled up, got wealthy, converted the pain to purpose. Moved on with firm resolution never to give my strength to women again. Its been years now and my growth has been massive,

Thank God for lessons learned.

Klass99:
I've never been married but the divorce stories below are the ones that resonate with me till date;

1. Anita divorced because her husband turned her into a punching bag and she was constantly lying to co-workers about her bruises. She didn't leave until her 4 or 5 year old son said to her one day, I will slap you ooo, I will slap you and beat you the way daddy used to beat you, when she tried to correct him for some misbehaviour.

2. Katherine left because her husband was becoming pushy and demanding about anal sex and she doesn't roll that way. I am glad she walked because the health issues associated with anal sex are not nice and he most likely would have dumped her down the road, if or when she developed such issues, because she was trying to please him.

3. Juliet left because her husband was a serial and unrepentant cheat. He started bringing women home whenever she was away on an official trip. Their two girls were seeing this, the older one asked Juliet, why do you allow or put up with what daddy does? It's like you are accepting his behaviour and saying to us that it's okay.

Let me just add this one, the day I have to treat myself for an STD and I know I didn't cheat, that marriage must end and it may not end well for that man either

Kobojunkie:
Does knowing origin make your children better than those other children? See African man delusion! Look around the see the end of the seeds wey una don sow so far in the name of being viable. Are they any better than the children with unknown stocks?

Onyemaboy:
Did the marriage produce children? If yes, what happened to them. Are they in your custody or with their mother

Errrm she cheated with a younger boy who was a junior staff, whose gf was her colleague.

Her reasons was I was too strict and i wanted to know her wherabouts and I corrected her often, so she confided him the guy and used him secretly as back up, for 6 years, till the guy publicly insulted me and i fired him.

Then the truth came out.

I left her quietly, till now I wonder how i kept forgiving her MANY misgivings till she got confident enough to do this 🙄

Anyway now she is for many guys and being used by rough guys, i leveled up, got wealthy, converted the pain to purpose. Moved on with firm resolution never to give my strength to women again. Its been years now and my growth has been massive,

Thank God for lessons learned.

YorubaRonu01:
These days people divorce for the smallest reasons, wokeness and social media made matters worst.
I just pity the growing children because they will turn out to be men-haters and female-haters!
As far I am concerned, Infidelity and when someone's life is at stake are the only valid reasons for divorce
Comparison, insatiability, disrespect and ego won't let this generation concentrate on their marriage!

leisuretym:
Not yet but will soon, she started listening to Joyce of Nigeria info, stopped cooking, joined the feminist radio gang, always waiting for me to come back home to practise everything Joyce taught them that day, well she will soon move in with Joyce

dkidd:
Omooooor that girl is the lowest of the lows. In the same compound and ur tenant haha. I will give him quit notice. Make them leave my yard. She's always been a community kpekus na u nor quick know sha.

Meself:
He is a narcissist

MrSly:
■ Children aren't commodity to be bought. Adoption is an option of last resort.
■ Making it your sole option herald a wannabe who hardly understands between action and its essence.

Emma1Oj:
I'm not marry yet.

But from dating experience; The female gender are the problem.

Their wahala is too much that I'm even scared of commitment.

dkidd:
Of course yes. When they're both sharing the same woman and she's probably belittling him before the boy toy. Na so women dey take set their husbands up for fatality

Kobojunkie:
What in the world makes you think adoption means purchasing kids? Are you alright at all?

So, with millions of children out there waiting to be adopted, adoption should not be the sole option at all for anyone. You folks give me the shivers with your many utterances.

MrSly:
■ If you don't purchase them how exactly do you acquire them? We try to twist a simple fact. Adoption of children in ophange is a charity open for all including married people with kids. Adopting a child because you need it isn't charity but meeting ones need. So what exactly is your point?

woginid967:
Danjuma shaibu
Dangote
Selman
Pastor chris

The list is endless.

Proof is, MAN who has lots of money will never need woman.

MrSly:
If you don't purchase them how exactly do you acquire them? We try to twist a simple fact. Adoption of children in ophange is a charity open for all including married people with kids. Adopting a child because you need it isn't charity but meeting ones need. So what exactly is your point?

Klass99:
I've never been married but the divorce stories below are the ones that resonate with me till date;

1. Anita divorced because her husband turned her into a punching bag and she was constantly lying to co-workers about her bruises. She didn't leave until her 4 or 5 year old son said to her one day, I will slap you ooo, I will slap you and beat you the way daddy used to beat you, when she tried to correct him for some misbehaviour.

2. Katherine left because her husband was becoming pushy and demanding about anal sex and she doesn't roll that way. I am glad she walked because the health issues associated with anal sex are not nice and he most likely would have dumped her down the road, if or when she developed such issues, because she was trying to please him.

3. Juliet left because her husband was a serial and unrepentant cheat. He started bringing women home whenever she was away on an official trip. Their two girls were seeing this, the older one asked Juliet, why do you allow or put up with what daddy does? It's like you are accepting his behaviour and saying to us that it's okay.

Let me just add this one, the day I have to treat myself for an STD and I know I didn't cheat, that marriage must end and it may not end well for that man either

Klass99:
In old age, from a toilet in a private residence? Not possible unless one is extremely dirty.

If you are talking about public toilets or ones from secondary school I may agree, but not when grown ups are involved and they live in a private residence without sharing facilities with others.

I don't use public rest rooms any how or just any where. The day an STD occurs in marriage I will know exactly where it came from and it won't be from a public toilet.

sammysmiles:
One thing is for sure, if you take a hasty, carefree or foolish decision, you must be ready to face the consequences. It's only we humans try to act drama, blame others and generalize life to be unfair, when we start reaping the consequences of our decisions.

woginid967:
For what exactly


I have great friends from both genders

I have cooks n maids

I have strong family

I can get premium sexx with clean excorts and your so called influencers.


So exactly tell me why i need a wife. When i can adopt children...


Many of you dwarf minded men dont understand that it is women who need us, not all of us actually need women.


Marriage has always been an option even in the holy books. So dont confuse your destiny

woginid967:
For what exactly


I have great friends from both genders

I have cooks n maids

I have strong family

I can get premium sexx with clean excorts and your so called influencers.

So exactly tell me why i need a wife. When i can adopt children...

Many of you dwarf minded men dont understand that it is women who need us, not all of us actually need women.

Marriage has always been an option even in the holy books. So dont confuse your destiny

Scentedgrance:
Continue deceiving yourself cheers!

woginid967:
Errrm she cheated with a younger boy who was a junior staff, whose gf was her colleague.

Her reasons was I was too strict and i wanted to know her wherabouts and I corrected her often, so she confided him the guy and used him secretly as back up, for 6 years, till the guy publicly insulted me and i fired him.

Then the truth came out.

I left her quietly, till now I wonder how i kept forgiving her MANY misgivings till she got confident enough to do this 🙄

Anyway now she is for many guys and being used by rough guys, i leveled up, got wealthy, converted the pain to purpose. Moved on with firm resolution never to give my strength to women again. Its been years now and my growth has been massive,

Thank God for lessons learned.

woginid967:
Errrm she cheated with a younger boy who was a junior staff, whose gf was her colleague.

Her reasons was I was too strict and i wanted to know her wherabouts and I corrected her often, so she confided him the guy and used him secretly as back up, for 6 years, till the guy publicly insulted me and i fired him.

Then the truth came out.

I left her quietly, till now I wonder how i kept forgiving her MANY misgivings till she got confident enough to do this 🙄

Anyway now she is for many guys and being used by rough guys, i leveled up, got wealthy, converted the pain to purpose. Moved on with firm resolution never to give my strength to women again. Its been years now and my growth has been massive,

Thank God for lessons learned.

woginid967:
For what exactly


I have great friends from both genders

I have cooks n maids

I have strong family

I can get premium sexx with clean excorts and your so called influencers.


So exactly tell me why i need a wife. When i can adopt children...


Many of you dwarf minded men dont understand that it is women who need us, not all of us actually need women.


Marriage has always been an option even in the holy books. So dont confuse your destiny

Klass99:
I've never been married but the divorce stories below are the ones that resonate with me till date;

1. Anita divorced because her husband turned her into a punching bag and she was constantly lying to co-workers about her bruises. She didn't leave until her 4 or 5 year old son said to her one day, I will slap you ooo, I will slap you and beat you the way daddy used to beat you, when she tried to correct him for some misbehaviour.

2. Katherine left because her husband was becoming pushy and demanding about anal sex and she doesn't roll that way. I am glad she walked because the health issues associated with anal sex are not nice and he most likely would have dumped her down the road, if or when she developed such issues, because she was trying to please him.

3. Juliet left because her husband was a serial and unrepentant cheat. He started bringing women home whenever she was away on an official trip. Their two girls were seeing this, the older one asked Juliet, why do you allow or put up with what daddy does? It's like you are accepting his behaviour and saying to us that it's okay.

Let me just add this one, the day I have to treat myself for an STD and I know I didn't cheat, that marriage must end and it may not end well for that man either

woginid967:
For what exactly


I have great friends from both genders

I have cooks n maids

I have strong family

I can get premium sexx with clean excorts and your so called influencers.


So exactly tell me why i need a wife. When i can adopt children...


Many of you dwarf minded men dont understand that it is women who need us, not all of us actually need women.


Marriage has always been an option even in the holy books. So dont confuse your destiny