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I woke up with an heavy heart this morning cos I slept around 4am.
Why is the whole system men create against we men today and favour women the most?? Why why why.

Another Paternity fraud was exposed yesterday in my neighborhood, a bros In his early 50's just found out his first child (girl) and second (boy) are not is and only the last belongs to him.
While all hell was let loose yesterday majority of the women there were asking the man to forgive her and it was a mistake, Non really condemn this act including my wife.
When we got back inside around past 11 yesterday I had a conversation with my wife and believe me Is like we men are just born into this world to suffer.

My wife was just shifting the blame with lot of ridiculous excuses why the woman did that, at some point I told her am going to find money to conduct DNA test for my 2 kids.

Why is paternity fraud seen as nothing This big crime is only against men and yet there is no law all over the world to punish women who does this....like no country has any law against this devilish crime.
Men are being thrown out of there house,lose there properties and jail for cheating or failing to pay child support and yet no woman get punish for cheating and giving a man another man child/children to take care for years out of deceit.

This couple are marriage for 16yrs now, the first daughter is 13yrs and the second 12yrs......this man have been laboring on them from day 1 only to find out they aren't is own and there no pusniment for the woman who did that to him??

We men need to raise and fight for law that will punish women who commit this devilish crime.

Note: if you are a civil servant in ogun state most especially if you are based in abeokuta the health ministry are conducting DNA test at subsidized rate, kindly key into this opportunity.

To my fellow married men let try and do DNA test for our kids, it isn't about not trusting our wives but to clearly prevent not labouring in vain.

Please what was your wife's reaction when you told her that you'll find money and conduct DNA for your 2 kids.

I want to check something

Highest level of deceit to Men.

vincenteger:
Please what was your wife's reaction when you told her that you'll find money and conduct DNA for your 2 kids.

I want to check something

She was just shocked and said I should go ahead that she has nothing to hide.

Am doing the DNA test before the mid of this year

no self test kit? at least something that persuade one to look for money by all means to go for medical one...because it won't be nice feeding another man child in this present economy

Paternity fraud and rape should be punished equally.

immortalcrown:
Paternity fraud and rape should be punished equally.

Funny that you should mention rape.
Women cannot be punished for rape in Nigeria only women can be raped🤣🤣🤣🤣.
It doesn't matter the circumstances,a woman cannot be charged with rape in Nigeria.

Abrahamweb:
Funny that you should mention rape.
Women cannot be punished for rape in Nigeria only women can be raped🤣🤣🤣🤣.
It doesn't matter the circumstances,a woman cannot be charged with rape in Nigeria.

You didn't get the point. Women who commit paternity fraud should be treated the way rapists are treated.

Pecoleee345:
We men need to raise and fight for law that will punish women who commit this devilish crime.

It has been raised even in advance countries..

Paternity fraud cannot technically be established as a crime in court becos after someone commits an offence with evidence, intent or motive must be established in the court to determine it's a crime and their punishment or if the will be allowed to go free.

..that's why, we have self defence murder, crime of passion, and murder in the first degree

The vagina pple have one advantage....and thats deniability of the the timing of their pregnancy, which will always be allowed because it will be seen as an honest mistake..

....they can easily lie they thought the baby was urs because of the timing u slept with them...will u open their brain to prove other wise

..can u tell the court when the other man fvcked her to prove she knows the other man owns the baby....

heck!! A woman can say she forgot she slept with another man that period

She can claim she thought she was in her safe period when she slept with someone else but was sure she slept with u in a ovulation period...hope u know both periods happen a month and can be a week apart??

Can u prove she knows she was pregnant for someone else and deliberately pinned it on u??

No lawyer can prove motive in this regard. ..unless by luck, a pregnancy test report exist somewhere showing date and u can also prove u slept with her after that date....

I mean this people can fvck three men same day....it happened in Brazil and the lady got pregnant after sleeping with two guys same day a few hrs apart...she was actually a nice person and wanted to do paternity test when she gave birth to a twin to know who owns the baby....but found out but men fertilized two different eggs on the same day they slept with her ..

I remember being forced to have sex by an ex while I was down with malaria, she was on top and made sure she came, after she just rolled me off, if I was a woman and said this social media would be out to identify and crucify the guy.

Pecoleee345:
She was just shocked and said I should go ahead that she has nothing to hide.

Am doing the DNA test before the mid of this year

It's best you did it without her knowledge becos I think from that moment you told her about doing DNA to the point you'll do it and afterwards
Trust has been broken in your marriage.
Watch her attitude henceforth.

advanceDNA:
It has been raised even in advance countries..

Paternity fraud cannot technically be established as a crime in court becos after someone commits an offence with evidence, intent or motive must be established in the court to determine it's a crime and their punishment or if the will be allowed to go free.

..that's why, we have self defence murder, crime of passion, and murder in the first degree

The vagina pple have one advantage....and thats deniability of the the timing of their pregnancy, which will always be allowed because it will be seen as an honest mistake..

....they can easily lie they thought the baby was urs because of the timing u slept with them...will u open their brain to prove other wise

..can u tell the court when the other man fvcked her to prove she knows the other man owns the baby....

heck!! A woman can say she forgot she slept with another man that period

She can claim she thought she was in her safe period when she slept with someone else but was sure she slept with u in a ovulation period...hope u know both periods happen a month and can be a week apart??

Can u prove she knows she was pregnant for someone else and deliberately pinned it on u??

No lawyer can prove motive in this regard. ..unless by luck, a pregnancy test report exist somewhere showing date and u can also prove u slept with her after that date....

I mean this people can fvck three men same day....it happened in Brazil and the lady got pregnant after sleeping with two guys same day a few hrs apart...she was actually a nice person and wanted to do paternity test when she gave birth to a twin to know who owns the baby....but found out but men fertilized two different eggs on the same day they slept with her ..

You mean a lady cheating during marriage is nothing but a man cheating during marriage would lose half of everything he owns.

Paternity fraud is evidence of a woman cheating which should have a punishment.

Cos how will a married woman justify having 3 kids for a husband 2 doesn't belong to him?? She was raped abi

immortalcrown:
You didn't get the point. Women who commit paternity fraud should be treated the way rapists are treated.

And that's what I'm saying.
Women are not punished for rape so they'll not be punished for this also.

Pecoleee345:
You mean a lady cheating during marriage is nothing but a man cheating during marriage would lose half of everything he owns.

Paternity fraud is evidence of a woman cheating which should have a punishment.

Cos how will a married woman justify having 3 kids for a husband 2 doesn't belong to him?? She was raped abi

My brother she can even claim she was raped..and ddnt know she was pregnant....

Btw...Cheating and paternity fraud are two different things in reality ...

Cheating is fvcking another man that not ur husband....
Paternity fraud is knowing u are pregnant and fraudulently push it on another man....


Altogether cheating might be morally wrong but doesn't have punishment under woke law...because woke/civilized law say while u might be married ..ur body still belongs to u and u can use it how u like.....if ur partner doesnt like it...he can divorce and that doesnt mean he wont lose his property ....

Men are the architect of their misfortune in this world. Some weak men (eg Gerald59) are always ready to give women undue advantages in everything. I was flabbergasted the day that nigga I mentioned above blamed men as the cause of the high level of old unmarried ladies. He said that such ladies are unmarried because men failed to kill themselves in a bid to make excess money in order to marry and satisfy the inordinate desires of such ladies for material comfort.

He has also severally blamed black men for high rate of prostitution among black ladies, saying that prostitution exist among black ladies because black men failed to develop black nations. This is despite the fact that we all know that prostitution is the oldest trade which have existed among different civilizations and races of humans and was even recorded in many pages of the Bible. He completely exonerated ladies of all blames even when we know that men and women now enjoy equal opportunities in all spheres of life.

It is weak men like the one I mentioned above who tilt laws in favor of women and against men whilst they also ensure that both gender have equal opportunities in all beneficial areas of life. Such captain-save-a-wh0rees are the problems men have in this world and until men begin to identify and annihilate such weaklings, we'll continue to have all the laws tilted in favor of women and to the detriment of men.

Rubbish!!!

Interesting thread.
Paternity fraud is one of the most evil act a woman can do to a man (and to her kid).

My own mother told me that paternity fraud is quite common. Women don't care.

Paternity fraud is equivalent to men having kids with other women apart from their wives. Both are immoral but not illegal

[quote author=Timi.Rume post=128112042]Paternity fraud is equivalent to men having kids with other women apart from their wives. Both are immoral but not illegal[/quote]This troll knows that they are not any near equivalent. She just wants to trigger susceptible men and some attention.

A man having kids with another woman does not put any burden whatsoever on the wife. However, the woman that has kids with another man puts decades-long financial, social, psychological, and spiritual burdens on her husband. These two cases are clearly not equivalent. And it is quite easy to see that. So, I conclude that Timı.Rume is a troll, and should be ignored as such.

I just wanted to quickly dismiss her loose argument, to avoid unnecessary back and forth with this troll. Guys let's not go as low as to entertain this.

Now, we can continue our discussion in peace.

Nigerian married men don too suffer!

TimiRume:
Paternity fraud is equivalent to men having kids with other women apart from their wives. Both are immoral but not illegal

How does it affect the wife??

No blind arguement pls.

advanceDNA:
My brother she can even claim she was raped..and ddnt know she was pregnant....

Btw...Cheating and paternity fraud are two different things in reality ...

Cheating is fvcking another man that not ur husband....
Paternity fraud is knowing u are pregnant and fraudulently push it on another man....


Altogether cheating might be morally wrong but doesn't have punishment under woke law...because woke/civilized law say while u might be married ..ur body still belongs to u and u can use it how u like.....if ur partner doesnt like it...he can divorce and that doesnt mean he wont lose his property ....

She has to cheat to get pregnant bro.

Is just like saying taking what does belong to you is different from stealing.

Cheating leads to paternity fraud.

Pecoleee345:
She has to cheat to get pregnant bro.

Is just like saying taking what does belong to you is different from stealing.

Cheating leads to paternity fraud.

It doesn't matter weda it leads to it or not...
Cheating is not punishable under woke law...

Paternity fraud that should be punishable cannot be established as intentional because a woman can easily lie she didn't know she was pregnant when sleeping with you.....

Na all fvck dey automatically lead to pregnancy??

advanceDNA:
It doesn't matter weda it leads to it or not...
Cheating is not punishable under woke law...

Paternity fraud that should be punishable cannot be established as intentional because a woman can easily lie she didn't know she was pregnant when sleeping with you.....

Na all fvck dey automatically lead to pregnancy??

Cheating isn't punishable under woke law??

Once a woman accused her husband of cheating in Europe the man loses most of the things he worked for through divorce.

What does a woman lose if the husband accused her of cheating??

Tiger woods and many men who have lost fortunes says hi

If hakimi wasn't wise. ......do you know what he would have lost ??

Pecoleee345:
Cheating isn't punishable under woke law??

Tiger woods and many men who have lost fortunes says hi

If hakim wasn't wise. ......do you know what he would have lost ??

U still don't get it ....

Tiger woods was not punished by the law for cheating.....there is no law on cheating in the west....
.. however....Western law on divorce made tiger woods lost his money and property to his wife because married couple own whatever the husband own 50/50.....and it doesn't matter weda Tiger cheated or not.......she will still get all that property even if she decides to divorce him becos she's tired of the marriage or because she found someone else..

See...even if she's the one that cheated and it led to divorce .. tiger woods will still pay because they've been married for some time and she's a house wife....

TimiRume:
Paternity fraud is equivalent to men having kids with other women apart from their wives. Both are immoral but not illegal

One sided as usual, always looking for a way justify themselves. We have many cases of paternity fraud but a case of maternity fraud is rare and uncommon.

advanceDNA:
U still don't get it ....

Tiger woods was not punished by the law for cheating.....there is no law on cheating in the west....
.. however....Western law on divorce made tiger woods lost his money and property to his wife....and it doesn't matter weda Tiger cheated or not.......she will still get all that property even if she decides to divorce him becos she's tired of the marriage or because she found someone else..

See...even if she's the one that cheated and it led to divorce .. tiger woods will still pay because they've been married for some time and she's a house wife....

What am saying is there are grounds for divorce and tiger woods lost much more cos the grounds the wife seek for divorce was cheating.

There is no direct law but the judges are always very bias and wicked towards men in such instances.

Tiger lost major deals and endorsement etc cos he was caught cheating on his wife.
If the wife have filled for Divorce on the ground of her not just interested anymore he wont have lost that much that my point.
Once cheating is the bases the man tends to lose much more than normal.

Pecoleee345:
What am saying is they are grounds for divorce and tiger woods lost much more cos the grounds the wife seek for divorce was cheating.

. U don't understand western law on marriage ...... U don't have to cheat to lose....the reason men lose is because the law says wateva is own in the marriage is 50/50 and rich men lose because they own everything in their marriage....it's not because of cheating

Pecoleee345:
There is no direct law but the judges are always very bias and wicked towards men in such instances.

There is no bias....property is split 50/50 and whoever has more will lose.... It happened to Adele the famous UK singer..she was the one that paid her husband.......her new marriage now she made the guy signed agreement of getting almost nothing if they divorce..
Micheal Jordans basket ball legend's divorce was one of the most expensive payout in history...ex-wife received a $168 million despite he's not worth what he used to have... and he ddnt cheat.....it was just divorce....and the judge wasn't wicked...its 50/50....

Pecoleee345:
Tiger lost major deals and endorsement etc cos he was caught cheating on his wife.

well ...thats just rippling effect and western hypocrisy against black men and brands trying to show politically correct support for women....thats not a law...
.go and read the after reports...... Did Jeff Bezzoz lose all his money, respect and fame despite he cheated ...??

Pecoleee345:
If the wife have filled for Divorce on the ground of her not just interested he wont have lost that much that my point.
Once cheating is the bases the man tends to lose much more than normal.

Women will always lie.....if u don't cheat them they will claim mental abuse or emotional abuse ....they are always vindictive and always go down gun slinging....

There's no way I'll lose my property to a cheating wife who committed paternity fraud. These women are really making it harder for loving guys like myself to consider marriage

lordnkem000:
There's no way I'll lose my property to a cheating wife who committed paternity fraud. These women are really making it harder for loving guys like myself to consider marriage

In the west ..u will lose ur property...

In fact .....once u sign the birth certificate before u found out ur cheated and the bay is not urs....leaving a cheating woman is ur only consolation

U will not only lose ur property.u will pay child support of a child that's not urs till 18years old

advanceDNA:
In the west ..u will lose ur property...

In fact .....once u sign the birth certificate before u found out ur cheated and the bay is not urs....leaving a cheating woman is ur only consolation

U will not only lose ur property.u will pay child support of a child that's not urs till 18years old

That's why i won't and can't be in the west. I love my naija environment. Something has to be done fast, death penalty or 20yrs jail time should be passed for paternity fraudsters because it is more dangerous than cheating. I wonder why our men are sleeping, our big lawyers and lawmakers are not doing anything about this. It means they don't know anything

lordnkem000:
. Something has to be done fast, death penalty or 20yrs jail time should be passed for paternity fraudsters because it is more dangerous than cheating. I

20years jail time...Lol...u are funny....