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Oga any man that can feed himself can marry...just avoid having children for now...till u start making more... very simple but difficult! Overbreeding like rabbits is really our problem in this country not our income

Haynnie:
Why not?

For your good. Please don't. Except you're earning higher.

Negroid001:
For your good. Please don't. Except you're earning higher.

You must have heard this word, “if u dey earn 10k na 10k problem you go solve, if you dey earn 1mil na 1mil problem you go dey solve.”

Even if you earn higher what guarantee does it give your own personal needs won't double before you marry?

Haynnie:
You must have heard this word, “if u dey earn 10k na 10k problem you go solve, if you dey earn 1mil na 1mil problem you go dey solve.”

Even if you earn higher what guarantee does it give your own personal needs won't double before you marry?

You have a point sha. Wait until like 2 kids drop and he's still earning 50k. I no wan know the love, it'll deteriorate.

Negroid001:
You have a point sha. Wait until like 2 kids drop and he's still earning 50k. I no wan know the love, it'll deteriorate.

Ehnn by he must have skyrocketed from the actual 50k he earns to much more than his former cost of living.

Logically, birthing his first kid is enough for his income not to remain the same not to talk of 2 kids.

Haynnie:
Ehnn by he must have skyrocketed from the actual 50k he earns to much more than his former cost of living.

Logically, birthing his first kid is enough for his income not to remain the same not to talk of 2 kids.

I've seen a lot of folks go down this way. Marriage is shaky or destroyed now.

My lil sis and i were having a convo with my old man and she told us blankly she can't marry a broke man. I'm in support of that.
Sounds funny buh when you look at it, Finance is everything. It's better to be practical and realistic about things like this.

Question is for how long has be been earning the 50k

Does he have other sources of income

Savings?

Investments??

The Fiancee, does she work?

What responsibilities does he fulfil for his parents, siblings and extended family

Negroid001:
I've seen a lot of folks go down this way. Marriage is shaky or destroyed now.

My lil sis and i were having a convo with my old man and she told us blankly she can't marry a broke man. I'm in support of that.
Sounds funny buh when you look at it, Finance is everything. It's better to be practical and realistic about things like this.

Here’s the talk bout this, if your sis reject a broke man when she hasn’t been doing well off herself, it would make her a hypocrite. Who’s willing to work when the opportunity arise would not hesitate but would make plans out of what they get for now. I would not agree to get married if I’m still broke for I need to have a means of income enough for sustainability for two talk less of having a baby. So for a man to be earning 50k and has the need to get married means two things which is, the salary isn’t is only source he realize his income and the other is having enough to sustain his new family after the marriage. If we are real with ourselves, we should ask bout people who live in the village or those who do menial jobs earning less than 50, 10-5k still do get married and still find means to sustain their selves in their marriages.

Haynnie:
Here’s the talk bout this, if your sis reject a broke man when she hasn’t been doing well off herself, it would make her a hypocrite. Who’s willing to work when the opportunity arise would not hesitate but would make plans out of what they get for now. I would not agree to get married if I’m still broke for I need to have a means of income enough for sustainability for two talk less of having a baby. So for a man to be earning 50k and has the need to get married means two things which is, the salary isn’t is only source he realize his income and the other is having enough to sustain his new family after the marriage. If we are real with ourselves, we should ask bout people who live in the village or those who do menial jobs earning less than 50, 10-5k still do get married and still find means to sustain their selves in their marriages.

For someone to say she can't settle for a broke guy, she is obviously doing well for herself. It's a matter of standard and choice.