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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by DivinegiftofGod: 8:31pm On Feb 05
Major7:





You don't have to remain poor,it begins with the change of mentality, if people like you won't listen to advice but want the person's cash to squander and keep coming again to ask for more then i give up on your likes. Untill you can afford a luxurious lifestyle, live moderately, how hard is that message for you to digest
You can't be using iPhone15pro and be crying for help grin,it's either you're under a spell or just delusional

Story!

Stop twisting things to suit y'all excuses for being unecessarily wicked and stingy. We not babies..e dey pain Dem say even one pound dey show for their beneficiaries body pass their own.

Abegi!

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by CoronaVirusPro: 8:31pm On Feb 05
yemmit90:


That is what made their countries better. Humans are not suppose to possesse anything apart from good living. What is the uses of accumulated properties and wealths when non of them will follow you to the grave? It was this selfish mentality that kept Africans where they are today.

That’s false! The citizens of those countries are complaining too! Why will you own a house/land for 20 years and later default in payment, only for your house to be foreclosed?

Why do you have to be in debt to succeeed?

In Africa, people are worth their reel value. In the Western world, you can be worth 2 million dollars and your real value is less than 100k.

The whole western dream is an illusion! Soak kids in debt right from college till they die. Is that what you call life? Where people have to race to service debt because they don’t want to get back on the street.

Whats real in the western world? Why they will always cajole you yo even get candy on credit.

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by 1Sharon(f): 8:31pm On Feb 05
DivinegiftofGod:


Shey because you send person money you want to dictate how they should live their lives?

Oh.. because they depend on you they should live like paupers so you can feel like a king over them,? Weldon o

It's bad. If you give person something, commot eyes. Don't try to rule peoples lives because you helped them. That's evil manipulation.
Nothing like entitlement mentality here. Let the poor breathe!

You don't get it do you?? They are NOT dependent on her, they just wanted money to flex. It's a scam.

You guys think people from abroad are stupid?When they go back home, they see how those scrounging relatives are truly living. They exaggerate their living conditions just to get money from you.
A person who claims to be chronically broke, or jobless should not have houses or cars. Or eat at fancy restaurants.


If you don't want to be dictated to, don't ask for someone else's money.

Go and work and stop begging. It's not dignifying. As an able bodied man/woman where is your pride and shame?

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by ogbonti: 8:31pm On Feb 05
DivinegiftofGod:
This is pure jeolousy. Envying your own family members is the height of witchcraft


It's not their fault that they live in a place where the 10 dollars you send can get them a luxury it can't afford you over there. If you look at it, you still spend the bulk of your money more than them because you send them chingum money that can't take you a week but spend thousands of what you send to them here for yourself. So how are they enjoying more than you?
Person go just dey begin calculate the small 100 dollars ( wey be like 100 naira to am) wey him dey send say e too much. Small prayers wey you for receive for sending a meager 100 dollars, you now lose it because of over calculations.

It's this wicked mentality that is making many of you to be stingy. It's very bad. If they have the opportunity to be there like you, I'm sure they won't ask you for anything.

Keep your money. Those in naija go still shine and fresh pass una because we eat real natural organic food and get natural Vit D year round.
You guys wait. It's only a matter of time, we will soon have good govt and nobody will send you and your lonely lives abroad anymore.

Very stingy people.

in your very miserable life you live in Nigeria - how many people have you helped with N2,000 only this year 2024 ? you who cant buy N100 data for anyone calling $100 chingum money ? you call $100 small money like N100 ? I SINCERELY HOPE AND PRAY you come to the U.S. - then only you will see and experience that IF you buy something in a store worth $30 and you have $29.95 cents- they will ask you to drop it- entitled evil souls like you will never get 1 kobo from me in this life and the hereafter - bladdy azzhoooole angry

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by peterboro: 8:32pm On Feb 05
DivinegiftofGod:


Jealousy. Meanwhile that 300 Pounds is like suya Money to him there that he sends you in month o.

All of them are like that. They feel you can do better with that amount here than them so they would rather see you suffer.

Wickedness

NONSENSE and USELESS MENTALITY TALK. How is £300 a small money. Currently now is almost over #500k.

How many graduates are earning 100k in Nigeria even as they're working.??

How many of your friends abroad can easily send you 20k?
How many of your friends in Nigeria can easily lend you10k?

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by ogbonti: 8:33pm On Feb 05
peterboro:


NONSENSE and USELESS MENTALITY TALK. How is £300 a small money. Currently now is almost over #500k.

How many graduates are earning 100k in Nigeria even as they're working.??

300 pounds Suya money ? hmmmm this people in Nigeria are indeed crazy!!!! angry angry

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by jojothaiv(m): 8:33pm On Feb 05
o123456789:
Please the exchange rate is the issue, it is not a deliberate or habitual act for those that are receiving foreign remittance. For those of us that are receiving steady dollars it's time to go underground when spending eg. buy your catfish pepper soup and take it home as if you are on an errand, kidnappers may visit you or you may be reported by busy body people to those bankrolling you from abroad. Stay cautious this period.
This your analogy weak me sha, eat catfish silently..

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by samuelson06(m): 8:33pm On Feb 05
DivinegiftofGod:


Pray it doesn't happen behind you because it must happen.

Hahaha grin

Don't forget it's Tinubu till 2031 o

From there, maybe North.

Seriously, I wish the country well but I doubt it'll ever work.

Our leaders are evil bro. Don't hope on Nigeria.
Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by DivinegiftofGod: 8:35pm On Feb 05
peterboro:


NONSENSE and USELESS MENTALITY TALK. How is £300 a small money. Currently now is almost over #500k.

How many graduates are earning 100k in Nigeria even as they're working.??

Stop the conversion already and lets work with the value of 300€ over there. It's worth nothing over there therefore should not give you hypertension because it not going to dig a hole in your pocket when you send it down. Forget what it comes to when it gets here. That's a poverty mentality y'all need to drop.

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by flokii: 8:35pm On Feb 05
I don't understand.. when did Africa turn to a country that these arrogant migrants feel they can talk down on?

Make una no worry.. Trump is coming to deport y'all hateful asses back to Africa.

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by nedekid: 8:37pm On Feb 05
candyhouse:
They must fleece you
Who? She or those that identify with her must be from poor homes. Non of my siblings "ablod" ever had cause to send money. Infact family here has sent deposits ie down payment for modgage to those in UK and US. Who needs their abroad money sef. Even when some folks on this forum go abroad for vacations they don't even stay in relatives homes but in hotels or Airbnb, showing total independence from abroad people.
How much do they have anyone will want to "fleece" them.
Anyway, I don't blame abroad people, if not for the naira apc and it's cohorts destroyed, will abroadians have mouth?
Back 2014, 1 pounds was ₦250. To earn 250k in Nigeria was way easier than earning 1k pounds in UK. Now that same 1k is now ₦1.8m, that is the only reason they have mouth. Metcheew!

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by Beverlyjean(f): 8:37pm On Feb 05
DivinegiftofGod:
This is pure jeolousy. Envying your own family members is the height of witchcraft


It's not their fault that they live in a place where the 10 dollars you send can get them a luxury it can't afford you over there. If you look at it, you still spend the bulk of your money more than them because you send them chingum money that can't take you a week but spend thousands of what you send to them here for yourself. So how are they enjoying more than you?
Person go just dey begin calculate the small 100 dollars ( wey be like 100 naira to am) wey him dey send say e too much. Small prayers wey you for receive for sending a meager 100 dollars, you now lose it because of over calculations.

It's this wicked mentality that is making many of you to be stingy. It's very bad. If they have the opportunity to be there like you, I'm sure they won't ask you for anything.

Keep your money. Those in naija go still shine and fresh pass una because we eat real natural organic food and get natural Vit D year round.
You guys wait. It's only a matter of time, we will soon have good govt and nobody will send you and your lonely lives abroad anymore.

Very stingy people.

Who told u that 100 dollars to them that have money is like 100 naira to us here?? Travel to usa first , then u can comment

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by Akinpresident: 8:37pm On Feb 05
DivinegiftofGod:
This is pure jeolousy. Envying your own family members is the height of witchcraft


It's not their fault that they live in a place where the 10 dollars you send can get them a luxury it can't afford you over there. If you look at it, you still spend the bulk of your money more than them because you send them chingum money that can't take you a week but spend thousands of what you send to them here for yourself. So how are they enjoying more than you?
Person go just dey begin calculate the small 100 dollars ( wey be like 100 naira to am) wey him dey send say e too much. Small prayers wey you for receive for sending a meager 100 dollars, you now lose it because of over calculations.

It's this wicked mentality that is making many of you to be stingy. It's very bad. If they have the opportunity to be there like you, I'm sure they won't ask you for anything.

Keep your money. Those in naija go still shine and fresh pass una because we eat real natural organic food and get natural Vit D year round.
You guys wait. It's only a matter of time, we will soon have good govt and nobody will send you and your lonely lives abroad anymore.

Very stingy people.

E pain am 😂😂😂
You're on painment
Surgery required to remove your painstrogen 😂

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by Omalicious1: 8:38pm On Feb 05
officialwdhtv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tudcqht4k7c

US-based Guinean lady reveals why she has stopped sending money to her family in Africa

According to her, she visted her home country eight years ago and discovered she has been funding the lavish lifestyle of her folks back home. She said she realised that her folks back home are living a luxurious life that she who works for the money does not live in the US.

Take a listen!!!

#wetindeyhappentv


But that's the truth na....

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by illuminaty(m): 8:39pm On Feb 05
I'm happy to see my family living the life....

I'm even more proud to be the one sponsoring it.

Reminds me of the song by Memphis Bleek ft Rell-Understand me still

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by DivinegiftofGod: 8:39pm On Feb 05
ogbonti:


in your very miserable life you live in Nigeria - how many people have you helped with N2,000 only this year 2024 ? you who cant buy N100 data for anyone calling $100 chingum money ? you call $100 small money like N100 ? I SINCERELY HOPE AND PRAY you come to the U.S. - then only you will see and experience that IF you buy something in a store worth $30 and you have $29.95 cents- they will ask you to drop it- entitled evil souls like you will never get 1 kobo from me in this life and the hereafter - bladdy azzhoooole angry

Mynd44
Seun

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by IbeOkehie: 8:42pm On Feb 05
This woman has exactly my kind of attitude these days. I praise her for achieving liberation.

The Black Tax is real and applied on so many levels, not just financial. Especially for me as an Igbo man whose tribe is steeped in this, it took me a while to figure out that family and friends and kindred use cultural & emotional blackmail to force tax compliance 😆

Good Luck to Nigerians.

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by Inobeyourmate: 8:44pm On Feb 05
Major7:






I sense too much of entitlement feeling and anger in you. She has a point,those who you're helping should tone down their living.you can't be living large at the expense of others, just like my cuz who spend 15k on a very small handbag that's not worth it but she's always begging for help. Wisdom is profitable to direct
Leave the were make him Dey cap nonsense there, nah were like this wey never see money before them go send money to say make them build house the were go spend the whole thing

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by Major7: 8:44pm On Feb 05
DivinegiftofGod:


Story!

Stop twisting things to suit y'all excuses to be unecessarily wicked and stingy. We not babies..e dey pain Dem say even one pound dey show for their beneficiaries body pass their own.

Abegi!





Dude,you're irredeemable undecided

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by nedekid: 8:45pm On Feb 05
Major7:





You don't have to remain poor,it begins with the change of mentality, if people like you won't listen to advice but want the person's cash to squander and keep coming again to ask for more then i give up on your likes. Untill you can afford a luxurious lifestyle, live moderately, how hard is that message for you to digest
You can't be using iPhone15pro and be crying for help grin,it's either you're under a spell or just delusional
What you wrote reminds me of African leaders, leading poor countries, yet living large then going cap in hand to beg abroad. Lol

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by Calitoscassius(m): 8:47pm On Feb 05
CoronaVirusPro:
Truth be told!

Africans are living a better and more secured life. Not in actual security, but future security.

In real sense, you own nothing in the western world. You just need to get it wrong in a big way and you will be back to square one!

You never own outrightly! Taxes will keep hitting you till the day you die. And you just default on those taxes and everything you owned will either be foreclosed or retrieved.

Africans live a more peaceful life but they never appreciate till they are soaked up in debt in another man’s country.
Anybody can lose their material poccessions in the western countries as a result of debts including the westerners themselves. The difference between the westerners and africans is africans can pack up and flee to africa if they are so soaked up in debt as you said and the debtors would not chase after them to africa.

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by DivinegiftofGod: 8:47pm On Feb 05
Major7:






Dude,you're irredeemable undecided

I'm not s dude.
Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by spencekat(m): 8:48pm On Feb 05
peterboro:


NONSENSE and USELESS MENTALITY TALK. How is £300 a small money. Currently now is almost over #500k.

How many graduates are earning 100k in Nigeria even as they're working.??

How many of your friends abroad can easily send you 20k?
How many of your friends in Nigeria can easily lend you10k?
Ask him. Entitlement mentality will kill most of them.

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by Major7: 8:50pm On Feb 05
DivinegiftofGod:


I'm not s dude.



That explain more about your reasoning cheesy
Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by Inobeyourmate: 8:51pm On Feb 05
DivinegiftofGod:
This is pure jeolousy. Envying your own family members is the height of witchcraft


It's not their fault that they live in a place where the 10 dollars you send can get them a luxury it can't afford you over there. If you look at it, you still spend the bulk of your money more than them because you send them chingum money that can't take you a week but spend thousands of what you send to them here for yourself. So how are they enjoying more than you?
Person go just dey begin calculate the small 100 dollars ( wey be like 100 naira to am) wey him dey send say e too much. Small prayers wey you for receive for sending a meager 100 dollars, you now lose it because of over calculations.

It's this wicked mentality that is making many of you to be stingy. It's very bad. If they have the opportunity to be there like you, I'm sure they won't ask you for anything.

Keep your money. Those in naija go still shine and fresh pass una because we eat real natural organic food and get natural Vit D year round.
You guys wait. It's only a matter of time, we will soon have good govt and nobody will send you and your lonely lives abroad anymore.

Very stingy people.
Some of you go just Dey reason like oloriburuku, if e easy, make yousef go hustle for your own money nah, the way some of you dey even reason for this Nailanad ehn, eldest person for family no suppose reach una turn, cos family go scatter, imagine the rubbish you type, nah were like you them go send money to from abroad to build house, una go squander everything base on say the person Dey make tripple of that, eleriibu barawo, no Dey put eyes for another person money, go hustle for your own make you see as e easy reach, nah were like you them go chop just una 1k wey heaven go fall😠

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by gigfx: 8:52pm On Feb 05
I know the kind billing my friends here in the UK they receive daily. I just dey pity them. When u wan travel and u don announce for everyone for village say u dey comot Naija.

Thank God I no tell anyone say I wan travel, I dey chat with some people self as if say I still dey the con3. Apart from my parent and the guy taking care of them that I used to send money, I don't have to overwork myself because I wan please anybody for Naija.

Them think say the kind cold person dey suffer for here good for body. If not that our con3 dey messed up, wetin we dey find come this place.

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by LastProphet: 8:53pm On Feb 05
DivinegiftofGod:
This is pure jeolousy. Envying your own family members is the height of witchcraft


It's not their fault that they live in a place where the 10 dollars you send can get them a luxury it can't afford you over there. If you look at it, you still spend the bulk of your money more than them because you send them chingum money that can't take you a week but spend thousands of what you send to them here for yourself. So how are they enjoying more than you?
Person go just dey begin calculate the small 100 dollars ( wey be like 100 naira to am) wey him dey send say e too much. Small prayers wey you for receive for sending a meager 100 dollars, you now lose it because of over calculations.

It's this wicked mentality that is making many of you to be stingy. It's very bad. If they have the opportunity to be there like you, I'm sure they won't ask you for anything.

Keep your money. Those in naija go still shine and fresh pass una because we eat real natural organic food and get natural Vit D year round.
You guys wait. It's only a matter of time, we will soon have good govt and nobody will send you and your lonely lives abroad anymore.

Very stingy people.

She's very very silly, very silly, this is why I hate received help right from childhood, I never allow to be helped, I always plan not to ask for help. A white family once approached me after service to ask if I have any need to be taken care of and I thanked them and said none. They were stupefied they didn't expect that, but they are very good people and we are friends till this day. Africans should learn not to take help it's why we remain backward

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by terrence12(m): 8:55pm On Feb 05
DivinegiftofGod:
This is pure jeolousy. Envying your own family members is the height of witchcraft


It's not their fault that they live in a place where the 10 dollars you send can get them a luxury it can't afford you over there. If you look at it, you still spend the bulk of your money more than them because you send them chingum money that can't take you a week but spend thousands of what you send to them here for yourself. So how are they enjoying more than you?
Person go just dey begin calculate the small 100 dollars ( wey be like 100 naira to am) wey him dey send say e too much. Small prayers wey you for receive for sending a meager 100 dollars, you now lose it because of over calculations.

It's this wicked mentality that is making many of you to be stingy. It's very bad. If they have the opportunity to be there like you, I'm sure they won't ask you for anything.

Keep your money. Those in naija go still shine and fresh pass una because we eat real natural organic food and get natural Vit D year round.
You guys wait. It's only a matter of time, we will soon have good govt and nobody will send you and your lonely lives abroad anymore.

Very stingy people.


Some women are something else..
Is she envying her own kin for using what she gave them well?
She'd rather go and find them in poverty and starvation

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by Major7: 8:56pm On Feb 05
nedekid:

What you wrote reminds me of African leaders, leading poor countries, yet living large then going cap in hand to beg abroad. Lol




We need to work on our mindset,I discovered that years back and trust me,I have been breaking every limitations with God's help of course cool

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by casppyjay: 8:58pm On Feb 05
Karlifate:
"Before dem use me, I go use my sense, my sense"

cheesy cheesy

in Asake's voice 🎶 🎶









Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by Major7: 8:58pm On Feb 05
LastProphet:


She's very very silly, very silly, this is why I hate received help right from childhood, I never allow to be helped, I always plan not to ask for help. A white family once approached me after service to ask if I have any need to be taken care of and I thanked them and said none. They were stupefied they didn't expect that, but they are very good people and we are friends till this day. Africans should learn not to take help it's why we remain backward




The way God have designed it,we all need help st one point or the other in our lives,we can't survive in isolation but what's really bad is taking the kindness for granted and blocking ways for others. God bless us all

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Re: US-based Lady Reveals Why She Stopped Sending Money To Africa (Video) by Neddstark: 9:00pm On Feb 05
Major7:






I sense too much of entitlement feeling and anger in you. She has a point,those who you're helping should tone down their living.you can't be living large at the expense of others, just like my cuz who spend 15k on a very small handbag that's not worth it but she's always begging for help. Wisdom is profitable to direct

You must hate your family so much if you see this as sense of entitlement. What if when you were being helped at a time in your existence and people called it "sense of entitlement".

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