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Good afternoon, everyone!

I am really having a hard time staying pure, as a girl I have been battling with sexual immortality and pornography. God has been faithful, but I see myself really struggling to keep my virginity. I made a promise to God, and I don't want to break it but now my body is doing anyhow. It is mostly my fault because I watch porn (though it has reduced) and I now hang out with guys that are not into me but my body. God Abeg! Omo, the dumbest part is that I know of the consequences, but my dumbass is still following that guy because he is hot. Please, someone talk to me.


I can't believe I have to emphasis this; I am a girl. Yes, girls watch porn, masturbate and have sexual thoughts too. I am not trying to promote it, but we need to stop thinking these things don't happen in real life.

Update! Guys, I told the guy my mind and I have blocked him. Omo, I was in the office, you need to see the way I was crying as if I lost my husband. It is well, I didn't know I can bond to a guy so emotionally. That is low-key scary. I even talked to my mentor he said I am naive in love and should define what I really want, either sex or relationship. I told him the latter and he gave me advice to chill, that I will express all my desires properly in marriage. God bless my mentor! Advice, girls if you don't have a mentor, please get. Sometimes, you need another perspective. It really is breaking my heart because I feel a connection, but what is that connection. Me self, I don't know. I will find the time to work on myself and come back. By that time, I will be married in Jesus Name

You are not a girl
You are a guy with nuts
Stop creating fake monikers it won't work
Men of these days are trying to be women so bad
Bleaching, gossiping, creating fake account
We know your type and what they do here
Shameless man, useless man
Shiorrrrrrrrrrrr

Another low self-esteem male creating a female account to get attention
Who do Nigerian men now do this
Why do they go so low
Work on your self esteem and stop looking for attention like a woman that you're not
Shameless man, useless man
Shiorrrrrrrrrrrr

LMAO.... I don't know who hurt you but I am a girl. If you don't believe na you sabi.

Boondocxs:
You are not a girl
You are a guy with nuts
Stop creating fake monikers it won't work
Men of these days are trying to be women so bad
Bleaching, gossiping, creating fake account
We know your type and what they do here
Shameless man, useless man
Shiorrrrrrrrrrrr

He is just trying to catch cruise

talk2hb1:
He is just trying to catch cruise

That's the issue Op could be a lady

The chances that the op could be a male can be high but o.o still fit be girl


No be only man dey masturbate....

Starz825:
That's the issue Op could be a lady

The chances that the op could be a male can be high but o.o still fit be girl


No be only man dey masturbate....

Please, ohh I am a girl. This is the first time I have to defend my gender. What is happening?

Pray, meditate, (see yourself fighting against this act of masturbation, ) go out...
Don't watch content that can stir up the thought

MONEY247:
Pray, meditate, (see yourself fighting against this act of masturbation, ) go out...
Don't watch content that can stir up the thought

Okay, thank you. I have been doing that, I even made a post about resisting the urges only to fall back into it.

ExceptionalCool:
Okay, thank you. I have been doing that, I even made a post about resisting the urges only to fall back into it.

Get married then.😂😂😂

At least you will do the act in the legal confines with no worries🤷‍♂️

ExceptionalCool:
Good afternoon, everyone!

I am really having a hard time staying pure, as a girl I have been battling with sexual immortality and pornography. God has been faithful, but I see myself really struggling to keep my virginity. I made a promise to God, and I don't want to break it but now my body is doing anyhow. It is mostly my fault because I watch porn (though it has reduced) and I now hang out with guys that are not into me but my body. God Abeg! Omo, the dumbest part is that I know of the consequences, but my dumbass is still following that guy because he is hot. Please, someone talk to me.


I can't believe I have to emphasis this; I am a girl. Yes, girls watch porn, masturbate and have sexual thoughts too. I am not trying to promote it, but we need to stop thinking these things don't happen in real life.

Sexual immortality bawo?

Op go and shave your pubic hairs its disgusting. And wash those balls too. Nonsense.

DAramis:
Get married then.😂😂😂

At least you will do the act in the legal confines with no worries🤷‍♂️

I really don't get why the smiley when you are 100 percent, now some will think it's a joke when it's the truth.


And to the o.p, if you truly are a girl and if your hot, then get married. If a guy is interested in you, tell him to go meet your parents; if he flees, then he's just a guy who wanna pump and dump. Being hot doesn't mean you should be stupid. Being hot should let you know who you should give your body to and be wise about it in the marriage covenant.
Hanging out with guys who you clearly admit are not into you but your body is clearly dumb as you said and it's only a matter of time when you eventually do the do if you don't cut it off.

Girls of nowadays are something else, aren't you suppose to be preparing yourself for motherhood while you wait for a serious guy to come your way instead of hanging out with unserious dudes?

ExceptionalCool:
Good afternoon, everyone!

I am really having a hard time staying pure, as a girl I have been battling with sexual immortality and pornography. God has been faithful, but I see myself really struggling to keep my virginity. I made a promise to God, and I don't want to break it but now my body is doing anyhow. It is mostly my fault because I watch porn (though it has reduced) and I now hang out with guys that are not into me but my body. God Abeg! Omo, the dumbest part is that I know of the consequences, but my dumbass is still following that guy because he is hot. Please, someone talk to me.


I can't believe I have to emphasis this; I am a girl. Yes, girls watch porn, masturbate and have sexual thoughts too. I am not trying to promote it, but we need to stop thinking these things don't happen in real life.

Your a yahoo boy. Your looking for a maga who thinks your a virgin . This world is not for mumu men

GreatAchiever1:
I really don't get why the smiley when you are 100 percent, now some will think it's a joke when it's the truth.


And to the o.p, if you truly are a girl and if your hot, then get married. If a guy is interested in you, tell him to go meet your parents; if he flees, then he's just a guy who wanna pump and dump. Being hot doesn't mean you should be stupid. Being hot should let you know who you should give your body to and be wise about it in the marriage covenant.
Hanging out with guys who you clearly admit are not into you but your body is clearly dumb as you said and it's only a matter of time when you eventually do the do if you don't cut it off.

Girls of nowadays are something else, aren't you suppose to be preparing yourself for motherhood while you wait for a serious guy to come your way instead of hanging out with unserious dudes?

Thank you, okay I will cut off from talking from him.

DAramis:
Get married then.😂😂😂

At least you will do the act in the legal confines with no worries🤷‍♂️

Okay, thank you for the advice.

This kind wahala wear micro mini.

ObalendeCMS:
This kind wahala wear micro mini.

Which one is micro mini?

GreatAchiever1:
I really don't get why the smiley when you are 100 percent, now some will think it's a joke when it's the truth.?

It was actually a truthful advice I gave her. Just put those emoji to pass the truth to her in a mild form.

DAramis:
It was actually a truthful advice I gave her. Just put those emoji to pass the truth to her in a mild form.

Nice, but if you want to pass truth or speak your intention to someone via text, don't put smiley, it communicates unseriousness. Real Truth is meant to be hard and not supposed to be diluted else it's not longer truth.

GreatAchiever1:
Nice, but if you want to pass truth or speak your intention to someone via text, don't put smiley, it communicates unseriousness. Real Truth is meant to be hard and not supposed to be diluted else it's not longer truth.

True.

It is not meant to be diluted, and I didn't know the emoji I used connotes another meaning to the truth. Duly noted.