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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by zed7: 6:09am On Feb 14
Let her spend some time in jail. Let her creditors jail her for default.

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by KingintheNorth(m): 8:12am On Feb 14
rexesq:

If not fake why countering all suggestions? You want the thread to grow?

Pls, moderators, close this already!

So if someone gives a suggestion that doesn't entirely make sense I'll keep quiet?? What do you mean by "for the thread to grow?? Whether it grows or not, do I earn any money from it . If you don't have anything valuable to suggest just ignore the post ok.

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Musty112: 8:57am On Feb 14
Contact everyone that she knows and warn them to desist from loaning her any money. Shout about it. It is sha nearly impossible to borrow money from a total stranger.
Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Kajaard: 9:34am On Feb 14
KingintheNorth:


She has been asked about all the above , she denied having anything to do with the above. But still wouldn't or doesn't know what she does with money.

Stop saying your friend. You are the person and not your friend.

I hate when you people post stories and say my friend or a friend. Nonsense.

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Ebukamatth(m): 9:34am On Feb 14
Acidosis:

You better investigate that woman. 1 or more of these 3 things are at play here;

1. A false prophet has scammed her soul.

2. One sugar boy has captured her heart.

3. She's being blackmailed (sex or nudity).



You deserve an award for this

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Lexusgs430: 9:36am On Feb 14
KingintheNorth:
Hi Guys. I am posting for a friend who doesn't want to be named but he seriously needs your advice and possible suggestions on this matter.

He is the only son and has a sister , his father is also still alive .the problem is his mother, she keep borrowing money in hundreds of thousands and expecting the son to repay those loans. She wouldn't even inform him before taking loans, he only gets to know about it when the loan sharks come knocking. He has been paying back loans that have run into millions for the mother for the past 6 years. The painful part is when you ask her what she is using those monies for, she will always say she doesn't know or does not remember.
Each time after promising not to take loans anymore ,before you know it she will take another one. The son usually pay her monthly upkeep money so she is not lacking anything.

Right now she is in serious brand new debt and she's running to the son for rescue and he is fed up. He can't abandon the mother and also can't keep paying back loans he doesn't know anything about.


Unfortunately, he would have to leave her in her mess......

His constantly bailing actions, is simply encouraging her ....... He should STOP 🛑 🛑 🛑......

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by sgtponzihater1(m): 9:38am On Feb 14
He's not responsible for his mother's loan, and shouldn't be paying.
Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Sleekfingers: 9:39am On Feb 14
KingintheNorth:



Isn't this too harsh??



Then keep paying debts

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by soloravely: 9:41am On Feb 14
All this 419 pastors .she under smear.you guys need to act fast.dey scope am say if tell anyone she go die

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by rajiedreez: 9:43am On Feb 14
Ok, he should continue
Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Pat081: 9:46am On Feb 14
Ask her it may be her Pastor taking the money for her
Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by hosemujica: 9:46am On Feb 14
There’s a pastor somewhere oga. Stop giving your money to her the truth will come out, don’t allow yourself to be blackmailed.
Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by superCleanworks(m): 9:47am On Feb 14
Wealthoptulent:

.. abi she dey play SPORTTY

mama on sporty 😂
Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by IamHonourable1: 9:52am On Feb 14
Is the husband aware of this issue, it's not the responsibility of the son to sort this problem out but that of the husband.
Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by EasternPrince: 9:52am On Feb 14
Acidosis:


Then forcefully get her phone and request her account statement. Go through her transactions, you'll find the answer you seek.


if you need to tell him to trace the money after all these years he is a fool

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by nigeriansamurai(m): 9:52am On Feb 14
"Take away responsibility from a person and his flaws would become your burden".. Bro should be firm he isnt her baby anymore he should resolve never again to pay for the loan, and for a while even stop the allowance, and form vex for her for like 6 months her head must reset...
Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by nini007(m): 9:52am On Feb 14
KingintheNorth:


She has been asked about all the above , she denied having anything to do with the above. But still wouldn't or doesn't know what she does with money.
Then he should avoid paying the current debt till she's in deep shit. The truth will be exposed when she's apprehended by law enforcers. She will confess!!!
Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Yashita: 9:53am On Feb 14
KingintheNorth:
Hi Guys. I am posting for a friend who doesn't want to be named but he seriously needs your advice and possible suggestions on this matter.

He is the only son and has a sister , his father is also still alive .the problem is his mother, she keep borrowing money in hundreds of thousands and expecting the son to repay those loans. She wouldn't even inform him before taking loans, he only gets to know about it when the loan sharks come knocking. He has been paying back loans that have run into millions for the mother for the past 6 years. The painful part is when you ask her what she is using those monies for, she will always say she doesn't know or does not remember.
Each time after promising not to take loans anymore ,before you know it she will take another one. The son usually pay her monthly upkeep money so she is not lacking anything.

Right now she is in serious brand new debt and she's running to the son for rescue and he is fed up. He can't abandon the mother and also can't keep paying back loans he doesn't know anything about.

OP, so many solutions have been given to you. Choose one and act on it.

Case closed!
Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by honour7: 9:56am On Feb 14
KingintheNorth:
Hi Guys. I am posting for a friend who doesn't want to be named but he seriously needs your advice and possible suggestions on this matter.

He is the only son and has a sister , his father is also still alive .the problem is his mother, she keep borrowing money in hundreds of thousands and expecting the son to repay those loans. She wouldn't even inform him before taking loans, he only gets to know about it when the loan sharks come knocking. He has been paying back loans that have run into millions for the mother for the past 6 years. The painful part is when you ask her what she is using those monies for, she will always say she doesn't know or does not remember.
Each time after promising not to take loans anymore ,before you know it she will take another one. The son usually pay her monthly upkeep money so she is not lacking anything.

Right now she is in serious brand new debt and she's running to the son for rescue and he is fed up. He can't abandon the mother and also can't keep paying back loans he doesn't know anything about.

Was she into trading before now,

the issue is a mental health issue, a mother of someone I know used to have the same issue, see a psychiatrist and in the short term, go around all the people she can borrow money from and inform them not to borrow her money any more that no one will pay back

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by akintunde63: 10:00am On Feb 14
KingintheNorth:
Hi Guys. I am posting for a friend who doesn't want to be named but he seriously needs your advice and possible suggestions on this matter.

He is the only son and has a sister , his father is also still alive .the problem is his mother, she keep borrowing money in hundreds of thousands and expecting the son to repay those loans. She wouldn't even inform him before taking loans, he only gets to know about it when the loan sharks come knocking. He has been paying back loans that have run into

millions for the mother for the past 6 years. The painful part is when you ask her what she is using those monies for, she will always say she doesn't know or does not remember.
Each time after promising not to take loans anymore ,before you know it she will take another one. The son usually pay her monthly upkeep money so she is not lacking anything.

Right now she is in serious brand new debt and she's running to the son for rescue and he is fed up. He can't abandon the mother and also can't keep paying back loans he doesn't know anything about.


Stop giving her money, and see what happens
Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Fgo31: 10:05am On Feb 14
KingintheNorth:



Isn't this too harsh??
it is not o
Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Eternitymedia88: 10:08am On Feb 14
The solution is simple.... If she's in the village, call the public announcement people to go round and warn every lender about giving her loan.
Refuse to pay, she's borrowing because you are there to pay back.

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Kobicove(m): 10:10am On Feb 14
It's possible that one of those end-time prophets has the woman in his pocket undecided
Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Basic123: 10:11am On Feb 14
KingintheNorth:
Hi Guys. I am posting for a friend who doesn't want to be named but he seriously needs your advice and possible suggestions on this matter.

He is the only son and has a sister , his father is also still alive .the problem is his mother, she keep borrowing money in hundreds of thousands and expecting the son to repay those loans. She wouldn't even inform him before taking loans, he only gets to know about it when the loan sharks come knocking. He has been paying back loans that have run into millions for the mother for the past 6 years. The painful part is when you ask her what she is using those monies for, she will always say she doesn't know or does not remember.
Each time after promising not to take loans anymore ,before you know it she will take another one. The son usually pay her monthly upkeep money so she is not lacking anything.

Right now she is in serious brand new debt and she's running to the son for rescue and he is fed up. He can't abandon the mother and also can't keep paying back loans he doesn't know anything about.
He should take his mum to a psychiatrist first!
Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by kinibigdeal(m): 10:14am On Feb 14
KingintheNorth:
Hi Guys. I am posting for a friend who doesn't want to be named but he seriously needs your advice and possible suggestions on this matter.

He is the only son and has a sister , his father is also still alive .the problem is his mother, she keep borrowing money in hundreds of thousands and expecting the son to repay those loans. She wouldn't even inform him before taking loans, he only gets to know about it when the loan sharks come knocking. He has been paying back loans that have run into millions for the mother for the past 6 years. The painful part is when you ask her what she is using those monies for, she will always say she doesn't know or does not remember.
Each time after promising not to take loans anymore ,before you know it she will take another one. The son usually pay her monthly upkeep money so she is not lacking anything.

Right now she is in serious brand new debt and she's running to the son for rescue and he is fed up. He can't abandon the mother and also can't keep paying back loans he doesn't know anything about.


Tell your mother you just lost your job and you are back to job hunting. Tell her to also help you look for job as the only job you have and you're using to pay back the loan is gone. Pretend as if you're broke for some months. Cut the monthly stipends, delay it. She will stop collecting loan

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Think9ja(m): 10:16am On Feb 14
Stop repaying the loan.

Let her clean up her own mess.

Even if that means going to prison or anything like that. Yes, it will be shameful in the beginning but with time, you'll look back and realized you did the best thing.

The more you keep repaying, the more she keeps collecting.

She'll destroy you and you will never grow.

When my parents were busy paying back the debts my useless brother was collecting to play bet9ja, I gave them this same advice but they didn't take it, today, they are regretting because the guy is so, so, so, so ,so useless right now. He's a condemned property.

He is only waiting for his death because everyone who knows him no longer give a damn about him.

And guess what? He still hasn't stopped playing but whenever he's indebted, he absconds for like 2-3 months, and then come back when the dust has settled.

Unlike previously when he has people to clean his mess.

My advice is aside the monthly upkeep, never ever pay back any loan for her.

But I know you'll never take this advice. Good thing is you'll learn the hard way.

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by BarrElChapo(m): 10:18am On Feb 14
His father is still alive and the son is being hounded. Na the son no wan get sense. I'm sure the son takes care of them. He should learn to say I don't have.
Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by motionarena: 10:18am On Feb 14
KingintheNorth:
Hi Guys. I am posting for a friend who doesn't want to be named but he seriously needs your advice and possible suggestions on this matter.

He is the only son and has a sister , his father is also still alive .the problem is his mother, she keep borrowing money in hundreds of thousands and expecting the son to repay those loans. She wouldn't even inform him before taking loans, he only gets to know about it when the loan sharks come knocking. He has been paying back loans that have run into millions for the mother for the past 6 years. The painful part is when you ask her what she is using those monies for, she will always say she doesn't know or does not remember.
Each time after promising not to take loans anymore ,before you know it she will take another one. The son usually pay her monthly upkeep money so she is not lacking anything.

Right now she is in serious brand new debt and she's running to the son for rescue and he is fed up. He can't abandon the mother and also can't keep paying back loans he doesn't know anything about.

Sure she is spending it on a younger lover.
Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by damiloladuke: 10:19am On Feb 14
TheFreshVanilla:
Another stupiid fake story.

dey play! Some women are chronic debtors and once they know they have compassionate children, they do it on purpose since they know someone is comin to bail them

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Savedday2: 10:20am On Feb 14
She fit dey use the money dey knack small, small boys ooh!

This have seen a lot of times
Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by SirLakes: 10:21am On Feb 14
E be like everywhere too soft for mama and she wants adventure cheesy

Let her be in debts in peace

After all Nigeria sef dey in debt
Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by mrvitalis(m): 10:22am On Feb 14
KingintheNorth:


She has been asked about all the above , she denied having anything to do with the above. But still wouldn't or doesn't know what she does with money.
Tell here to provide her statement of account let u people trace the money simple

Follow the money u would get your answer

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