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| How True Is This About Getting Married by Chingyyy878(op): 9:37am On Feb 17, 2024 |
I need responses to make my decision 2 Likes
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| Re: How True Is This About Getting Married by WarrenP: 9:43am On Feb 17, 2024 |
Oga, marry early when you still dey energetic and young because if you marry when you dey older e don be for you especially when you no get money. 5 Likes |
| Re: How True Is This About Getting Married by labake1(f): 10:06am On Feb 17, 2024 |
The person is right, just mind the way you produce children 11 Likes |
| Re: How True Is This About Getting Married by decatalyst(m): 10:46am On Feb 17, 2024 |
The challenge here is not whether you marry or not, are you a goal driven person? Can you manage resources? Do you plan to double or triple that amount within a short time? Is your partner the one that is willing, ready, and able to support? She may be willing but not able due to her job (let's say transport takes much of her income or commitment to her immediate family) She may be able but not ready to support. At the end of the day, nah you go enjoy or suffer the results. Just have a crucial conversation with the person you want to settle with and practicalize it before you say "I do" ooo. E get why. 3 Likes |
| Re: How True Is This About Getting Married by ValCon888: 11:13am On Feb 17, 2024 |
N100K per month at this moment is less than $70. I just went shopping at Costco and spent more than that on groceries. Anyone that's advising you to marry in this great Tinubulation hates you. If you're earning 100k monthly, you belong to the Japa crew whether you like it or not. Instead of getting married, channel your resources to get out of this shit hole. Because the moment you marry, your chances of leaving naija becomes exponentially more difficult. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How True Is This About Getting Married by Nicepoker(m): 11:28am On Feb 17, 2024 |
With 100k you will end up marrying a jobless woman  earn better before you think of bringing those daughters out there into your house. 1 Like |
| Re: How True Is This About Getting Married by PerfectStranger(m): 11:30am On Feb 17, 2024 |
U spend over $70 just for groceries in this bastardised economy? Bro show me the way na 1 Like |
| Re: How True Is This About Getting Married by PerfectStranger(m): 11:30am On Feb 17, 2024 |
ValCon888: PerfectStranger: |
| Re: How True Is This About Getting Married by Demigod22: 11:57am On Feb 17, 2024 |
Why should a reasonable and realistic man get married earning only 100k? House rent, food, transportation, clothing, health, and miscellaneous. I can't invite anyone's daughter into poverty. I should have considerable amount of investment, savings, multiple streams of income before I can consider marriage. |
| Re: How True Is This About Getting Married by Chingyyy878(op): 3:44pm On Feb 17, 2024 |
Demigod22:But no one knows when the big money will come to settle down |
| Re: How True Is This About Getting Married by Iamcute(m): 4:35pm On Feb 17, 2024 |
Na to see the woman wey go fit manage with you currently, be the koko 1 Like |
| Re: How True Is This About Getting Married by Yorubafonja: 5:52pm On Feb 17, 2024 |
You can marry a Yoruba lady, But don't try 100k with IGbo lady 1 Like |
| Re: How True Is This About Getting Married by ITbomb(m): 6:18pm On Feb 17, 2024 |
ValCon888:True After my first daughter dropped, all zeal to leave just died. However, after the childbearing stage, I will make another attempt. Wife Material Focal Points -Contentment -Respect -Peace of mind -Skilled and making money /or government employee -Fruitful If she has the above, 100k can see you through 2 Likes |
| Re: How True Is This About Getting Married by Highman56: 8:26pm On Feb 17, 2024 |
Which state are you from? |
| Re: How True Is This About Getting Married by JOACHINpedro: 9:31pm On Feb 17, 2024 |
See advice. Sha, na fuxk dey worry most citizens here. Hunger fit kill them, they no care so far Toto dey 1 Like |
| Re: How True Is This About Getting Married by Remudiagan: 9:37pm On Feb 17, 2024 |
I don’t want to get married at all. Already got 6 nieces and nephews I’m funding. I plan to grow my business.be good to people.enjoy variety of women. I really don’t care if I die alone. 1 Like |
| Re: How True Is This About Getting Married by Chingyyy878(op): 9:46pm On Feb 17, 2024 |
Suicideboy:Wetin happen bros 😂 |
| Re: How True Is This About Getting Married by Karleb(m): 10:16pm On Feb 17, 2024 |
The guy giving that advice is in UK. If you don't want a life for yourself, why not. Listen to that and struggle till your old age like many of our older generations. 4 Likes |
| Re: How True Is This About Getting Married by PureFace1(m): 1:10am On Feb 18, 2024 |
Marriage is overrated Most Nigerians rush to marry to fulfill society expectations and out of society pressure. 3 Likes |
| Re: How True Is This About Getting Married by Tallesty1(m): 6:56am On Feb 18, 2024 |
ValCon888:Jaba to where exactly? Unless you're going to sell your father's house and last born, you're not going anywhere with that money. |
| Re: How True Is This About Getting Married by ValCon888: 7:07am On Feb 18, 2024 |
Tallesty1:That's why I said whether you like it or not. Because you have to hustle that money to find your way out. |
| Re: How True Is This About Getting Married by Chingyyy878(op): 11:13pm On Feb 18, 2024 |
ValCon888:True |
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