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Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by Ekulegold: 12:39pm On Mar 01 |
TheWinterBird: 1 Like |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by iamoyindamola(m): 12:40pm On Mar 01 |
Your sister na lord of the ring When he finish milking her dry he should be ready to marry someone else 1 Like |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by Latty88(f): 12:41pm On Mar 01 |
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Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by jayAjoku(m): 12:42pm On Mar 01 |
lacapine:he doesn’t have plans for her and she has possibly aborted a lot for him. Just leave her alone but advise her to look for a really serious man if she wants to be a mother and wife time is ticking away for her and not him 1 Like |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by iamtardey: 12:44pm On Mar 01 |
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Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by fykes(m): 12:51pm On Mar 01 |
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Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by lendahand(m): 12:52pm On Mar 01 |
PastorOlokonla:nnaa nekwanu ifeanyi oo😂😂 |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by pikechukwu6(m): 12:52pm On Mar 01 |
Allow the man to continue the mining. God is their muscle at 10yrs 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by fykes(m): 12:53pm On Mar 01 |
There's no template for life and living...leave them alone 1 Like |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by Yankiss(m): 12:56pm On Mar 01 |
MrBrownJay1:You nailed it. The guy zoned her primarily for sex and sexual urges affairs. If op gives the guy 100k, tmrw he will use it to insult the girl, that his brother paid for her marriage, blah blah. He should just advice the sister and do no more than that. It's well. I pity that girl. If he is not using means to control her then she's a relationship dunce! 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by Father4all: 12:58pm On Mar 01 |
No need for marriage na wey your good sister dey open her legs wella 1 Like |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by junketer(m): 1:00pm On Mar 01 |
Your sister has been used. The guy still wan use you too for the 100k. She was 24 when they started dating, now she's 34 and they are still dating. Your sister is a big fuuul. Na until she reach 45 she go get sense. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by TrackerSK: 1:03pm On Mar 01 |
lacapine:may God forgive our sins.I dated a lady like this for 15yrs but didn't marry her. |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by Parrot69: 1:04pm On Mar 01 |
lacapine:Must every relationship lead to marriage?? You should be happy the guy is helping oil your sisters Cuntus! Hello? Your job is to be telling the guy not to expand it too much. 3 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by jeromestarks: 1:07pm On Mar 01 |
lacapine:34 visionless female & 37 unserious male. What a wasteful combination. What kept your sister single till she clocked 34? Was she not approached by serious men when she was 18 - 23? But seriously, why are you pushing marriage? Is it your marriage? |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by spartachico(m): 1:08pm On Mar 01 |
A whole 37 years old man, na him you dey call boy, someone that is near 40 is a boy to you ...speechless 3 Likes |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by gigabyte13: 1:10pm On Mar 01 |
Your sister dey train adult pet.... Guy man no even see any reason to marry her or work harder, he just dey chop your sister financially and sexually. If your sister use that ten solid good years concentrate on her personal growth and development alone. She go don get company employ that lazy adult pet to dey work for her. YOUR SISTER IS LOVE TRAPPED NO BE JUJU OOOOOOOOOOO NA LOVE DEY HER EYESSSSSSS As in the guy still get mind asking you for money to marry your sister THE HEIGHT OF SEE FINISHHHHHHHHHHH 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by rajiedreez: 1:11pm On Mar 01 |
Your sister knows she's not the one the guy wants, she's just hoping he could change his mind about her |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by YelloweWest: 1:16pm On Mar 01 |
Never date a guy who us not ready for marriage! In a normal circumstance, a young lady should not date for more than a year. If he is not ready you move on! You biological clock won't stop ticking. By the time this guy is ready for marriage he will remember she is close to menopause. 2 Likes |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by Tradepunter2: 1:17pm On Mar 01 |
That guy will dump your sister for a younger lady..... Its a shame your sister is too weak to cut that dead weight from her life..... It's a shame 2 Likes |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by Weknowbetter: 1:27pm On Mar 01 |
If you give him that money, I guarantee it will not be spent on your sister or anything resembling a wedding. You need to pray for them and let it go. They are very much adults and have to live for themselves 2 Likes |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by GodHimself: 1:30pm On Mar 01 |
Leave them alone. Mind you, your sister might be the weight holding him back. Once you cause a breakup, the guy may start prospering, and then you become the enemy in your sister’s eyes. Leave well enough alone. lacapine: |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by Amazon35000(f): 1:30pm On Mar 01 |
Omo move on oo, tell your sis to move on.. you can voice out your issues here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DHEY5ifgY5M?si=__AqmIXkeNmJFPDb |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by Munzy14(m): 1:37pm On Mar 01 |
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Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by Badgers14: 1:38pm On Mar 01 |
lacapine: Would 100k be enough for the marriage? Is your sister aware of this ? What's her opinion? Let's say you gave them 100k for the wedding, would you give them some more money to rent a better house? Would you give them some money to raise there kids? By the way, why is your sister working but always broke, what does she do with her money? |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by adecz: 1:39pm On Mar 01 |
So long as they have been managing together & loving each other for 10 years, they can as well do a low key traditional marriage if the girl's family are willing to cooperate.. Your sister isnt getting younger & if the guy can't provide some basics to sustain a simple living, she should quickly abandon ship. A guy should at least be able to provide basic accommodation ( even if na room and parlor), and feeding. Without the basics, the guy definitely lacks the wherewithal to Marry & bring forth children to suffer❗️❗️❗️⭕️⭕️⭕️ |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by dettolgel: 1:47pm On Mar 01 |
lacapine: If you have the resources to take care of another family. You can call your sister and her boyfriend and ask them what the issue is. You can go ahead and pay for the wedding and then get ready to support them financially once the kids start coming. I have a friend that did that for his elder brother. He ended up building a house for his parents and asked the sister and husband to move in so they can also be of help to their mom. My friend elder brother does not have any job and the wife has small thing doing but my friend is the one paying for school fees of the 4 kids and he also sends them monthly upkeep. For him he is certain he will do that until either the brother's situation magically improve or that of the wife or till the first kids become an adult and can take over the responsibility. The choice is your bro. But if your concern is that you don't want your sister to be embarrassed down the road. Then you can trick them and pay for the wedding and after that they are on their own. But then your sister is going to suffer ooh. I guess you don't mind you are mostly concern about your sister not being left at a critical age. |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by damoobaba: 1:48pm On Mar 01 |
Babamide: Comment of the year. 2 Likes |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by SonofGod231: 1:59pm On Mar 01 |
You sound like someone whose only hope relies on the sister . Abeg,mind your own relationship and let them be. She's no kid. |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by Stevenbright(m): 2:03pm On Mar 01 |
This is just like how some girls chop serious guys money and be forming I am not ready yet, I have not organized my life yet, you are not romantic, wait let me finish school/NYSC, etc. One thing I noticed is that if one partner in any relationship shows commitment or seriousness too early, the other one starts drawing back, thinking he/she is too good to be with that partner. So, even if you have serious intentions, don't show it too early in the relationship. One thing you might do to help her out of the situation, is to match her with another guy you think is serious and capable. If it works between her and the new guy, fine but it can also prompt her present guy to sit-up, take her seriously and do the right thing. 3 Likes |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by PortHarcourtcit(m): 2:03pm On Mar 01 |
lacapine:he's just playing with your emotions |
Re: Is He Serious Or Just Playing With My Emotions by AfahaAbia(m): 2:07pm On Mar 01 |
spartachico: He is right. That 37 years old mofo deserves to be called a boy. Keeping a woman that long without marrying her is a big red flag! 3 Likes |
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