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rdsco:
First off, how old are you and how old do you think she is

rdsco:
I've forgotten what I wanted to type

BigBlackPreek:
Op have money, more money, more money

ThMysteriousMan:
Can you please walk me through how to initiate a conversation with her and ask her out? I appreciate the mature advice.

larryking78:
First Pray to God about it.

Initiating a conversation is not a big deal, just be bold and start with you want to buy something, then look at her face and tell something you notice about her smiles, her attention to details and her personality. She will listen more. Then tell her she's neat and calm, and etc.

Dating a lady is good, the process involves some thoughts heads up like ending in relationship, having sex together, then pregnancy, and babies in between, family starting and etc. So you need God first. Go and pray to God for direction. So that you will be on the right track. If God gives you peace of mind, you are good to approach her. But I hope it's not 30K salary you are collecting o, because that's a big Problem, don't date a lady while you are collected even 50K salary. That money is not enough for the 2 of u. Am sincere. Ensure you have good income above 100K in case she needs serious attention you can stand up.to.help.

Olorun a wa pelu e

Uchesis:
You want to toast babe for this bababluu regime? When guys like us don pursue the ones we get

Chingyyy878:
Bros e no too hard, just calmly reason with her. You no really need much talk.

You no need to cram many talks to talk to a woman. Just be yourself and most especially no lie or form Wetin you no be.

I hail !!

ThMysteriousMan:
Hello, everyone. I could really use your assistance. There's this chemist shop owned by a lady, and I often go there to buy drugs and other items when needed. However, I've recently noticed something—I'm developing feelings for her. We don't talk much, and it seems she might be a few years older than me. The truth is, I haven't dated a woman older than me, so I'm feeling a bit nervous. Can you please walk me through how to initiate a conversation with her and ask her out? I appreciate the mature advice.


Please this is very important, I really need a heads up.

talk2hb1:
Here are quick tips:

No Woman is above you, except your Mammy.

Talk to her as you will talk to other guys normal normal.

You can talk about anything, but start with what she is interested in first before you draw her to your domain.

Flirt with her a little, complement maybe her hair or clothes, bag, etc. (this could be the ice breaker for your first conversation)
"Nice Hairdo, Clothes, This color look good on you, blah, blah"

Ask about her clothes even if you know about it already, let her explain it.
You can talk about her school, her friends, what she loves doing, etc.

Ask for her help on a little something, to stamp you in her memory. And don't forget to reward her for that even if it was just a snacks.


Keep driving her towards your goal, making her your babe.

Focus on your mission and don't get carried away, so you won't get friendzone/brotherzone

Read her mood before initiating any sequence.

Don't get too excited and intimidated she might be interested in you too, but too shy to approach you.

Don't expect it to work out fine, she can slap you, shout on you, reject you. Shits happens, move on but remember the lesson learnt from her.

ThMysteriousMan:
Hello, everyone. I could really use your assistance. There's this chemist shop owned by a lady, and I often go there to buy drugs and other items when needed. However, I've recently noticed something—I'm developing feelings for her. We don't talk much, and it seems she might be a few years older than me. The truth is, I haven't dated a woman older than me, so I'm feeling a bit nervous. Can you please walk me through how to initiate a conversation with her and ask her out? I appreciate the mature advice.


Please this is very important, I really need a heads up.