Hello, everyone. I could really use your assistance. There's this chemist shop owned by a lady, and I often go there to buy drugs and other items when needed. However, I've recently noticed something—I'm developing feelings for her. We don't talk much, and it seems she might be a few years older than me. The truth is, I haven't dated a woman older than me, so I'm feeling a bit nervous. Can you please walk me through how to initiate a conversation with her and ask her out? I appreciate the mature advice.


Please this is very important, I really need a heads up.

rdsco:
First off, how old are you and how old do you think she is

I'm 27, but I always seem to guess women's ages wrong. I'm not sure if she has crossed 30.

rdsco:
I've forgotten what I wanted to type

Please guys, I need the real OGs here

Op have money, more money, more money.money answers all things

BigBlackPreek:
Op have money, more money, more money

I know.

Those who don't have money still find a way to balance Life.

ThMysteriousMan:

Can you please walk me through how to initiate a conversation with her and ask her out? I appreciate the mature advice.

First Pray to God about it.

Initiating a conversation is not a big deal, just be bold and start with you want to buy something, then look at her face and tell something you notice about her smiles, her attention to details and her personality. She will listen more. Then tell her she's neat and calm, and etc.

Dating a lady is good, the process involves some thoughts heads up like ending in relationship, having sex together, then pregnancy, and babies in between, family starting and etc. So you need God first. Go and pray to God for direction. So that you will be on the right track. If God gives you peace of mind, you are good to approach her. But I hope it's not 30K salary you are collecting o, because that's a big Problem, don't date a lady while you are collected even 50K salary. That money is not enough for the 2 of u. Am sincere. Ensure you have good income above 100K in case she needs serious attention you can stand up.to.help.

Olorun a wa pelu e

larryking78:

First Pray to God about it.

Initiating a conversation is not a big deal, just be bold and start with you want to buy something, then look at her face and tell something you notice about her smiles, her attention to details and her personality. She will listen more. Then tell her she's neat and calm, and etc.

Dating a lady is good, the process involves some thoughts heads up like ending in relationship, having sex together, then pregnancy, and babies in between, family starting and etc. So you need God first. Go and pray to God for direction. So that you will be on the right track. If God gives you peace of mind, you are good to approach her. But I hope it's not 30K salary you are collecting o, because that's a big Problem, don't date a lady while you are collected even 50K salary. That money is not enough for the 2 of u. Am sincere. Ensure you have good income above 100K in case she needs serious attention you can stand up.to.help.

Olorun a wa pelu e

I'm not too religious,

Omo, I didn't know that it will require much Sha.

Thanks for your input, I appreciate

I still need more heads up please

You want to toast babe for this bababluu regime? When guys like us don pursue the ones we get

Uchesis:
You want to toast babe for this bababluu regime? When guys like us don pursue the ones we get

No matter the situation, once you are alive,life must go on. That you pursue your babe no mean everyone should.

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Bros e no too hard, just calmly reason with her. You no really need much talk.

You no need to cram many talks to talk to a woman. Just be yourself and most especially no lie or form Wetin you no be.

I hail !!

Chingyyy878:
Bros e no too hard, just calmly reason with her. You no really need much talk.

You no need to cram many talks to talk to a woman. Just be yourself and most especially no lie or form Wetin you no be.

I hail !!

I get.

ThMysteriousMan:
Hello, everyone. I could really use your assistance. There's this chemist shop owned by a lady, and I often go there to buy drugs and other items when needed. However, I've recently noticed something—I'm developing feelings for her. We don't talk much, and it seems she might be a few years older than me. The truth is, I haven't dated a woman older than me, so I'm feeling a bit nervous. Can you please walk me through how to initiate a conversation with her and ask her out? I appreciate the mature advice.


Please this is very important, I really need a heads up.

Here are quick tips:

No Woman is above you, except your Mammy.

Talk to her as you will talk to other guys normal normal.

You can talk about anything, but start with what she is interested in first before you draw her to your domain.

Flirt with her a little, complement maybe her hair or clothes, bag, etc. (this could be the ice breaker for your first conversation)
"Nice Hairdo, Clothes, This color look good on you, blah, blah"

Ask about her clothes even if you know about it already, let her explain it.
You can talk about her school, her friends, what she loves doing, etc.

Ask for her help on a little something, to stamp you in her memory. And don't forget to reward her for that even if it was just a snacks.


Keep driving her towards your goal, making her your babe.

Focus on your mission and don't get carried away, so you won't get friendzone/brotherzone

Read her mood before initiating any sequence.

Don't get too excited and intimidated she might be interested in you too, but too shy to approach you.

Don't expect it to work out fine, she can slap you, shout on you, reject you. Shits happens, move on but remember the lesson learnt from her.

talk2hb1:

Here are quick tips:

No Woman is above you, except your Mammy.

Talk to her as you will talk to other guys normal normal.

You can talk about anything, but start with what she is interested in first before you draw her to your domain.

Flirt with her a little, complement maybe her hair or clothes, bag, etc. (this could be the ice breaker for your first conversation)
"Nice Hairdo, Clothes, This color look good on you, blah, blah"

Ask about her clothes even if you know about it already, let her explain it.
You can talk about her school, her friends, what she loves doing, etc.

Ask for her help on a little something, to stamp you in her memory. And don't forget to reward her for that even if it was just a snacks.


Keep driving her towards your goal, making her your babe.

Focus on your mission and don't get carried away, so you won't get friendzone/brotherzone

Read her mood before initiating any sequence.

Don't get too excited and intimidated she might be interested in you too, but too shy to approach you.

Don't expect it to work out fine, she can slap you, shout on you, reject you. Shits happens, move on but remember the lesson learnt from her.

🙌🙌🙌

First step, Do you know how to smile very well? I mean a funny smile like that of an slowpoke but with confidence . Whenever you go to buy at her shop, just give her such a smile and walk away. Do this like five times and make sure she notices your similes each time you go there. She will surely smile back at you each time and with that you are already warming her hearts and preparing a good ground for rapports.

The next step, Start talking and passing jokes ate her.

The last step, ask if you could both go grab some lunch together someday.

You will come back and thank me here

ThMysteriousMan:
Hello, everyone. I could really use your assistance. There's this chemist shop owned by a lady, and I often go there to buy drugs and other items when needed. However, I've recently noticed something—I'm developing feelings for her. We don't talk much, and it seems she might be a few years older than me. The truth is, I haven't dated a woman older than me, so I'm feeling a bit nervous. Can you please walk me through how to initiate a conversation with her and ask her out? I appreciate the mature advice.


Please this is very important, I really need a heads up.

Before you develop the feelings for her, Watch this video


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dCY8eRNCc6w?si=Gc2XgUtBAEW-DTmi