| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by TUANKU(m): 8:53pm On Mar 03 |
ObalendeCMS:
I can share alot about me with you & you'll still won't know a thing about me.
I will scatter your head. Dey play. |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by okeke6969: 8:57pm On Mar 03 |
coputa:
1. The less you share, the less people will be in your personal life.
2. You'll slowly stop caring about people's opinion on you.
3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you.
4. If everyone is your friend, you've a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information.
5. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy and more time alone.
6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key and telling no one about your life.
7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals.
8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level.
9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely.
10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack.
11. People will want to know more about you when you talk less about yourself.
12. People don't care so much about you. They only care on what you can offer. No. 12 is the real thing. Simple put. 1 Like |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by Eriokanmi: 8:58pm On Mar 03 |
coputa:
1. The less you share, the less people will be in your personal life.
2. You'll slowly stop caring about people's opinion on you.
3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you.
4. If everyone is your friend, you've a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information.
5. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy and more time alone.
6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key and telling no one about your life.
7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals.
8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level.
9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely.
10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack.
11. People will want to know more about you when you talk less about yourself.
12. People don't care so much about you. They only care on what you can offer. Simply put, the less you yearn about yourself, the safer for you. Never reveal your identity on social media. The less said, the better. Jane Austen 4 Likes |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by okeke6969: 8:59pm On Mar 03 |
coputa:
1. The less you share, the less people will be in your personal life.
2. You'll slowly stop caring about people's opinion on you.
3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you.
4. If everyone is your friend, you've a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information.
5. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy and more time alone.
6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key and telling no one about your life.
7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals.
8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level.
9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely.
10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack.
11. People will want to know more about you when you talk less about yourself.
12. People don't care so much about you. They only care on what you can offer. No. 12 is the real thing. Simply put. |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by GodHimself: 9:04pm On Mar 03 |
💯 coputa:
1. The less you share, the less people will be in your personal life.
2. You'll slowly stop caring about people's opinion on you.
3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you.
4. If everyone is your friend, you've a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information.
5. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy and more time alone.
6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key and telling no one about your life.
7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals.
8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level.
9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely.
10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack.
11. People will want to know more about you when you talk less about yourself.
12. People don't care so much about you. They only care on what you can offer. |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by Verbtips(m): 9:05pm On Mar 03 |
PastorOlokonla:
That is me 100%.
I only have one friend in the world who I share things.
I have turned down countless friendship attempts by others. That way, I enjoy my peace and quiet.
When you meet Nigerians for the first time, they like to interrogate and get all info about you. every body na my friend but few are choosen since every body na my friend everybody na my enemy becus you know fit know who dey do u so am careful and tell you the fvck i don't want and if you trespass you go collect i don't care 2 Likes |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by jeromestarks: 9:05pm On Mar 03 |
What is unnamed can not be known. What is unknown can not be harmed.
What they don't know, they can not destroy. 2 Likes |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:09pm On Mar 03 |
coputa:
1. The less you share, the less people will be in your personal life... as much as not everyone should be in your personal life, your close friend/family should be in your personal life, unless you wanna end up a sad loner
2. You'll slowly stop caring about people's opinion on you. as much as the opinion of total strangers is irrelevant to you, the opinion of your close friends/family/loved ones should matter
3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you. making someone aware of what you are about to do is also a security feature in your life, so people know what you are about to do and where you are about to go, regardless of how they feel about it.
4. If everyone is your friend, you've a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information. in life, you have to trust SOMEONE with your personal information. like your close family members and close friends etc
5. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy and more time alone.some sad loners need to be by themselves and live a lonely life, while others dont. to each their own misery in life
6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key and telling no one about your life. with some business moves, yes! with more simple things in life, why exactly? if you believe that everyone is your enemy then you have a very sorry life.
7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals. as they say: if you wanna go quicker then by all means go alone, but if you wanna go longer, surround yourself with caring/loving/positive people in your life
8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level. YES, and when you finally connect to the right amazing person then get with them and share an amazing fantastic life with them...and if/when its over, do it again with another amazing fantastic person. life is to be lived with someone and share together amazing time, but also to have someone with whom you can open up emotionally and let them know when you are down so they can cheer/lift you up etc
9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely.the idea is not to NEVER be alone, the idea is to live a fantastic life and create fantastic memories with someone, regardless of whether they will leave or not.
10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack.not everyone in your life is there to "attack" you. some are there to uplift you, others to support you, and some even to care/love you regardless of how you feel about them
11. People will want to know more about you when you talk less about yourself. thats what normally happens when you start to be all quiet/mysterious for no damn reason
12. People don't care so much about you. They only care on what you can offer. LIES coming from loners who have difficulties interacting with people OR trying to impress the wrong people. the right people DO care about you. if not a single person cares about you then you have a sorry life and should probably look within yourself to figure out what is so foul about you that nobody gives a damn about your being 5 Likes |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by Eunoiaa(f): 9:21pm On Mar 03 |
I know 99% of people who will comment on this thread will all be "private, introverted, lone wolf" individuals who never gush about themselves, LMAOOOO.  Even the chatterboxes and babbling brooks. |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by Eunoiaa(f): 9:22pm On Mar 03 |
Mr Brown Jay1:
. . . Where has this account been? 🤣🤣🤣 I've totally missed their form of "antagonism." 1 Like |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by correctguy101(m): 9:35pm On Mar 03 |
coputa:
1. The less you share, the less people will be in your personal life.
2. You'll slowly stop caring about people's opinion on you.
3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you.
4. If everyone is your friend, you've a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information.
5. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy and more time alone.
6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key and telling no one about your life.
7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals.
8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level.
9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely.
10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack.
11. People will want to know more about you when you talk less about yourself.
12. People don't care so much about you. They only care on what you can offer. Known no. 12 to be true... Experience is a ruthless teacher oftentimes... Smh |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by madjune(m): 10:09pm On Mar 03 |
You can't achieve the contradictions of any cause that's human in the company of men.
It will be derailed.
You do it alone.
Quote me anyday on this. 1 Like |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by Damian911: 10:38pm On Mar 03 |
That's me 100% op
A closet introvert building my life gradually
Sometimes I wonder with the money (savings) I already have I believe no one will know this small boy has or can even dream of getting such I'm grateful to the almighty for that.
I don't share my life with anyone so as to prevent envy 5 Likes |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by Myer(m): 11:19pm On Mar 03 |
coputa:
1. The less you share, the less people will be in your personal life.
2. You'll slowly stop caring about people's opinion on you.
3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you.
4. If everyone is your friend, you've a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information.
5. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy and more time alone.
6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key and telling no one about your life.
7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals.
8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level.
9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely.
10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack.
11. People will want to know more about you when you talk less about yourself.
12. People don't care so much about you. They only care on what you can offer. WORDED. Thanks for sharing. 3 Likes |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by j3r3myk3n(m): 11:22pm On Mar 03 |
Keep quite, you ho,
A friend could turn a foe. 
So what happens when you lose such friend?
You're left with a hole.
Oh oh! 
You're welcome.
1 Like |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by muyico(m): 11:51pm On Mar 03 |
Gat it!! E specially to oda gender |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by cobby14(m): 12:46am On Mar 04 |
I‘ve too many friends and yes it’s a problem |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by StreetTyga: 12:51am On Mar 04 |
coputa:
1. The less you share, the less people will be in your personal life.
2. You'll slowly stop caring about people's opinion on you.
3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you.
4. If everyone is your friend, you've a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information.
5. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy and more time alone.
6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key and telling no one about your life.
7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals.
8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level.
9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely.
10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack.
11. People will want to know more about you when you talk less about yourself.
12. People don't care so much about you. They only care on what you can offer. That's dey ur dey ... hailing from afar. That's normal mode ... line 7 strike the most. 2 Likes |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by realestate99: 3:56am On Mar 04 |
PastorOlokonla:
That is me 100%.
I only have one friend in the world who I share things.
I have turned down countless friendship attempts by others. That way, I enjoy my peace and quiet.
When you meet Nigerians for the first time, they like to interrogate and get all info about you. Pastor Olokonla, you are right. |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by Dancebreaker: 4:01am On Mar 04 |
ifinger:
The only person deserving of our[b] plan is our wife[/b] else keep it to yourself ! Your colleagues at work are not your confidants That sef na if na good wife you get. Most these days nor even deserve to know as they are plan/dream killers. |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by PastorOlokonla: 4:14am On Mar 04 |
realestate99:
Pastor Olokonla, you are right. Why are you putting my name in bold? Mind you I am a minister and I do farming by the side so I have this big farm hence my moniker. |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by bluefilm: 8:15am On Mar 04 |
The true definition of a Sigma Male 2 Likes |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by MartinsD12(m): 8:21am On Mar 04 |
coputa:
1. The less you share, the less people will be in your personal life.
2. You'll slowly stop caring about people's opinion on you.
3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you.
4. If everyone is your friend, you've a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information.
5. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy and more time alone.
6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key and telling no one about your life.
7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals.
8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level.
9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely.
10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack.
11. People will want to know more about you when you talk less about yourself.
12. People don't care so much about you. They only care on what you can offer. Very interesting piece, safe guard yourself jealously and meticulously, everything you do in this life should be known to you and only you , some people in this life will go extra length to stop that dream or plan of yours the moment you share it , the great Oriental Brothers International Band sang in one of there epic life teaching lesson song onyeoma madu n' eji egbuya meaning na who know man dey kill am or in simple English the enemy is your friend, a stranger who doesn't know you can't do you anything it's always does your friends you share your secret with , guide your life jealously, I don talk my own, people don't like people, people hate for no reason, kill for no reason , envy everywhere. 2 Likes |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by Greattha: 8:23am On Mar 04 |
Spot on. Same here....only one best friend...and we live together. If everyone is happy with you, you're doing something wrong. PastorOlokonla:
That is me 100%.
I only have one friend in the world who I share things.
I have turned down countless friendship attempts by others. That way, I enjoy my peace and quiet.
When you meet Nigerians for the first time, they like to interrogate and get all info about you. 1 Like |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by SurveyR: 9:57am On Mar 04 |
Newton2024:
#12 is a golden truth. Thanks for sharing. 12 said it's all, no doubt...they don't give a F about you. |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by ifinger: 10:43am On Mar 04 |
Dancebreaker:
That sef na if na good wife you get. Most these days nor even deserve to know as they are plan/dream killers. Agreed 💯 . I don see married women wey dem dey finger for office for my mind I be like this one too go de form better wife for em husband for house 1 Like |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by coputa(m): 11:10am On Mar 04 |
MartinsD12:
Very interesting piece, safe guard yourself jealously and meticulously, everything you do in this life should be known to you and only you , some people in this life will go extra length to stop that dream or plan of yours the moment you share it , the great Oriental Brothers International Band sang in one of there epic life teaching lesson song onyeoma madu n' eji egbuya meaning na who know man dey kill am or in simple English the enemy is your friend, a stranger who doesn't know you can't do you anything it's always does your friends you share your secret with , guide your life jealously, I don talk my own, people don't like people, people hate for no reason, kill for no reason , envy everywhere. you hits the nail on the the head |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by Badadvisor: 11:39am On Mar 04 |
Damian911:
That's me 100% op
A closet introvert building my life gradually
Sometimes I wonder with the money (savings) I already have I believe no one will know this small boy has or can even dream of getting such I'm grateful to the almighty for that.
I don't share my life with anyone so as to prevent envy Same here man. Sometimes if i reason how much I get sef if I tell person nobody go believe. How old are you though? 1 Like |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by Dancebreaker: 12:11pm On Mar 04 |
ifinger:
Agreed 💯 . I don see married women wey dem dey finger for office for my mind I be like this one too go de form better wife for em husband for house Lol. Finger good na. If na im hubby even get all the pikin wey she born for house na another question. Any man who does not do paternity test on his kids is either poor, ignorant or knows that he's infertile but wants kids anyway. No woman, I repeat, no woman deserves to be trusted on that front. |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by Damian911: 1:57pm On Mar 04 |
Badadvisor:
Same here man. Sometimes if i reason how much I get sef if I tell person nobody go believe.
How old are you though? Waoh bro I'm a 20yr old cashier at a bet shop. I've been saving since 2021 October currently saved 930k #400k currently with me and the rest still with my parents. I planning to establish my own shop God willing this year how about you 3 Likes |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by Blankstare(m): 3:53pm On Mar 04 |
Damian911:
Waoh bro
I'm a 20yr old cashier at a bet shop. I've been saving since 2021 October currently saved 930k
#400k currently with me and the rest still with my parents. I planning to establish my own shop God willing this year how about you How best do you save your funds..? Bank or.. |
| Re: Why You Should Share Less About Yourself With Others by Damian911: 4:03pm On Mar 04 |
Blankstare:
How best do you save your funds..? Bank or.. Like I said earlier #400k with me is currently in my palmpay account, over 80% in fixed deposit |
