I feel i should share this here!.
I have grown up to set certain standards for myself because of my past experiences in relationships. Twice I have bowed out of engagements that almost led to marriages I would either have been a very unhappy married woman at the end or not survive it for long.

The first,engaged after we dated for 8months,a little delay occurred because of my nature of job and along the line I noticed he was obsessed about me,never good if you or your partner is obsessed about each other it doesn't end well.

The second,having opened up my past to him used it against me at any slightest chance he had,another red flag in relationships. It wasn't healthy for me,had to bow out.Anyone can judge me,it is OK by me but I want to marry and live peacefully in my marriage,though 109% of it is not guaranteed.No one walks into a furnace with his eyes open.
Why am I sharing this? When in relationship,watch out for some red flags you know you can't endure or tolerate tomorrow.Better marry late than be late. May our heart desires be me