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ObalendeCMS:
I can share alot about me with you & you'll still won't know a thing about me.

I will scatter your head.

coputa:
1. The less you share, the less people will be in your personal life.

2. You'll slowly stop caring about people's opinion on you.

3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you.

4. If everyone is your friend, you've a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information.

5. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy and more time alone.

6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key and telling no one about your life.

7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals.

8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level.

9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely.

10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack.

11. People will want to know more about you when you talk less about yourself.

12. People don't care so much about you. They only care on what you can offer.

coputa:
1. The less you share, the less people will be in your personal life.

2. You'll slowly stop caring about people's opinion on you.

3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you.

4. If everyone is your friend, you've a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information.

5. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy and more time alone.

6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key and telling no one about your life.

7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals.

8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level.

9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely.

10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack.

11. People will want to know more about you when you talk less about yourself.

12. People don't care so much about you. They only care on what you can offer.

coputa:
1. The less you share, the less people will be in your personal life.

2. You'll slowly stop caring about people's opinion on you.

3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you.

4. If everyone is your friend, you've a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information.

5. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy and more time alone.

6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key and telling no one about your life.

7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals.

8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level.

9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely.

10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack.

11. People will want to know more about you when you talk less about yourself.

12. People don't care so much about you. They only care on what you can offer.

coputa:
1. The less you share, the less people will be in your personal life.

2. You'll slowly stop caring about people's opinion on you.

3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you.

4. If everyone is your friend, you've a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information.

5. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy and more time alone.

6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key and telling no one about your life.

7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals.

8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level.

9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely.

10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack.

11. People will want to know more about you when you talk less about yourself.

12. People don't care so much about you. They only care on what you can offer.

PastorOlokonla:
That is me 100%.

I only have one friend in the world who I share things.

I have turned down countless friendship attempts by others. That way, I enjoy my peace and quiet.
When you meet Nigerians for the first time, they like to interrogate and get all info about you.

coputa:
1. The less you share, the less people will be in your personal life... as much as not everyone should be in your personal life, your close friend/family should be in your personal life, unless you wanna end up a sad loner

2. You'll slowly stop caring about people's opinion on you. as much as the opinion of total strangers is irrelevant to you, the opinion of your close friends/family/loved ones should matter

3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you. making someone aware of what you are about to do is also a security feature in your life, so people know what you are about to do and where you are about to go, regardless of how they feel about it.

4. If everyone is your friend, you've a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information. in life, you have to trust SOMEONE with your personal information. like your close family members and close friends etc

5. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy and more time alone.some sad loners need to be by themselves and live a lonely life, while others dont. to each their own misery in life

6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key and telling no one about your life. with some business moves, yes! with more simple things in life, why exactly? if you believe that everyone is your enemy then you have a very sorry life.

7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals. as they say: if you wanna go quicker then by all means go alone, but if you wanna go longer, surround yourself with caring/loving/positive people in your life

8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level. YES, and when you finally connect to the right amazing person then get with them and share an amazing fantastic life with them...and if/when its over, do it again with another amazing fantastic person. life is to be lived with someone and share together amazing time, but also to have someone with whom you can open up emotionally and let them know when you are down so they can cheer/lift you up etc

9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely.the idea is not to NEVER be alone, the idea is to live a fantastic life and create fantastic memories with someone, regardless of whether they will leave or not.

10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack.not everyone in your life is there to "attack" you. some are there to uplift you, others to support you, and some even to care/love you regardless of how you feel about them

11. People will want to know more about you when you talk less about yourself. thats what normally happens when you start to be all quiet/mysterious for no damn reason

12. People don't care so much about you. They only care on what you can offer. LIES coming from loners who have difficulties interacting with people OR trying to impress the wrong people. the right people DO care about you. if not a single person cares about you then you have a sorry life and should probably look within yourself to figure out what is so foul about you that nobody gives a damn about your being

Mr Brown Jay1:
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coputa:
1. The less you share, the less people will be in your personal life.

2. You'll slowly stop caring about people's opinion on you.

3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you.

4. If everyone is your friend, you've a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information.

5. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy and more time alone.

6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key and telling no one about your life.

7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals.

8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level.

9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely.

10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack.

11. People will want to know more about you when you talk less about yourself.

12. People don't care so much about you. They only care on what you can offer.

coputa:
1. The less you share, the less people will be in your personal life.

2. You'll slowly stop caring about people's opinion on you.

3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you.

4. If everyone is your friend, you've a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information.

5. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy and more time alone.

6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key and telling no one about your life.

7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals.

8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level.

9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely.

10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack.

11. People will want to know more about you when you talk less about yourself.

12. People don't care so much about you. They only care on what you can offer.

coputa:
1. The less you share, the less people will be in your personal life.

2. You'll slowly stop caring about people's opinion on you.

3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you.

4. If everyone is your friend, you've a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information.

5. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy and more time alone.

6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key and telling no one about your life.

7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals.

8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level.

9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely.

10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack.

11. People will want to know more about you when you talk less about yourself.

12. People don't care so much about you. They only care on what you can offer.

PastorOlokonla:
That is me 100%.

I only have one friend in the world who I share things.

I have turned down countless friendship attempts by others. That way, I enjoy my peace and quiet.
When you meet Nigerians for the first time, they like to interrogate and get all info about you.

ifinger:
The only person deserving of our[b] plan is our wife[/b] else keep it to yourself ! Your colleagues at work are not your confidants

realestate99:
Pastor Olokonla, you are right.

coputa:
1. The less you share, the less people will be in your personal life.

2. You'll slowly stop caring about people's opinion on you.

3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you.

4. If everyone is your friend, you've a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information.

5. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy and more time alone.

6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key and telling no one about your life.

7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals.

8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level.

9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely.

10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack.

11. People will want to know more about you when you talk less about yourself.

12. People don't care so much about you. They only care on what you can offer.

PastorOlokonla:
That is me 100%.

I only have one friend in the world who I share things.

I have turned down countless friendship attempts by others. That way, I enjoy my peace and quiet.
When you meet Nigerians for the first time, they like to interrogate and get all info about you.

Newton2024:
#12 is a golden truth. Thanks for sharing.

Dancebreaker:
That sef na if na good wife you get. Most these days nor even deserve to know as they are plan/dream killers.

MartinsD12:
Very interesting piece, safe guard yourself jealously and meticulously, everything you do in this life should be known to you and only you , some people in this life will go extra length to stop that dream or plan of yours the moment you share it , the great Oriental Brothers International Band sang in one of there epic life teaching lesson song onyeoma madu n' eji egbuya meaning na who know man dey kill am or in simple English the enemy is your friend, a stranger who doesn't know you can't do you anything it's always does your friends you share your secret with , guide your life jealously, I don talk my own, people don't like people, people hate for no reason, kill for no reason , envy everywhere.

Damian911:
That's me 100% op
A closet introvert building my life gradually
Sometimes I wonder with the money (savings) I already have I believe no one will know this small boy has or can even dream of getting such I'm grateful to the almighty for that.
I don't share my life with anyone so as to prevent envy

ifinger:
Agreed 💯 . I don see married women wey dem dey finger for office for my mind I be like this one too go de form better wife for em husband for house

Badadvisor:
Same here man. Sometimes if i reason how much I get sef if I tell person nobody go believe.
How old are you though?

Damian911:
Waoh bro
I'm a 20yr old cashier at a bet shop. I've been saving since 2021 October currently saved 930k
#400k currently with me and the rest still with my parents. I planning to establish my own shop God willing this year how about you

Blankstare:
How best do you save your funds..? Bank or..