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Girls don't like good guys until she's well damaged beyond repair then they will begin to look for good guys.

She will still choose that her cheating boyfriend 100 times over you, you don rush settle her bills and get her a befitting phone so that you will be a good man, still she chose her cheating bad boy boyfriend over you. Have you asked yourself why her cheating boyfriend didn't buy her phone? Make Una try get sense.

I hope you've changed your mum's and sister's phone to a new one? Cause that's the only way I can forgive such foolishness.

Muyiddeen:
Hello guys I need your advice I met a girl ask her out so she told me she have a boyfriend but her boyfriend doesn't take the relationship serious reason because he tell lies and womanize alot.... she don't want to continue the relationship with him anymore...

so, I convince her that my own time with her will be different from her boyfriend and she accepted me and we started the relationship the relationship was going well smooth and nice along the line she requested for some money and also she asked me to get her a new phone because the phone was bad so for the sake of love and care I have for her I provided her the money she requested and also provide her a better phone....

recently, she begin to act up somehow whenever I called her on phone telling her that I would like to see her she will say she's busy, she's always busy so I begin to suspect her that was happening so during the weekend she told me that her ex-boyfriend is back again and both of them were together when she was telling me she's busy because she doesn't want her ex to know what is happening that was the reason so she told me was was busy with work....

so she pleaded that we should end the relationship we just started, since we have been dating I have spent money on her and I have also get her a better phone
my question now the phone I bought for her should I collect it back or I should leave the phone with her let her go with it and continue her relationship with her former guy

Seems you stopped giving her enough money reason why she returned to her Ex boyfriend. Increase the money you are giving her and change the phone to iPhone 15 Pro max, then watch how she will love you better and leave her ex.

Elzazzi:
Seems you stopped giving her enough money reason why she returned to her Ex boyfriend. Increase the money you are giving her and change the phone to iPhone 15 Pro max, then watch how she will love you better and leave her ex.

lol...don't do this to a fellow lad...

WantsandMore:
lol...don't do this to a fellow lad...

Lol. Just an harmless advice na

Muyiddeen:
Hello guys I need your advice I met a girl ask her out so she told me she have a boyfriend but her boyfriend doesn't take the relationship serious reason because he tell lies and womanize alot.... she don't want to continue the relationship with him anymore...

so, I convince her that my own time with her will be different from her boyfriend and she accepted me and we started the relationship the relationship was going well smooth and nice along the line she requested for some money and also she asked me to get her a new phone because the phone was bad so for the sake of love and care I have for her I provided her the money she requested and also provide her a better phone....

recently, she begin to act up somehow whenever I called her on phone telling her that I would like to see her she will say she's busy, she's always busy so I begin to suspect her that was happening so during the weekend she told me that her ex-boyfriend is back again and both of them were together when she was telling me she's busy because she doesn't want her ex to know what is happening that was the reason so she told me was was busy with work....

so she pleaded that we should end the relationship we just started, since we have been dating I have spent money on her and I have also get her a better phone
my question now the phone I bought for her should I collect it back or I should leave the phone with her let her go with it and continue her relationship with her former guy

You deserve an award... Ode buruku!

Everbody makes their own bed then has to lie in it. You were foolish to lavish money on this girl from the start. You cannot buy love or affection.
But you decided to buy the phone and spend money on her. Forget the outlay, let it go. She does not seem worthy of your affection. Move on. I am not sure whether you slept with her, if you did, just think of the phone as payment for three minutes of sexual gratification and move forward. forget her and put this down to experience. In this life, aim high or don't aim at all...

Mr Muyideen,I no wan talk say you dey act like mumu but you sef should judge yourself.The girl doesn't love you right from the start,she just needed you to change her phone. I hope her name doesn't reflect on the receipt issued after purchase of the phone?If na her name,oga just cut your loss and never repeat similar mistake because if you forcefully collect that phone,oga na another round of trouble and this time na police go exploit and extort you. If na your name dey on that reciept find all legal means to retrieve back your property.

Change am for am, no time to feel liike a hero of love. Ask for your phone back and yyour money, tell her you gave the money to her loan as she requested. Dont take it lightly with her, she used you

This is a criminal offense

Op too mumu

See your life outside, shame

She should be hiding the ex boyfriend from you not the other way Round

She never broke up with her acclaimed ex boyfriend, she just manipulated and achieved some of her financial needs through pretence

You know what to do

How can I unsee this

Muyiddeen:
Hello guys I need your advice I met a girl ask her out so she told me she have a boyfriend but her boyfriend doesn't take the relationship serious reason because he tell lies and womanize alot.... she don't want to continue the relationship with him anymore...

so, I convince her that my own time with her will be different from her boyfriend and she accepted me and we started the relationship the relationship was going well smooth and nice along the line she requested for some money and also she asked me to get her a new phone because the phone was bad so for the sake of love and care I have for her I provided her the money she requested and also provide her a better phone....

recently, she begin to act up somehow whenever I called her on phone telling her that I would like to see her she will say she's busy, she's always busy so I begin to suspect her that was happening so during the weekend she told me that her ex-boyfriend is back again and both of them were together when she was telling me she's busy because she doesn't want her ex to know what is happening that was the reason so she told me was was busy with work....

so she pleaded that we should end the relationship we just started, since we have been dating I have spent money on her and I have also get her a better phone
my question now the phone I bought for her should I collect it back or I should leave the phone with her let her go with it and continue her relationship with her former guy

She just used and played you, don't take it easily with her

Find a way to get back your phone and also let her boyfriend know of your relationship with her, tell her boyfriend she has been cheating on him with you. I bet that her boyfriend will break up with her and it would be very painful to her more than anything. Give her a big dose of the pain

PureFace1:
She just used and played you, don't take it easily with her

Find a way to get back your phone and also let her boyfriend know of your relationship with her, tell her boyfriend she has been cheating on him with you. I bet that her boyfriend will break up with her and it would be very painful to her more than anything. Give her a big dose of the pain

From the write up ,you can see the boyfriend doesn't take the relationship seriously. He is only using her to catch cruise,how are you even sure the boyfriend and the girl didn't collude to play a fast one on this our bros OP.

Usmanovic95:
From the write up ,you can see the boyfriend doesn't take the relationship seriously. He is only using her to catch cruise,how are you even sure the boyfriend and the girl didn't collude to play a fast one on this our bros OP.

I'm sure they didn't collude

that guy didn't really know about their affairs

Even if he's not serious with her it doesn't mean he would tolerate every bullshits, he is the type that won't tolerate cheating even if he cheat a lot.

Okay..
Thread carefully..
Maxikenna..
Pls I want to have a word

Wetin pain me pass be say if him fellow man ask am for help, he go call am lazy or neglect am.

Na that time him go know say Nigeria hard.

Dummy!!

NPFLADMIN:
Benefits of taking the red-pil


See, anyone that says "I have a boyfriend/husband or girlfriend/wife but...", RUN

Don't wait 4 d but.

BTW OP, how many months, you don dey settle bills and buying phone?

NEVER EVER TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR GF's BILLS.

Most emotionally ladened men wouldn't agree with you. I still don't know why I should take charge of the bills of another adult who isn't physically challenged or mentally impaired because she is my so called girlfriend. If it is a symbiotic relationship where we both give ourselves that's different but will never be in a parasitic relationship with any lady. If relationship is a job then I'm out of it.

NPFLADMIN:
Benefits of taking the red-pil


See, anyone that says "I have a boyfriend/husband or girlfriend/wife but...", RUN

Don't wait 4 d but.

BTW OP, how many months, you don dey settle bills and buying phone?

NEVER EVER TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR GF's BILLS.

Most emotionally lade.ned men wouldn't agree with you. I still don't know why I should take charge of the bills of another adult who isn't physically challenged or mentally impaired because she is my so called girlfriend. If it is a symbiotic relationship where we both give ourselves that's different but will never be in a parasitic relationship with any lady. If relationship is a job then I'm out of it.

Go and collect the phone from her.

Muyiddeen:
Hello guys I need your advice I met a girl ask her out so she told me she have a boyfriend but her boyfriend doesn't take the relationship serious reason because he tell lies and womanize alot.... she don't want to continue the relationship with him anymore...

so, I convince her that my own time with her will be different from her boyfriend and she accepted me and we started the relationship the relationship was going well smooth and nice along the line she requested for some money and also she asked me to get her a new phone because the phone was bad so for the sake of love and care I have for her I provided her the money she requested and also provide her a better phone....

recently, she begin to act up somehow whenever I called her on phone telling her that I would like to see her she will say she's busy, she's always busy so I begin to suspect her that was happening so during the weekend she told me that her ex-boyfriend is back again and both of them were together when she was telling me she's busy because she doesn't want her ex to know what is happening that was the reason so she told me was was busy with work....

so she pleaded that we should end the relationship we just started, since we have been dating I have spent money on her and I have also get her a better phone
my question now the phone I bought for her should I collect it back or I should leave the phone with her let her go with it and continue her relationship with her former guy

PureFace1:
I'm sure they didn't collude

that guy didn't really know about their affairs

Even if he's not serious with her it doesn't mean he would tolerate every bullshits, he is the type that won't tolerate cheating even if he cheat a lot.

You speak with a great degree of certainty,are you sure you are not the boyfriend 😁

Haba Manchi! Are u 4 real?
Buying egg 4 hen wey another cock dey mount. Haba

GoodSpirit:
Most emotionally lade.ned men wouldn't agree with you. I still don't know why I should take charge of the bills of another adult who isn't physically challenged or mentally impaired because she is my so called girlfriend. If it is a symbiotic relationship where we both give ourselves that's different but will never be in a parasitic relationship with any lady. If relationship is a job then I'm out of it.

I totally support helping/assisting.

What's the point of doing things alone when you have someone whose shoulders you can rest on!!


But when you take it as a full time job, RUN. E no follow at all.

Muyiddeen:
Hello guys I need your advice I met a girl ask her out so she told me she have a boyfriend but her boyfriend doesn't take the relationship serious reason because he tell lies and womanize alot.... she don't want to continue the relationship with him anymore...

so, I convince her that my own time with her will be different from her boyfriend and she accepted me and we started the relationship the relationship was going well smooth and nice along the line she requested for some money and also she asked me to get her a new phone because the phone was bad so for the sake of love and care I have for her I provided her the money she requested and also provide her a better phone....

recently, she begin to act up somehow whenever I called her on phone telling her that I would like to see her she will say she's busy, she's always busy so I begin to suspect her that was happening so during the weekend she told me that her ex-boyfriend is back again and both of them were together when she was telling me she's busy because she doesn't want her ex to know what is happening that was the reason so she told me was was busy with work....

so she pleaded that we should end the relationship we just started, since we have been dating I have spent money on her and I have also get her a better phone
my question now the phone I bought for her should I collect it back or I should leave the phone with her let her go with it and continue her relationship with her former guy

She never wanted any relationship with you, probably she was holding onto your relationship request while the other guy was playing foul game on her

Now the guy is back to her to deal with her again and she has to drop you to concentrate on the one she prefers

So I think you should just ignore her and wait for her as she will definitely come back to you when the other guy deals with her

By then you will still welcome her but no shishi for her again even if you sleep with her steadily

If possible invite another girl when she comes around

That's to show that you know what you are doing

I hate when ladies takes a man's gentility for stupidity

Muyiddeen:
What's S. I. M. P

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