Was in talking stage with this shima. Decided to take things up a notch. Invited her to go swimming and she deflected it. Said she prefers eatery.
I believe since I'm the one with the funds, i should be calling the shots and not her.

The motive behind this leak is immature. Stop playing with people. This is very wrong

Zwooks:
The motive behind this leak is immature. Stop playing with people. This is very wrong

Update. She has gotten a job now.
And we're going on the planned date.
Heaven helps those who help themselves.

I don't indulge women who have nothing to offer me.

Both of you should just gettat....!!

banza dey text himsef

alphaNomega:
banza dey text himsef

My reality na most of y'all dream.

You folks that screenshot private chats to post online, what exactly do you people intend to gain?.. does it make you feel good or add extra money to your accounts or what cos I don't see the need for this.
You chyke girl, she no gree.. move the f*ck on.

flokii:
You folks that screenshot private chats to post online, what exactly do you people intend to gain?.. does it make you feel good or add extra money to your accounts or what cos I don't see the need for this.
You chyke girl, she no gree.. move the f*ck on.

Is she your sister?
Who talk say she no gree?

Op thought he ate.

1Sharon:
Op thought he ate.

You don't get the point do you?
She is now employed. This is not mockery.
I can't compromise the standard I've set for myself. I don't do broke women.

I'm not trained to split bill.

Man up!

You're the one asking for a meet...it's your forking bill to pay.

Who's teaching y'all this shit...Blue pill Red pill shiiii
Alpha beta kappa

You do not ask a lady to split bill.
Never do that.

...even if you're dating an acclaimed feminist.
Pick the m*fking bill.

She didn't deflect your swimming suggestion (which is not even a classy first-date or "meet-and greet" idea). After you suggested swimming, you then proceeded to tell her, "everywhere is expensive lately" and it was after this statement that she suggested an eatery, perhaps because she thought it wouldn't be as expensive as going swimming and you would be able to afford that, only for you to then ask her who is paying. You're obviously the broke person trying to deflect to make it look like she is when she's trying to be as understandable as possible. If you know you've no money to meet her wherever for the date/meet-and-greet or whatever you call it, why did you ask her out? You're the one who initiated the outing via the swimming suggestion, so technically you should be able to afford it. She suggested what she thought was an affordable alternative and you're asking who will pay. You should've just straightup said you're broke instead of stressing and confusing the girl.

Pvssy!
You want touch bress, touch nyash....but you no wan spend for eatery.
...and from the chat, she asked where y'all gon' go AFTERWARDS.

You no get game at all.

Niqqa!

TheWinterBird:
She didn't deflect your swimming suggestion (which is not even a classy first-date or "meet-and greet" idea). After you suggested swimming, you then proceeded to tell her, "everywhere is expensive lately" and it was after this statement that she suggested an eatery, perhaps because she thought it wouldn't be as expensive as going swimming and you would be able to afford that, only for you to then ask her who is paying. You're obviously the broke person trying to defect to make it look like she is when she's trying to be as understandable as possible. If you know you've no money to meet her wherever for the date/meet-and-greet or whatever you call it, why did you ask her out? You're the one who initiated the outing via the swimming suggestion, so technically you should be able to afford it. She suggested what she thought was an affordable alternative and you're asking who will pay. You should've just straightup said you're broke instead of stressing and confusing the girl.

Thank you. She was very considerate.

I don't think he was even serious about the swimming suggestion, he just wanted to be sarcastic and make her feel stupid.

derico:
I'm not trained to split bill.

Man up!

You're the one asking for a meet...it's your forking bill to pay.

Who's teaching y'all this shit...Blue pill Red pill shiiii
Alpha beta kappa

You do not ask a lady to split bill.
Never do that.

...even if you're dating an acclaimed feminist.
Pick the m*fking bill.

Shût dafuq UP!!!

C'mon go wash plates and leave ya mama phone alone

Negroid001:

You don't get the point do you?
She is now employed. This is not mockery.
I can't compromise the standard I've set for myself. I don't do broke women.

You scream kiss and tell all over you hian

flokii:
You folks that screenshot private chats to post online, what exactly do you people intend to gain?.. does it make you feel good or add extra money to your accounts or what cos I don't see the need for this.
You chyke girl, she no gree.. move the f*ck on.

guys who do this, are the type who wastes no time in posting the nudes a girl sent to them.

Must she swim?

Is it everybody that swim?

What kind of first date is swimming ?

U just want to see her body, get her wet and grope her body

🥵

gen zee ,una shame dey shame me woo,small thing una don carry come net.

joseph1832:
guys who do this, are the type who wastes no time in posting the nudes a girl sent to them.

Exactly, have fun with this one as a lady and get ready to be out there when you both fall out.

From their chats you'll know them

How a sane man chats with a Nigerian girl to the extent of taking things forward with her is still a mystery to me till now.

I don't chat with Nigeria girls, the only time I chat or call a Nigerian girl is when I want to knack her kpekus, anything aside this count me out!

Op, girl wey you go invite come your house, you dey Carry the parasite go swimming. Hunger has dealt with the hookup girl no be small. Avoid broke girls

The babe get coordination pass you. And what did she do wrong for you to leak a private chat to the public.

Negroid001:

Update. She has gotten a job now.
And we're going on the planned date.
Heaven helps those who help themselves.

I don't indulge women who have nothing to offer me.

Don’t listen to all the people wailing on your post.

If you can get a woman to contribute and pay part of the bills on a first date in this Nigeria that it rarely happen it mean that woman is seriously interested in you and better than taking many hungry girls out that only see you as a source of free foods in this Nigeria economy thereby wasting your time and resources.


Like you said it is your rules but you have to have the resolve to stick with it because most Nigerian men don't have balls, there's just no point in pandering to women because the women will just take the pandering as desperation and take them for granted at the end.

Sha buy herbs ooo, no fall my hand ooo

I for one thinks going to an eatery don't portray the idea of you spending ton of money. Bottles of water since you're low on funds could suffice. Or perhaps low priced stuff in the menu.

And again don't you have a park or something along those lines in your location? Swimming is so off.

Hezzyluv:
Both of you should just gettat....!!

No, it is the guy that should gettat.

Imagine you're in the talking stage with a lady, looking to take things further. Now, his idea for a first date location is a swimming pool.

Yet, he hasn't even considered if she can swim.

Unless they have already started sharing intimate photos, many women wouldn't feel comfortable wearing a swimsuit on a first date. She might be shy or not confident about her body. It takes time to reach a level of comfort with someone before being nearly naked in their presence.

While I understand the guy's desire to take charge, fact is, he's being inconsiderate and domineering.

It's pretty much what wannabe 'red pill' guys tend to do.

TheWinterBird:
She didn't deflect your swimming suggestion (which is not even a classy first-date or "meet-and greet" idea). After you suggested swimming, you then proceeded to tell her, "everywhere is expensive lately" and it was after this statement that she suggested an eatery, perhaps because she thought it wouldn't be as expensive as going swimming and you would be able to afford that, only for you to then ask her who is paying. You're obviously the broke person trying to deflect to make it look like she is when she's trying to be as understandable as possible. If you know you've no money to meet her wherever for the date/meet-and-greet or whatever you call it, why did you ask her out? You're the one who initiated the outing via the swimming suggestion, so technically you should be able to afford it. She suggested what she thought was an affordable alternative and you're asking who will pay. You should've just straightup said you're broke instead of stressing and confusing the girl.

You are just shouting broke, it show the type of woman that you are.

And what if he's broke ? are most women not broke ? A Date shouldn't cost much if the woman have real interest in the man and not what they can suck out of him like a vampire.

You are not the one that will decide what a classy first date idea is, you just have that gold diggin and entitled vibe all over you with the way you regurgitate the word "broke" and very defensive of the idea of requesting the woman to pay anything to show effort and respect towards what she is interested in.

Many women want men to respect them without putting in the work, respect is earned not serve. You have to give respect to earn respect, there's no man that wouldn't respect you if you pay part of the bill on the first date but most of y'all don't really care about respect or bullshits like that as long as you can get money and free things. You are ready to pay with the pvssy only lol

PureFace1:


Don’t listen to all the people wailing on your post.

If you can get a woman to contribute and pay part of the bills on a first date in this Nigeria that it rarely happen it mean that woman is seriously interested in you and better than taking many hungry girls out that only see you as a source of free foods in this Nigeria economy thereby wasting your time and resources.


Like you said it is your rules but you have to have the resolve to stick with it because most Nigerian men don't have balls, there's just no point in pandering to women because the women will just take the pandering as desperation and take them for granted at the end.

Let them wail. No be them put money for my hand. The fact she has agreed to go on the date, now a better and responsible woman reveals a lot. And I'm happy someone has the train of thought to get relevant and not feel entitled to a man's money.

Tallesty1:

No, it is the guy that should gettat.

Imagine you're in the talking stage with a lady, looking to take things further. Now, his idea for a first date location is a swimming pool.

Yet, he hasn't even considered if she can swim.

Unless they have already started sharing intimate photos, many women wouldn't feel comfortable wearing a swimsuit on a first date. She might be shy or not confident about her body. It takes time to reach a level of comfort with someone before being nearly naked in their presence.

While I understand the guy's desire to take charge, fact is, he's being inconsiderate and domineering.

It's pretty much what wannabe 'red pill' guys tend to do.

It's the woman that will decide what's considerate or not, women hate nice guys like you that are so bother with what they think instead of making your move boldly, whether she is shy or uncomfortable with it she will let you know what she can do and can't do after you initiate and make moves.

Guys like you are just scare of rejection so you play it safe and nice, which man doesn't want to see the body of a beautiful woman he's interested in on the first date and hold her body close and tight ? but you are afraid the woman may reject the idea and hate you so you play it safe and disguise it with being considerate lol.

If the guy was inconsiderate why did you think the woman agreed with his request ?

What a very Nice guy you are lol

So considerate and Nice but most guys like you would always end up in the friendzone, used and taken advantage of.

You have to be domineering to generate any real attraction in women anyone that tell you otherwise is deceiving you. Women don't take guys like you seriously, considerate guys like you will be in the friendzone while the inconsiderate one will get all the benefits without any effort, knack her on the first date or first week of dating while you wait for years and months lol

Why did you think the woman agreed to it if it was inconsiderate ? the funniest thing is that the woman could have rejected the guy if he suggested something more considerate first lol.

EreluRoz:
You scream kiss and tell all over you hian

And you scream entitled, jobless and broke.

Are you blind? Can't you see i concealed all identities.?