20years ago, my father lost his wife to diabetes and he was 52yrs old when she died.
In december 2022, we noticed him with a woman who has to be a Ghanian. My father is big and agile farmer, he has alot of big farm lands in akure.
Recently, he send a message to my elder bro, and that one told me our father wants to remarry with his Ghanian lover who helps him with his coco farm. And that he would soon send the date for the private celebration.
Funny enough, i just picked up my phone and called my father bcuz i live in lagos and he lives at ondo. And during our conversations i found that it was true, i was so amazed and shocked that how can a 72yrs old man still be thinking of having a wife for sexual pleasures and all of that! To me, it looks like he doesnt have shame, i hope the woman is not after his riches. Is his decision right anyways?

Celebration ni o abi

Help you on what exactly?

instead of you to be happy for your father, you're here asking if he doesn't have shame? do you expect him to be lonely, depressed, sitting on a rocky chair while he breath his last? he wants to enjoy the rest of his life and you're here whining thinking about his sexual performance... at least he has achieved and established, what else do you want him to do?

and you said maybe because the woman is after the riches? shey dem tell you say women dey date for fun before abi? Oga, if you don't have anything to offer them, women will sideline you... even if you're 100 years, you can still get the best of women... this why we always say that women are not going anywhere... time is kind to a man... you shouldn't be worrying about him remarrying at that stage, you should only be worried if he's been taken care of and living his best life...

Allow the old man enjoy his last days in peace...

You wey suppose dey reason wetin your contribution go be for union, see wetin you dey talk.

Let the old man find love because you don't value love, doesn't mean that he should not love

Hhansome:
Help you on what exactly?

I wonder o

Nobody is stealing your inheritance rather let the man love and be loved in these remaining years of his

There's nothing wrong with remarrying after the lost of a spouse, companionship is the key in this case.

When all of you,his children have scattered all over the country,having your own families,you now want loneliness to kill the senior citizen before his time,abi?
God is watching you.

Please be happy for him and support him. He’s still a human being that needs love.

At the end of the day, whether young or old, we all want to be loved.

The old man has a right to remarry if he so desires

Trollegend:
20years ago, my father lost his wife to diabetes and he was 52yrs old when she died.
In december 2022, we noticed him with a woman who has to be a Ghanian. My father is big and agile farmer, he has alot of big farm lands in akure.
Recently, he send a message to my elder bro, and that one told me our father wants to remarry with his Ghanian lover who helps him with his coco farm. And that he would soon send the date for the private celebration.
Funny enough, i just picked up my phone and called my father bcuz i live in lagos and he lives at ondo. And during our conversations i found that it was true, i was so amazed and shocked that how can a 72yrs old man still be thinking of having a wife for sexual pleasures and all of that! To me, it looks like he doesnt have shame, i hope the woman is not after his riches. Is his decision right anyways?

So? Y do I feel like de “she's coming for his money” part u added was just to get pple to talk negative tins to de woman?😐😐 Becus are u not ashamed of urself like dis?? dat at 72, ur dad is still stressing himself farming? E never reach time wey u and ur other siblings go put dat man for house make him just dey enjoy himself while una dey pay am weekly/monthly?......😐😐

No,,,, rather, u re here worried about him wanting to remarry afta Mourning his late wife for good 22 years oooo...😐

U are de shameless person here sir..... U should b ashamed of urself fr..... Rubbish😐

Old people
Needs companionship too. Let the old man enjoy in peace please.