It is every man's prayer to have a woman that truly loves them,so don't get it wrong. So someone I've once dated came back with a baby for me,did DNA test and it was confirmed the baby is mine,but the issue is that she loves me too much,she is 3 times if not 5 more beautiful than my ex.

But she wan use love finish me,care concern,very careful not to offend me, she's madly in love.

The issue here is that it is too much, affection too much,care too much.... It gets too embarrassing when a woman can tell u she loves you over and over within a space of 2hrs.

I want to be with her,but should I tell her the love is too much?

PS: I am the one who deflowered her,and she's in her early 20s,she got a good job so it's not about the money now... And the way she loves hard,she hates hard when pushed

Did you just get a new job or something like that?!..🤔 I want to check something

This thread is supposed to be some where else.

Anyways, Congratulations to you and your baby mama, deal with it.

Does she have a job? A 9 to 5 job? Or manage a business. If no, get her one. The affection you want will balance. Problem solved.

Reduce the money and other things you are giving her and see that the love is cosmetic.

intruder15:
Does she have a job? A 9 to 5 job? Or manage a business. If no, get her one. The affection you want will balance. Problem solved.

She works online,and she earns good, it's not about the money here... For age? She's in her early 20s... I'm her first man

Hmmm. Okunrin

Fear man too.

Did you work from home too, if yes it will happen that way.

Congratulations to you. So what do you want us to do now?

Jambula:
It is every man's prayer to have a woman that truly loves them,so don't get it wrong. So someone I've once dated came back with a baby for me,did DNA test and it was confirmed the baby is mine,but the issue is that she loves me too much,she is 3 times if not 5 more beautiful than my ex.

But she wan use love finish me,care concern,very careful not to offend me, she's madly in love.

The issue here is that it is too much, affection too much,care too much.... It gets too embarrassing when a woman can tell u she loves you over and over within a space of 2hrs.

I want to be with her,but should I tell her the love is too much?

PS: I am the one who deflowered her,and she's in her early 20s,she got a good job so it's not about the money now... And the way she loves hard,she hates hard when pushed

she loves you so much, okay is that a problem?

You are Lucky to have such a lady

When she love, it's too much, she doesn't love, it's not enough.

Brethren, should we tell him or should I hold my peace?

How old are you

That you are desperately seeking so much online validation.

That's obsession and it's very dangerous because such people can kill you if they suspect any fowl play or that you're taking them for granted.

I once had someone who was so obsessed about me like your woman and at a point he started telling me that if he sees me with another man he'll kill me and kill himself. Omor, I relocated sharp sharp.

Just be careful.

Jambula:

She works online,and she earns good, it's not about the money here... For age? She's in her early 20s... I'm her first man

Why I ask is because of her kind of schedule. I love my female friends. But I cannot be thinking about them when I am thinking about making ends meet. If she have a work and still think about you this way, cherish her. They no reach 5 for Lagos. If she is obsessive, that's when you should be worried. Obsessive in the sense that she defines the female friends you talk to or who you don't.

Don't confront her about it. Women don't take constructive feedback constructively.

Jambula:

She works online,and she earns good, it's not about the money here... For age? She's in her early 20s... I'm her first man

Why I ask is because of her kind of schedule. I love my female friends. But I cannot be thinking about them when I am thinking about making ends meet. If she have a work and still think about you this way, cherish her. They no reach 5 for Lagos. If she is obsessive, that's when you should be worried. Obsessive in the sense that she defines the female friends you talk to or who you don't.

Don't confront her about it. Women don't take constructive feedback constructively.

intruder15:


Why I ask is because of her kind of schedule. I love my female friends. But I cannot be thinking about them when I am thinking about making ends meet. If she have a work and still think about you this way, cherish her. They no reach 5 for Lagos. If she is obsessive, that's when you should be worried. Obsessive in the sense that she defines the female friends you talk to or who you don't.

Don't confront her about it. Women don't take constructive feedback constructively.

She doesn't voice out anger over female friends,as long as she confirms I'm not fvcking the girl... And she's careful not to offend me,she is rude to other guys,asin she has werey outside,but very calm to me,BUT could this be pretense

Jambula:

She doesn't voice out anger over female friends,as long as she confirms I'm not fvcking the girl... And she's careful not to offend me,she is rude to other guys,asin she has werey outside,but very calm to me,BUT could this be pretense

I don't think it's pretence. Ladies can choose to be something else to different people. Above all, read through the lines.

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