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Good day nairalanders
I believe that it is a 'man' thing to go after a lady,but c'mon what if as a lady you are interested in a guy but this guy is not reciprocating or even thinking in your direction would it be odd or out of place to go straight to him and shoot your shots as they would say?
Well I had seen where it worked both in the Western world and of course in these parts.
Normally we all grew up with this fact that a man should be the pursuer or chaser but what if the guy you are interested in is not giving you signals of interest, is it bad as a lady to go to him and play your cards?

Well, either she’s shooting her shot or they’re shooting it at her, 95% of females are nothing but empty being..

They’re very very cheap naturally..

never ever.

First and foremost men are not the center of my world so I never liked any of them first never.

He have to actively pursue me, likes me way more, and have qualities I desire for me to even think of liking him
And giving him a chance.

Rokiat:
never ever.

First and foremost men are not the center of my world so I never liked any of them first never.

He have to actively pursue me, likes me way more, and have qualities I desire for me to even think of liking him
And giving him a chance.

if u the real Rokiatu....then wheres the photo profile of yor yansh??...WE ARE ANGRY!!!
are u the real Rokiatu sir?

JAMB question.

Most of the time ladies do not shoot their shots at their level. A guy who likes you wouldn’t wait for you to shoot. If a girl has to shoot there are very high chances that the guy isn’t interested.

Does it make a girl look cheap? It depends on the guy she shoots it to. If a girl shoots her shot at me, I will assume she has done same to other guys and that bothers me. I don’t want to be with a girl that toast boys.

Generally, I haven’t dated anyone that took a shot because every girl who has done that weren’t people I would date anyways, their shooting didn’t impact on my decision. Maybe that will change when a girl I actually like shoots first.

50/50

Rokiat:
never ever.

First and foremost men are not the center of my world so I never liked any of them first never.

He have to actively pursue me, likes me way more, and have qualities I desire for me to even think of liking him
And giving him a chance.

As old are you are, Madam you are not relevant in the dating market. Keep dreaming

Who goes for bitter evening newspaper, with a body count of over 5, and bad attitude. When there are
fresh young girls in their early twenties.

Most men go for young girls. Men in their 40's are going for young girls in their early twenties

eazzzy1:
Most of the time ladies do not shoot their shots at their level. A guy who likes you wouldn’t wait for you to shoot. If a girl has to shoot there are very high chances that the guy isn’t interested.

Does it make a girl look cheap? It depends on the guy she shoots it to. If a girl shoots her shot at me, I will assume she has done same to other guys and that bothers me. I don’t want to be with a girl that toast boys.

Generally, I haven’t dated anyone that took a shot because every girl who has done that weren’t people I would date anyways, their shooting didn’t impact on my decision. Maybe that will change when a girl I actually like shoots first.

With this, you've spoken my mind. I can now go to bed.

Rokiat:
never ever.

First and foremost men are not the center of my world so I never liked any of them first never.

He have to actively pursue me, likes me way more, and have qualities I desire for me to even think of liking him
And giving him a chance.

You are supposed to be someone's wife. What are you doing in the dating market

I don't think that a lady shooting her shot makes her look cheap ...

My only issue is that when ladies shoot their shots and get turned down, most of the time, they instantly become either aggressive to the point where they start insulting you or they try to throw shades at you ...

Maybe they prolly think that a man must say yes cause they're shooting their shots ...

PulaPower:
Well, either she’s shooting her shot or they’re shooting it at her, 95% of females are nothing but empty being..

They’re very very cheap naturally..

Ladies are actually very very cheap.
Some are bold in their approaches some throw some green signals here and there and do little shakara

From experience i don't trust women who take the bold step. It has never ended well. They become overly possessive. Most times it's out of pity one succumbs. 80% of the time I'm not attracted to them. If you agree to date them, they can ruin your reputation because of small mistake. And they fail to understand they're not the only ones that find you attractive.

Because i understand this law, I don't force myself on women that don't show interest in me either. It's a waste of time.

Mutual attraction is the best. Not a one sided one.

To the immature men.

Rokiat:
never ever.

First and foremost men are not the center of my world so I never liked any of them first never.

He have to actively pursue me, likes me way more, and have qualities I desire for me to even think of liking him
And giving him a chance.

then next is to manipulate him,by changing his dna code and input a different rna.so his oscillation will be at your finger tips.ur next step is to start osmosising his resources

Absolutely not, i like women that are bold, not the pretenders

Fahvvy:
I don't think that a lady shooting her shot makes her look cheap ...

My only issue is that when ladies shoot their shots and get turned down, most of the time, they instantly become either aggressive to the point where they start insulting you or they try to throw shades at you ...

Maybe they prolly think that a man must say yes cause they're shooting their shots ...

Your brain dey for your yansh.

Pussyisgud:
Your brain dey for your yansh.

Sighs ...

A simple latex would've solved this ...

Rokiat:
never ever.

First and foremost men are not the center of my world so I never liked any of them first never.

He have to actively pursue me, likes me way more, and have qualities I desire for me to even think of liking him
And giving him a chance.

Mumù who dey even look your side, when men are going for fresh younger girls. Keep dreaming
Younger the berry the sweeter the juice

Fahvvy:
Sighs ...

A simple latex would've solved this ...

You are a mistake to your mom, you are a failed abortion turn human being, ozu nwuru anwu

From experience women that approach guys first must really really love them , women have lots of pride so if they go out of their ways to approach you ,they must really really love you.

The problem is not about shooting her shot but can she bear the financial responsibilities of the relationship/marriage

Rokiat:
never ever.

First and foremost men are not the center of my world so I never liked any of them first never.

He have to actively pursue me, likes me way more, and have qualities I desire for me to even think of liking him
And giving him a chance.

Na old school you be. Modern boys no get time to chase you ooo. Options dey too many and dey less stressful

MikeofKd:
From experience women that approach guys first must really really love them , women have lots of pride so if they go out of their ways to approach you ,they must really really love you.

They really LOVE or LUST? How come it's almost only handsome bobo that ladies mostly shoot their shots on?

The last lady that tried that with me lived to tell the story.
Leave the shooting to me.

JAMB question.

MrCork:
if u the real Rokiatu....then wheres the photo profile of yor yansh??...WE ARE ANGRY!!!
are u the real Rokiatu sir?

Stupid MF

Fahvvy:
Sighs ...
A simple latex would've solved this ...

Your brain dey for your yansh

Rokiat:
never ever.

First and foremost men are not the center of my world so I never liked any of them first never.

He have to actively pursue me, likes me way more, and have qualities I desire for me to even think of liking him
And giving him a chance.

actively pursue? God i do not pray to meet someone with this kind of entitlement mentality.

No.

Rokiat:
never ever.

First and foremost men are not the center of my world so I never liked any of them first never.

He have to actively pursue me, likes me way more, and have qualities I desire for me to even think of liking him
And giving him a chance.

Based on say you be African Queen na 😏

eazzzy1:
Most of the time ladies do not shoot their shots at their level. A guy who likes you wouldn’t wait for you to shoot. If a girl has to shoot there are very high chances that the guy isn’t interested.

Does it make a girl look cheap? It depends on the guy she shoots it to. If a girl shoots her shot at me, I will assume she has done same to other guys and that bothers me. I don’t want to be with a girl that toast boys.

Generally, I haven’t dated anyone that took a shot because every girl who has done that weren’t people I would date anyways, their shooting didn’t impact on my decision. Maybe that will change when a girl I actually like shoots first.

u no be fine boy na girls de shot there shot on us everytime