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Re: Why Do You Prefer A "Graduate" Spouse...? by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:41pm On Apr 12, 2024
bigpicture001:
Even 96% bankers cannot answer this
banker KO, self-servicer ni!
bro stop lying to yourself... this is such a SIMPLE QUESTION that any person with a secondary school functioning brain could answer. the problem we have today is that these same secondary school level ones, who could easily solve the above, the minute they leave school, their brain often become dormant. now every yeye math question, they bring out their damn phones. you ask them something as simple as 60x7 and they cant answer without a calculator.

you see this is also why so many fail in parenting... you have a not so bright wife, now your secondary school child brings her his homework, and your wife is having problem even understanding basic math and/or making basic English sentences. how can she help that child with his/her homework when mama herself doesnt understand it?! soon now, your child is in the car listening to mama say some dumb shiit and correcting her (kids abroad are good at that)
Re: Why Do You Prefer A "Graduate" Spouse...? by bigpicture001(op): 6:33pm On Apr 12, 2024
MrBrownJay1:
banker KO, self-servicer ni!
bro stop lying to yourself... this is such a SIMPLE QUESTION that any person with a secondary school functioning brain could answer. the problem we have today is that these same secondary school level ones, who could easily solve the above, the minute they leave school, their brain often become dormant. now every yeye math question, they bring out their damn phones. you ask them something as simple as 60x7 and they cant answer without a calculator.

you see this is also why so many fail in parenting... you have a not so bright wife, now your secondary school child brings her his homework, and your wife is having problem even understanding basic math and/or making basic English sentences. how can she help that child with his/her homework when mama herself doesnt understand it?! soon now, your child is in the car listening to mama say some dumb shiit and correcting her (kids abroad are good at that)
This is also a very simply question which was on a post high school examination paper...

If after a meeting of 10persons..everyone shook hands with each other without repeating...how many handshakes occurred after the meeting...?
Re: Why Do You Prefer A "Graduate" Spouse...? by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:36pm On Apr 12, 2024
bigpicture001:
This is also a very simply question which was on a post high school examination paper...

If after a meeting of 10persons..everyone shook hands with each other without repeating...how many handshakes occurred after the meeting...?
very simple: 45

but here is something simple for all the intelligent people here:
A MAN GOES TO SEE HIS DOCTOR AND PAYS 120K IN TOTAL (for doc appointment + parking). HOW MUCH DOES THE PARKING COSTs, IF KNOWING THAT THE PARKING COSTS 100K LESS THAN THE DOC APPOINTMENT?
Re: Why Do You Prefer A "Graduate" Spouse...? by pansophist(m): 7:37pm On Apr 12, 2024
policy12:
Let me speak from experience, when I wanted to married degree was one of the criteria I used then, and not even HND I specifically said it must be a University grad. As a banker then, I saw how HND was being rubbish so I opted for a BSC holder.

Brethren, I can tell u with my full chest that was one of the greatest mistake in my life.I lost everything, I mean everything. She later left, cuz I lost my job and I can't provide for the huz. It took God in His infinite mercy and help from friends to make a way for me and I bounce back. Now, such criteria is not in my book, first thing is attitude, peace of mind, is she God fearing, etc.

May we not married wrongly both as a male/female. I tell u, all this saying she must be this and that will vanish into a thin air. I pray God give us a good man/woman as our spouse. Degree, wealth, beauty, just name it does not make a home or happy marriage life.

Beyond the charades, what makes a home is deeper than what will see. May God help us in Jesus name.
Sorry man. Glad you bounced back.

I write it here all the time, that when real-life problems show up, all the criteria young people use to qualify for a good partner will disappear. So rubbish such as spec, body type, accent, certification, shape, etc.

Youth these days tend to think that their realities in their 20's or 30's will be so in their 40's, 50's, 60's, 70's, and beyond. Life is hard, and I see it all the time how even the rich suffer.

A good person is like a representation of God in human form. Nothing on earth is more useful, an asset, and an ally compared to such a person. Someone who means well for you, and sees you as an extension of themselves, just in another body.

A person who when everything in life fails you, they are there by your side, gives you their shoulder and pats you on the back that all is fine, and I am here for you. Your personal person, to whom your heart is well pleased.

To be loved is the closest thing to experiencing heaven on earth. Marriage is sweet if done rightly. Two good heads are much much better than one. But if done wrongly, it is worse than hell.
Re: Why Do You Prefer A "Graduate" Spouse...? by policy12: 9:11pm On Apr 12, 2024
Thank you so much. May we not learn the hard way.



quote author=pansophist post=129405492]

Sorry man. Glad you bounced back.

I write it here all the time, that when real-life problems show up, all the criteria young people use to qualify for a good partner will disappear. So rubbish such as spec, body type, accent, certification, shape, etc.

Youth these days tend to think that their realities in their 20's or 30's will be so in their 40's, 50's, 60's, 70's, and beyond. Life is hard, and I see it all the time how even the rich suffer.

A good person is like a representation of God in human form. Nothing on earth is more useful, an asset, and an ally compared to such a person. Someone who means well for you, and sees you as an extension of themselves, just in another body.

A person who when everything in life fails you, they are there by your side, gives you their shoulder and pats you on the back that all is fine, and I am here for you. Your personal person, to whom your heart is well pleased.

To be loved is the closest thing to experiencing heaven on earth. Marriage is sweet if done rightly. Two good heads are much much better than one. But if done wrongly, it is worse than hell.[/quote]
Re: Why Do You Prefer A "Graduate" Spouse...? by DevilsEqual(m): 6:05pm On Apr 13, 2024
ItisWell22:
Omooooo 😂🤣
We dey try manage the graduate, you just dey push the bar higher. Nice one though… 👏
U dey manage wetin??
U be Doctor na and all this thing wey u type na cruise
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