pocohantas:


So if you go marry wife wey no sabi cook or likes too much pepper, my innocent kids go follow una dey chop am? Don't foster your unity with my kids nutrition, your Lordship.

@op,see a perfect example of the impending calamity(s) you'll expect👆.


May God be ya strength broda,cos e nor go easy fa

Them go use otapiapia kill you

5 wives is the perfect number if wishes were horses


One Igbo
One Yoruba
One Ethiopian
One Brazilian
One Moroccan


And life will be fun till death

Kipaji:
I'm building my home for me and my two wives.

Each wife will have her bedroom.
Now, I am wondering whether I should build one or two kitchen.
What do you think?
Input from (current or future) polygamists and women would be appreciated.

Build 2 different buildings for them if you want peace.

Yes oh.if you want to have peace

The wives may decide to poison each other or poison each other’s children. Imagine one wife turning the other wife’s child into an slowpoke through charms in the food.

The best polygamy is the Atiku way. Each wife has her own mansion very far from each other while Oga summons or visits them as he likes.

Proserpina:
;DWahala for man wey no fit marry one wife

See me see wahala o. Women have different cooking patterns. Some kids are picky eaters and the mum has to go the extra mile to make them eat. Some do not eat onions. Some do not eat crayfish. And someone wants to do unity with my kids stomach? I kuku know say polygamy is not for me.

Kipaji:
I'm building my home for me and my two wives.

Each wife will have her bedroom.
Now, I am wondering whether I should build one or two kitchen.
What do you think?
Input from (current or future) polygamists and women would be appreciated.

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Your house, your rules.

If you want input from strangers, that means that you are indecisive about your life.

You know your wives and what dynamics will work for all of you. What works for a peaceful home may not work for a toxic home.
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Kipaji:


That is my plan. There will be the main building where I live and each wives' building next to me. Here is a rough sketch to explain what I mean

That's an impressive building plan you have there.

I remember that Chief M.K.O. Abiola's most senior wives (Simbiat, Kudirat, Doyin, etc) all lived in different wings of apartments located within the same premises where his luxury mansion was located off Toyin Street in Ikeja, Lagos, back in the day (1980s and 1990s).

So, you're good to go.

Kipaji:


I understand 3 bedrooms, one for me and one for each of my wives.

But 3 kitchen with 2 wives? Could you explain?

People say once you marry 2,then add d 3rd one.
If not,there would be 2 opposing forces pulling at you.
Buy a 3rd wife would be a tie breaker

Kipaji:
I'm building my home for me and my two wives.

Each wife will have her bedroom.
Now, I am wondering whether I should build one or two kitchen.
What do you think?
Input from (current or future) polygamists and women would be appreciated.

Build separate kitchens so that in case you are poisoned, your kinsmen will know where to start searching for since you will already be in the grave.

Kipaji:
I'm building my home for me and my two wives.

Each wife will have her bedroom.
Now, I am wondering whether I should build one or two kitchen.
What do you think?
Input from (current or future) polygamists and women would be appreciated.

Oga build a second house, never put 2 women under one roof for the sake of your children. God will bring money for another house

Baba build your kitchen base on the current situation in your present house right now,how do i mean? If the relationship they both share is smooth one build one and do what we call time table for them,but if they are not in good order you better build two to avoid wahala.

InvertedHammer:

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Your house, your rules.

If you want input from strangers, that means that you are indecisive about your life.

You know your wives and what dynamics will work for all of you. What works for a peaceful home may not work for a toxic home.
/

You made some valid points there but it's also good to get a second and even third opinion from folks and professionals alike in any field of human endeavor.

Then a man "walking" in his shoes can finally make up his mind (even though he already has his own initial ideas on what to do) based on thorough scrutiny of feedbacks so as NOT to get blindsided. So far, he's got a lot of good advice on this family-related issue and a significant number of men here have given very succinct feedbacks.

I can see the OP going far in his long-term polygamous relationships because he is NOT afraid to ask for feedback and he's willing to learn while not compromising the unity of his children who he wants to see grow up together as brothers and sisters.

Marry eight wives and build eight kitchens.

If u can afford it, build two houses at quite a distance apart from each other.
The average woman have trouble accepting her sisters-in-law/mothers-in-law who have no romantic association with her husband how much less a woman who shares d same dick with her.

Women are fickle-minded and can easily be swayed by d devil. (if I lie, ask Eve)
Any small thing they begin to envy each other and we know what can result from there.
A's son is more brilliant than B's, beef don start be that.

Save more money and build 2 separate houses. You can then be oscillating btw the 2.

SouthSouth1914:


Why not build a twin duplex? I too have sense..

Taaa dia.
I get the sense b4 u.

Na d same tin me myself talk

Lonestar124:
Build two kitchen bro, don't listen to any advice beside this my own..

yabonkai jahilci

Lonestar124:
Build two kitchen bro, don't listen to any advice beside this my own..

Why not build a twin duplex? I too have sense..

Make e just make am 4. 1 for the future wife and one for mistresses/family members who wish to run somethings in the kitchen. So that there will be neutral kitchens, and there won't be trouble with " you use my kitchen or no use my kitchen"

garriAndsugar:
Make the kitchen 3, as you will need one more wife in the future

Kipaji:
I'm building my home for me and my two wives.

Each wife will have her bedroom.
Now, I am wondering whether I should build one or two kitchen.
What do you think?
Input from (current or future) polygamists and women would be appreciated.

Use one kitchen with a big dinning. The family cooks and eats together unless you want division in your family.

Build 2 kitchens please. A house wife does not joke with her kitchen

Kipaji:
I'm building my home for me and my two wives.

Each wife will have her bedroom.
Now, I am wondering whether I should build one or two kitchen.
What do you think?
Input from (current or future) polygamists and women would be appreciated.

Each wife should have her kitchen, living room, children room.
Hope you are strong enough to build the mansion.lol.

Hollasmall:
Na man you be! How you Dey cope with two wives

Where the shoe go pinch am he no go talk ...let's just smile and wave....smile and wave...

If a man get resources to arrange more than one wife, make e nor short, therefore,
to arrange one kitchen, go make the man short.

If you know you know.

Kipaji:
I'm building my home for me and my two wives.

Each wife will have her bedroom.
Now, I am wondering whether I should build one or two kitchen.
What do you think?
Input from (current or future) polygamists and women would be appreciated.

Yes, if possible just build each wife a self contain with bedroom, kitchen & a nice veranda.

Then build a very big sitting room where all the family can eat & watch TV together.


Let me tell u something, even if u give them one kitchen, You MUST BUY different cooking utensils, gas etc for each. So why not separate it from the get go & save urself d trouble

Lonestar124:
Build two kitchen bro, don't listen to any advice beside this my own..

ues king Solomon's wisdom

Kipaji:


That is my plan. There will be the main building where I live and each wives' building next to me. Here is a rough sketch to explain what I mean

I admire your intelligence.

God bless your home.

You think after the children are grown into teenagers and adults that they will still stick to these formats?

You expect the wives to eat from each other and accept the meals for their different children, for how long? It can never work, unless the children will not grow to become teens and adults. Remember to update the thread in 10yrs time.

Kipaji:


Thank you man.

A great way to foster inclusion and unity is to impose that on the kids. There are three kids' bedroom in the house and they will be mixed. That is, we won't have the bedroom of wife1's kids and those of wife2's kids etc. Plus, all the kids' bedroom are in my building.
Also, all the kids will eat the food prepared by the wife of the day. If this Tuesday, for example, wife2 is cooking. Then the whole house will eat wife2's food. Wife1 is strictly forbidden from cooking something else to give to her kids on the side. One wife is not allowed to take her kids out and leave the rest at home. Plus, they will all go to the same schools, celebrate ceremonies together, treated equally.

I want all of my kids to see themselves as brothers and sisters, not step-brothers and step-sisters, or half-brothers and half-sisters.

Kipaji:


In my household, each wife will cook for everybody: me, her co-wife, and all the kids. I impose this to foster unity among the children and collaboration with the wives.
For example, let's say today it is wife2's turn to cook. Then, she will cook for the whole family, not only her kids. We will all eat her food that day. And I forbid the other wife to cook something else for her kids and have her kids eat something else. No. This would create "clans" within my household, which I do not want. I want all of my kids to see themselves as brothers and sisters not as step-brothers and step-sisters.

Isn't marrying more than one wives already creating "Clans" within your household? Lol

The time you dey marry, you not consider kitchen abi

That one na your cup of tea.