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Mother of three finds out husband faked his death, remarries in America

A mother of three children from Nigeria describes how her spouse pretended to be dead and began a new life with another woman after traveling to the United States for cancer treatment.

Relationship counselor Dr. Gbadebo Adeoye posted the heartbreaking tale on his Instagram page after hearing the woman’s anonymous account.

The woman claimed that her husband refused to let her go to the United States with him, using their property as collateral and selling all they owned to pay for his medical treatment.

He texted his wife after the procedure to let her know that he might not make it through; sure enough, the next thing he knew was that he had passed away. Eyes Of Lagos reports,

However, she eventually found out that he intentionally abandoned her and their three children to start a new life with another woman.
How I found out my husband faked his death, remarried in America

“My husband was taken to the US for cancer treatment. He won’t allow me to go with him. His sister went with him. Despite being told that he had passed away and was buried in America, I later found out that he was alive and married to another woman, and had sold everything we both worked for, leaving me and my three kids with nothing.

“However, I have come to accept the situation and have chosen to focus on the positive aspects of my life. I am grateful for my children, and for the fact that we have a roof over our heads and are living with my supportive sister in Badagry. I also recently got a job, which has enabled me to move back to Lagos and start afresh.

I have decided to let go of the hurt and pain that my husband’s actions caused me, and instead focus on building a better future for myself and my children. I am confident that with hard work and determination, we will be able to overcome this difficult situation and come out stronger on the other side. In 2017 they sent me pics of his funeral to fool me. I almost walk into the bush.”

Mother of three finds out husband faked his death, remarries in America

https://eyesoflagos.com/2024/04/25/mother-of-three-finds-out-husband-faked-his-death-remarries-in-america/

cc: Mynd44

TemplarLandry:

e don tay oooo.... well the Wilma gats move on normally...

For green card I guess

Terrible

Fake story

The Day of Judgement will be fiery because evil from man to man, business partners , couples, siblings, friends and personal will be unveiled.

The heart of a man is indeed wicked.

“However, I have come to accept the situation and have chosen to focus on the positive aspects of my life. I am grateful for my children, and for the fact that we have a roof over our heads and are living with my supportive sister in Badagry. I also recently got a job, which has enabled me to move back to Lagos and start afresh.

I have decided to let go of the hurt and pain that my husband’s actions caused me, and instead focus on building a better future for myself and my children. I am confident that with hard work and determination, we will be able to overcome this difficult situation and come out stronger on the other side”

CASE CLOSED!!!!
no need to waste one more second of your time/life/energy on such person...

Then she must be a terrible woman

You can abandoned a woman cos of bad character and being troublesome, but NEVER NEVER ABANDONE YOUR CHILDREN.

lagostrendboy:
Mother of three finds out husband faked his death, remarries in America

A mother of three children from Nigeria describes how her spouse pretended to be dead and began a new life with another woman after traveling to the United States for cancer treatment.

Relationship counselor Dr. Gbadebo Adeoye posted the heartbreaking tale on his Instagram page after hearing the woman’s anonymous account.

The woman claimed that her husband refused to let her go to the United States with him, using their property as collateral and selling all they owned to pay for his medical treatment.

He texted his wife after the procedure to let her know that he might not make it through; sure enough, the next thing he knew was that he had passed away. Eyes Of Lagos reports,

However, she eventually found out that he intentionally abandoned her and their three children to start a new life with another woman.
How I found out my husband faked his death, remarried in America

“My husband was taken to the US for cancer treatment. He won’t allow me to go with him. His sister went with him. Despite being told that he had passed away and was buried in America, I later found out that he was alive and married to another woman, and had sold everything we both worked for, leaving me and my three kids with nothing.

“However, I have come to accept the situation and have chosen to focus on the positive aspects of my life. I am grateful for my children, and for the fact that we have a roof over our heads and are living with my supportive sister in Badagry. I also recently got a job, which has enabled me to move back to Lagos and start afresh.

I have decided to let go of the hurt and pain that my husband’s actions caused me, and instead focus on building a better future for myself and my children. I am confident that with hard work and determination, we will be able to overcome this difficult situation and come out stronger on the other side. In 2017 they sent me pics of his funeral to fool me. I almost walk into the bush.”

Mother of three finds out husband faked his death, remarries in America

https://eyesoflagos.com/2024/04/25/mother-of-three-finds-out-husband-faked-his-death-remarries-in-america/

cc: Mynd44

She must have a very nasty character for the husband to see death as an escape route.

Woke madness is really causing a lot damage to society.

Na wah

Character deficiency. Simple. No man who is sane will adopt such an extreme measure except the wife has a terrible character. If the man's family even went along with the plan then you know say the wife really messed up.

Praxis758:
The Day of Judgement will be fiery because evil from man to man, business partners , couples, siblings, friends and personal will be unveiled.

The heart of a man is indeed wicked.

Correction: The Day of Judgment won't be fiery (Acts 24:31, Psalms 96:13; 98:9).

The Day we should really fear is Armageddon (Zephaniah 1:14-18;2:3)

vowiski:
She must have a very nasty character for the husband to see death as an escape route.

Woke madness is really causing a lot damage to society.

If the story is true and she wants the man deported to Nigeria, na easy package.....all she has to do is to write to US embassy in Nigeria that a "dead man" is living in the US, abandoned his family in Nigeria under the disguise of death....Na the man relatives go dey beg make e no expose the "dead" husband.

If such woman is related to me, na me go even write the letters to the embassy, con add how the deception adversely affected the mental well-being and other domains of the children.

Mindlog:
If the story is true and she wants the man deported to Nigeria, na easy package.....all she has to do is to write to US embassy in Nigeria that a "dead man" is living in the US, abandoned his family in Nigeria under the disguise of death....Na the man relatives go dey beg make e no expose the "dead" husband.

If such woman is related to me, na me go even write the letters to the embassy, con add how the deception adversely affected the mental well-being and other domains of the children.

Hmmmm now that he has been found out, let's hear his side. It's not easy for a make to fake his own death. Living his life must have been hell on earth so much that he desperately needs to jump out.

Idaytesj29:
Hmmmm now that he has been found out, let's hear his side. It's not easy for a make to fake his own death. Living his life must have been hell on earth so much that he desperately needs to jump out.

A US judge will be patient in "hearing his side of story" for faking his own death, explain how a dead man can marry and have children.... while fighting his deportation.

Mindlog:
A US judge will be patient in "hearing his side of story" for faking his own death while fighting his deportation.

Well, deportation is not the end of life and living. He still wouldn't return to his old family if the woman is the reason he fled.

Idaytesj29:
Well, deportation is not the end of life and living. He still wouldn't return to his old family if the woman is the reason he fled.

Shebi madam talk say she is now working, taking care of herself and the children, so when he returns she and the children have no need of him, he can go and be living with his relatives or better still, Atan cemetery which is the abode of the dead, there in Lagos.

See them already blaming the woman.

toxic woman ..the man ran for his live ..peace is priceless

No responsible father will abandon his children.He can abandon his wife but can't abandon his 3 children.

Mindlog:
Shebi madam talk say she is now working, taking care of herself and the children, so when he returns she and the children have no need of him, he can go and be living with his relatives or better still, Atan cemetery which is the abode of the dead, there in Lagos.

Why is she pained then? She should have moved on.

If it's the woman that did this, what we will be reading is, the man may have been abusive, but women are not abusive in a relationship, abuse is the sole property of a man.

A woman can leave or run away from a relationship that's draining her but a man can't he must die inside to proof his masculinity. Everything is to blame a man, we listened and read the woman's story and boom judgement started, without considering the other side of the story.

Idaytesj29:
Why is she pained then? She should have moved on.

If it's the woman that did this, what we will be reading is, the man may have been abusive, but women are not abusive in a relationship, abuse is the sole property of a man.

A woman can leave or run away from a relationship that's draining her but a man can't he must die inside to proof his masculinity. Everything is to blame a man, we listened and read the woman's story and boom judgement started, without considering the other side of the story.

I know you deliberately skipped "I have decided to let go of the hurt and pain that my husband’s actions caused me, and instead focus on building a better future for myself and my children. I am confident that with hard work and determination, we will be able to overcome this difficult situation and come out stronger on the other side" and I posted if she was related to me, na me go personally run the man street.

Any "other side of the story" that involves abandonment of children of the marriage, can not hold water anywhere.

I am an advocate of ending a marriage when it becomes toxic and suffocating, be adult enough to end it rightly.....divorce, concrete arrangement regarding effective co-parenting and provisions for the children, while the ex-couples go their different ways but becoming Houdini or claiming dead, I must drag you!

kheny12:
No responsible father will abandon his children.He can abandon his wife but can't abandon his 3 children.

unfortunately for you he abandoned his kids which makes him an irresponsible father. Make una dey support nonsense

Praxis758:
The Day of Judgement will be fiery because evil from man to man, business partners , couples, siblings, friends and personal will be unveiled.
The heart of a man is indeed wicked.

Sponsored by whom?

Idaytesj29:
∆ Well, deportation is not the end of life and living. He still wouldn't return to his old family if the woman is the reason he fled.

Marriage abandonment is considered to be against the Law even in Nigeria.

Kobojunkie:
Marriage abandonment is considered to be against the Law even in Nigeria.

Law For men and not for women I guess.

Mindlog:
I know you deliberately skipped "I have decided to let go of the hurt and pain that my husband’s actions caused me, and instead focus on building a better future for myself and my children. I am confident that with hard work and determination, we will be able to overcome this difficult situation and come out stronger on the other side" and I posted if she was related to me, na me go personally run the man street.

Any "other side of the story" that involves abandonment of children of the marriage, can not hold water anywhere.

I am an advocate of ending a marriage when it becomes toxic and suffocating, be adult enough to end it rightly.....divorce, concrete arrangement regarding effective co-parenting and provisions for the children, while the ex-couples go their different ways but becoming Houdini or claiming dead, I must drag you!

You obviously have not had a crazy partner before or see one in action. When you are lucky to leave with your head intact, you are talking about co parenting.

Idaytesj29:
Law For men and not for women I guess.

No gender specified. Ofcourse, in order to take advantage of it, someone would need to report the case to the authorities.

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