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What's the best way to tell your girlfriend she's not good at cooking without hurting her, because she's a very nice girl. She's good in every other thing but her cooking skills is not encouraging, how do i tell her without hurting her?

accept her the way she is and be merry.... some people out there are just bad as some things, even when they try as hard as they can.

Who will cook then?

MrBrownJay1:
accept her the way she is and be merry.... some people out there are just bad as some things, even when they try as hard as they can.

Show her

Tell her straighth away. Dont be afraid of hurting her. Be frank and tell her your mind as you feel it. If she feels offended, find way to pacify her but make sure she get the message clear.

Okay

ForValour:
Tell her straighth away. Dont be afraid of hurting her. Be frank and tell her your mind as you feel it. If she feels offended, find way to pacify her but make sure she get the message clear.

Enroll her in a catering school or tell her in a polite manner.

Olddays12:
Who will cook then?

you accept her bad cooking and thats it... what else can you do? you think that its easy to teach a useless person (in the kitchen) to cook?!

I'd rather go straight to the point than beat around the bush......I wasn't brought up with rubbish meal by my parents,so nobody daughter's should feel comfortable with feeding me with concoctions.....I won't take it

Olddays12:
Who will cook then?

Cooking isn't a woman's thing alone.

Matter if fact.... In the world, there are only renounce male chef. We don't have female chef known worldwide.

I can cook very well and I love cooking.

If she doesn't know how to cook and you noticed she's willing to learn, you should be her taste bub. Start by telling her what's missing in the food... There's too much salt or Maggi or less salt or Maggi or crayfish is too small or much and so it politely.

Mum often invited me to the kitchen to open Maggi wrap for her and lick the wrap because I was obsessed with it. From there she will tell me what to do next.... Which was always the stock... Before cooking the main meal.

Olddays12:
Who will cook then?

Over 5 million girls in Nigeria that can blow you away with their cooking and you are here taking advice from faceless people. Ask your advisers if they have had such a babe and how they handled it, how it turned out, how they cooked for her or registered the babe into a culinary school and she turned pro.

If this is a babe you want to marry, ask all these sweet talking advisors to tell you how they were with a terrible cook and went ahead to marry her then it turned out wonderful in the end after plenty teaching and correcting.

Olddays12:
What's the best way to tell your girlfriend she's not good at cooking without hurting her, because she's a very nice girl. She's good in every other thing but her cooking skills is not encouraging, how do i tell her without hurting her?

Please never use comparison method, abeg.
By Correcting Her, let's say she adds too much salt to food.

You can simply say, dear can you please always reduce the quantity of salt you add to food or say can you watch the quantity of salt you add to my food please.

Or get involved if you can cook better than her by telling her let both of you do it together and explain some processes to her while cooking and what results it will give, mansplanation

Olddays12:
What's the best way to tell your girlfriend she's not good at cooking without hurting her, because she's a very nice girl. She's good in every other thing but her cooking skills is not encouraging, how do i tell her without hurting her?

babe your cooking skill na real wa o

No body is good in everything. She is good other things just things just the cooking. So bear with her on that if she is a nice girl. What will you do in my own case, my wife is good in every other things but not good in bed. And we have been married for over five years now. I just ge :ot used to it. Though not all men could cope with this, but the essence is that we all can't be good in all things