jumper524:
it has ots ups and down but in general it makes you a man.
even you if you get pikin for future, you go see your self like how graduates dey see non graduates for street.

So You mean single men dey bang without stress like married men?

For me I don't envy bachelors because I know that after all the run arounds he'll surely settle with the LOHL.

Hassanmaye:

Sir You are lucky praise the Lord

No I'm not lucky I'm blessed

Fhowe:
we all would get old if you are rich old age is not a problem , i know of a particular bachelor in my former estate he was a landlord there we got talking at a lounger i was shocked when he told me he was not married , he his always looking nice has a chef in his house omo that year i dey emvy the guy oo

Ok oo, for me I love d concept of having children in a family setting. So marriage is a yes for me. I dnt think I will ever envy a bachelor. So am carefully scrutinizing my future life partner. Dating broke, lazy n entitled ladies would make relationship look like a waste of time. But trust me, been married to a like minded person is a beautiful experience on it own too.

komzy589:

Na frustrated person dey talk like this. The funny part na say dem nor dey know, until words like ‘mumu’ and ‘ozuor’ dey flow for their mouth.

if e dey pain you, go and marry except you be Ózuòr. Infact, 1st class mumu.

Kids like you are scattered all over the internet speaking with their anus.

Mariangeles:


You see? They give you (a sense of) purpose, what most, if not all bachelors aspire to have.

They shouldn't be the ones giving me a sense of purpose.... It should be my wife the person who promised to go the whole length with me.... What's the purpose of children when ones partner is unreasonable....

Offpointng:


80% of Graduates envies undergraduates, cuz then you enjoy free money, free female friends flocking around, cruise and the vibe. All you just need do is read and pass

But ask graduates now how it feels like

I have to think back to then if I miss it...I think it's relative. Some do, some don't. Likewise in marriage. Some miss singlehood, some don't. Na so so lie I dey see online and this thread when people talk of how wonderful marriage is or their marriages. Excuse me, who are those now having marriages that we see online.

Admin please hide my ID...

As for the school days, for me, I miss it a bit...just the friends made, religious experience, colleagues...just a bit...not now that I'm striving to ride lambo.

DoWhatThouWilt:
Do they?

I love and enjoy my current state of bachelorhood and honestly I do not have the desire to get married now or in future because personally I have come to the realisation that men are living in a world today where there are too many impossible expectations to meet.

Recently, I have been noticing subtle hints of envy from my colleagues at work who are married just from the statements they make.

For example, they usually try to belittle me with statements like You're still a small boy, you don put woman for house? whenever we are having non heated argument over a topic that doesn't even concern marriage in anyway.

When it is their turn to work for some few hours on weekends they make statements like Men like us no suppose they do duty, na una (single men) suppose do am as if I don't have other affairs to attend to during the weekend.

So married men in the House, Do you people envy single men?

I hope this post is not to console yourself? Well, no side of the two is perfect but one is better. And that is to be married. Advantages of that are way more than being single. For instance, if you are single now with some cash and babes are still flocking around you, you think that will continue. Age is coming, one day you will see grey hair and a lot will start changing. Many friends will start departing, no kids to relate with, even no companion like a life partner. Depression may start strolling in. By the way how do you feel when you remember your parents gave birth to you and raised you but you are not ready to give birth to anyone or raise a person? I guess you are afraid of commitment an =d responsibilities. Well, if that be the case then respect married men who do it.

pocohantas:
I just dey imagine say na woman create this thread. Do married women envy spinsters?

Hahhaah

For starters, the thread would be on Page 21 with 95% "logical" responses.

osigiepurr:
if e dey pain you, go and marry except you be Ózuòr. Infact, 1st class mumu.

Kids like you are scattered all over the internet speaking with their anus.

Even though you claim I’m the kid, you will never hear me curse.
I know you’re a matured looking man.
Stop acting like a child.
Calling someone you don’t know ‘mumu’. Act your age bros. You’re a married man for God’s sake 🤦‍♂️

meum:
Some will lie

Oh many will lie ..lolz

Offpointng:


There's nothing in it for men. perhaps, except if you're the type that isn't used to loneliness. Then most men enter it and find out they're even more lonely in the Marriage

True story...

Lexusgs430:
It's cheaper to stay married....

Mathematically impossible.

Farfalla:


For starters, the thread would be on Page 21 with 95% "logical" responses.

It is the logical for me.😂😂😂😂
Logical responses defending marriage from a set that doesn't benefit from it.

DoWhatThouWilt:
Do they?

I love and enjoy my current state of bachelorhood and honestly I do not have the desire to get married now or in future because personally I have come to the realisation that men are living in a world today where there are too many impossible expectations to meet.

Recently, I have been noticing subtle hints of envy from my colleagues at work who are married just from the statements they make.

For example, they usually try to belittle me with statements like You're still a small boy, you don put woman for house? whenever we are having non heated argument over a topic that doesn't even concern marriage in anyway.

When it is their turn to work for some few hours on weekends they make statements like Men like us no suppose they do duty, na una (single men) suppose do am as if I don't have other affairs to attend to during the weekend.

So married men in the House, Do you people envy single men?

If you are in your 30s and still thinking like this then there is gap is your developmental level. It is a kind of sickness. Life is on stages and once you are mature for any stage your whole being will crave for it. This mentality of your is a disease just like homosexuality. They are all distortion is psychology.

charlsecy:
Mathematically impossible.

Economies of scale....... It's very possible..... 😁

YES

maasoap:


Thank you. They don't know beautiful packages that come with marriage and marrying the right partner. Even the sex aspect, it is steady and not that you would be struggling each time you need sex

For real.

Why?
There's nothing good in being single. It's a sign of weakness.
It takes a lot of courage to get married. We're proud.

pocohantas:
I just dey imagine say na woman create this thread. Do married women envy spinsters?


Hahhaah

Most Married Women are Sad, Most ! So They Do Envy Spinsters Only if there Hubby is Irresponsible or Without Vibes!

BigBashiru:


I was not talking about you personally. Quoting you was a mistake.

Dem no dey Appeal On Nairaland as e give you Fire you sef go give am hot ... Wetin na

DonroxyII:
Dem no dey Appeal On Nairaland as e give you Fire you sef go give am hot ... Wetin na

Toxic masculinity.

Why should I envy married people? When most of them are in the DMs begging for one financial assistance or the other both at home and abroad. Whereas, it should be the other way round.

ogreemah:
Been married is far better than been single.

For a man, it makes him coordinated and it increases your IQ output. You actually get more money when you're married.

Been single limits you to just yourself and when you get to 60, 70 still single your life will be miserable.
The secret code to marriage: have very few kids. Even one is ok

Yup! That is what our men don't know or aren't factoring. Our people like to dey born plenty children. Having plenty children costs money to train till when they're max 25. With one or two, life becomes enjoyable as a married man - less expenses and more time to spend with your wife.

ChybuzzDD:


Just few months back and you're already shouting?

Let's see how it goes in the next 3 to 5yrs

Even you?

See your signature na

skj1377:


The lawyer in the office beside me is now dead. He was fund of bringing ladies to his office for sex. In a day he can bring 3 mostly students as he was a part-time lecturer. That lifestyle is not sustainable usually ends in regret.

Na sex kill am? Because married men indulge in extra-marital affairs a lot.

maasoap:


Thank you. They don't know beautiful packages that come with marriage and marrying the right partner. Even the sex aspect, it is steady and not that you would be struggling each time you need sex

Even when there are reports that married women dey issue timetable for sex to their husbands?

BigBashiru:


Toxic masculinity.

dey speak English dey go !

Lexusgs430:


Call it a psychic reaction.......

You've not been married for 25 Years.. that's a huge lie..
You have no reason to lie, you be cool Guy/Man.
I've followed known you for years, if you are actually married, Na recently

YoshihideSuga:


Seun suppose make you a moderator in the Family Section. All rounder and largely honest.

Modi gini

Lexusgs430:
Economies of scale....... It's very possible..... 😁

If at all, its application is only limited to, say, fixed stuff like rent... But as far as feeding, clothes, healthcare, fees, etc. are concerned, a single person spends far lesser.

sacajawea:

You've not been married for 25 Years.. that's a huge lie..
You have no reason to lie, you be cool Guy/Man.
I've followed known you for years, if you are actually married, Na recently

Till I send you a copy of marriage certificate.......🤣😂

My Guy, you might think I am a small boy from my interactions, I have been married for 24 year + (by October), it would be 25 year's + I have 2 children in the university and the last one going to University in 2 years........

So you see, I am almost going to be a grandpa (you might also not believe this).......😂🤣