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A thread was created stating facts about introverts. https://www.nairaland.com/8085220/facts-introvert-people#up

Those are exactly facts about me. But Nigeria is not for soft introverted people. You have to be tough and assertive.
In addition to introversion, I have esteem and confidence issues as a result of my physical insecurities. It has been a limitation for me too.
I can't socialize, network, be assertive and be dominant as a man.

How can I break free? Who has transitioned from introvert to extrovert before? How did you do it?

Be Yourself Irrespective Of The Curcumstance In Circulation Ni O. Always Bring Out The Ginger In You

I'm also Introverted, it's not about Introvert OR Extrovert, It's Devotion that brings Success, be devoted to your business even if you are introvert, I'm an introvert and I'm into Sales. And I'm doing Good at it Earning well. It's your Devotion that matters not your personality. I've seen extrovert That is so broke also. In nigeria. Make your Money and mind your business. You owe nobody shit

Albertone:
A thread was created stating facts about introverts. https://www.nairaland.com/8085220/facts-introvert-people#up

Those are exactly facts about me. But Nigeria is not for soft introverted people. You have to be tough and assertive.
In addition to introversion, I have esteem and confidence issues as a result of my physical insecurities. It has been a limitation for me too.
I can't socialize, network, be assertive and be dominant as a man.

How can I break free? Who has transitioned from introvert to extrovert before? How did you do it?

It kind of happens naturally as you progress in life, taking responsibilities and getting older, you start knowing how to put words, not so sure though

Be yourself bro

Albertone:
A thread was created stating facts about introverts. https://www.nairaland.com/8085220/facts-introvert-people#up

Those are exactly facts about me. But Nigeria is not for soft introverted people. You have to be tough and assertive.
In addition to introversion, I have esteem and confidence issues as a result of my physical insecurities. It has been a limitation for me too.
I can't socialize, network, be assertive and be dominant as a man.

How can I break free? Who has transitioned from introvert to extrovert before? How did you do it?

Leave social media and start reading and focusing on your skill and career development.
You need things to boost ur confidence....and self image.
You also must try to improve your financial status at all cost...this might take few years to execute..but keep on
.
Just keep learning

Read books to broaden your mind
Read biographies to understand the life and struggles of most great men
Read history and political philosophies to understand how this world works
Read philosophy to understand the bedrock and ideas surrounding most life issues and existential questions
Read Psychological books to understand human nature and their tendencies
Read classics literature....
Read also books also about development and women nature cos of ur relationship with opposite sex

Focus ur mind in ur growth and financial freedom...
Then while at this join groups ...club...or church dept if u are Christians where u can be useful and serve others...

Aside these... there's so shortcut to solving ur problem
.
U need confident boost and those are the way out

NiRfreak:
Leave social media and start reading and focusing on your skill and career development.
You need things to boost ur confidence....and self image.
You also must try to improve your financial status at all cost...this might take few years to execute..but keep on
.
Just keep learning

Read books to broaden your mind
Read biographies to understand the life and struggles of most great men
Read history and political philosophies to understand how this world works
Read philosophy to understand the bedrock and ideas surrounding most life issues and existential questions
Read Psychological books to understand human nature and their tendencies
Read classics literature....
Read also books also about development and women nature cos of ur relationship with opposite sex

Focus ur mind in ur growth and financial freedom...
Then while at this join groups ...club...or church dept if u are Christians where u can be useful and serve others...

Aside these... there's so shortcut to solving ur problem
.
U need confident boost and those are the way out

Loaded advice.
Thank you so much.

SHIVA001:
I'm also Introverted, it's not about Introvert OR Extrovert, It's Devotion that brings Success, be devoted to your business even if you are introvert, I'm an introvert and I'm into Sales. And I'm doing Good at it Earning well. It's your Devotion that matters not your personality. I've seen extrovert That is so broke also. In nigeria. Make your Money and mind your business. You owe nobody shit

Thank you

SHIVA001:
I'm also Introverted, it's not about Introvert OR Extrovert, It's Devotion that brings Success, be devoted to your business even if you are introvert, I'm an introvert and I'm into Sales. And I'm doing Good at it Earning well. It's your Devotion that matters not your personality. I've seen extrovert That is so broke also. In nigeria. Make your Money and mind your business. You owe nobody shit

On a second thought. That sales can actually help me develop and leave my comfort zone.

Are you in business or you're doing sales as a job? Can you shed more light?
I'm looking for something to keep me busy and earning after this my final exams.