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Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by grommet: 12:15pm On May 09
I have tend to notice that the nigerian community “abroad” is toxic. People are just filled with too much gossip, people also try to one up you, you wonder if they are your friends. Some come to your personal life and after its a mess as they come with a wave of drama to it.

Sometimes its annoying being in those spaces because its all about ‘this guy’s wife sleeping with different men who are sleeping with different girls and so on and so forth. It’s kind of annoying

Has anyone noticed this? Thoughts

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by DaddyYankee: 12:59pm On May 09
It's normal with Nigerians, always full of Drama.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by 2aces(m): 1:01pm On May 09
Carry a Nigeria woman travel abroad is like bathing with petrol and walking into fire.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by beryledibor: 4:05pm On May 09
Even in nairaland they are toxic

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by veekid(m): 4:05pm On May 09
Envy, pride, tenbelekun, dale ru, da ona ru. Awon oloshi Omo Iran kiran

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Nwaikpe: 4:05pm On May 09
May Israel totally obliterate Hamas and every muslim terrorist in this world. May Christian America rise to realize that their kids in college are being brainwashed to believe the propaganda of wicked Islamist. May they understand that the muslims are not only after Israel but also after Christian America and all Christians as well.

Anyone who is against the people of Saturday, will surely come after the people of Sunday too.


Totally Obliterate Hamas in Gaza and return Gaza to a serene community like that of Christians.


In the name of Allah I pray, Amin.



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NB: Never come here to tell me how Jews hate Christians. I am safer with a wicked Jew than a kind muslim. smiley smiley

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Ademola47(m): 4:05pm On May 09
Ok
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by RodgersAkpafu: 4:05pm On May 09
grommet:
I have tend to notice that the nigerian community “abroad” is toxic. People are just filled with too much gossip, people also try to one up you, you wonder if they are your friends. Some come to your personal life and after its a mess as they come with a wave of drama to it.

Sometimes its annoying being in those spaces because its all about ‘this guy’s wife sleeping with different men who are sleeping with different girls and so on and so forth. It’s kind of annoying

Has anyone noticed this? Thoughts

Nigerians are from a toxic country, most who don't realise they are from a toxic country

so anywhere they congregate in numbers; that toxicity must rear its ugly head

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Unclebayo(m): 4:06pm On May 09
grommet:
I have tend to notice that the nigerian community “abroad” is toxic. People are just filled with too much gossip, people also try to one up you, you wonder if they are your friends. Some come to your personal life and after its a mess as they come with a wave of drama to it.

Sometimes its annoying being in those spaces because its all about ‘this guy’s wife sleeping with different men who are sleeping with different girls and so on and so forth. It’s kind of annoying

Has anyone noticed this? Thoughts
you're asking people living in iragbiji and ogbomosho if they've noticed toxic community in UK... Kontinew playing

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by SpatialKing(m): 4:06pm On May 09
Associating with Nigerian communities abroad is not a must

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by CartelKenneth: 4:06pm On May 09
Useless people
Are we really sure that it’s God who created Africans?

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Biggie225(m): 4:06pm On May 09
If I travel abroad, I will never interact with black men again, especially Nigerians.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Nahunger(m): 4:06pm On May 09
angry
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Day169: 4:06pm On May 09
2aces:
Carry a Nigeria woman travel abroad is like bathing with petrol and walking into fire.
Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!! 🙆‍♀️🙆‍♂️🙆🙆‍♀️🙆‍♂️
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Klass99(f): 4:06pm On May 09

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by OceanGate33: 4:06pm On May 09
Not easy anyway
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Macdeey: 4:06pm On May 09
cool Stop 🛑🛑🛑 disturbing us and................

Meanwhile ......

When I was in Togo 90 % of the girls I Nacked na my Nigerian sisters . Because Nacking Togolese girls get some spiritual wahala I swear.

Here in Ghana I still dey Nack my Nigerian girls and some few Ghanaian girls. 😁😁😁

For Abidjan na 50 / 50 . But i like the Naija born Abidjan girls pass 😁😁😁

For Niger Republic Na the White Buzu girls I dey Nack 😁😁😁
Burkina Faso girls dey very expensive ! Na my Naija Ashaawooo girls I dey Nack 😁😁😁
For Senegal ! Just dey Nack Naija Ashaawooo too 😁😁😁😁😁😁
But in all Just dey Avoid Togolese girls , Dem get Spiritual Demons for dem Nyash 😡😡😡

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by id4sho(m): 4:07pm On May 09
tongue
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by flipdat(m): 4:07pm On May 09
They are more patriotic than nigerians in nigeria. I’m sick of them. You see them on social media representing nigeria like it’s the best nation on earth😂

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by bestman09(m): 4:07pm On May 09
I won't say anything yet till i get there!
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by emkz: 4:07pm On May 09
This is too generic.

My reading of it applies to Nigerians and everyone else everywhere.

Most people are looking after their own interests. Once you find out their interests would require too much sacrifice from you, why not stay away?

There are pastors who claim they were called and collect money from struggling Nigerians both in Nigeria and abroad who follow them.

There are some Nigerians who get close and start getting jealous of you: wanting what you have including your network, your money, your wife and even your life. Why do you keep such relationships if something is not wrong with you?

Then there are Nigerians too. Professionals who always show up for one another. They help each other genuinely. When I was abroad many years ago, there was one. A woman. She showed me the way to settle and held my hand to avoid pitfalls. I returned the favour to others.

Pass it on.

Avoid needless competition. It is exhausting. Cooperate to advance each other. That is how the Indians and Chinese get ahead of blacks.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Vlibray: 4:07pm On May 09
100%
Toxic fu*kers, most of them are filled with bad vibes and negative energy

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Praying4Nigeria: 4:07pm On May 09
grommet:
I have tend to notice that the nigerian community “abroad” is toxic. People are just filled with too much gossip, people also try to one up you, you wonder if they are your friends. Some come to your personal life and after its a mess as they come with a wave of drama to it.

Sometimes its annoying being in those spaces because its all about ‘this guy’s wife sleeping with different men who are sleeping with different girls and so on and so forth. It’s kind of annoying

Has anyone noticed this? Thoughts
Yes! But it is not really their fault at all. My over 12 Years of Deep Research on why Nigeria and Nigerians are how they are unearthed one major Terrible Truth: Negative Social Engineering was subconsciously mentally Applied on Nigerians way back, even when the Colonial Masters pretended that they left physically. Our current Government must be very intentional about Re-Oritantion Programs and Positive Social Engineering to Restore Nigerians Unitedly Glorious Mentality. OBJ knew this and tried a little to Reverse the Nigerian-to-Nigerian backbiting stupid mentality.

gnss:
. Suggest What the Present Leader Can do to Strengthens the Naira Against the Dollar ..
Most Financial Analysts have said this again and again and again both online and offline. The Financial Strength and Backbone of this Nation after Petroleum is Agriculture.
All that the current Government needs to do to make Nigeria Prosperous is to implement what Awolowo did in Partnership with Citizens under him to Generate massive Wealth which was then used to Transform Western Region of Nigeria back then to become the first ever African Sub-Nation to Develop Modern World-class Social Amenities, Manufacturing Industries and Tech Infrastructures.

Even without selling Petroleum at all, how did he generate such massive Money that made the Sub-Country so Prosperous back then? He massively enticed Youths into Farming with guarantee that his Government buys their Harvests and Exports it. Most Youths will Farm if they know it would lead to guaranteed Wealth for them as Awolowo ensured during his Time. He literally shielded the Farmers from Foreign exploiters by ensuing his Government fix the Stable Profitable Agro Prices, and cut off the foreign Agro Market Manipulators.

Some erroneously think current Nigerian Youths can never like Farming, that's a big Lie. In fact, the current mindset of most Nigerian Youths about Farming was carefully planted by Enemies of Nigeria through mental Manipulations and Negative Social Engineering. Back then, they Deceived Nigerians out of Farming by saying University Degree is all you need in Life! Many Graduates now are committing suicide or dieing silently inside for lack of Job even as age goes up while their "illiterate" mates in Farming and Business are long married, raising family and progressing financially. Many other Graduates are turning into Yahoo-Plus killing Innocent fellow Nigerians just to generate money; this current situation was carefully planned and Masterminded by the Colonial Masters that said spend your Productive Life chasing their non-Practicable dumbed-down Education.

Government has all the resources and tool to mentally direct or re-direct her People towards United Nationhood. If Hitler used media to mentally twist gentle Germans to become mass murderers, any Serious Government can do Positive Re-Orientation. Before Obasanjo's time, Nigerians were something else mentally, but but just 2 Years into his Tenure, most have become reasonable. Buhari Era mentally polluted and mentally destroyed many Nigerians. Awesome Nigeria-mimndset was achieved by Obasanjo's Re-Orientation Programs, simple National Radio/TV Daily Jingle of Re-Orientation Program like Obasanjo did "Nigeria! Good People Great Nation!" and "Change begins with me!" miraculously created positive mental effects that translated into general Progress for the Country.

I have an awesome Documented Re-Orientation Program that this Government can use, but how do we Access them?! Is the President and Presidency even accessible?!
With Positive Re-Orientation of the Youths about Farming, Nigeria's Forex through Farming shall triple or quadruple. Naira would become Stronger than ever before. GOD Bless Nigeria!
https://www.nairaland.com/8086984/guaranteed-most-practicable-way-permanently

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Kutunban: 4:08pm On May 09
Sad
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by flipdat(m): 4:08pm On May 09
As a nigerian i rarely hang with nigerians, it’s always the same topics, it gets boring after a while.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Blackestjunior(m): 4:08pm On May 09
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Bullfallo(m): 4:08pm On May 09
Loud noise and they raise voice when talking.

A white man can be arguing in the next apartment and you won’t hear much. But when Nigerians are arguing the whole building will hear noise.

The evolution might be due to the climate. Cold weather over there and heat in Africa or the noise pollution in Nigeria which make us talk loudly in other to hear one another.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Komu1048(m): 4:09pm On May 09
Una wey God help jakpa no even know wetin God do for una. Toxic kor Tonic ni, abeg who know how much be half kilo of chicken now. Make I know if I fit buy one since tinubu don enter govt

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by idongesit88: 4:09pm On May 09
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