[quote author=Santalpharay post=129869409][/quote]😁😁😁
Nacking is one of the ways to deal with stress and get out of loneliness !!!
Going to Bar is not my kind of thing !

The reason why some Nigerians avoid famzing is that we know ourselves.😀
I met a guy like 3 months ago at Nigerian association meeting , next thing he’s asking me for $5k loan to get another apartment. Everytime we are together, he is bombarding me with his problems from home and shit.
I had to start avoiding him because my own dey my body.

Macdeey:
Stop 🛑🛑🛑 disturbing us and................

Meanwhile ......

When I was in Togo 90 % of the girls I Nacked na my Nigerian sisters . Because Nacking Togolese girls get some spiritual wahala I swear.

But in all Just dey Avoid Togolese girls , Dem get Spiritual Demons for dem Nyash 😡😡😡

Lol ... I'm interested in the Togolese girls... What spiritual wàhálà and demons? Like what and what happens? Any personal experience or experiences of friends or acquaintances or stories?
Wetin the girlz rub for body?

sharpwriter:

Lol ... I'm interested in the Togolese girls... What spiritual wàhálà and demons? Like what and what happens? Any personal experience or experiences of friends or acquaintances or stories?
Wetin the girlz rub for body?

My brother ! Just keep off . Dem get too much wahala ! Long explanation 😧😧😧

I can say for Canada 💯
Many carry their toxicity in Nigeria fully down here.

In fact, many stop associating with you immediately they know you are not from their tribe. But I no send anybody papa.

Biggie225:
If I travel abroad, I will never interact with black men again, especially Nigerians.

Even if you enter with PR you need Nigerians over there to help you navigate your way and get you a small job to start with before you finally get that big job...

Unclebayo:
you're asking people living in iragbiji and ogbomosho if they've noticed toxic community in UK... Kontinew playing

Me that I have noticed how people in iragbiji...&ogbomosho are toxic, I would continues to makes them sick-even if dia name is isaac...They don't gives me "sic"&can't makes me "sick"...I would rathers makes them sick in ogbomosho&iragbiji... In ogbomosho&iragbiji, e get anywhere where dem no dey Bleep or suck dick...?I would make dem sick&it would clicks...I don sent stick 2 go 2 right click, I said 2 stick;go...&kick them at right click...Let them fall sick...All those chics&side chics or like side chics...Dey are barbaric...U beta don't clicks let alone clicks on my clicks or on my right clicks, if u don't wants 2 sick/fall sicks...U are using my cheeks&u are not my chics or side chics, so its my time/high time I makes u sick as u clicks or if u clicks...Since u don't take ur time, I won't waste MY TIME;afterall u don't gives me "sic" let alone...

BigDawsNet:


Even if you enter with PR you need Nigerians over there to help you navigate your way and get you a small job to start with before you finally get that big job...

Other nationalities can be far more useful to you than Nigerians in this regard.

Fact!

Klass99:


I have only heard from a friend and one relative abroad. 90% of my phone conversations with said friend was about the drama of their Nigerian group in their host country.

I heard about people I don't know personally, heard of drama that was none of my business, yada yada yada. At first I listened to her because a lot of the group dynamics/issues bothered her, as she was at the centre of some it, but subsequently it became exhausting for me.

I had to ask her one day did you go there for your masters programme or to socialize and fratenise with the Nigerian community over there? Why do you get embroiled in all this drama? Who sent you message to be organizing bridal showers, birthday hangouts, etc? Is that what you left Naija for or a masters degree?

Simple. People will not mind their business. Imagine organizing bridal shower as event planner e b or na wetin carry am go abroad b dt

Biggie225:
If I travel abroad, I will never interact with black men again, especially Nigerians.

Mumu, travel first

Macdeey:
My brother ! Just keep off . Dem get too much wahala ! Long explanation 😧😧😧

Yansh and bweast is life má broda ... Why should I keep off.. Dem be jealous babaláwo pikin ni? Or Damsels betrothed to the gods

grommet:
I have tend to notice that the nigerian community “abroad” is toxic. People are just filled with too much gossip, people also try to one up you, you wonder if they are your friends. Some come to your personal life and after its a mess as they come with a wave of drama to it.

Sometimes its annoying being in those spaces because its all about ‘this guy’s wife sleeping with different men who are sleeping with different girls and so on and so forth. It’s kind of annoying

Has anyone noticed this? Thoughts

Reminds me of a Peter, Olive and Nancy drama


#TrueStory

Just avoid close interactions.

Macdeey:
Stop 🛑🛑🛑 disturbing us and................

Meanwhile ......

When I was in Togo 90 % of the girls I Nacked na my Nigerian sisters . Because Nacking Togolese girls get some spiritual wahala I swear.

Here in Ghana I still dey Nack my Nigerian girls and some few Ghanaian girls. 😁😁😁

For Abidjan na 50 / 50 . But i like the Naija born Abidjan girls pass 😁😁😁

For Niger Republic Na the White Buzu girls I dey Nack 😁😁😁
Burkina Faso girls dey very expensive ! Na my Naija Ashaawooo girls I dey Nack 😁😁😁
For Senegal ! Just dey Nack Naija Ashaawooo too 😁😁😁😁😁😁
But in all Just dey Avoid Togolese girls , Dem get Spiritual Demons for dem Nyash 😡😡😡

after all this your continental knacking, just imagine what dangote is doing at the time you were typing and gloating over your senselessness, we all uses our times on earth differently and it's no wonder that dangote who uses his time judiciously is whom he is today, old age go tell you eventually

The once monthly Nigeria community meeting we attend here is always fun. People contribute for different foods, drinks and small snacks.
They play music and dance. Good orators tell funny jokes.
I always look for to attend the end of month meeting.
Not only that, whenever any member has something like wedding, burial ceremony or graduation, they show up en mass. They make dollars rain.
They also look out for one another, have welfare officers who check on people they have not seen after a while.
They have a group life insurance policy. They have a group store discount card where you could use the card to purchase things on good discount from certain stores. People tell each other about job openings.
They also make sure the deceased body is taken home for final burial if the family so desires.
Long live OPA Boston!

Na person wey get time dey gossip for abroad. This place na fast paced life.

Tflex01:


Other nationalities can be far more useful to you than Nigerians in this regard.

Fact!

I understand but no Indian man or Chinese man will attend to you properly if you are jjc.. you need people that speak your dialect...

I'm telling u dis based on experience...

You need Nigerians in the early stage... later when u balance.. u can reduce the familiarity

emkz:
This is too generic.

My reading of it applies to Nigerians and everyone else everywhere.

Most people are looking after their own interests. Once you find out their interests would require too much sacrifice from you, why not stay away?

There are pastors who claim they were called and collect money from struggling Nigerians both in Nigeria and abroad who follow them.

There are some Nigerians who get close and start getting jealous of you: wanting what you have including your network, your money, your wife and even your life. Why do you keep such relationships if something is not wrong with you?

Then there are Nigerians too. Professionals who always show up for one another. They help each other genuinely. When I was abroad many years ago, there was one. A woman. She showed me the way to settle and held my hand to avoid pitfalls. I returned the favour to others.

Pass it on.

Avoid needless competition. It is exhausting. Cooperate to advance each other. That is how the Indians and Chinese get ahead of blacks.

A Black monkey will always be a black monkey

I never noticed it during my stay. I realized women were quick to cut themselves off from the Nigerian community. I found it better to stick with what I was familiar with (the Nigerian community) than trying to understand new cultures.

Satazaa:
after all this your continental knacking, just imagine what dangote is doing at the time you were typing and gloating over your senselessness, we all uses our times on earth differently and it's no wonder that dangote who uses his time judiciously is whom he is today, old age go tell you eventually

Even Dangote dey Nack 😁🤣😁
Ask Nairaland for the post !! Don't go far asking google 😎

But how una dey get time for all the toxic gossips? Because all you made us feel like is that abroad is not easy, you told us abroad is all about work work and work for 24/7...
So una still get time for gossips?
E be like say una no know wetin you want

grommet:
I have tend to notice that the nigerian community “abroad” is toxic. People are just filled with too much gossip, people also try to one up you, you wonder if they are your friends. Some come to your personal life and after its a mess as they come with a wave of drama to it.

Sometimes its annoying being in those spaces because its all about ‘this guy’s wife sleeping with different men who are sleeping with different girls and so on and so forth. It’s kind of annoying

Has anyone noticed this? Thoughts

It's worse in Nigeria

sharpwriter:

Yansh and bweast is life má broda ... Why should I keep off.. Dem be jealous babaláwo pikin ni? Or Damsels betrothed to the gods

I swear many of my business Naija people suffered from the Togolese girls Nyash !!!
Some of dem No recover for Business till now ! And Once they know that you get good business hmmmmmm My brother forget about 😕😕
And no matter how good you treat dem ! They always keep their Togolese Boyfriends ( Side-Boy ) we dey Nack dem

Come home if you are tired

GambaOsaka:
The reason why some Nigerians avoid famzing is that we know ourselves.😀
I met a guy like 3 months ago at Nigerian association meeting , next thing he’s asking me for $5k loan to get another apartment. Everytime we are together, he is bombarding me with his problems from home and shit.
I had to start avoiding him because my own dey my body.

Make I disturb you small baba abeg wire me any amount you fit release, country hard and fuel cost

If you are a Nigerian newbie overseas. Avoid Nigerians until you are stable and secure . Lesson in there

If you are a Nigerian newbie overseas. Avoid Nigerians until you are stable and secure . Huge Lesson in there

Klass99:


Lol.

And if you hear when she is talking about these issues ehn. She was like a woman in grief, mourning the loss of a loved one, who needed to vent her pain. I was like kilode? Can you please face front and mind the business that took you to obodo.

Chai, mk e go rest

If you are a Nigerian abroad and you are Toxic, just know you have been toxic from back home. It didn't just happen.

Toxicity is as a result of hardship and poverty.

Most of you are doing shitty jobs that you can't even pay rent.

My advise is for you to enroll into the University and get a degree that will help your life.

Get a UK Degree online from anywhere you are.

You do not need to pay the huge UK Tution fee of £15,000.

You will be given a huge Discount on Tution.

You will just pay £4000 per year as Tution fee.

All courses are available from B.Sc, M.Sc or Doctorate all from a UK University.

Best part is you STUDY ONLINE.

Get preoccupied. Develop yourself. Study something you like that can land you a better job with good money and you will see how toxicity will fly out of you without you even knowing.

If not, most of you will end up Single for the rest of your life as I hear that most Nigerians abroad are either single or divorced. Nobody would want to live with you because of your toxicity.

If you are interested in getting a UK Degree with huge Tution Fee discount, you can send me a DM let me help your life.

Emmanuel30a:
Me that I have noticed how people in iragbiji...&ogbomosho are toxic, I would continues to makes them sick-even if dia name is isaac...They don't gives me "sic"&can't makes me "sick"...I would rathers makes them sick in ogbomosho&iragbiji... In ogbomosho&iragbiji, e get anywhere where dem no dey Bleep or suck dick...?I would make dem sick&it would clicks...I don sent stick 2 go 2 right click, I said 2 stick;go...&kick them at right click...Let them fall sick...All those chics&side chics or like side chics...Dey are barbaric...U beta don't clicks let alone clicks on my clicks or on my right clicks, if u don't wants 2 sick/fall sicks...U are using my cheeks&u are not my chics or side chics, so its my time/high time I makes u sick as u clicks or if u clicks...Since u don't take ur time, I won't waste MY TIME;afterall u don't gives me "sic" let alone...

Chairman abeg wetin you talk?

Some (not all) Nigerian communities are toxic EVERYWHERE!

Yep. Even here in Nigeria!

If this was ever in doubt, last general elections cleared such doubts.