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Vyzz:



If you are a lady and you are reading this just know that your bf no go marry u...


U get bad habit

Ewoooo!....
Laugh wan kill me

doggedfighter:
You're looking for correct lady too?

Okay na ! 😅

before na mad person i go marry U sef

Na achievement?

Rita33:
What's your definition of a correct lady Bro?

someone that is not a mad person.

Interesting15:
Marriage is one of God's core strategies to empower us to become all He has destined us to be with great ease. In other words, you are primarily aiming to marry a lady not for sex or childbearing or companionship sake, but the most important thing is that she will play a unique and pivotal role in helping you fulfill destiny (becoming all God has destined you to be) with great ease.

Remember, in Genesis, when God was done shaping a destiny for Adam in the garden of Eden, He planned a wife for him too:
‭‭
And the Lord God said, “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him.” Genesis 2:18.

God was also saying, "It is not good that man should try running his race of destiny alone".
‭‭
Two are better than one, Because they have a good reward for their labor. [10] For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls, For he has no one to help him up. (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10)

So, when God said "It is not good that man should try running his race of destiny alone", He brought about an instant solution: "I will make a helper (the job of a helper is to make things easier for you)."

God was saying, "The woman I will give him will help him run the race of destiny to make it easier for him."

All that mattered wasn't about her body or about her curves (or about any physical thing we prioritize today). It was all about the fact that the woman, Eve, has a divine configuration to help Adam fulfill destiny with ease.

Now, it should be noted that if God will trust a man with a correct woman who will help him in his journey to destiny, then that man too must have the capacity to help the woman fulfill destiny.

To attract a correct woman, you must be a correct man too. In the context of our conversations here (about marriage), a correct lady is a lady God has configured to help you fulfill your destiny as your wife.


For a woman to have such a configuration, she must be:

1. Genuinely saved
2. Submitted to the Holy Spirit
3. Have started running with destiny

In my book "Getting A Correct Lady To Say Yes To Your Marriage Proposal", I drew a full portrait of who a correct lady is in full details, and one of the things you will discover is that it has nothing to do with physical features (curves, shapes, height, etc).

Remember, don't jump at just any woman when it comes to choosing a life partner, but make sure the lady you will go for has what it takes to be an adequate helper for your destiny actualization.

But then, to attract a correct woman, you must be a correct man too (have the right configurations to help her fulfill destiny also).


https://www.instagram.com/p/C7Ha7VcI1Pj/?igsh=bzlra3hicDh3MXhj

A correct woman will show you her incorrect side immediately she says I do.

None of them is correct, Just choose the one that you can cope with her incorrectness

Cutehector:
someone that is not a mad person.

Hahahahah😁😁😁

Ikr

I hate when we guys make everything about women. Like getting a woman is your life goal? No it's not you stupid mugu.
Maybe it's cause I am happily married but why not make a topic titled how to get your own life correct ?

Fūck the OP and those who like this dogshìt article

Rita33:
What's your definition of a correct lady Bro?

Low body count

Can cook and clean

Knows how to talk and get involved on meaningful discussion

Feminine and not aggressive or toxic

God fearing

No bestie and all those things..

All in no particular order

Vyzz:
Low body count

Can cook and clean

Knows how to talk and get involved on meaningful discussion

Feminine and not aggressive or toxic

God fearing

No bestie and all those things..

All in no particular order

So correct

Interesting15:
Marriage is one of God's core strategies to empower us to become all He has destined us to be with great ease. In other words, you are primarily aiming to marry a lady not for sex or childbearing or companionship sake, but the most important thing is that she will play a unique and pivotal role in helping you fulfill destiny (becoming all God has destined you to be) with great ease.

Since the very first woman (Eve) was created, show me just one instance where Eve had helped his husband to 'fulfil destiny' other than reproduction??
Man was in unison with his maker until Eve step into the picture. The ONLY thing Adam gauned from Eve was reproduction. Other than that, Eve helped in thr distraction of Adam from his primal destiny.

"TWO GOOD HEADS" are better than one!
If Eve had not bn created, humanity would most prolly not be in this precarious position; God would NOT have needed to send His Most precious and Only Son to endure the shame of the cross to undo the disobedience of Adam THRU HIS WIFE!

Remember, in Genesis, when God was done shaping a destiny for Adam in the garden of Eden, He planned a wife for him too:
‭‭
And the Lord God said, “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him.” Genesis 2:18.

God was also saying, "It is not good that man should try running his race of destiny alone".

Show us the woman that helped Jesus 'run' His earthly ministry!
Dey play!

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Two (GOOD HEADS) are better than one, Because they have a good reward for their labor. [10] For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls, For he has no one to help him up. (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10)[/b]

So, when God said "It is not good that man should try running his race of destiny alone", He brought about an instant solution: "I will make a helper (the job of a helper is to make things easier for you)."
God was saying, "The woman I will give him will help him run the race of destiny to make it easier for him."

Have u bothered to ask yourself why the maker of the universe spent close to 34 earthly years on this planet yet REFUSED to take a wife??
Or u thot he was impotent abi?? (God forbid)
Check Matt 19:10-12

All that mattered wasn't about her body or about her curves (or about any physical thing we prioritize today). It was all about the fact that the woman, Eve, has a divine configuration to help Adam fulfill destiny with ease.

Pray, which 'destiny' is greater than (entering) the kingdom of God/being in God's preaence?
Every 'help' you can get from a woman is to assist you in gaining the treasures of this world ie lateral progression. None is vertical (ie gaining the kingdom of God!)

Thats why The Creator Himself ask u to seperate yourself (during fasting) from your wife for a season just to get closer to Him

Now, it should be noted that if God will trust a man with a correct woman who will help him in his journey to destiny, then that man too must have the capacity to help the woman fulfill destiny.

To attract a correct woman, you must be a correct man too. In the context of our conversations here (about marriage), a correct lady is a lady God has configured to help you fulfill your destiny as your wife.


For a woman to have such a configuration, she must be:

1. Genuinely saved
2. Submitted to the Holy Spirit
3. Have started running with destiny

In my book "Getting A Correct Lady To Say Yes To Your Marriage Proposal", I drew a full portrait of who a correct lady is in full details, and one of the things you will discover is that it has nothing to do with physical features (curves, shapes, height, etc).

Remember, don't jump at just any woman when it comes to choosing a life partner, but make sure the lady you will go for has what it takes to be an adequate helper for your destiny actualization.

But then, to attract a correct woman, you must be a correct man too (have the right configurations to help her fulfill destiny also).


https://www.instagram.com/p/C7Ha7VcI1Pj/?igsh=bzlra3hicDh3MXhj

If those who marry will be sincere to you, they know that the only reason they get married is either:
1. The 'sweetness' of sex/Need for 'legitimate' sex.
2. Reproduction
3. Its 'time' to get married/their mates are getting married.
Dassol
EVERY OTHER THING, YOU CAN BUY WITH MONEY/GET FROM YOUR FELLOW MAN


Those who cant do without sex should marry abeg, nor be by force. 'Strong meat' is not for everyone.
Drink ur 'milk' in peace, no wahala!

Correct Lady in Nigeria Abi Where?

shortgun:
Your writeup is full of contradictory statements and ambiguities.
Women do not help men in fulfilling any destiny, a man was already a complete package before the arrival of the woman...
It's men that help women.
God created women simply to be companions and not partners as most you ignorantly assert these days....

There's no single account in the Bible where the presence of a woman in a man's life made his life better.
Sarah,eve, Rachel,Esther, Hanna, Ruth e.t.c..what most of them brought to the man was barreness,enmity with god and suffering

Is there anyone on earth that doesn't need someone to fulfill his or her destiny?

Well, when a teenager speaks, his comments would be filled with inexperiences.

Fiscus105:
Is there anyone on earth that doesn't need someone to fulfill his or her destiny?

Well, when a teenager speaks, his comments would be filled with inexperiences.

Destiny does not even exist in the first place.
Your "Destiny" is the sum total of all decisions you take or did not take in the course of your life.

Those who postulate that a man needs a woman to be complete are highlighting imperfections in the creation of man by God....this is not biblical

Allisgud:
One babe wey I chenk,I say make I go for,I put marriage proposal to her playfully to know her reaction,she told me it's not gonna work🤔🤔
Person wey get small yansh and breast i say make I manage

Lol.

Put marriage proposal playfully? You are funny. Were you expecting her to be desperate or needy just because you brought the marriage convo😏

And if she gets excited at the playful marriage proposal, it is same you men that will say she's an evening newspaper or non-virgin and want to trap y'all.

The girl is very smart. I don't know her but I like her. She knew you weren't serious hence she told you it won't work.

Take your L in peace.

And @ the bolded, you don't "manage" people based on their physical appearance. It is either you like them totally or you don't. I get irritated whenever I see that comment. The fact that you don't appreciate her small boobs and ass shows what you were in the relationship for.

If you nor like small boobs and ass, please go for your spec and stop disturbing people's daughters and later turn around to say "you are managing them".

There are few women in Nigeria who can actually help a man achieve God's purpose in his life.Many of them are after the type of cars, smart phones and human hair, including number of vacations and birthday celebrations they gonna get from their man.

folake4u:
Lol.

Put marriage proposal playfully? You are funny. Were you expecting her to be desperate or needy just because you brought the marriage convo😏

And if she gets excited at the playful marriage proposal, it is same you men that will say she's an evening newspaper or non-virgin and want to trap y'all.

The girl is very smart. I don't know her but I like her. She knew you weren't serious hence she told you it won't work.

Take your L in peace.

And @ the bolded, you don't "manage" people based on their physical appearance. It is either you're in or out. I get irritated whenever I see that comment. The fact that you don't appreciate her small boobs and ass shows what you were in the relationship for.

If you nor like small boobs and ass, please go for your spec and stop disturbing people's daughters and later turn around to say "you are managing them".

🤣🤣when I say playfully,it's a WhatsApp chat,it's not a direct question,she asked where I stay I told her,she said that place is far,I asked can't she stay any other place apart from lagos Island she grew up from she said no except abroad,so i now said,so if we get married u wount move with me to my place

Allisgud:
🤣🤣when I say playfully,it's a WhatsApp chat,it's not a direct question,she asked where I stay I told her,she said that place is far,I asked can't she stay any other place apart from lagos Island she grew up from she said no except abroad,so i now said,so if we get married u wount move with me to my place

How you go dey do marriage proposal for Whatsapp? I suppose use belt flog you.

Ah. Na Amukoko, Epe or Badagry you dey stay? If e too far, she won't cope. That one sef na long distance relationship for inside Lagos.

Oh it seems she has Japa plans as well.

But then again, please desist from "managing" people. Thank you.

Interesting15:
Marriage is one of God's core strategies to empower us to become all He has destined us to be with great ease. In other words, you are primarily aiming to marry a lady not for sex or childbearing or companionship sake, but the most important thing is that she will play a unique and pivotal role in helping you fulfill destiny (becoming all God has destined you to be) with great ease.

Remember, in Genesis, when God was done shaping a destiny for Adam in the garden of Eden, He planned a wife for him too:
‭‭
And the Lord God said, “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him.” Genesis 2:18.

God was also saying, "It is not good that man should try running his race of destiny alone".
‭‭
Two are better than one, Because they have a good reward for their labor. [10] For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls, For he has no one to help him up. (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10)

So, when God said "It is not good that man should try running his race of destiny alone", He brought about an instant solution: "I will make a helper (the job of a helper is to make things easier for you)."

God was saying, "The woman I will give him will help him run the race of destiny to make it easier for him."

All that mattered wasn't about her body or about her curves (or about any physical thing we prioritize today). It was all about the fact that the woman, Eve, has a divine configuration to help Adam fulfill destiny with ease.

Now, it should be noted that if God will trust a man with a correct woman who will help him in his journey to destiny, then that man too must have the capacity to help the woman fulfill destiny.

To attract a correct woman, you must be a correct man too. In the context of our conversations here (about marriage), a correct lady is a lady God has configured to help you fulfill your destiny as your wife.


For a woman to have such a configuration, she must be:

1. Genuinely saved
2. Submitted to the Holy Spirit
3. Have started running with destiny

In my book "Getting A Correct Lady To Say Yes To Your Marriage Proposal", I drew a full portrait of who a correct lady is in full details, and one of the things you will discover is that it has nothing to do with physical features (curves, shapes, height, etc).

Remember, don't jump at just any woman when it comes to choosing a life partner, but make sure the lady you will go for has what it takes to be an adequate helper for your destiny actualization.

But then, to attract a correct woman, you must be a correct man too (have the right configurations to help her fulfill destiny also).


https://www.instagram.com/p/C7Ha7VcI1Pj/?igsh=bzlra3hicDh3MXhj

Powerful quotes
Let me add this though
A married friend sent me this today while we were talking about something
‭Proverbs 19:14 KJV‬
[14] House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: And a prudent wife is from the LORD.

Make her want u she will say yes. She don't have a choice.

Allisgud:
One babe wey I chenk,I say make I go for,I put marriage proposal to her playfully to know her reaction,she told me it's not gonna work🤔🤔
Person wey get small yansh and breast i say make I manage

You obviously not ready for marriage

Hamachi:
You obviously not ready for marriage

why do u say that

id4sho:
All this possessed babes. Shakara no dey leave them see road. It works only when they are desperate. The worse thing to happen is a uninterested woman 💯

A lot of them have more than one boyfriend & guys/orbiters at the back burner

Spiritual steps sometimes aren’t even practical it’s survival of the fittest for most and Charles Darwin’s law of natural selection comes into play
All these relationships threads just make me laugh when I read them to be honest
Both parties (males & females) should keep playing the game.
It’s funny to read threads from experienced & inexperienced people

folake4u:
How you go dey do marriage proposal for Whatsapp? I suppose use belt flog you.

Ah. Na Amukoko, Epe or Badagry you dey stay? If e too far, she won't cope. That one sef na long distance relationship for inside Lagos.

Oh it seems she has Japa plans as well.

But then again, please desist from "managing" people. Thank you.

folake why do nigerian artist always like using ur name in their songs

As crude as it may sound, in the present day we are living in, a woman (who plans to marry someday) should be grateful to receive a marriage proposal. The key to marriage lies with HIM, not HER.
She only has power over the type of dick that gains access to (between) her thighs, but when it comes to marriage the sole power lies with HIM.
The average man can chose to marry every saturday. A woman (apart from the disadvantage of menopause which is not a man's problem) cannot.

The 'game' is not fair, and d earlier females realise this, the better for them.
A man can still reproduce at 100 years. Can a woman perform a similar feat??

Hamachi:
You obviously not ready for marriage

Allisgud:
folake why do nigerian artist always like using ur name in their songs

Because I dey stress them.

The headline made me not to read it. Correct lady indeed, you b agboro o

Been reading comments
Lol I see marriage rates tremendously dropping because of bad economy, attitudes & entitlement mentality in the future
Some comments are funny

I dey find correct babe sef like this... Make I start dey make plans

[quote author=MichaelSokoto post=130027992][/quote]I'll try this thing you have in your signature, I want to see what it is like to be ban on nairaland.
Since my many years here, I've not got a ban.

richie240:
As crude as it may sound, in the present day we are living in, a woman (who plans to marry someday) should be grateful to receive a marriage proposal. The key to marriage lies with HIM, not HER.
She only has power over the type of dick that gains access to (between) her thighs, but when it comes to marriage the sole power lies with HIM.
The average man can chose to marry every saturday. A woman (apart from the disadvantage of menopause which is not a man's problem) cannot.

The 'game' is not fair, and d earlier females realise this, the better for them.
A man can still reproduce at 100 years. Can a woman perform a similar feat??

Lies from the pit of hell, show evidence of a man who has reproduce at 100yrs

Allisgud:
why do u say that

His ONLY after her body

Interesting15:
Marriage is one of God's core strategies to empower us to become all He has destined us to be with great ease. In other words, you are primarily aiming to marry a lady not for sex or childbearing or companionship sake, but the most important thing is that she will play a unique and pivotal role in helping you fulfill destiny (becoming all God has destined you to be) with great ease.

Remember, in Genesis, when God was done shaping a destiny for Adam in the garden of Eden, He planned a wife for him too:
‭‭
And the Lord God said, “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him.” Genesis 2:18.

God was also saying, "It is not good that man should try running his race of destiny alone".
‭‭
Two are better than one, Because they have a good reward for their labor. [10] For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls, For he has no one to help him up. (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10)

So, when God said "It is not good that man should try running his race of destiny alone", He brought about an instant solution: "I will make a helper (the job of a helper is to make things easier for you)."

God was saying, "The woman I will give him will help him run the race of destiny to make it easier for him."

All that mattered wasn't about her body or about her curves (or about any physical thing we prioritize today). It was all about the fact that the woman, Eve, has a divine configuration to help Adam fulfill destiny with ease.

Now, it should be noted that if God will trust a man with a correct woman who will help him in his journey to destiny, then that man too must have the capacity to help the woman fulfill destiny.

To attract a correct woman, you must be a correct man too. In the context of our conversations here (about marriage), a correct lady is a lady God has configured to help you fulfill your destiny as your wife.


For a woman to have such a configuration, she must be:

1. Genuinely saved
2. Submitted to the Holy Spirit
3. Have started running with destiny

In my book "Getting A Correct Lady To Say Yes To Your Marriage Proposal", I drew a full portrait of who a correct lady is in full details, and one of the things you will discover is that it has nothing to do with physical features (curves, shapes, height, etc).

Remember, don't jump at just any woman when it comes to choosing a life partner, but make sure the lady you will go for has what it takes to be an adequate helper for your destiny actualization.

But then, to attract a correct woman, you must be a correct man too (have the right configurations to help her fulfill destiny also).


https://www.instagram.com/p/C7Ha7VcI1Pj/?igsh=bzlra3hicDh3MXhj

That may have been the original idea, no doubt.

However, wouldn’t you agree that Eve turned out to be the exact opposite in Adam’s life? She ruined his destiny. She was his destiny destroyer.