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Say No To Illicit Sex by Divinelove4ever(op): 10:56am On May 16, 2024*

No girlfriend.
No side chick.
Married couples must stick to their spouses.
No using of services of hookers.
Run away from fornication and adultery.

Of course, run away from masturbation.

Then, you will see how you will be blessed.

God loves purity.

Be blessed.

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Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by DonBenny77(m): 11:08am On May 16, 2024

Divinelove4ever:
No girlfriend.
No side chick.
Married couples must stick to their spouses.
No using of services of hookers.
Run away from fornication and adultery.

Of course, run away from masturbation.

Then, you will see how you will be blessed.

God loves purity.
Be blessed.

Abeg who dey bless sinner like Davido, na God?
God no dey give money oh!
If you like continue dey fool yourself.
There are countless fornicators and adulterers that are successful and blessed

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Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by Divinelove4ever(op): 3:46pm On May 16, 2024

DonBenny77:
Abeg who dey bless sinner like Davido, na God?
God no dey give money oh!
If you like continue dey fool yourself.
There are countless fornicators and adulterers that are successful and blessed

One of the blessings of staying away from illicit sex is peace of mind.

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Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by Divinelove4ever(op): 6:13am On May 17, 2024

1. Risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs): Engaging in illicit sex can put individuals at a higher risk of contracting STIs such as HIV/AIDS, syphilis, gonorrhea, and chlamydia.

2. Unwanted pregnancies: Inadequate use of contraception during illicit sex can lead to unwanted pregnancies and the complications that may arise from them.

3. Emotional and psychological distress: Illicit sex can lead to feelings of guilt, shame, and regret, as well as negatively impacting an individual's self-esteem and mental health.

4. Legal consequences: Depending on the circumstances, engaging in illicit sex may be illegal in some jurisdictions, leading to potential legal repercussions such as fines, jail time, or being registered as a sex offender.

5. Exploitation and abuse: Illicit sex can sometimes involve coercion, manipulation, and exploitation, particularly when one party is in a position of power or authority, leading to a harmful and unhealthy dynamic in the relationship.

6. Breakdown of relationships: Engaging in illicit sex can damage trust and intimacy in committed relationships, leading to the breakdown of marriages or partnerships.

7. Social stigma: In many cultures and societies, engaging in illicit sex can lead to social ostracization, shaming, and judgment from others, causing further emotional distress and isolation.

8. Impact on future relationships: Past involvement in illicit sex can have long-lasting effects on future relationships, affecting trust, communication, and intimacy with future partners.

Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by Janet96(f): 4:58pm On May 17, 2024

Divinelove4ever:
No girlfriend.
No side chick.
Married couples must stick to their spouses.
No using of services of hookers.
Run away from fornication and adultery.

Of course, run away from masturbation.

Then, you will see how you will be blessed.

God loves purity.

Be blessed.

You are on point

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Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by Divinelove4ever(op): 3:02pm On May 18, 2024

Illicit sex encompasses a wide range of activities that are considered illegal, immoral, or exploitative in nature. Some common forms of illicit sex include:

1. Prostitution: The exchange of sexual services for money or other forms of payment. Prostitution is often associated with exploitation, human trafficking, and violence.

2. Human Trafficking: The illegal trade of humans for the purposes of forced labor, sexual exploitation, or other forms of exploitation. Victims of human trafficking are often vulnerable individuals who are coerced, deceived, or kidnapped into engaging in illicit sex acts.

3. Adultery: Engaging in sexual relations with someone other than one's spouse or partner. Adultery is considered taboo in many societies and may have legal consequences in some jurisdictions.

4. Child Sexual Abuse: The sexual exploitation of children for the gratification of adults. Child sexual abuse includes a range of illicit activities such as child prostitution, child pornography, and other forms of sexual exploitation.

5. Pornography: The production, distribution, and consumption of sexually explicit material. While some forms of pornography are legal and consensual, the production and distribution of child pornography, revenge porn, and other non-consensual forms of pornography are considered illicit.

6. Sexual Assault: Non-consensual sexual contact or behavior, including rape, sexual harassment, and other forms of sexual violence. Sexual assault is a serious crime and can have lasting physical, emotional, and psychological effects on survivors.

7. Incest: Sexual relations between family members, such as siblings, parents and children, or other blood relatives. Incest is prohibited in most societies due to concerns about genetic abnormalities and social taboos.

These are just a few examples of the different forms of illicit sex that exist around the world. It is important to recognize and address the underlying causes and consequences of illicit sex, including poverty, inequality, gender-based violence, and lack of education and awareness.

Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by Divinelove4ever(op): 6:58pm On May 21, 2024

There are numerous dangers associated with the sex trade, including:

1. Human trafficking: Many individuals involved in the sex trade are victims of human trafficking, where they are coerced or forced into prostitution against their will.

2. Violence and abuse: Sex workers are at a high risk of experiencing violence and abuse from clients, pimps, and other individuals involved in the industry.

3. Health risks: Sex workers are at a higher risk of contracting sexually transmitted infections, including HIV, due to the nature of their work.

4. Exploitation: Many individuals in the sex trade are vulnerable and may be exploited by those who seek to profit from their situation.

5. Stigma and discrimination: Sex workers often face stigma and discrimination from society, which can have a negative impact on their mental health and well-being.

6. Legal consequences: In many places, prostitution is illegal, leading to potential legal consequences for those involved in the sex trade.

Overall, the sex trade can be a dangerous and exploitative industry, and efforts should be made to address the root causes of exploitation and provide support and resources for individuals who are involved in the industry.

Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by Divinelove4ever(op): 2:12pm On May 22, 2024

Infidelity in marriage can have devastating effects on both partners and their relationship. Some of the common effects of infidelity in marriage include:

1. Broken trust: Infidelity violates the trust that is the foundation of any healthy relationship. Once trust is broken, it can be difficult to rebuild, leading to ongoing issues of suspicion and insecurity.

2. Emotional trauma: Discovering that a partner has been unfaithful can lead to intense emotional pain, including feelings of betrayal, anger, sadness, and confusion. The emotional trauma of infidelity can have long-lasting effects on mental health and wellbeing.

3. Communication breakdown: Infidelity often leads to a breakdown in communication between partners, as they struggle to navigate the emotions and challenges that come with the betrayal. This lack of communication can further damage the relationship and make it difficult to move forward.

4. Loss of intimacy: Infidelity can lead to a loss of intimacy between partners, as the betrayed spouse may struggle to feel physically or emotionally connected to their partner. This can create distance in the relationship and make it difficult to rebuild closeness.

5. Impact on children: Infidelity can have a significant impact on any children involved in the marriage, causing emotional distress and confusion. Children may struggle to understand the reasons behind the infidelity and may feel caught in the middle of their parents’ relationship problems.

6. Financial strain: Infidelity can also lead to financial strain on the marriage, as partners may need to navigate issues such as divorce, division of assets, and child support. These financial stressors can further strain the relationship and make it difficult to move forward.

Overall, infidelity in marriage can have wide-ranging and long-lasting effects on both partners and their relationship. Seeking therapy and support can help couples navigate the challenges of infidelity and work towards healing and rebuilding trust.

Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by Legal001: 4:02pm On May 22, 2024

Divinelove4ever:
1. Risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs): Engaging in illicit sex can put individuals at a higher risk of contracting STIs such as HIV/AIDS, syphilis, gonorrhea, and chlamydia.

2. Unwanted pregnancies: Inadequate use of contraception during illicit sex can lead to unwanted pregnancies and the complications that may arise from them.

3. Emotional and psychological distress: Illicit sex can lead to feelings of guilt, shame, and regret, as well as negatively impacting an individual's self-esteem and mental health.

4. Legal consequences: Depending on the circumstances, engaging in illicit sex may be illegal in some jurisdictions, leading to potential legal repercussions such as fines, jail time, or being registered as a sex offender.

5. Exploitation and abuse: Illicit sex can sometimes involve coercion, manipulation, and exploitation, particularly when one party is in a position of power or authority, leading to a harmful and unhealthy dynamic in the relationship.

6. Breakdown of relationships: Engaging in illicit sex can damage trust and intimacy in committed relationships, leading to the breakdown of marriages or partnerships.

7. Social stigma: In many cultures and societies, engaging in illicit sex can lead to social ostracization, shaming, and judgment from others, causing further emotional distress and isolation.

8. Impact on future relationships: Past involvement in illicit sex can have long-lasting effects on future relationships, affecting trust, communication, and intimacy with future partners.

Nice Writeup
Say no to premarital sex

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Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by Divinelove4ever(op): 7:20am On May 24, 2024

Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by Divinelove4ever(op): 7:14am On May 29, 2024

The estimates of commercial sex workers across the world vary significantly due to the underground nature of this industry and the lack of reliable data. However, some studies and organizations have provided estimates:

1. The United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime (UNODC) estimated in 2016 that there were approximately 4.8 million cases of forced sexual exploitation worldwide, including commercial sex work.

2. The Global Network of Sex Work Projects (NSWP) estimated in 2018 that there were between 20 million and 45 million sex workers globally.

3. The World Health Organization (WHO) estimated in 2001 that there were 40 million sex workers worldwide.

4. The International Labour Organization (ILO) estimated in 2014 that there were 4.5 million people in forced sexual exploitation worldwide, which includes commercial sex work.

5. The Urban Institute estimated in 2014 that there were 1.5 million sex workers in the United States.

It is important to note that these estimates may not be completely accurate, as the commercial sex industry is often hidden and stigmatized, making it difficult to collect reliable data.

Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 2:51pm On May 29, 2024

Divinelove4ever:
One of the blessings of staying away from illicit sex is peace of mind.

That's the sweetest type of sex. grin

Do you have any idea of the level of adrenaline rush you get when you're banging a married woman? Cocaine combined with heroin cannot give it to you grin

Try it and see

Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by MrCork: 3:05pm On May 29, 2024

Divinelove4ever:
No girlfriend.
No side chick.
Married couples must stick to their spouses.
No using of services of hookers.
Run away from fornication and adultery.

Of course, run away from masturbation.

Then, you will see how you will be blessed.

God loves purity.

Be blessed.

Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by MrCork: 3:05pm On May 29, 2024

Divinelove4ever:
No girlfriend.
No side chick.
Married couples must stick to their spouses.
No using of services of hookers.
Run away from fornication and adultery.

Of course, run away from masturbation.

Then, you will see how you will be blessed.

God loves purity.

Be blessed.

Are u ok or do u need medikal checkkup sir?(no oofencsece) angry

Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by Divinelove4ever(op): 4:38pm On May 31, 2024

MrCork:
Are u ok or do u need medikal checkkup sir?(no oofencsece)

I am OK. That is a divine message. Don't ignore it at your peril.

Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by Divinelove4ever(op): 5:16pm On Jun 15, 2024

Divinelove4ever:
No girlfriend.
No side chick.
Married couples must stick to their spouses.
No using of services of hookers.
Run away from fornication and adultery.

Of course, run away from masturbation.

Then, you will see how you will be blessed.

God loves purity.

Be blessed.

Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by Divinelove4ever(op): 8:49pm On Jun 27, 2024

5 THINGS MORE VALUABLE THAN A WOMAN'S BODY

Dear Bachelor,
If the major Reason you are marrying a lady is because she has a big frontal package aka Manchester united and a big behind aka Arsenal, then You are not in LOVE

No matter what you think, if all you see is her physical assets then You are LOST in LUST.
****************************
Here are 5 things that will matter more to any Man after Marriage than those things that naturally pull Men to Women.

1) PEACE OF MIND

Before you marry any lady, first and foremost, does she give you peace of mind?

Does she have the capacity to give you peace of mind?
Some Men don't stay at home because of the woman they married.
They rather sleep in the office or at a friend's place because they married a warrior at home.

Their homes now a war zone, the woman comes and puts enmity between the man and his family members. Everywhere War.

That she has a BIG CHEST doesn't guarantee she'll give you BIG REST.

If you marry a woman for those things, and she turns out to be a troublesome woman, you won't even feel attracted to her.
You will hate her and those things that attracted you to her. So find out first.

2) SUPPORT

Few years from now and you'll be faced with trials and battles as a Man and you'll need the support of your wife,

The kind of support not offered by her body.

The kind of support offered by her brain, by her hands, by her spirit, by her account balance, by her knowledge and exposure.

ASS is not ASSET

The Best ASSETS of a woman are not Physical.

Can she support you in prayers?
Can she support you financially?
Can she support you physically?
Can she support you with ideas, counsel?
Can she build with you?

3) HOME KEEPER

A Woman who can't keep her home.

Who can't be the boss at home and marshal the resources of her husband and her own and that of the kids to turn a house to a home,

A Woman who is out on Fridays to party and comes home drunk.

A Woman whose home is as dirty as a refuse dump.

You will take a look at all her big big assets that made you to marry her and suddenly, what you will see are big big liabilities..

4) COOPERATION

If there's anything any Man should not joke with, it's how cooperative a lady is to him,

That will determine a lot of he will succeed or not.
How she embraces his vision,
How she shows capacity to be SUBMISSIVE, OBEDIENT and LOYAL.

There are ladies (even in the church) who hate Authority, the word "submission" repulses them.
They are naturally disobedient, stubborn, rebellious, and self governed.

Marry such a woman, even if her chest is bigger than River Niger, her waist curvier than a Coke bottle, and her back as large as the Congo basin, I give you one year (if you can bear for that long) you will regret marrying her. You go run.

5) CARE/LOVE

A Man will always one day need his wife to play the role of a LOVER and on other days a MOTHER

To care for him.
To watch over him like a baby.

And when you finally realize that the Woman you married doesn't have a motherly nature,

When she's heartless and as cold as steel.

You will understand why our people say that "kakhi no be leather."

So check now,
How does she treat children, how does she treat elders.
How does she look after you
****************************
This is not me trying to condemn any Woman because she is bigger in some areas than other Women.
I'd never do that.

This post is to my Brothers

This is me simply saying to my Brothers
"Look at but also Look BEYOND a Womans Body and Beauty"

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Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by Eriggadune: 11:06pm On Jun 27, 2024

Just seeing this post now. E make sense, with the way Naija de go be like that’s the way to go now. I will become celibate and draw closer to God. I need Him right now.

Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by 2RightHands1Coc(m): 1:38am On Jun 28, 2024

You go explain tire

Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by Sapasenator: 3:47am On Jun 28, 2024

Divinelove4ever:
One of the blessings of staying away from illicit sex is peace of mind.

Peace of mind for ya poverty?

Dey pay!

Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by Sapasenator: 3:48am On Jun 28, 2024

MrCork:
Are u ok or do u need medikal checkkup sir?(no oofencsece)

OP surely needs a medical check-up or a very good Bleep to reset his/her brain?

If Davido goes to OP's church, his pastor will place him in the special seat at the front.

Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by Divinelove4ever(op): 9:50am On Jul 07, 2024

The spiritual effects of illicit sex can vary depending on individual beliefs and perspectives. However, some common spiritual effects that are often associated with engaging in illicit sex include:

1. Guilt and shame: Engaging in illicit sex can lead to feelings of guilt and shame, which can negatively impact one's spiritual well-being.

2. Disconnect from higher power: Many spiritual traditions teach that engaging in illicit sex can create a disconnect from a higher power or spiritual source, leading to feelings of spiritual emptiness and disconnection.

3. Distorted energy flow: In some spiritual beliefs, engaging in illicit sex can disrupt the natural flow of energy in the body and spirit, leading to imbalances and negative effects on overall well-being.

4. Karmic repercussions: Some believe that engaging in illicit sex can create negative karma, which may impact future experiences and relationships.

5. Loss of spiritual purity: Engaging in illicit sex can be seen as a violation of spiritual laws or ethical principles, leading to a loss of spiritual purity and integrity.

Overall, the spiritual effects of illicit sex can be complex and individualized, but it is often believed to have negative impacts on one's spiritual well-being and connection to higher powers or sources of spiritual guidance.

Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by imagrg(m): 3:54pm On Jul 07, 2024

Sin or no sin, we must fvck!
Even Adeboye said earlier this week that it's not easy to resist the temptation toto poses to man. grin

Make una follow me for more fun oh.

Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by Nijimog: 7:35pm On Jul 07, 2024

imagrg:
Sin or no sin, we must fvck!
Even Adeboye said earlier this week that it's not easy to resist the temptation toto poses to man.

Make una follow me for more fun oh.

according to Adeboye

Anointing cannot subside lust or sex, the best to do in such situations is to run(flee)

Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by Divinelove4ever(op): 6:17pm On Jul 17, 2024

Once upon a time in a small town, there lived a young woman named Sarah. Sarah was known for her beauty and kindness, but she was also known for her determination to stay true to her values and morals.

One day, Sarah was approached by a charming young man named Jack. Jack was smooth-talking and charismatic, and he quickly caught Sarah's attention. He invited her out on a date, and despite feeling a strong attraction to him, Sarah hesitated. She knew that Jack had a reputation for being a player and engaging in illicit activities.

Despite her doubts, Sarah agreed to go out with Jack. As the night went on, Jack's behavior became more and more aggressive. He made inappropriate comments and tried to pressure Sarah into engaging in sexual activities. Sarah knew that this was not what she wanted, and she firmly told Jack to stop.

Angry and frustrated, Jack tried to manipulate Sarah into giving in to his demands. But Sarah stood her ground, refusing to be swayed by his sweet words and promises. In the end, Jack stormed off in a fit of rage, leaving Sarah feeling relieved and proud of herself for sticking to her principles.

From that day on, Sarah made a vow to never again succumb to the pressures of illicit sex. She focused on building strong and healthy relationships based on mutual respect and understanding. And as time went on, Sarah found true happiness and fulfillment in her decision to say no to illicit sex.

The moral of the story is clear: it is important to stand up for what you believe in and say no to anything that goes against your values and morals. Illicit sex may seem tempting, but ultimately, it can lead to regret, heartache, and even danger. So, let Sarah's story be a reminder to everyone to always choose the path of integrity and self-respect. Say no to illicit sex, and say yes to a life filled with happiness and fulfillment.

Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by Divinelove4ever(op): 5:42pm On Jul 25, 2024

A man who can control his sexual urge is a man who can
live many years on earth. Men don't know that some of
their failures are caused by multiple girlfriends Not all girls
have good spirit. Some are demons, others have venom
between their legs.
Some women are destiny destroyers, beware.
Pay close attention:😢😢💀✨🪷

1. A real man only has one woman in his life.

2. Don't obey your Erection at all times. Most erections
mislead you Control your erection if you don't want to have
few days on earth with much poverty in you.

3. Don't date a lady because she has curves, boobs and a
sexy shape. These things are simply misleading avoid
such, don't fall for what is called social media irony.

4. Not everything you see under skirt you must work to
eat, some skirts contain snakes that bite you and make you
uncomfortable. control your sexual urge Self control and
abstinence pays a lot in most cases.💀💀

5. Marrying a woman doesn't mean she owns you. Treat
her with respect Make her your queen, love, honor her and
give her reasons to treat you the same.

6. Having many girlfriends doesn't make you a man. It only
makes you a womanizer, a cheater and a boy.

7. Just because you're good in bed doesn't make you a
man. A real man is a man who does not run away from his
responsibility but faces it squarely
.
8. Respect any woman who loves you Yes, is not easy for a
lady to throw her love on you and support your future.

9. The world celebrates successful men No one will
celebrate you for having many girlfriends. So what's the
point tho? Waste of energy, money & wasted sperm.
Remember, being honest, loyal and faithful, is the
trademark of a real man.

Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by Divinelove4ever(op): 3:50pm On Aug 08, 2024

THE BEGINNING OF INFIDELITY IN MARRIAGE!!

A lady can love you with her whole heart but still marry who is ready AND still goes back for premium knacking from the one he truly loves.

Reason we have ADULTEROUS housewives all over the world.

And the one whom they love with their whole heart becomes the father to the first child of the one who is ready.

That's why a lot of men are fathering another man's child (ren) unknowingly.

In fact the bitter truth is that 70% of women did not marry whom they love but who is READY to play band in their father's compound, buy drinks and food for the society, rent canopies and give them the title 'MRS'.

That's why some married ladies still sleep with their Exes and as a result, paternity fraud is on the high side.

Because the society we live in have attached more priority and importance to the word marriage than Love and what love entails.

It's a sorry situation... And that's why we have many divorcees and unhappy marriages.

DEAR MEN,
The car and money you think you have will give you a woman but certainly not
Her heart.

THE BEGINNING OF INFIDELITY IN MARRIAGE begins the very moment you use your car and money to marry a lady who was comfortable with her poor boyfriend sipping garri together in one room apartment. Just because you have money you went ahead and marry her.

Listen, when you approach a woman and you found out that she's in love with someone else probably the man is poor, don't use your money to take the woman away from the man. If not, you will regret for the rest of your life.

She will marry you no doubt because all her mates are getting married and also to please the parents BUT will go back to sleep with her poor ex boyfriend because that's whom she truly loves not you.

That's why some Married Women no longer have feelings for their husbands after marriage. SEX now become a war.
It is as if they are in bondage because this is not the man they supposed to ended up with.

They settled for whom is ready not whom they love and this is the BEGINNING OF INFIDELITY IN MARRIAGE.

♥️♥️♥️

Re: Say No To Illicit Sex by ogbe88(m): 8:57am On Aug 09, 2024

Divinelove4ever:
No girlfriend.
No side chick.
Married couples must stick to their spouses.
No using of services of hookers.
Run away from fornication and adultery.

Of course, run away from masturbation.

Then, you will see how you will be blessed.

God loves purity.

Be blessed.

Who is this one again.

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