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The reason we don't split chores 50/50 in Nigeria is because the bills are not split 50/50.

If you dont want to do chores as a man, ready to pack 80% of the bills.

Once the bills is 50/50, it wouldn't take long before she respond like this. Forget comment you are seeing here, she will respond like this eventually #copied


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iW3bgXSXLUM?si=QLtI2i7VaUtTg6FR

It is well.

Besides, nothing beats supporting each other though.

That's their business over there in Canada

OGAAA
Dem no design abroad for one person.
It's very expensive. At this point you have to be collaborative, however if your Wife is showing signs in keeping with the Association of diasopra witches Abeg...waka leave that marriage. Just waka go put up with some people. ABROAD get as eee bee ooo.
No put yourself for trouble.

Women can't sustain their families for weeks without the world knowing but a MAN can marry a jobless lady and eventually turns her into a mogul. Understand it

She has a plan if being a single mum and getting benefits like:

- free housing to be paid for by husband ( ex)
- welfare cheques to be used to flenjure
- opportunity to be back on the streets , chasing every delicious male member.

.They will soon learn that being a single mum is a minus , and not a plus.

Africans and stupidity are like five and six

Hope they split the wedding and traditional rites expenses 50/50 too, cos that's the only way the equation will balance

The title Men, man, he, his are gradually going extinct.

Help your wife...

A woman will only talk like this to her man when the bills she pay is almost equivalent or more than that of the man's ...

That's the thing with women, when they have small money to pay bills for 2 days, the whole world will hear it, but a man can carry 100% of the bills for years and it's all good ...

(Sighs), it is videos like that makes me wonder if young men getting married to modern women is worth it at all ...

Fahvvy:
A woman will only talk like this to her man when the bills she pay is almost equivalent or more than that of the man's ...

That's the thing with women, when they have small money to pay bills for 2 days, the whole world will hear it, but a man can carry 100% of the bills for years and it's all good ...

(Sighs), it is videos like that makes me wonder if young men getting married to modern women is worth it at all ...

omo u no lie, i don witness am wella

Men of old will travel abroad alone and leave the wife and kids here. This 'woke' generation prefer to carry their whole family there all in the name of I'm doing it for the family.

Last last, na the family dey end up messing them up. Think wisely before acting.

But truth be told o, it's the major contributor that calls the shot o. Once you do 50/50, you've lost all the right to dictate the tune. Men should never give up their power of the major provider, it causes 'see finish'.

zed7:
Men of old will travel abroad alone and leave the wife and kids here. This 'woke' generation prefer to carry their whole family there all in the name of I'm doing it for the family.

Last last, na the family dey end up messing them up. Think wisely before acting.

But truth be told o, it's the major contributor that calls the shot o. Once you do 50/50, you've lost all the right to dictate the tune. Men should never give up their power of the major provider, it causes 'see finish'.

You have said it all. It’s better to let them enjoy the good life of Nigeria. Just be paying them yearly visits till it’s time to move back home finally. What are we even pursuing?

"Are u Not looking at your mate as she said has destroyed a lot of marriages. Does she know what is going on in other people's marriages . Mumu woman comparing her husband with other men.

Never invite your wife aboard. It will be the begining of your fall.

I don't even know which is more dangerous. To marry a Nigerian woman and bring her abroad or to meet a Nigerian woman abroad and marry her.

It's like two sides to the same problem. Or choosing between the devil and the deep blue sea.

To ensure peace of mind, marry your Nigerian wife and keep her there. It's better for her to cheat on you in Nigeria where you can easily secure your kids and replace her.

If you take her abroad, she'll easily cheat on you, take your kids, kick you out of your home, and you'll still be on the hook for child support.

Choose wisely.

This Couple are known for their Skit here in Canada. I have lot of their skits on my phone. They are just creating awareness of what happens to the African families in the diaspora.

Note to Nigerian ladies.

Don't bring your nigerian spouse abroad unless he is happy to split chores and childcare with you.

Modified*

I'll be back with more dos and don'ts

ValCon888:
I don't even know which is more dangerous. To marry a Nigerian woman and bring her abroad or to meet a Nigerian woman abroad and marry her.

It's like two sides to the same problem. Or choosing between the devil and the deep blue sea.

To ensure peace of mind, marry your Nigerian wife and keep her there. It's better for her to cheat on you in Nigeria where you can easily secure your kids and replace her.

If you take her abroad, she'll easily cheat on you, take your kids, kick you out of your home, and you'll still be on the hook for child support.

Choose wisely.

Marry her in Nigeria and she will cheat codely.

Marry her and bring her to the West, She will cheat to your face, dare you and possibly connive with the BF to send you to jail if you dare complain.

I know one that cheats here, her husband caught her and She told her husband this exact words “I don’t owe you any faithfulness”😆

Men are left to choose their poison out of the 2 options.

shaybebaby:
Note to Nigerian ladies.

Don't bring your nigerian spouse abroad unless he is happy to split chores and childcare with you.

Modified*

I'll be back with more dos and don'ts

Hehehehe...very nice solution to the issue.
Man go use that one collect new bride!
By the time wife recollect her senses, new wife don born 3!

jaszplus12:
Hehehehe...very nice solution to the issue.
Man go use that one collect new bride!
By the time wife recollect her senses, new wife don born 3!

Better that way.

I supposed you missed the news of the woman that was killed recently by spouse that SHE brought to the UK.

I'd rather be alive for my kid(s) and free to find a person that fits the bill. Even if I don't, I'd rather be single.

Let the naija wife born 20, na them sabi.

It is not masculine for a man to be emotionally attached to a woman.
It is masculine for a man to have other options and signs of being desired by other women.
Abundance mindset( wealth, knowledge and women)
This the only feasible way to stay on top of the natural selection game.
We are all monkeys(animals) on cloth living in a habitat and interacting with the ecosystem.

One of the greatest mistakes an African man will make is take his African wife abroad to the West. This is not just about Nigeria women alone. When you relocate a local ekuke to the city, it will start barking and start biting more than the city dogs. Only some Arabs, Indians and some Chinese men have been able to tame their wives abroad, how they do it is still being studied at Harvard University. Men beware.

shaybebaby:
Better that way.

I supposed you missed the news of the woman that was killed recently by spouse that SHE brought to the UK.

I'd rather be alive for my kid(s) and free to find a person that fits the bill. Even if I don't, I'd rather be single.

Let the naija wife born 20, na them sabi.

Life goes on!!

jaszplus12:
Life goes on!!

Exactly.

Everyone will find their levels.

shaybebaby:
Exactly.

Everyone will find their levels.

As long as no enmity brews!

jaszplus12:
As long as no enmity brews!

No need for that.

It's takes energy to sustain beef. I'd rather divert that energy to something productive like making more money 💰 🤑

The lady is right though.

If she is contributing 50:50 in finances and the man is contributing 0:100 in unpaid labor such as housechores and raising children. It is easy for resentment for the man. and added stress on the woman to come in and scatter the marriage. Because she is doing 150 while the man is only doing 50 and claiming head of the house forgetting that a wife is a help meet, not housemaid and sex worker.

This is because women in such situations are called MARRIED SINGLE MOTHERS whose husbands are dead weight to them.

Once she starts to plot divorce and achieves it. She will lose weight, feel lighter and happier because she has more time for herself and one less person to take care of.

house10studios:
The reason we don't split chores 50/50 in Nigeria is because the bills are not split 50/50.

If you dont want to do chores as a man, ready to pack 80% of the bills.

Once the bills is 50/50, it wouldn't take long before she respond like this. Forget comment you are seeing here, she will respond like this eventually #copied


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iW3bgXSXLUM?si=QLtI2i7VaUtTg6FR

THIS IS A SKIT ARE THE ACTORS ARE WELL KNOWN ON SOCIAL MEADIA....U HOMEBASEPEOPLE BELIF ANYTIN MENNNNN!!! (((((WHA THA FUKKK)))

Men are still very emotional, majority of men still believe in that love and duty hypocrisy truth is that ones u stop providing due challenges i double bet u that woman pretending u are her all, will beytray u in such a way that ur hrt will give out, a man will do it all for family and stay with all the emotional bagages, some men no longer know what happiness is due to struggle but majority go still dy with family, i have learnt that as if you love too much, if have blind loyality omo the u go investigate well or things go south she go hurt u without looking remorse, u see me so when it comes women and relation i no longer expect anything, i no fit love again sef am not a very bad person my mom raised well but my ex shattered me, she came back but i don already go, i pity men who stil lovy dovy

This is not the first time this issue has come up. But you have to split chores till kids are older. Buy a vacuum and do that once a week. Or else get someone to do it for a fee.
She mentioned her mates which means his friends are doing it and helping around the house.

ValCon888:
I don't even know which is more dangerous. To marry a Nigerian woman and bring her abroad or to meet a Nigerian woman abroad and marry her.

It's like two sides to the same problem. Or choosing between the devil and the deep blue sea.

To ensure peace of mind, marry your Nigerian wife and keep her there. It's better for her to cheat on you in Nigeria where you can easily secure your kids and replace her.

If you take her abroad, she'll easily cheat on you, take your kids, kick you out of your home, and you'll still be on the hook for child support.

Choose wisely.

Abroad is not safe for Men

Africa is not safe for women....

Welcome to the Realities of Humanities!

Abroad has Securities:
Africa has Insecurities

Just choose your poison & live your life !