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After kicking me out of the church apartment and making me homeless wanting me to lose my job my pst wife is texting me to know where I am. I don't know what to reply her there because I feel like pouring out my displeasure but words seem to be failing me and I don't want to sound too bitter.

I ignored the question for now thinking of the right response to give her and her husband.

The kind of heart some people have I don't understand. Hmmm

I'm Shocked

Just ignore.

Why is she asking where you are if they never thought of asking you where you would be moving to before kicking you out?

Just ignore the question and if possible ignore her message for a week.

Procashtips:
Just ignore.

Why is she asking where you are if they never thought of asking you where you would be moving to before kicking you out?

Just ignore the question and if possible ignore her message for a week.

Exactly.. when they conived
And threw me out they didn't think of how I'll get a place under a short period of time with my health. Knowing I needed to resume work and earn a living again

Mostof my clothes are still there my gas and cooking utensils only God knows where they moved it now that the place has been demolished because the husband seized the key to my room when my sisters went there to pick s few of my stuff. They refused them access. Now the place has been demolished and she has the guts to ask me this? Na wa oo
.. envy is not good.

I'll reply her as it is in My mind because I'm just boiling at this question

EriMma1:
After kicking me out of the church apartment and making me homeless wanting me to lose my job my pst wife is texting me to know where I am. I don't know what to reply her there because I feel like pouring out my displeasure but words seem to be failing me and I don't want to sound too bitter.

I ignored the question for now thinking of the right response to give her and her husband.

Forgive her and move on.

OBTOREPA:
Forgive her and move on.

I've forgiven them but what I can't come to terms with was how I was still battling with stroke at the hospital and they planned and made me homeless. She
Still has the guts to ask where I am.

I think she wants to find out if you are suffering enough. And if me, I'd tell them how I am still suffering from the stroke and the unholy way they planned and made me homeless and did not let my family collect my stuff, since they know all this already.

It would be interesting to see what she says then.

budaatum:
I think she wants to find out if you are suffering enough. And if me, I'd tell them how I am still suffering from the stroke and the unholy way they planned and made me homeless and did not let my family collect my stuff, since they know all this already.

It would be interesting to see what she says then.

Why should I let her know their plans worked so she can go on and rejoice. God forbid it a good testimony I'll share with them by the time I get an apartment

What did you do?. You left out that part...

What exactly did you do? From the look of things, the chat doesn't look like she's remorseful or trying to make an appeal.

EriMma1:
Why should I let her know their plans worked so she can go on and rejoice. God forbid it a good testimony I'll share with them by the time I get an apartment

They already know their plan worked, so you are not telling them anything they don't already know, but just letting them know you know the evil they have done. It might make them feel guilty, or at least concerned that you might tell others how evil they are.

And you shouldn't share your good testimony with evil people so they don't put more of their evil into it.

Jewessgratitud3??

illicit:
Jewessgratitud3??

Good morning sir.. so you no know say na this madam wey you dey famz all these while get all these accounts🤔🤔

Ever8090:
What did you do?. You left out that part...

I didn't do anything just because I fell I'll. I never knew they've been eyeing the apartment since they came last year
It's the wickedness you see in churches these days but people are not speaking out. They collect your tithe and offering
, Use you as a worker only to treat you like an outcast when you have problem. I don't want to lament and you can't even reach the general overseer to complain

Kelklein:
Good morning sir.. so you no know say na this madam wey you dey famz all these while get all these accounts🤔🤔

It's surprising how she is deteriorating...

She used to be classy or was it all an act?

EriMma1:
After kicking me out of the church apartment and making me homeless wanting me to lose my job my pst wife is texting me to know where I am. I don't know what to reply her there because I feel like pouring out my displeasure but words seem to be failing me and I don't want to sound too bitter.

I ignored the question for now thinking of the right response to give her and her husband.

She and they all hurt you, just give her a polite insult

Tell her *Worry about yourself*

Cassandraloius:
What exactly did you do? From the look of things, the chat doesn't look like she's remorseful or trying to make an appeal.

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They are acting like they didn't do anything and
I'm alSo acting along leaving them for God to judge..

illicit:
It's surprising how she is deteriorating...

She used to be classy or was it all an act?

God forbid im not deteriorating. Didn't you see
What happened to me and
What they did to me in the cause of all that's happening.
God
Will raise me again I just need an accommodation and I'll be fine

frozen70:
She and they all hurt you, just give her a polite insult

Tell her *Worry about yourself*

I'm just thinking of the right response that will hit them hard and not make them feel insulted but will make them realize their evil deeds.

No need to reply her. Press ignore!

And it seems you are tied to this nairaland? You still complaining about getting accomodation. If you can't move back to your family house, sell some of your properties like the phone you are using now, it is just for the main time, you won't die if you don't use phone for four to five months.

You need rest, you need re-plan. Block all people that caused you pain for now and focus on your life.

And now, you need good relationships be it female or male. Relationship that value friendship and always there in times of need.

SINisSIN:
No need to reply her. Press ignore!

And it seems you are tied to this nairaland? You still complaining about getting accomodation. If you can't move back to your family house, sell some of your properties like the phone you are using now, it is just for the main time, you won't die if you don't use phone for four to five months.

You need rest, you need re-plan. Block all people that caused you pain for now and focus on your life.

And now, you need good relationships be it female or male. Relationship that value friendship and always there in times of need.

I'll try to ignore.

I'm sorry I can't sell my phone or any of my properties. My phone it's the only thing that keeps my mind off what I'm passing through and prevents depression.
Coming to nairaland is not affecting me. In any negative way because I've always shared my life story here and even though they result in a lot of bashing. It doesn't make me ashamed because these are things that are beyond my control and if anyone chooses to shame me with them. Well... To God be the glory. Everyone goes through one problem or the other so I'm not the only one. I'm only trying not to cut off from the society because this is my only way of socializing. So I won't stay off it.

I am not ashamed of the things happening to me cos I didn't bring it upon myself, neither did i steal or kill anyone.

Thank you.

You don't want to tell us the truth madam.

Nicepoker:
You don't want to tell us the truth madam.

How? What truth again?
From her text can you deduce I did anything shady to the church? By the way what could I possibly do to a church that they didn't send me away until I got sick, please tell me..
The way some of you reason ehn..

EriMma1:
How? What truth again?
From her text can you deduce I did anything shady to the church? By the way what could I possibly do to a church that they didn't send me away until I got sick, please tell me..
The way some of you reason ehn..

You went after the man. Parish mummy needed no competition

Jewessgratitud3??

AcadaWriter:
Jewessgratitud3??

Yes

Ignore.
Block.
Move on 😎

EriMma1:
I didn't do anything just because I fell I'll. I never knew they've been eyeing the apartment since they came last year
It's the wickedness you see in churches these days but people are not speaking out. They collect your tithe and offering
, Use you as a worker only to treat you like an outcast when you have problem. I don't want to lament and you can't even reach the general overseer to complain

What if they had a second thought and have decided to help you out due to conscience....

stacyadams:
What if they had a second thought and have decided to help you out due to conscience....

No they don't. Someone just called me now that they said I should come and move my things from the inner office where they helped me packed them