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Namaster:
"She even said recently in a fight that I disgust her and she hated me."

That's a NEW dick speaking through your wife. You wife started tasting a new dick a couple of months ago and that's when it started.

She only asked you to stay because the new dick knows she's a LovePeddler and will not have anything serious with her. He'll fuuuck the shit out of her, though.

The fact that you stayed after being told to your face that you are no different from FAECES to her shows you have ZERO respect for yourself.

You have NO boundaries. So get ready for MORE. She'll start BEATING you soon.

You are the WET dream of abusive whores—an introvert with LOW self-esteem who'll SWEEP the house while a bitch is in bed SLEEPING till 10 o' clock. If you have a little money, your LovePeddler has hit the jackpot.

You'll NOT listen but I'll tell you anyway:

Get a DNA test for both kids. Then KICK her out. No matter the results of the DNA tests, KICK HER OUT.

Ebubu2:
Toxic woman.

This is how you talk to your father and husband at home. No wonder you’re showing your frustration and vile nature from home online

oga let op invite his wife to nairaland to hear her own side of story. We don't have anything to say until we hear from the other party. Very simple.

dominique:
Just as you called your mother and all your female relatives dumb blocks. It's only an irredeemable idiot that swallows a one sided story because it suits his sick narrative. You dolts will ask for the other side of the story in cases of DV against women even in cases that result in death. Now asking for another version of a one sided story is now an abomination. You must be suffering from generational stupidity. For the sake of humanity, don't ever procreate.

Op, imagine you're married to a lady like this. Simple conversation she'll curse your life out. If you beat her she's call you a beater. If you come online to complain her fellow women will seek for her side of the story. Give her opportunity to narrate what transpired in this conversation with you she'll wipe up emotions and sentiments.

Arguing with women is tantamount to foolhardy. They're wired to disrespect you all the time. Women hate men taking action to leave marriages, they enjoying the bragging rights of them leaving unions.

Cut her off emotionally like Yul Edochie and if she decides to leave, let her go but if she decides to let you be the head, continue.

Women are better game masrers in marriages, while men hustle, they tenaciously study the man. Beat her to her game.

Candreva:
A question for you is : Are you married? Your response sounds so much like that of someone is still being fed by their parents, plays ps5 all day and of cause has few mb of data to spew what you just typed up there.

lol

You shouldn't be surprised at what @Namaster typed. Obviously he's a bitter old clown. Nonetheless, op called for it so what do you expect?

Diamond1605:
Lies lies you won’t say how you beat her like a drum, you won’t say how you cheated more than 8 times with 8 different women.

You won’t say how you always insult her and her family.

You won’t say how you step on her while beating her.

You won’t say how you made her feel like she is not a human

Those your friends advising you will definitely lead you astray

Come out and say the full story
Coward

Hahaha.....women don't just change....so u r dis good n ur wife still hate n detest u? Hmmm Better tell us d full truth so we can help u. If u r not good in d other room tell us, if u r d dirty type with smelling mouth tell us, if she is d one providing more tell us, has she been complaining abt smthng over n over n u refuse to change tell us, n if nah devil don enter ur marriage because u r not longer prayerful as b4, Biko confess.
Women dnt just change

freshvine:
Op, imagine you're married to a lady like this. Simple conversation she'll curse your life out. If you beat her she's call you a beater. If you come online to complain her fellow women will seek for her side of the story. Give her opportunity to narrate what transpired in this conversation with you she'll wipe up emotions and sentiments.

Arguing with women is tantamount to foolhardy. They're wired to disrespect you all the time. Women hate men taking action to leave marriages, they enjoying the bragging rights of them leaving unions.

Cut her off emotionally like Yul Edochie and if she decides to leave, let her go but if she decides to let you be the head, continue.

Women are better game masrers in marriages, while men hustle, they tenaciously study the man. Beat her to her game.

listen to yourself and how you sound. You will beat your wife as per your toy or kid? How some of you guys think you can try shit with all women amazes me seriously.

If he divorce her will he also marry another woman? Why not consider marrying his fellow men instead? Why another woman?

Chuksgeo:
It is very clear that you probably know this op, or better still you are a friend of the estranged wife if not the wife

a sensible man or sensible person don't judge based on one sided talk. We do invite the other party to hear her out. That is how it's been done even in the court of law

ScotHarvath:
I have been noticing this things for the past couple of months. She even said recently in a fight that I disgust her and she hated me, I wanted to call for a separation after hearing such strong words but she pleaded and I acquiesced.

We have two kids.

Yesterday which was Father’s Day, she woke up at 10 o clock, before she did, I had slept the house and prepared breakfast because I felt she needed to rest.


I went out to with my friends around 6pm and came back around 10pm and asked her to help make toast for dinner and she boldly told me to go the kitchen and make it myself.

I really blame myself for this situation now, I made myself to accessible to all. I barely keep friends. So I made her my best friend, tell her everything about my finances and all. I treat her as an equal.


Is it wrong to treat a Nigerian woman well this days?


Everybody is advising me to get a side chick but I’m not that kind of man, I’m not sneaky or crafty enough to maintain two relationships.

I have been told to stop spending time with her at home but I’m an introvert, I don’t like frolicking with other people unless it’s absolutely necessary and besides I work from home.

I have also been advised to treat her like a stranger in her house and not talk to her for days but once again I don’t want that kind of life. I feel truly trapped.

is called see finish. If you work from home please rent office. Respect is reciprocal,how can you come back by 10pm and tell her to make toast? Fathers day you should have been at home?

Orlu13:
u naija women don't deserve love...u deserve only to be bleeped nd thrown into d dustbin like d trash u are

But I only gave my own Idea na on how he can get solution.😌

dominique:
Also he should always dress clean and smell fresh. He should not overburden his wife with stress. As we all know God hates divorce, where does he want to go with 2 children? we don't know if the next wife will be worse. Most importantly, he should go on his knees and pray feverently for his marriage. Instead of coming online to disturb us, he should work on himself and his marriage

Exactly!

Villa12:
listen to yourself and how you sound. You will beat your wife as per your toy or kid? How some of you guys think you can try shit with all women amazes me seriously.

If he divorce her will he also marry another woman? Why not consider marrying his fellow men instead? Why another woman?

I said " beat her her in her game " simply means return her energy in disproportionate ways to his advantage.

Comprehend.

On your second paragraph, I never advocate for divorce but separation, if she wants to leave then op can do her the honor.

ScotHarvath:
Whoever you are, God bless you!


Thank you.

you have already told her about her behaviour and she continues. Trust me this would break up the marriage.

Pennilessword1:
This is what happens when SIMPS marry Nigerian women.

who did your father marry?

Kobojunkie:
Just because you were blind to it while you were dating her is no reason why you should not get help when it becomes too hard to bear. Go get professional marriage counseling abeg and leave the house if she is indeed violent as you claim. Posting all these negative comments without doing anything to help yourself... sounds to me like what depression would do to an individual. Get help and improve the quality of your own life while at it.

Thank you for this advice

lendahand:
you are the one rather who I think is not married because what he wrote up there happens in 80% of Nigerian homes.

where is your fact to back up your stat please? Have you been to 90% household in Nigeria to have come up with such assumptions?

Silentgroper:
Someone that cooks for his wife ..

How many naija man go do that one..

Yet she still doubts the goodness .. you see all of them are just looking for what to justify the wife's actions cause they'd do the same and feel no remorse abt it ..


Trust me. If was in the op shoes, one little disrespect, just one friggin one. [b]You're out to the streets [/b]and I won't fvcking look back ...

and you will still beg to marry another woman. Or will you marry your fellow man?

Silentgroper:
Right!!!

If reverse was the case, I bet this wouldn't have been the next thought on your head...

let's hear the other side of the story truly. Even in the court of law both parties air their views

okerekingsley90:
Really are you married. All you just said is easier said than done

it's a cooked up stories. There's no smoke without fire. You can't be almost perfect and your wife hate you. Op should invite his wife let's hear her out biko

Namaster:
"She even said recently in a fight that I disgust her and she hated me."

That's a NEW dick speaking through your wife. You wife started tasting a new dick a couple of months ago and that's when it started.

She only asked you to stay because the new dick knows she's a LovePeddler and will not have anything serious with her. He'll fuuuck the shit out of her, though.

The fact that you stayed after being told to your face that you are no different from FAECES to her shows you have ZERO respect for yourself.

You have NO boundaries. So get ready for MORE. She'll start BEATING you soon.

You are the WET dream of abusive whores—an introvert with LOW self-esteem who'll SWEEP the house while a bitch is in bed SLEEPING till 10 o' clock. If you have a little money, your LovePeddler has hit the jackpot.

You'll NOT listen but I'll tell you anyway:

Get a DNA test for both kids. Then KICK her out. No matter the results of the DNA tests, KICK HER OUT.

Kicking her out without solving his internal issue of being a bore and weakling won't stop the next lady from treating him like trash.

That statement "all men are the same" women use on men, is actually a reflection of how ALL women think= the same!

The most important thing here is for him to change his behavior and get a girl, or keep being the weak nice guy and staying on his own.

Nevertheless I agree with you he should let the woman go sha. She's seen him finish already

ttmax09:
Omoh be like the wife don show ooo

not is wife. I also told op same thing. He should allow teenagers and men wey never see food chop scatter his marriage. It is a common sense glaring from the comments

RavagedHeart:
If atavistic is all your summary from all I said. Then we all need to be more atavistic.

you go just meet yourself for jail. This is 21st century not 1850 o. Na your neighbour go even first lock you up before her family and friends bounce on you

Medici777:
Take it from me, you’ll regret it in future if you don’t get rid of her. She prolly still needs you for now that’s why she’s still with you.

when he gets rid of her will he still run after another woman or marry his fellow man instead?

Denko2721987:
Just carefully listen to the comments of the females on here giving every excuse for the woman's behaviour (even if we havent heard from the woman) which they wouldnt give if it was a woman who wrote same and then u will understand the utter hypocrisy and double standard of that gender which is strongly tied their hate for accountability. And if u check these females very well, you will find out its the bitter old and single ones who just hate men because them never see man wey carry them go alter mostly becos of their repulsive behaviour. But u cant get what u hate unfortunately.

truly we can say anything now until we hear from the other party. Anybody can come up with just anything to suit his/her self.

one of the people that’d hurt you the most, cause you pain, sometimes make you cry hard long nightly and make you want to never have anything to do with them again are the ones you truly love the most. But hey! You must love them nevertheless. Some of them may never know the weight of your love until you’re gone far away from them.



Until a seed dies, it never grows.

Pray for God’s intervention bfore you get confused by people.

ScotHarvath:
Sex is another issue, I always have to beg for it and when I raised the issue in anger she said I can be going to get it from other girls.

I really don’t think most Nigerian girls deserve or want a cool headed man. They will show you shege.

Thinking back and seeing only the things I did I can only can myself a fool. Helping with the chores, helping with the kids, revealing everything about my finances to her, standing up to her family for once admonishing her, spending too much time with her and trying to make her my everything.


Friends have taught me a lot in this life which I why I chose to avoid friends and focus on my wife and family but this woman is making those same guys I abandoned for her call me a fool.


If there’s an altercation, she turns on off the TV and sound system so the neighbors can hear everything.


Is it wrong to be a good man and want your wife to be your best friend.

If this marriage finally fails, the next woman I will date will see another version of me

for this one i support you. Check her phone and see whether she is cheating? Your wife is a narc she likes manipulation and drama. You would not win by argument. You need to break her manipulation and take control. Learn to be more independent, rent office away from home.

ScotHarvath:
I don’t need your judgement, what you don’t understand is that is simple act of venting here has helped.

I’d rather vent here faceless than talk to family and friends about my issues.

only a fool will believe your super story. Invite your imaginary wife to come say her own.

BobbieZion:
Accept your fault and move on....
You have your negative side too, so work on that.

The worst thing a Man can be is to be nice......
Never ever do that.
Don't ever go out of your way to please a coochie..... don't be naive.
I have been there before, I learnt my bitter lesson.

NB: Don't take advice from those b**ches.
The only woman you should love is your Mom.

go and marry your mother then small boy or marry your fellow man. Na by force to marry woman? Marry your fellow man nigga

Once someone said I HATE YOU. Hate is a strong emotional word that can lead to murder.

My advice

You people should separate for meantime until her senses reset to default. Otherwise your life is risky, she can kpai you at any time. Secondly as a man you should have secret especially where you married self entitled woman like your wife

Fake story,

Where are you based bro?

ScotHarvath:
Sex is another issue, I always have to beg for it and when I raised the issue in anger she said I can be going to get it from other girls.

I really don’t think most Nigerian girls deserve or want a cool headed man. They will show you shege.

Thinking back and seeing only the things I did I can only can myself a fool. Helping with the chores, helping with the kids, revealing everything about my finances to her, standing up to her family for once admonishing her, spending too much time with her and trying to make her my everything.


Friends have taught me a lot in this life which I why I chose to avoid friends and focus on my wife and family but this woman is making those same guys I abandoned for her call me a fool.


If there’s an altercation, she turns on off the TV and sound system so the neighbors can hear everything.


Is it wrong to be a good man and want your wife to be your best friend.

If this marriage finally fails, the next woman I will date will see another version of me

@Namaster You have said it all! @OP take it and live long or leave it and cut your days on earth short

Namaster:
"She even said recently in a fight that I disgust her and she hated me."

That's a NEW dick speaking through your wife. You wife started tasting a new dick a couple of months ago and that's when it started.

She only asked you to stay because the new dick knows she's a LovePeddler and will not have anything serious with her. He'll fuuuck the shit out of her, though.

The fact that you stayed after being told to your face that you are no different from FAECES to her shows you have ZERO respect for yourself.

You have NO boundaries. So get ready for MORE. She'll start BEATING you soon.

You are the WET dream of abusive whores—an introvert with LOW self-esteem who'll SWEEP the house while a bitch is in bed SLEEPING till 10 o' clock. If you have a little money, your LovePeddler has hit the jackpot.

You'll NOT listen but I'll tell you anyway:

Get a DNA test for both kids. Then KICK her out. No matter the results of the DNA tests, KICK HER OUT.

Villa12:
and you will still beg to marry another woman. Or will you marry your fellow man?

I don't do that .. They beg me.. they need me more than I need them ..