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Zxcvbnmghtr:
So?

This your post had me cracking up so much.
But I know from information available online that such women can be the easiest to sleep with.
I know I've once seen a video of a woman dressed like that been fked from behind by the street side in one of these Muslim countries.
All she needed to do was raise everything up, and bend forward, the rest happened naturally.
Let me tell you, women who would do such things can NEVER be stopped.
A woman who is not created like that would NEVER do so even if she walked around half naked.
Just saying...

Stone03:
Whether it's men or women, it's a product of untamed mind. Nobody gets bored of his husband's prick or his wife's vagina if she or he disciplines the mind to focus on the she or he got.

Tell yourself that all toto na toto, all prick na prick. Once you ejaculate nothing more.

Oga (abi na madam you be sef), this your view is naive, to put it mildly.
When it comes to matters of sex, with time people tend to revert to their natural selves, regardless of amount of effort to "tame" their minds.
The good news has been that most people actually marry those who match them in these things.
That is why overwhelming majority of marriages work without too much scandals.
But yet, there are still these non-majority instances where these things happen ( I would share another real life example next) .
They are never diagnosed and dealt with because most people like you think this has everything to do with mind control and discipline.
It is not really true.
In some cases where women of this nature are resolutely suppressed (or "disciplined" as you put it) they simply take their sexual frustration out on innocent people (house helps etc for example).
A lot of wickedness you find in our society today stem from efforts to suppress these natural instincts.
That is also why we have soooooooooooooooooooooooo many sexual scandals involving even religious people of all shades.

To conclude with your last line above: "all toto no be toto o".
No say I no warn you.

DarkCaesar:
lots of little ‘boys’ won’t be able to comprehend the OP but it’s normal, it’s just how nature made those women…….some might not even be drop dead gorgeous but would have this wild sexual looks that would make lot of men to imagine hitting her coochie even if it’s just once.

You hit the nail on the head about how "little boys" won't be able to comprehend this issue. lol
Nothing more to add there!

As for the "not even drop dead gorgeous" women you refer above, you are also spot on!
That is why it can be very difficult to see the danger signs before marrying some of them.
Some of such women may look crude, yet seriously attractive, and somewhat approachable/accessible even though they are just being natural.

In "action" proper, they also over-deliver, which is why some men wanted to kill each other over such woman.
They "ate her food" and got hooked, and was ready to die over her.

But if a man is attentive, he should still be able to see the warning signs early enough.
All he needs is observe how men look at her, and follow her . Simple.
That's enough warning signs.
Just observe and see her for what she is, rather than what you think you can turn her into in the future.
Natural tendencies are extremely difficult to control.

onumadu:
This your post had me cracking up so much.
But I know from information available online that such women can be the easiest to sleep with.
I know I've once seen a video of a woman dressed like that been fked from behind by the street side in one of these Muslim countries.
All she needed to do was raise everything up, and bend forward, the rest happened naturally.
Let me tell you, women who would do such things can NEVER be stopped.
A woman who is not created like that would NEVER do so even if she walked around half naked.
Just saying...

I struck a chord. I really did. Lol 😂. See as your story change SHARPLY.

Zxcvbnmghtr:
I struck a chord. I really did. Lol 😂. See as your story change SHARPLY.

But my story didn't change. You only corroborated my points.
What has dressing to do with natural tendencies as I described in the OP?
Thanks for providing supporting evidence.

onumadu:
But my story didn't change. You only corroborated my points.
What has dressing to do with natural tendencies as I described in the OP?
Thanks for providing supporting evidence.

Your story is not about a promiscuous woman but a woman who by default commands Men's attention against her want due to the attributes you highlighted. You ended up with a story about how women in Burqa are the easiest to have sex with. The question is how? Where is the attraction?

I want to share another real life story (anecdote) about this issue.
But I would only share the story if I get at least THREE (3) LIKES for this comment.
If I get three LIKES I would share it.
If not I would not share it because I don't want to upset people's sensitivities.
I'm out for now...

Zxcvbnmghtr:
Your story is not about a promiscuous woman but a woman who by default commands Men's attention against her want due to the attributes you highlighted. You ended up with a story about how women in Burqa are the easiest to have sex with. The question is how? Where is the attraction?

If you ACTUALLY read the OP you would have noticed that I said "Their physical, psychological, emotional, and even spiritual architecture/composition"
In fact the physical attribute even becomes the minority attribute if you add others like psychological, emotional, spiritual".
Physical is only 25% of the attribute, the rest is 75%.
You have to actually OBSERVE the woman's natural actions in totality to be able to avoid such women if that is not what you want.
Like I said, some men are perfectly comfortable marrying such women and live happily with them
This is not about judging women. It is about warning men to become realistic and stop killing themselves over natural occurrences.
Some women in Burqa still exudes raw sexual energy through their other actions.

onumadu:
If you ACTUALLY read the OP you would have noticed that I said "Their physical, psychological, emotional, and even spiritual architecture/composition"
In fact the physical attribute even becomes the minority attribute if you add others like psychological, emotional, spiritual".
Physical is only 25% of the attribute, the rest is 75%.
You have to actually OBSERVE the woman's natural actions in totality to be able to avoid such women if that is not what you want.
Like I said, some men are perfectly comfortable marrying such women and live happily with them
This is not about judging women. It is about warning men to become realistic and stop killing themselves over natural occurrences.
Some women in Burqa still exudes raw sexual energy through their other actions.

One which makes men run after them?!

Zxcvbnmghtr:
One which makes men run after them?!

So, how else do you come about situation whereby a woman dressed like that was fked by the street corner?
She didn't even have the dignity to insist on it happening indoors.
Methinks that some of such women even use Burqa to confuse people like you who would judge them harshly if they dress otherwise. lol
See how you are perplexed that someone in Burqa can do such things?
I rest my case.

onumadu:
So, how else do you come about situation whereby a woman dressed like that was fked by the street corner?
She didn't even have the dignity to insist on it happening indoors.
Methinks that some of such women even use Burqa to confuse people like you who would judge them harshly if they dress otherwise. lol
See how you are perplexed that someone in Burqa can do such things?
I rest my case.

I'm perplexed by how you quickly switched your story line by your sight of a Burqa, to

onumadu:
This your post had me cracking up so much.
But I know from information available online that such women can be the easiest to sleep with.
..

Zxcvbnmghtr:
I'm perplexed by how you quickly switched your story line by your sight of a Burqa, to

Apparently you either have comprehension issues or simply trolling now.
The two posts corroborate each other.
But I think you are really trying to troll/derail the thread. Nothing else...
You can believe whatever you want.

onumadu:
Apparently you either have comprehension issues or simply trolling now.
The two posts corroborate each other.
But I think you are really trying to troll/derail the thread. Nothing else...
You can believe whatever you want.

It doesn't with respect to your assertion about women who wear Burqa as being the easiest target for sex.

The point you are trying to make is that some women exude sexual energy which attracts multitude of men against these women's own want of which a man who chooses to marry them should be ready to bear with this kind of situation. Your point is not about how these kind of women are sexually promiscuous.

I agree very well with you that their are women as such. What I don't agree with you is how women in Burqa are the easiest to have sex with.

Zxcvbnmghtr:
It doesn't with respect to your assertion about women who wear Burqa as being the easiest target for sex.

The point you are trying to make is that some women exude sexual energy which attracts multitude of men against these women's own want of which a man who chooses to marry them should be ready to bear with this kind of situation. Your point is not about how these kind of women are sexually promiscuous.

I agree very well with you that their are women as such. What I don't agree with you is how women in Burqa are the easiest to have sex with.

@First bolded: Per your comment of "which attracts multitude of men against these women's own want", the women are not particularly complaining - they're naturally able to thrive on such attractions.
The adjective "promiscuous" is an intrinsically embedded attribute of this issue. I mean how else could one explain a woman who has a husband, but also have two other married men fighting to death over her? You cannot separate the two.

@Second bolded: Sorry for the mix-up. What I really meant is that Burqas cannot stop such women, and in certain instances Burqas may even be enablers, helping them to evade detection.

Thanks for finally saying more about what you really meant. I was starting to think that you were trolling.
I'm now ready for your other questions/counter-arguments/challenges.
That is what intellectual discourse is all about.

onumadu:
A very inconvenient truth.
There are some women in this world that were not created for one man.

Cold truth straight from the deep freezer.

onumadu:
Oga (abi na madam you be sef), this your view is naive, to put it mildly.
When it comes to matters of sex, with time people tend to revert to their natural selves, regardless of amount of effort to "tame" their minds.
The good news has been that most people actually marry those who match them in these things.
That is why overwhelming majority of marriages work without too much scandals.
But yet, there are still these non-majority instances where these things happen ( I would share another real life example next) .
They are never diagnosed and dealt with because most people like you think this has everything to do with mind control and discipline.
It is not really true.
In some cases where women of this nature are resolutely suppressed (or "disciplined" as you put it) they simply take their sexual frustration out on innocent people (house helps etc for example).
A lot of wickedness you find in our society today stem from efforts to suppress these natural instincts.
That is also why we have soooooooooooooooooooooooo many sexual scandals involving even religious people of all shades.

To conclude with your last line above: "all toto no be toto o".
No say I no warn you.

All these long text is to justify infidelity. Mr or Mrs, there's nothing, and I mean nothing in this life that can't be controlled, no matter the hyper-natural it is.

God is not wicked to warn us against adultery and fornication, yet give us libido that is beyond our control.

I am a man, I belong to the side of hyper sexuality. I can have sex more 7 times in a week and still feel strong. At a point I began to ask myself if this is a divine gift or what?

At the early stage of my marriage, it was difficult to flow with only my wife, but because I know the consequences of infidelity, especially loosing the presence of God in my life, I had to begin to work on my mind, even to the point of avoiding masturbation. It is in the mind

I know a married lady that also told me her story, how she most times desire sleeping with her ex. She had the same problem of desiring to try out different dicks, until I sat her down and took her through the psychology and the mystery of sex. Till today she is still living in appreciation of the counsel I gave to her.

People are naturally hyper-sexual and it's not a biological defect, but sometimes as a result of the easy activation of hormones like testosterone. But can be deprived by engaging your mind on something serious.

Nobody was made for one person. Chatting is a two way street. For a man to chat with a woman, she must be chatting back. Men are not looking for women no other man want, we are looking for women who don’t want other men.

A woman not created for one man is the woke way to call a cheat. No woman was created for one man, being with one man is totally by one’s effort. The willingness to put in the effort is shaped by circumstances like upbringing, values, religion and repercussions etc.

Stone03:
All these long text is to justify infidelity. Mr or Mrs, there's nothing, and I mean nothing in this life that can't be controlled, no matter the hyper-natural it is.

God is not wicked to warn us against adultery and fornication, yet give us libido that is beyond our control.

I am a man, I belong to the side of hyper sexuality. I can have sex more 7 times in a week and still feel strong. At a point I began to ask myself if this is a divine gift or what?

At the early stage of my marriage, it was difficult to flow with only my wife, but because I know the consequences of infidelity, especially loosing the presence of God in my life, I had to begin to work on my mind, even to the point of avoiding masturbation. It is in the mind

I know a married lady that also told me her story, how she most times desire sleeping with her ex. She had the same problem of desiring to try out different dicks, until I sat her down and took her through the psychology and the mystery of sex. Till today she is still living in appreciation of the counsel I gave to her.

People are naturally hyper-sexual and it's not a biological defect, but sometimes as a result of the easy activation of hormones like testosterone. But can be deprived by engaging your mind on something serious.

I'll be back to give a befitting response to your comment, -point-by-point.
Thanks and please return later to read my comment.

eazzzy1:
Nobody was made for one person. Chatting is a two way street. For a man to chat with a woman, she must be chatting back. Men are not looking for women no other man want, we are looking for women who don’t want other men.

A woman not created for one man is the woke way to call a cheat. No woman was created for one man, being with one man is totally by one’s effort. The willingness to put in the effort is shaped by circumstances like upbringing, values, religion and repercussions etc.

Thanks for your own insight too.
I will return later to respond well to it.

onumadu:
I'll be back to give a befitting response to your comment, -point-by-point.
Thanks and please return later to read my comment.

I will be glad to read it

More time I don’t believe this kind of report. You gave her a better life than yourself. That’s the only chance for that to happen..

I think that the best way to address Stone03, eazzzy1 and LordYon08 posts above is to recap the OP.

Quick recap:

Core Point: The topic argues that some women are not created to be with one man

Aim of OP : To warn men planning to get married that such women exist so they can avoid them, and not get into trouble later. “Trouble” includes having to share the wife with other men against their wish. Or trying to kill other men because of it.

Observed reality: Some men are perfectly comfortable marrying such women. Others are not.
The “others” are the ones this post is trying to save from future troubles.
Those “others” must control their greed and vanity in order to be able to accurately detect, hence avoid, such women. Prevention, in this instance, is better than cure.

WARNING: This topic is NOT about religion or morality. It is about NATURE – the way things are, not what we want them to be.

There is no evidence anywhere that ALL humans are polygamous. There are however plenty of evidence that SOME people (men and women) are naturally polygamous.
I just cited an example about a married woman who was been fought over by two married men, while the woman’s husband went about his normal business undisturbed.
Those two men are polygamous (though they would deny it if you confront them), and the woman is also polygamous (she would deny it if she faces societal censure).
The woman’s husband is monogamous (believe it or not) because he only has his one wife and happy with her even if she is sleeping with other men.
One of the men involved is even a “leader” in a church. Just saying…
I really don’t want to bring religion into this -though religious settings provide even more evidence of this- I don’t want to derail this thread.

HYPOCRISY is the cloak under which these things happen.

This topic is not about "justifying infidelity" and other judgmental opinions. It is about acknowledging what exists, and avoiding them if one doesn't want it, or not killing other men over it.

I hate to use this analogy but ...
There are many dog breeds in the world. If you want to buy a dog, you should buy the breed that fits into your family needs.
If you buy a guard dog breed instead of a pet dog breed, there is a chance that a family member can be bitten one day.
You can’t change a guard dog into a pet dog completely.
I know about five instances where a supposed “tamed” pit-bull dog killed people. I’m not saying that a human being is a dog, but a human being is still an animal. The inability to accept that fact is why we have different types/degrees of conflicts in the world, from individual levels to countries going to war threatening entire human race with annihilation.
We humans are hypocrites and pretend to be disciplined and “civilized” or spiritual etc.
But then the world continues to be the same conflict zone from ancient times - year after year, decade after decade, millennia after millennia.

Na when you wan marry you go know say wife material dey scarce.

onumadu:
I think that the best way to address Stone03, eazzzy1 and LordYon08 posts above is to recap the OP.

Quick recap:

Core Point: The topic argues that some women are not created to be with one man

[b][b]Aim of OP : To warn men planning to get married that such women exist so they can avoid them, and not get into trouble later. “Trouble” includes having to share the wife with other men against their wish. Or trying to kill other men because of it. [/b][/b]

Observed reality: Some men are perfectly comfortable marrying such women. Others are not.
The “others” are the ones this post is trying to save from future troubles.
Those “others” must control their greed and vanity in order to be able to accurately detect, hence avoid, such women. Prevention, in this instance, is better than cure.

WARNING: This topic is NOT about religion or morality. It is about NATURE – the way things are, not what we want them to be.

funny that the OP had to lay it down the aim of this post so that he can be fully understood, chai plenty guys still have a long way to go cos I see lots of guys up there not getting the point being passed by the OP.... all what the OP wrote is 100% true.

onumadu:
I want to share another real life story (anecdote) about this issue.
But I would only share the story if I get at least THREE (3) LIKES for this comment.
If I get three LIKES I would share it.
If not I would not share it because I don't want to upset people's sensitivities.
I'm out for now...

Now that this comment has gotten 3 Likes, I would share the next REAL LIFE instance of this issue.
Next ...

This is a TRUE LIFE STORY.

There is a certain couple I know, A VERY LOVELY COUPLE -let’s call the man Mr A, and let’s call the wife Mrs A.
I’ve known this couple for more than 22 years (all their kids are now adults).
I knew them before they even had their first child.

Mrs A is EXACTLY of this type I described in the OP. And she is happily/proudly married and being herself.

Her husband swears that she is the love of his life.
In fact, when I met them for the first time, and saw at least THREE men coming and going to places with Mrs A, I got so angry that I approached/confronted her husband Mr A, and wondered aloud to him why he would allow his wife to have “boyfriends” (for lack of a better word) like that. He told me point blank that he loves his wife, and that he sees everything.
He further said that if for any reason he loses his wife(through dissolution or death), that he would not marry again till he died.
He specifically called her “the love of my life”.
I was stunned and confused.
In fact that was when I started observing/studying/researching this issue.
Mrs A also loves Mr A (she ALWAYS cares for her husbands needs).
Mrs A later got pregnant and had her first child (I won’t mention the gender for privacy reasons ), and a couple of years later she had her second child.
They only have the two children, and from the much I can tell, neither of them knows for sure the true paternity of the kids.
They don’t believe in paternity tests.
Over these couple of decades, Mrs A has had many boyfriends, and Mr A still swears by his wife.
As far as I know, Mr A doesn’t have any other woman outside the marriage.
Others (friends, acquaintances, family etc) have however severally complained BITTERLY behind their backs, but the marriage is as stable as a rock and still going strong.
At a point, I noticed that these “boyfriends” never really got along well with one another.
One would always say something bad about the other(s). Only God knows if any of the boyfriends tried to harm or eliminate the other.
All I know and can testify to is that this couple is VERY happily married.
The men respected the husband of the woman though, but they were always at each others throats.

One clear thing about Mrs A is that she is a VERY STRONG woman physically (tall, imposing personality), and easily controlled those men.
These days, she doesn't have (that I can see) such men around because she is not young anymore I presume. But the couple is still happy together.

I repeat, this is a TRUE LIFE STORY.
You can make with it whatever you want.

pansophist:
AKA Saida bol

Hi pansophist

Been a while, hope you are doing well?