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1. You Won't Live Long: firstly, there would be problems, because you won't have peace of mind.
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2. You Won't Have Time For Your Children: I really hate this, when you have too much of wives you won't have time for your children, they won't be able to ask you for their needs and then it will result to bad attitude.
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3. You Will Not Even Have Time For Yourself: Imagine having four wives, your aims will always base on how you will struggle/work and provide for the family. (wives and children) such that, you might not even remember your type of religion not to talk of attending church or mosque. you might not be able to enjoy your life as you wish in your early life.
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4.You Will Be Broke And Poor: You will spend more than neccessary, alot of billings everyday.

These are NOT the problems of Polygamy. These are the problems of POVERTY.

Your message will fall on the deaf ears of wealthy men

Blablabla.

Marry ten wives if you can afford it.
Even monogamous homes have these overstated problems.

Namaster:
These are NOT the problems of Polygamy. These are the problems of POVERTY.

Lol. Most arguments against polygamy are either from the point of view of poverty, or religion (not even true Christianity, just religious opinions).
You can hardly find a logical reason against polygamy.

Northerners in poverty have more than 3 wives. Yet they hardly have issues like the awake southerners. It's all about mindset. That's why when you knows your priority try to work towards it.

If you are dating a woman that you must uses money to please you try to cut them off by working with your priority not matter the love or how beautiful she is. But when you want to eat your cake and still have it. You will find yourself in problem

I can relate to No.3. Trust dies quickly in polygamy. It may not be obvious to the husband,but over time it is about self preservation for the women

Badbunny:
Your message will fall on the deaf ears of wealthy men

Rich men are the devils, so women pursuing them are just trying to go home

thesicilian:
Lol. Most arguments against polygamy are either from the point of view of poverty, or religion (not even true Christianity, just religious opinions).
You can hardly find a logical reason against polygamy.

But when polygamy is reversed, then suddenly you see all the reasons, right?

No be you go tell me wetin I go do

tommy589:
I can relate with No.3. Trust dies quickly in polygamy. It may not be obvious to the husband,but over time it is about self preservation for the women

Any man who seeks additional wives is never in the trust business as you can see from those who support adultery.

Tallesty1:
No be you go tell me wetin I go do

E no tell you wetin you go do.

fineboynl:
Northerners in poverty have more than 3 wives. Yet they hardly have issues like the awake southerners. It's all about mindset. That's why when you knows your priority try to work towards it.

If you are dating a woman that you must uses money to please you try to cut them off by working with your priority not matter the love or how beautiful she is. But when you want to eat your cake and still have it. You will find yourself in problem

Who are those being stabbed in the news? Is it southerners?

Tallesty1:
No be you go tell me wetin I go do

Don't be tall and senseless am not telling you what to do

CrownOfClay724:
Blablabla.

Marry ten wives if you can afford it.
Even monogamous homes have these overstated problems.

Mongamous homes don't have side chick shits!

Everything starts and ends at home.

But extra woman means extra shits and extra problems and you don't have extra life!

Namaster:
These are NOT the problems of Polygamy. These are the problems of POVERTY.

And it is a person in poverty who digs deeper to.solve a deep problem!

Funny,men say they.want peace.and the solution is to take extra women!

Tallesty1:
No be you go tell me wetin I go do

Are you planning to marry more than one wife?

Nazgul:
Are you planning to marry more than one wife?

I am through with the planning.

Tallesty1:
I am through with the planning.

So you've made up your mind then?

Hollybratt:
1. You Won't Live Long: firstly, there would be problems, because you won't have peace of mind.
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2. You Won't Have Time For Your Children: I really hate this, when you have too much of wives you won't have time for your children, they won't be able to ask you for their needs and then it will result to bad attitude.
.
3. You Will Not Even Have Time For Yourself: Imagine having four wives, your aims will always base on how you will struggle/work and provide for the family. (wives and children) such that, you might not even remember your type of religion not to talk of attending church or mosque. you might not be able to enjoy your life as you wish in your early life.
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4.You Will Be Broke And Poor: You will spend more than neccessary, alot of billings everyday.

People just analyse rubbish.

Use Ned Nwoko as case study please.

Emmanuel909090:
People just analyse rubbish.
Use Ned Nwoko as case study please.

Explain pls

No be you go tell me wetin I go do

This is poverty speaking

Namaster:
These are NOT the problems of Polygamy. These are the problems of POVERTY.

I agree with you 💯%

Check out Ned Nwoko ie Reginal Daniel's husband. He's able to hold his family together even better than most men with a single wife.

Poverty is the real issue in polygamy.

Take your sermon to NedNwoko

I'm searching for a second wife to marry right now

Searching for second wife is like searching for second trouble. I love to be as free as air, most countries on heart! I pass but I do not object to the concept of a second wife. It is our culture and I believe it will help curb the menace of "SIDE-CHEEK".

A happy man, A happy home!

If you want to marry a second or third wife, go for it there is nothing wrong with the idea!

If Davido ever marries a second wife, nobody in Nigeria will ever complain. Everybody will be "suddenly" happy for him. You see the deep seated hypocrisy.

Reason I so much repect our dear Ooni of Ife! I am quite sure he has found another wife-in-waiting at Davido's wedding. I also respect David and Solomon in the Bible, those are my role model.

A lot of women are single and desperately yearning and searching for men to marry, the idea of a second wife will be very helpful to those sets of people.

POLIGAMY IS OUR CUTURE but you are also allowed to be monogamous. Your choice!

If you are feeling adventurous, you can take a step further towards a thre*esome Poligamy where everyone is always happy.

YOUR CHOICE!

Nazgul:
So you've made up your mind then?

Yea, two at least