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Deleted by Lifeofexpat(op):
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Re: Deleted by seanery: 4:20am On Jul 05, 2024
FTC at last
Re: Deleted by Nobody: 4:49am On Jul 05, 2024
Na wah. If u suspect him then ask for proof in documents. So long as it's in court there are definitely documents to back whatever he says to u. Get a copy and verify it's authenticity simple. Not everything u bring to nairaland. Only God knows if ur not just trolling sef undecided
Re: Deleted by Lifeofexpat(op): 5:08am On Jul 05, 2024
dkidd:
Na wah. If u suspect him then ask for proof in documents. So long as it's in court there are definitely documents to back whatever he says to u. Get a copy and verify it's authenticity simple. Not everything u bring to nairaland. Only God knows if ur not just trolling sef undecided
I wish I was trolling... I'm so confused what this guy is doing.. I think maybe I just go back to my country. This is to much drama for me
Re: Deleted by BigIyanga: 5:34am On Jul 05, 2024
Lifeofexpat:
I wish I was trolling... I'm so confused what this guy is doing.. I think maybe I just go back to my country. This is to much drama for me
So you didnt know about his ex and divorce court case until you came to Naija? If you were aware, dont complain, suck it up or go back to your country.. let the man handle his issues.
Re: Deleted by Elegantspiker(m): 5:41am On Jul 05, 2024
Lifeofexpat:
I wish I was trolling... I'm so confused what this guy is doing.. I think maybe I just go back to my country. This is to much drama for me
What's your country?
Re: Deleted by Sonnobax15(m): 6:32am On Jul 05, 2024
grin
Our brother don carry this one handicap-1...

Well,I haven't heard of or seen anywhere where a pending divorce case would have to compel one party to have a camera in his/her home..... Maybe there's,but I haven't heard of it....... Please someone who's more enlightened on how legal stuffs are done would come up and throw more light on it ....

But as for now, otilor cheesy
Re: Deleted by Faber(m): 6:44am On Jul 05, 2024
Sonnobax15:
grin
Our brother don carry this one handicap-1...

Well,I haven't heard of or seen anywhere where a pending divorce case would have to compel one party to have a camera in his/her home..... Maybe there's,but I haven't heard of it....... Please someone who's more enlightened on how legal stuffs are done would come up and throw more light on it ....

But as for now, otilor cheesy
All na wash, brother don chop clean mouth
Re: Deleted by LeeSmart:
OP from ur english e show say na Nigerian u be make u no dey lie to us abeg.
Re: Deleted by Caramia2020(m): 9:09am On Jul 05, 2024
It should be yahoo boyfriend gave me a new format.
Re: Deleted by MASTAkiLLAh(m): 9:10am On Jul 05, 2024
Let's pretend this story is true. Just advise yourself and start going back to your country before you empty all your life savings taking care of someone obviously defrauding you
Re: Deleted by papyjaypaul: 9:14am On Jul 05, 2024
Lifeofexpat:
I wish I was trolling... I'm so confused what this guy is doing.. I think maybe I just go back to my country. This is to much drama for me

Re: Deleted by Kobicove(m): 9:33am On Jul 05, 2024
This story sounds like bullshît to me undecided
Re: Deleted by Kutunban: 9:36am On Jul 05, 2024
You intuition won't lie to you.
Re: Deleted by Novaxerxes(m): 9:41am On Jul 05, 2024
Lifeofexpat:
I am not nigerian. I am a tourist and been living here for 7 months now to get to know my boyfriend.

But my boyfriend never lets me stay at his house.. huh

He tells me that him and his ex wife and daughter used to live there with him and that there is a camera near his door 🚪 so she can make sure he does not bring any other lady home in the house they used to live in... Our of respect she says.

Since there is a court case right now due to a custody battle over their daughter, his lawyer advised him to just do what she says to keep the peace until the court case is over ..

He tells me that he wants to find a new house for us and only visit the old house once and awhile... I'm not sure why.. maybe he cannot leave completely until the house lease is over?

Honestly I find this all very suspicious.. I am wondering if he is actually married and keeping it secret?? We do not live together yet but he told me if he rents a new house then I can come and live with him... What do you think is going on? I don't want to think he is cheating but this does not make sense to me... Maybe the court/law is different in Nigeria then what I am used to? That a camera must be at his door? I don't know. It sounds strange
I have a question, are you way older than your Nigerian boyfriend? If that's the case then there's a high chance that he's not being sincere with you and has bad intentions towards you in the future.
If this is your case I'd advice you leave him
Re: Deleted by ElevationD: 9:43am On Jul 05, 2024
Kobicove:
This story sounds like bullshît to me undecided
That’s exactly what it is. It is called FABU!
Re: Deleted by nerdfrost(m): 9:51am On Jul 05, 2024
It's better you go back to your country or come and date me grin
Re: Deleted by Turquoiseee: 10:28am On Jul 05, 2024
My dear, that’s how some Nigerian men are. They want to have all the beautiful women at the same time. And so, they begin to lie and deceive women. Men! Give yourselves some credit!
Madam, run for your life!
Re: Deleted by meobizy(m): 12:58pm On Jul 05, 2024
Kunle don cook another story. Bored child.

Before he deletes this post.

Lifeofexpat:
I am not nigerian. I am a tourist and been living here for 7 months now to get to know my boyfriend.

But my boyfriend never lets me stay at his house.. huh

He tells me that him and his ex wife and daughter used to live there with him and that there is a camera near his door 🚪 so she can make sure he does not bring any other lady home in the house they used to live in... Our of respect she says.

Since there is a court case right now due to a custody battle over their daughter, his lawyer advised him to just do what she says to keep the peace until the court case is over ..

He tells me that he wants to find a new house for us and only visit the old house once and awhile... I'm not sure why.. maybe he cannot leave completely until the house lease is over?

Honestly I find this all very suspicious.. I am wondering if he is actually married and keeping it secret?? We do not live together yet but he told me if he rents a new house then I can come and live with him... What do you think is going on? I don't want to think he is cheating but this does not make sense to me... Maybe the court/law is different in Nigeria then what I am used to? That a camera must be at his door? I don't know. It sounds strange
Re: Deleted by Cassandraloius: 1:33pm On Jul 05, 2024
What are you still doing with him?
Re: Deleted by Baronthecelebri(m): 1:33pm On Jul 05, 2024
He's cheating on you,but play along and collect good sex from him
Re: Deleted by stacyadams: 2:11pm On Jul 05, 2024
Lifeofexpat:
I am not nigerian. I am a tourist and been living here for 7 months now to get to know my boyfriend.

But my boyfriend never lets me stay at his house.. huh

He tells me that him and his ex wife and daughter used to live there with him and that there is a camera near his door 🚪 so she can make sure he does not bring any other lady home in the house they used to live in... Our of respect she says.

Since there is a court case right now due to a custody battle over their daughter, his lawyer advised him to just do what she says to keep the peace until the court case is over ..

He tells me that he wants to find a new house for us and only visit the old house once and awhile... I'm not sure why.. maybe he cannot leave completely until the house lease is over?

Honestly I find this all very suspicious.. I am wondering if he is actually married and keeping it secret?? We do not live together yet but he told me if he rents a new house then I can come and live with him... What do you think is going on? I don't want to think he is cheating but this does not make sense to me... Maybe the court/law is different in Nigeria then what I am used to? That a camera must be at his door? I don't know. It sounds strange
Come live with me darling..he is toying with you
Re: Deleted by AKWATGOLD1(m): 2:47pm On Jul 05, 2024
Believe men sweet mouth talk at your own peril.
Lifeofexpat:
I am not nigerian. I am a tourist and been living here for 7 months now to get to know my boyfriend.

But my boyfriend never lets me stay at his house.. huh

He tells me that him and his ex wife and daughter used to live there with him and that there is a camera near his door 🚪 so she can make sure he does not bring any other lady home in the house they used to live in... Our of respect she says.

Since there is a court case right now due to a custody battle over their daughter, his lawyer advised him to just do what she says to keep the peace until the court case is over ..

He tells me that he wants to find a new house for us and only visit the old house once and awhile... I'm not sure why.. maybe he cannot leave completely until the house lease is over?

Honestly I find this all very suspicious.. I am wondering if he is actually married and keeping it secret?? We do not live together yet but he told me if he rents a new house then I can come and live with him... What do you think is going on? I don't want to think he is cheating but this does not make sense to me... Maybe the court/law is different in Nigeria then what I am used to? That a camera must be at his door? I don't know. It sounds strange
Re: Deleted by calabaman(m): 12:01am On Jul 06, 2024
When is he renting the new house...

Your intuition is probably right.
Re: Deleted by Ochyes: 11:08am On Jul 07, 2024
Lifeofexpat:
I am not nigerian. I am a tourist and been living here for 7 months now to get to know my boyfriend.

But my boyfriend never lets me stay at his house.. huh

He tells me that him and his ex wife and daughter used to live there with him and that there is a camera near his door 🚪 so she can make sure he does not bring any other lady home in the house they used to live in... Our of respect she says.

Since there is a court case right now due to a custody battle over their daughter, his lawyer advised him to just do what she says to keep the peace until the court case is over ..

He tells me that he wants to find a new house for us and only visit the old house once and awhile... I'm not sure why.. maybe he cannot leave completely until the house lease is over?

Honestly I find this all very suspicious.. I am wondering if he is actually married and keeping it secret?? We do not live together yet but he told me if he rents a new house then I can come and live with him... What do you think is going on? I don't want to think he is cheating but this does not make sense to me... Maybe the court/law is different in Nigeria then what I am used to? That a camera must be at his door? I don't know. It sounds strange
Are you spending on him? Is he asking you for money?
Re: Deleted by Sheistoopretty(f): 11:42am On Jul 07, 2024
Lol
Re: Deleted by imagrg(m): 3:50pm On Jul 07, 2024
You have been scammed!

Better go back to your country if you can still find your way there.
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