₦airaland Forum

EreluRoz:
Ladies who gets to that age without finding a husband were most probably dating their age mate when they were younger. No smart lady who knows what she's doing dates her age mate or within her age range. I can't be in my twenties and be dating a man in his twenties, Dem no swear for me.

atoliman:
I will seriously advise any lady who think she is getting old to wait and marry the right person. Do not marry your enemy because you are getting old or family is pressuring you. Na you go chop the beating from my husband or collect STD, if you marry an abusive guy or a womanizer. na only sorry you go hear or endure dear.

If you are above 35 years old, and you cannot find husband. Work on yourself, work out and please socialize,. You can dress descent and the right man will find you. Do not have unrealistic expectation and do not have unrealistic standard, no one earns 800 million naira in a month with 2 jets and 2 houses in Ikoyi, with one mansion in Dubai.

Except you want to marry the Saudi Crown Prince. So please, have reasonable realistic standards and reasonable expectations. Show respect to men and respectable man will find you.

Dating is not hard, find the right person take time.

Solofresh2:
If we actually want to be real with ourselves, everyone should be making money as long as you are above 20,irrespective of the gender

ExudeLoveToAll:
They have been waiting and they are at that age and can't find a partner of their dreams, is it when they enter menopause that's when they can find a partner of their dreams?

Delusional mindset and lack of self awareness and accountability is what is messing up most ladies as regards looking for a partner.

A poor, average looking lady wants to marry a rich man ., she didn't ask herself how many people are comfortable in the environment where she find herself to know if that is possible. To bring to your notice about 5% of people have 500k and above in their account in the country and 80% of the ladies in Nigeria are looking for those 5% , why won't you have difficulty looking for a partner?

The story long I don tire to type maybe I go complete wetin dey my head later

atoliman:
Date any age you want to date as long the age gap is reasonable. For example, 25 year old woman dating a 33 year old man is descent

favour32:
You think say many heads correct for nairaland?

EreluRoz:
Ladies who gets to that age without finding a husband were most probably dating their age mate when they were younger. No smart lady who knows what she's doing dates her age mate or within her age range. I can't be in my twenties and be dating a man in his twenties, Dem no swear for me.

BeyondCertainty:
This is BS! Women are not meant to work. Their place is the HOME taking care of children.

atoliman:
I will seriously advise any lady who think she is getting old to wait and marry the right person. Do not marry your enemy because you are getting old or family is pressuring you. Na you go chop the beating from my husband or collect STD, if you marry an abusive guy or a womanizer. na only sorry you go hear or endure dear.

If you are above 35 years old, and you cannot find husband. Work on yourself, work out and please socialize,. You can dress descent and the right man will find you. Do not have unrealistic expectation and do not have unrealistic standard, no one earns 800 million naira in a month with 2 jets and 2 houses in Ikoyi, with one mansion in Dubai.

Except you want to marry the Saudi Crown Prince. So please, have reasonable realistic standards and reasonable expectations. Show respect to men and respectable man will find you.

Dating is not hard, find the right person take time.

Madups:
Its very obvious u are the one who's is unstable between the both of us.. Now dating older men its no longer the issue? Its now shifted to smart men.. Pls dont quote me again cos i wont even read it.. I thought i was trying to converse with a reasonable human not knowing its a mad person with phone and access to the internet.

GanagiBitrus:
No hard & fast rules in life...

You may rush & still find Mr Right
You may rush & get Mr Wrong
You may rush & still not get married

You may wait & find Mr Right
You may wait & still find Mr Wrong
You may wait & not get married

Na so life just be.

RealityKings:
My advice to women is forget about marriage for now. Go and hustle; make money.
When you have alot of money, men will be running after you. Wait till you are 35 or more.

Don't even think about any man right now. Broke people should not think about disturbing an innocent guy with marriage.

EreluRoz:
Ladies who gets to that age without finding a husband were most probably dating their age mate when they were younger. No smart lady who knows what she's doing dates her age mate or within her age range. I can't be in my twenties and be dating a man in his twenties, Dem no swear for me.

lekonso:
But a very rich billionaire blogger who owns a house in banana island Lagos, could still not get a man to marry her, despite her billions.

Bananapill:
I know a lady who married a guy by simply greeting one Papa after each morning prayer in church. Papa asked her if she was married, she said no. He told her he has a husband for her straightforward.
Then, Papa introduced her to a decent guy he knows and the rest is history.

atoliman:
I will seriously advise any lady who think she is getting old to wait and marry the right person. Do not marry your enemy because you are getting old or family is pressuring you. Na you go chop the beating from my husband or collect STD, if you marry an abusive guy or a womanizer. na only sorry you go hear or endure dear.

If you are above 35 years old, and you cannot find husband. Work on yourself, work out and please socialize,. You can dress descent and the right man will find you. Do not have unrealistic expectation and do not have unrealistic standard, no one earns 800 million naira in a month with 2 jets and 2 houses in Ikoyi, with one mansion in Dubai.

Except you want to marry the Saudi Crown Prince. So please, have reasonable realistic standards and reasonable expectations. Show respect to men and respectable man will find you.

Dating is not hard, find the right person take time.

Madups:
Brotherly.. The reply shock me.

Tayorshd87:
My brother u directed this message to me ..


Waiting longer doesn't mean u will get the right fight in the river


All ma grace upon grace bro .
Life is not just balance

BeyondCertainty:
This is BS! Women are not meant to work. Their place is the HOME taking care of children.

atoliman:
I will seriously advise any lady who think she is getting old to wait and marry the right person. Do not marry your enemy because you are getting old or family is pressuring you. Na you go chop the beating from my husband or collect STD, if you marry an abusive guy or a womanizer. na only sorry you go hear or endure dear.

If you are above 35 years old, and you cannot find husband. Work on yourself, work out and please socialize,. You can dress descent and the right man will find you. Do not have unrealistic expectation and do not have unrealistic standard, no one earns 800 million naira in a month with 2 jets and 2 houses in Ikoyi, with one mansion in Dubai.

Except you want to marry the Saudi Crown Prince. So please, have reasonable realistic standards and reasonable expectations. Show respect to men and respectable man will find you.

Dating is not hard, find the right person take time.

omoharry:
Dear Ladies,

Remember your happiness and peace of mind is supreme. Except you are the kind that prefer to bow to society and family pressure over those things.

If you are the kind that can do without men or emotionally independent, then you should work very hard and be financially successful. With your money, adopt a baby or freeze your egg and have your baby via surrogate .

Do not mess up your life over this institution called marriage. Its not a do or die affair. If you find love, then that will be a wonderful thing for you. I mean real love devoid of unrealistic materialism, I mean finding your soul mate that will respect you in every way and someone you are at peace with, then you will be happy.

Do not follow the typical Nigerian narrative and societal expectations that shame women just because they are not married at their age. Also , Do not bow to some stupid low life men that are looking for women to live off on, just because they feel you are getting old and desperate and they see themselves as God sent to you. So they can misbehave ,cheat on you and even physically abuse you just because you are married to them.

You deserve better, do not short change your self in anyway, love yourself more, work very hard on yourself and find your inner confidence. Try and find peace within you, exercise, work hard and be successful and independent financially, travel the world , visit different places and people and see the dynamic of the world. You can engage in humanitarian activities, and contribute your quota to the good of Humanity.

Like I said before, you start your family, by adopting one or two kids and show love to them. Be a happy person and be good to your neighbors and society. Life does not revolve around marriage alone. You can touch lives with your independence. From your happy life someone somewhere would want to be part of that life. So please ignore some narrow minded Nairaland guys here. This is actually what they like masturbating on. Tell them to explore their intellectual capacity and you will see them disappear into thin air.

WORRY NOT ABOUT THE HUSBAND THAT HAS NOT COME YOUR WAY BUT HOW TO BE A FINANCIAL INDEPENDENT WOMAN..WITH THAT YOU CAN MOVE MOUTAIN ..WHICH ALL BOILS DOWN TO HOW YOU SEE YOURSELF AND LIFE AS A WHOLE.

atoliman:
I will seriously advise any lady who think she is getting old to wait and marry the right person. Do not marry your enemy because you are getting old or family is pressuring you. Na you go chop the beating from my husband or collect STD, if you marry an abusive guy or a womanizer. na only sorry you go hear or endure dear.

If you are above 35 years old, and you cannot find husband. Work on yourself, work out and please socialize,. You can dress descent and the right man will find you. Do not have unrealistic expectation and do not have unrealistic standard, no one earns 800 million naira in a month with 2 jets and 2 houses in Ikoyi, with one mansion in Dubai.

Except you want to marry the Saudi Crown Prince. So please, have reasonable realistic standards and reasonable expectations. Show respect to men and respectable man will find you.

Dating is not hard, find the right person take time.