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adebowales:
Hello nairalanders!
I seek your opinion concerning this situation I find myself in.

I have been in a relationship with my fiancée for 3 yrs already to which she is pregnant for me at the moment! Though we have been together enjoying our relationship until recently I employed a new sales representative which is getting me confused.

Since the day I employed my sales girl, she had been handling my business perfectly even while I wasn’t around, she always defends me well, though I pay her well for this, but she had been managing the business like hers and she makes good return daily, besides she is also a good girl in management.

The relationship I have with my fiancée is getting to marriage soon but I feel recently am making a bad choice even though she is pregnant for me.

Recently, my sales girl profess love to me by telling me she really loves me and she has falling in love already, this makes her get pained seeing me and my fiancée together.
I had to explain to her that, I am the kind of person that is very loyal to my commitment, if we had met earlier, no one also would be able to take me away from her, so by that, I love her, but it’s late already as me and my wife has gone deeper and breaking up isn’t easy at these moment at all.

Recently, I found out my sales is already talking to different suitors which at times gives me bad feelings which makes me confused at the moment if I may loose her and this will definitely affect my business except I find someone better also.

My advice for you is that you pay her off and look for another person that's always better person outside there. Do it wisely stop being a confused man

adebowales:
I had to explain to her that, I am the kind of person that is very loyal to my commitment, if we had met earlier, no one also would be able to take me away from her, so by that, I love her, but it’s late already as me and my wife has gone deeper and breaking up isn’t easy at these moment at all.

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You told her you love her. Which kind talk be this? Your marriage or business. One must defnitiely go with this your level of indecision.

Chai, that's why olden days is truth.... If na olden days, you go just marry two wives. Simple!

The sales girls carry yansh wey your fiancée no carry Abi? I pity you.. u wan use yansh take scatter your life journey..if u no pity yourself .. pity the innocent child you are about to bring into this world

adebowales:
Hello nairalanders!
I seek your opinion concerning this situation I find myself in.

I have been in a relationship with my fiancée for 3 yrs already to which she is pregnant for me at the moment! Though we have been together enjoying our relationship until recently I employed a new sales representative which is getting me confused.

Since the day I employed my sales girl, she had been handling my business perfectly even while I wasn’t around, she always defends me well, though I pay her well for this, but she had been managing the business like hers and she makes good return daily, besides she is also a good girl in management.

The relationship I have with my fiancée is getting to marriage soon but I feel recently am making a bad choice even though she is pregnant for me.

Recently, my sales girl profess love to me by telling me she really loves me and she has falling in love already, this makes her get pained seeing me and my fiancée together.
I had to explain to her that, I am the kind of person that is very loyal to my commitment, if we had met earlier, no one also would be able to take me away from her, so by that, I love her, but it’s late already as me and my wife has gone deeper and breaking up isn’t easy at these moment at all.

Recently, I found out my sales is already talking to different suitors which at times gives me bad feelings which makes me confused at the moment if I may loose her and this will definitely affect my business except I find someone better also.

So for your mind now, you think your head is correct ? Nah !

IFSHR:
The sales girls carry yansh wey your fiancée no carry Abi? I pity you.. u wan use yansh take scatter your life journey..if u no pity yourself .. pity the innocent child you are about to bring into this world

Make him marry the sales girl too... If him power carry am

Blitzking:
U Don nack am abi u neva nack am?

Lol, witout being told, its clear deyve been in a romantic relationship. Na wen sleep don dey sweet snoring dey com in.

Next time when you employ someone leave it at the business part, don't Fvck Your employee ... It does not end well. Have a lovely day

You better sack that evil sales girl before she will send you to early greave.

What a confused man, I pity the innocent girl that is pregnant for you

adebowales:
Hello nairalanders!
I seek your opinion concerning this situation I find myself in.

I have been in a relationship with my fiancée for 3 yrs already to which she is pregnant for me at the moment! Though we have been together enjoying our relationship until recently I employed a new sales representative which is getting me confused.

Since the day I employed my sales girl, she had been handling my business perfectly even while I wasn’t around, she always defends me well, though I pay her well for this, but she had been managing the business like hers and she makes good return daily, besides she is also a good girl in management.

The relationship I have with my fiancée is getting to marriage soon but I feel recently am making a bad choice even though she is pregnant for me.

Recently, my sales girl profess love to me by telling me she really loves me and she has falling in love already, this makes her get pained seeing me and my fiancée together.
I had to explain to her that, I am the kind of person that is very loyal to my commitment, if we had met earlier, no one also would be able to take me away from her, so by that, I love her, but it’s late already as me and my wife has gone deeper and breaking up isn’t easy at these moment at all.

Recently, I found out my sales is already talking to different suitors which at times gives me bad feelings which makes me confused at the moment if I may loose her and this will definitely affect my business except I find someone better also.

adebowales:
Hello nairalanders!
I seek your opinion concerning this situation I find myself in.

I have been in a relationship with my fiancée for 3 yrs already to which she is pregnant for me at the moment! Though we have been together enjoying our relationship until recently I employed a new sales representative which is getting me confused.

Since the day I employed my sales girl, she had been handling my business perfectly even while I wasn’t around, she always defends me well, though I pay her well for this, but she had been managing the business like hers and she makes good return daily, besides she is also a good girl in management.

The relationship I have with my fiancée is getting to marriage soon but I feel recently am making a bad choice even though she is pregnant for me.

Recently, my sales girl profess love to me by telling me she really loves me and she has falling in love already, this makes her get pained seeing me and my fiancée together.
I had to explain to her that, I am the kind of person that is very loyal to my commitment, if we had met earlier, no one also would be able to take me away from her, so by that, I love her, but it’s late already as me and my wife has gone deeper and breaking up isn’t easy at these moment at all.

Recently, I found out my sales is already talking to different suitors which at times gives me bad feelings which makes me confused at the moment if I may loose her and this will definitely affect my business except I find someone better also.

hey i will advise you with one scriptural passage that helps me, it says Godliness with contentment is great gain. Truely you will find other girls that are more beautiful, smart, loyal and stronger than your fiancée but the moment you will accept that regardless that she isn't the best there is available, she is the best for you the whole relationship stuff will be easy for you.

If you like leave her for this new sales girl, with time you will start seeing this new girls flaw and then you will realise that she isnt totally perfect, th3n if devil wan come punish you he will bring someone better again and again and again then over time you will realise that you are just chasing nothing.

Relax with your babe as far as she isnt toxic all will be well nobody perfect including you and me

adebowales:
Hello nairalanders!
I seek your opinion concerning this situation I find myself in.

I have been in a relationship with my fiancée for 3 yrs already to which she is pregnant for me at the moment! Though we have been together enjoying our relationship until recently I employed a new sales representative which is getting me confused.

Since the day I employed my sales girl, she had been handling my business perfectly even while I wasn’t around, she always defends me well, though I pay her well for this, but she had been managing the business like hers and she makes good return daily, besides she is also a good girl in management.

The relationship I have with my fiancée is getting to marriage soon but I feel recently am making a bad choice even though she is pregnant for me.

Recently, my sales girl profess love to me by telling me she really loves me and she has falling in love already, this makes her get pained seeing me and my fiancée together.
I had to explain to her that, I am the kind of person that is very loyal to my commitment, if we had met earlier, no one also would be able to take me away from her, so by that, I love her, but it’s late already as me and my wife has gone deeper and breaking up isn’t easy at these moment at all.

Recently, I found out my sales is already talking to different suitors which at times gives me bad feelings which makes me confused at the moment if I may loose her and this will definitely affect my business except I find someone better also.

Oga shut up U dey Bleep that sales girl, na the innocent fiance I just been dey pity from . Ur explanations na U even dey get feelings for the girl ODE boy

cococandy:
Did she just walk up to you and tell you she loves you?
You allowed the work relationship to devolve to that point


Also don’t mix business with pleasure. She’s managing your business well now. Wait until she’s pregnant too and/or nursing a new baby too. Then you’ll see she’s not better than your fiancée

Person he don dey nack tey tey.
As i read d story i intuitively knew even b4 he admitted to hav done it.

adebowales:
Hello nairalanders!
I seek your opinion concerning this situation I find myself in.

I have been in a relationship with my fiancée for 3 yrs already to which she is pregnant for me at the moment! Though we have been together enjoying our relationship until recently I employed a new sales representative which is getting me confused.

Since the day I employed my sales girl, she had been handling my business perfectly even while I wasn’t around, she always defends me well, though I pay her well for this, but she had been managing the business like hers and she makes good return daily, besides she is also a good girl in management.

The relationship I have with my fiancée is getting to marriage soon but I feel recently am making a bad choice even though she is pregnant for me.

Recently, my sales girl profess love to me by telling me she really loves me and she has falling in love already, this makes her get pained seeing me and my fiancée together.
I had to explain to her that, I am the kind of person that is very loyal to my commitment, if we had met earlier, no one also would be able to take me away from her, so by that, I love her, but it’s late already as me and my wife has gone deeper and breaking up isn’t easy at these moment at all.

Recently, I found out my sales is already talking to different suitors which at times gives me bad feelings which makes me confused at the moment if I may loose her and this will definitely affect my business except I find someone better also.

You better loose her or you loose yourself. Ingredients and Nonsense man . Indeed your sense don leave your brain

adebowales:
Hello nairalanders!
I seek your opinion concerning this situation I find myself in.

I have been in a relationship with my fiancée for 3 yrs already to which she is pregnant for me at the moment! Though we have been together enjoying our relationship until recently I employed a new sales representative which is getting me confused.

Since the day I employed my sales girl, she had been handling my business perfectly even while I wasn’t around, she always defends me well, though I pay her well for this, but she had been managing the business like hers and she makes good return daily, besides she is also a good girl in management.

The relationship I have with my fiancée is getting to marriage soon but I feel recently am making a bad choice even though she is pregnant for me.

Recently, my sales girl profess love to me by telling me she really loves me and she has falling in love already, this makes her get pained seeing me and my fiancée together.
I had to explain to her that, I am the kind of person that is very loyal to my commitment, if we had met earlier, no one also would be able to take me away from her, so by that, I love her, but it’s late already as me and my wife has gone deeper and breaking up isn’t easy at these moment at all.

Recently, I found out my sales is already talking to different suitors which at times gives me bad feelings which makes me confused at the moment if I may loose her and this will definitely affect my business except I find someone better also.

It's a pity you're as confused as your Preek

hakeemhakeem:
Your sales girl is agent of darkness planted to ruin your life, with time she end your relationship and kill your business.take it or leave it those showmanship are predetermined, let her go

No blame d sales girl she been dey use her hard correctly na d mumu wey call him self boss no get sense

Ballzproblemm:
people advising you to leave your sales girl are funny o,what does pregnant fiancee brings on the table no vex?

I would have advice you to be brutal when making decision but they both have pros and cons.


PROS (Salesgirl):* already handling your business, meaning that relationship will experience smooth transition.

*she's productive.


CONS(Salesgirl): *might not the business serious after she enters relationship with you .

*Authority gap will be thin now, meaning she can disobey your orders.(see finish)

*Convince you to neglect your child with ex-fiancee.

*stagnation of the business.

*might be pretending


PROSfiancee):*homely

*long term stability due to you guys knowing each other for long.

CONS:* might be liability if she doesn't have source of income.


In conclusion stick to your fiancee,the pros outweighs the cons,never eat where you shit.


Business 101.

From Thier handwritten we already know they are transgendered 🤣🤣🤣

adebowales:
Hello nairalanders!
I seek your opinion concerning this situation I find myself in.

I have been in a relationship with my fiancée for 3 yrs already to which she is pregnant for me at the moment! Though we have been together enjoying our relationship until recently I employed a new sales representative which is getting me confused.

Since the day I employed my sales girl, she had been handling my business perfectly even while I wasn’t around, she always defends me well, though I pay her well for this, but she had been managing the business like hers and she makes good return daily, besides she is also a good girl in management.

The relationship I have with my fiancée is getting to marriage soon but I feel recently am making a bad choice even though she is pregnant for me.

Recently, my sales girl profess love to me by telling me she really loves me and she has falling in love already, this makes her get pained seeing me and my fiancée together.
I had to explain to her that, I am the kind of person that is very loyal to my commitment, if we had met earlier, no one also would be able to take me away from her, so by that, I love her, but it’s late already as me and my wife has gone deeper and breaking up isn’t easy at these moment at all.

Recently, I found out my sales is already talking to different suitors which at times gives me bad feelings which makes me confused at the moment if I may loose her and this will definitely affect my business except I find someone better also.

If you had met her earlier, she would not love you because you would be single then. She only loves you now because she sees the way you take care of another woman.

You’re dreaming if you think she would have professed love to you if you were single and alone.

Women love men that are taken.

EreluRoz:
Leave your sales girl alone and don't fall for her manipulation and desperate moves to settle down, she has it all planned out reason why she's acting perfect. You'll be shocked when you finally entered her trap and see her hidden side.

Stay with your fiancee. Keep your prick one place

You are smart sir

adebowales:
Hello nairalanders!
I seek your opinion concerning this situation I find myself in.

I have been in a relationship with my fiancée for 3 yrs already to which she is pregnant for me at the moment! Though we have been together enjoying our relationship until recently I employed a new sales representative which is getting me confused.

Since the day I employed my sales girl, she had been handling my business perfectly even while I wasn’t around, she always defends me well, though I pay her well for this, but she had been managing the business like hers and she makes good return daily, besides she is also a good girl in management.

The relationship I have with my fiancée is getting to marriage soon but I feel recently am making a bad choice even though she is pregnant for me.

Recently, my sales girl profess love to me by telling me she really loves me and she has falling in love already, this makes her get pained seeing me and my fiancée together.
I had to explain to her that, I am the kind of person that is very loyal to my commitment, if we had met earlier, no one also would be able to take me away from her, so by that, I love her, but it’s late already as me and my wife has gone deeper and breaking up isn’t easy at these moment at all.

Recently, I found out my sales is already talking to different suitors which at times gives me bad feelings which makes me confused at the moment if I may loose her and this will definitely affect my business except I find someone better also.

How old are you?

Baba don dey knack

I understand what you mean. You feel like you met your wife after marriage. If na abroad now I go say follow your heart and I know where your heart is. But if you try it here in Nigeria after getting that other lady pregnant, them go use swear kee you. So I'll rather say, follow your dick. But find how to teach your pregnant fiancee the nature of your business maybe after birth so are can easily replace your sales girl

adebowales:
Hello nairalanders!
I seek your opinion concerning this situation I find myself in.

I have been in a relationship with my fiancée for 3 yrs already to which she is pregnant for me at the moment! Though we have been together enjoying our relationship until recently I employed a new sales representative which is getting me confused.

Since the day I employed my sales girl, she had been handling my business perfectly even while I wasn’t around, she always defends me well, though I pay her well for this, but she had been managing the business like hers and she makes good return daily, besides she is also a good girl in management.

The relationship I have with my fiancée is getting to marriage soon but I feel recently am making a bad choice even though she is pregnant for me.

Recently, my sales girl profess love to me by telling me she really loves me and she has falling in love already, this makes her get pained seeing me and my fiancée together.
I had to explain to her that, I am the kind of person that is very loyal to my commitment, if we had met earlier, no one also would be able to take me away from her, so by that, I love her, but it’s late already as me and my wife has gone deeper and breaking up isn’t easy at these moment at all.

Recently, I found out my sales is already talking to different suitors which at times gives me bad feelings which makes me confused at the moment if I may loose her and this will definitely affect my business except I find someone better also.

You are obviously not in your right senses. Imagine the rubbish coming out of your mouth. And you wants a wife who’s faithful right? You’re just loose. Small boy

kwasoly:
How old are you?

He’s obviously not matured. And obviously making advances at his sales girl, probably having sex with her.

ericmor:
That guy is worried about his business and not losing the girl to another guy. It is difficult to get a loyal sales person now because most of them want to come and steal from your business. My advice to op, let her be and if she eventually leave, take your time to get another sales girl or better still, get another one now to work along with the girl before she leaves. I don't even think your sales girl loves you, she only likes what you have

any woman that works for you, that professes love to you is a possible threat to YOUR BUSINESS and YOUR RELATIONSHIP... her loyalty to your business can be jeopardized due to the love she supposedly has for you (and you turned her down), let alone who knows what can happen when her jealousy of your now happy wife and kids come scatter her brain?

flames007:
A man that doesn't know his own mind. I feel for the pregnant lady.

He’s obviously thinking with his down-below. I pity his fiancée

madone:
na your pregnant girlfriend i am sorry for cos she will still suffer this kind of shit from you in future even if u overcome this one. For the record you dey very maaaaad.

To be honest. You’re right, once this particular sales girl goes he will continue with the next.

flames007:
A man that doesn't know his own mind. I feel for the pregnant lady.

Simple

MrBrownJay1:
any woman that works for you, that professes love to you is a possible threat to YOUR BUSINESS and YOUR RELATIONSHIP... her loyalty to your business can be jeopardized due to the love she supposedly has for you (and you turned her down), let alone who knows what can happen when her jealousy of your now happy wife and kids come scatter her brain?

That was y I said, she doesn't love the guy but what the guy own.

Go out and touch grass. You don't need advice, you need deliverance

Tony umeze comes to mind

You're loyal to which commitment? You're harboring feelings for your sales girl, talking about you love her, when you've a pregnant fiancée you should be focused on. It's your fiancée I feel sorry for because you've no idea what loyalty is and you're also a confused entity ready to cheat. Arrant nonsense.

Oga, no Nigeria girl will tell you they really love you. No dey whine yourself