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Nigerian lady, Ada Seraphina Okoro, has shared her journey of healing and forgiveness after her fiancé ended their relationship because his pastors said she wasn’t the one for him.

In a Facebook post on July 17, 2024, Ada revealed that the pastors’ declaration came after she refused an invitation from one of them to visit Nekede.

Ada stated that the heartbreak had been so intense and debilitating for her, and she only pulled through due to those around her who kept consoling her.

She has now moved beyond anger, hate, and regrets, embracing a path of forgiveness and personal growth.

Her words …

“Sharing my story without any grudge whatsoever and I do not want anyone to use the care button or pity me… I have healed and I have moved on

It will be in your best interest to learn from it and to not ask me personal questions aside what I’d drop here. No one fo.rced me to share this, I’m sharing this because I want to and for someone out there to learn too.

My last serious relationship ended because my fiancé pastors gave the order that I wasn’t the one for him… He met these pastors when he had financial issues and we resulted to prayers.

Mind you, this message came after the pastor visited Nekede and I was in IMSU then, asked me to come see him in Nekede and I declined.

That was when he did everything possible to end my relationship and he did. I never told my fiancé then about this until years later when he came to ask for forgiveness.

When this relationship ended, two things filled my heart, regret and fear. Regret for telling other men away. There’s one of my suitors then here, he’s my follower, this guy chased me for years even when he knew I was in a serious relationship but I declined because I was being loyal, like I said, it’s my curse, I can’t date more than one person

Today he’s married and if the tables were turned and if given the opportunity, he still love to get married to me… But what’s not meant to be is not meant to be, you can’t fo.rce it.


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Wetin concern us

The Pastor will now connect the Guy to one Desperado Ex-Olosho ,Pretending Female in the church for Marriage.

Some Naija pastors are Demons.

you can never find see me being subservient to one pastor. I do not expect my woman to as well. if i notice it in my woman, otilor

The guy wasn't smart enough, how does praying for financial breakthrough results to relationship counseling? Prayer is good but one have to be sensitive to be able to detect wolf in sheep clothing.

U dey use ur husband food do give away to neighbors...yet u think it's just because pastor told him u are not meant for him ......

Oya...Let's be serious ........see how she painted herself like mother theresa.... If u are that perfect...one word from a pastor cannot make a guy leave you..there are always followup reasons.....but Women always form perfect in their relationship..it's always the other person's fault and never theirs... it's pathetic...

They always overestimate their worth in a relationship ....once the legs don spread, they feel they've given u all and done all they need.

U were easy to drop...men don't drop real women they value just because of what one nigga said...

Lol.....I just the "real women" manipulation..

hahahahahaha ...

"have you met me?? I'm too good"...



Read that part
And i knew the pastor was right

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Story. As if she won't turn tiger at home after the wedding.

De guy nd de pastor run una collabo

emperor4love:
De guy nd de pastor run una collabo

Lol 🤣

These blind faith in pastors have to Stop because of faith now pastors have also turned to relationship counselors

dhiqson:
"have you met me?? I'm too good"...



Read that part
And i knew the pastor was right

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lol sha this is a red flag

VinnyBaba:
The Pastor will now connect the Guy to one Desperado Ex-Olosho ,Pretending Female in the church for Marriage.

Some Naija pastors are Demons.

He may even connect him to one of his ex he couldn't marry, some of these pastors na case. That's why I no dy like all these connecting with someone through friends pastors or whatever because some are so bad hearted to connect you with their favorite ex that they couldn't marry and hide it from you. I actually know someone connecting his secret girlfriend to his friend for marriage.

Coolsat:
He may even connect him to one of his ex he couldn't marry, some of these pastors na case. That's why I no dy like all these connecting with someone through friends pastors or whatever because some are so bad hearted to connect you with their favorite ex that they couldn't marry and hide it from you. I actually know someone connecting his secret girlfriend to his friend for marriage.

At the end of the day it's advice, not everything you'll take i just because it's a pastor dosen't mean their always right.

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dhiqson:
"have you met me?? I'm too good"...



Read that part
And i knew the pastor was right

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Lol that part... That's their trademark. They never see the wrongs they do but will rather blame everyone else but themselves

And so?

Madam, keep your story to yourself. Who no know 9ja girls?

The pastor caught you doing ashawo work and he ask the SIMP to reconsider and he dump your useless ass.

9ja girls! They are all the same. The day they will stop ashawo, that day, the world will end. Very Useless set of gender.

Savedday2:
Madam, keep your story to yourself. Who no know 9ja girls?

The pastor caught you doing ashawo work and he ask the SIMP to reconsider and he dump your useless ass.

9ja girls! They are all the same. The day they will stop ashawo, that day, the world will end. Very Useless set of gender.

Omo this one is personal beef

..... pastor invited you to see him in Nekede, yet didnt deem it fit to inform the man u claimed you so love and planning to marry?


Today, ur fiance is married while you are still wandering in the wilderness of singleness!

I guess it's same pastor that continuing ended every other relationships you have been having since then.


You and nairaland's urchins should keep blaming pastor, while ur former fiance's marriage is continuing blissful.