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she said I just like to read meaning to little things and that the guy was just a friend

on Tuesday she came home with pringles and malt and said the guy said she should give me.

Surface2AirToto:
Nairalanders, please help me ohh, my wife wants to destroy our marriage and she sees nothing wrong in what she's doing.

It's been two weeks now since the first day a guy at her place of work started dropping her off with his car when they close from work. First it was just dropping her off after work, now it has graduated and the same said guy has started picking her up from our marital home. I asked what was it all about and if she knew and told the guy she was married with a child, she said I just like to read meaning to little things and that the guy was just a friend, i kept calm ohh, until on Tuesday she came home with pringles and malt and said the guy said she should give me. We had a serious argument that turned physical and she has refused to talk to me ever since, no longer cooks before she leaves home anymore, even our baby she barely gives attention. Please Nairalanders i need your advice because i don't want to do what's in my mind right now because somebody might get hurt.

dhiqson:

Man
You're insecured!
It's just help assistance and harmless malt nd biscuit
Why are u gettin so worked up...
Pls go and beg ur wife
And let peace reign

Deprincess4321:
ur not talking like a guy,,am a girl bt i wil never advice dis guy to go beg her,fr wat?Wats his offence that his wife dosnt plce value on herself? What should he beg her for if i may ask? If ur my brother i wil advice u to take the baby to ur mother or invite her around to hlp u take care of the bby while you do ur business,wen she is tired of rubbishing herself,u ask her to park her things n live ur house,,her eye is outside already,d is ntin u cn do,move on with ur life,,tomoro d wil say nigerian girls,,mitcheew

CyrusVI:
This one pass me o


I detest guys that dont know where to draw the line, when it comes to the kinda women they make friends with

I automatically feel disgusted chatting with a married woman, let alone getting close to them

Op, if worst comes to worst, call the guy and just tell am say u no dey okay with am, jokingly

Not sure your wife would listen to u, she'd prolly logically explain how that assistance has being helping her to save more

Deprincess4321:
ur not talking like a guy,,am a girl bt i wil never advice dis guy to go beg her,fr wat?Wats his offence that his wife dosnt plce value on herself? What should he beg her for if i may ask? If ur my brother i wil advice u to take the baby to ur mother or invite her around to hlp u take care of the bby while you do ur business,wen she is tired of rubbishing herself,u ask her to park her things n live ur house,,her eye is outside already,d is ntin u cn do,move on with ur life,,tomoro d wil say nigerian girls,,mitcheew

Deprincess4321:
ur not talking like a guy,,am a girl bt i wil never advice dis guy to go beg her,fr wat?Wats his offence that his wife dosnt plce value on herself? What should he beg her for if i may ask? If ur my brother i wil advice u to take the baby to ur mother or invite her around to hlp u take care of the bby while you do ur business,wen she is tired of rubbishing herself,u ask her to park her things n live ur house,,her eye is outside already,d is ntin u cn do,move on with ur life,,tomoro d wil say nigerian girls,,mitcheew

dhiqson:
Sarcasm flew over you ma'am


Ohh, and i just skimmed over ur posts on nairaland and im quite impressed... No unnecessary vile comments

But I'll like to say, most ladies that make sense like this (referencing ur post) they are averagely fine like me
Or body wise, it's just not there
So which is which??



If it sounds offensive, you don't need to reply

Deprincess4321:
plz can u type n drop dis comment again? Cuz i cnt get ur writeup here,tnks

CyrusVI:
This one pass me o


I detest guys that dont know where to draw the line, when it comes to the kinda women they make friends with

I automatically feel disgusted chatting with a married woman, let alone getting close to them

Op, if worst comes to worst, call the guy and just tell am say u no dey okay with am, jokingly

Not sure your wife would listen to u, she'd prolly logically explain how that assistance has being helping her to save more

Proserpina:
So in all, Op's Mother will bear the brunt of two stupid individuals' failure. Do you know what it takes to raise a child especially for an aged person.

Lol.... My our mothers get the rest they need

Surface2AirToto:
Nairalanders, please help me ohh, my wife wants to destroy our marriage and she sees nothing wrong in what she's doing.

It's been two weeks now since the first day a guy at her place of work started dropping her off with his car when they close from work. First it was just dropping her off after work, now it has graduated and the same said guy has started picking her up from our marital home. I asked what was it all about and if she knew and told the guy she was married with a child, she said I just like to read meaning to little things and that the guy was just a friend, i kept calm ohh, until on Tuesday she came home with pringles and malt and said the guy said she should give me. We had a serious argument that turned physical and she has refused to talk to me ever since, no longer cooks before she leaves home anymore, even our baby she barely gives attention. Please Nairalanders i need your advice because i don't want to do what's in my mind right now because somebody might get hurt.

A4alpha:
There is not like jokingly here, he should confront the MF and warn him to stay away and never ever give lift, make sure this warning is recorded, you might need it later. Men should learn to maintain boundary and don't cross the redline. Op that's (most) women for you, they try to downplay their idiocy making it look less an offence cos that's their current state of mind as they try to filter, digest and validate their next line of action while hanging onto an excuse to finally cheat. heating her to her means validation and a big push to fall into the MF hands.
Journey of a 100 miles start with one step, from dropping her off to picking her from your house and next show of effection to her family in other to win her over. Note, the easiest way to a woman's heart is through her children (just be kind and friendly with her kids then identify with the husband).

Her eye don dey outside already just watch and monitor her to find good ground to finally dump her arse. Meanwhile hitting her is so wrong and it's totally foolish to do so. you fit woza her a life changing hot slap or two then bounce and go somewhere and chill.

dhiqson:
Sigh Okay i said Your message was duly noted I was being sarcastic with my comment

dhiqson:

Man
You're insecured!
It's just help assistance and harmless malt nd biscuit
Why are u gettin so worked up...
Pls go and beg ur wife
And let peace reign

Deprincess4321:
so you advice the man to go beg the wife like the other commentator did? Or he should continue accommodating a cheating wife? Cheating is nt only by having sex outside,,bt wat his wife is doing is cheating and disrespecting him,,she dosent even have regards for him,,my dear better fr him to look for another option and send her out,cuz giving another man outside that go ahead to come and pick u from ur marital home to work and drop you back,is a red flag shikina,i hate rubbish,u wil park and go back to ur mothers house asap

EreluRoz:
What type of mother starve her child of attention? Please if you are not ready for marriage remain single. Some of you going into marriage unprepared are nut case.

I dislike all these unnecessary friendship with the opposite sex that makes a partner uncomfortable, it's stupidity. You sef why did you go physical on her? Is that how to show your masculinity? Let me tell you that the moment you start hitting your wife, she's very prone to cheat on you.

Most of you should go learn silent treatment that's the best weapon to tame any woman.