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|My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by deavicky(m): 7:14pm On Aug 12, 2022|
I was minding my business in my office trying to get out of tedious drawing I was doing, suddenly my phone rang. I checked, it was an unknown number so I ignored the call and continued with my work. The phone rang again I still did not pick. About 15 minutes later a text came from the same number that she is Mr X (my friend) wife that if I'm free I should call her back.
Immediately I had to call back.
She picked and start by apologising for calling but she couldn't just help it. That they are very broke at the moment even their little baby food is finished and no money to buy it that she had asked her husband to call me but he said he doesn't want bother me. She just had to take my number from his phone to secretly call me. She said I should send them any amount I can and I should please not let her husband know she called me that I can also send the money to his account.
I was not having much at that time so I sent 20k to his account only for my friend to call me later to thank me and also indirectly warn me not ever listen to such call from his wife.
My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is she trying to cause problem between us?
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|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by ahnie(f): 7:26pm On Aug 12, 2022|
She planned it with her husband issa colabo thingy.
No modified...I still insist that it's a colabo remix because,the husband was too ashamed to asked you directly for help(men ego)
So he bowed to pressure from his wife and asked her to call you herself.
So simply put,the husby was in the know that the wife called you for help.
Please also note that, there's a baby that needs to be fed with food.
Hope I look good in my green octopus outfit and jewelries?
Simply put.....E mi lo Kun.
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|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Qtrpst4: 7:42pm On Aug 12, 2022|
You dont mean it
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|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by DonBenny77(m): 7:55pm On Aug 12, 2022|
She had to explain why he recieved the money. Not really a collaboration thing.
Some women no sabi respect their husband they beg every tom, dick and harry for money. Even on Facebook.
Next time tell her to ask her husband to ask for money instead. It's her husband that is your friend not her.
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|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by ojun50(m): 7:55pm On Aug 12, 2022|
No body planned any tin, just that men have ego problem
You have don well, just forget and move on and be watchful
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|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by tayo60(f): 8:02pm On Aug 12, 2022|
U did well as a good friend. A friend in need is a friend indeed
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|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Machalla(m): 8:16pm On Aug 12, 2022|
You see husband and wife matter. Commot body no put body.
My uni buddy wife once called me talking bout how she needs a new phone and all that. Apparently she got my number from my buddy phone. That was our first time of having a phone conversation and I didnt expect to get such a call. I was bothered and knowing how manipulative some women can be I told her I will contact her husband.
I contacted my buddy and we talk and send part of the money of the phone she preferred to purchase TO HER HUSBAND.
People especially men needs to exercise caution when sending money to people's wife. Make sure the other partner is fully aware.
Then another thing. Most Women kinda falls for men that give them money not excluding the married ones sef. They can't help it but yea we know. . .
@Op from now on mind your business else dem go use you settle their quarrel and put you for enemy zone. Husband and wife matter nah sense dem dey use settle am
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|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Machalla(m): 8:36pm On Aug 12, 2022|
Collaboration own sef dey.
Chai some people no suppose near heaven gate I swear
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|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by deavicky(m): 8:59pm On Aug 12, 2022|
ahnie:I don't want to believe it's a plan because I don't see any reason why he would want to plan that considering our closeness.
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|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by CuteEmma(f): 9:02pm On Aug 12, 2022|
Doh. No need to worry since your friend is aware. Maybe his ego wouldn’t let him beg directly so decided to go thru the wife.. times are hard.
|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by NehemiahReturns: 10:30pm On Aug 12, 2022|
Machalla:for my area, one woman and her husband fight because she come meet lady for their house when she came back unannounced, the woman packed out of her husband and one idiot neighbor even sided with the wife and said she should leave the useless man, two weeks later the woman reconciled with her husband, but you see the useless neighbor today both the woman and her husband no dey greet the neighbor again.
The guy come get sense never to involve in husband and wife quarrel
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|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Machalla(m): 10:41pm On Aug 12, 2022|
Dem no dey tell blind man say rain dey fall
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|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by 9japride(m): 4:29am On Aug 13, 2022|
You see married people matter, just leave them like that. Most times, both the husband and wife do plan things together especially in this our 9ja situation that things are difficult. Just move on and don't bother yourself trying to know why. And avoid doing things directly with the woman, otherwise if the husband is a jealous person he might accuse you of wanting to sleep with he's wife.
|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by shortIGBOman: 6:47am On Aug 13, 2022|
You've said it all. I also like the fact that, the lady asked him to send the money to her husband's account. That shows she is a straightforward person.
Op God will bless you for this. Forget weather the woman told her hubby or not. But the 20k you gave them will go a long way. These days, so many families are going through alot.
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|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by SeeMeForLAPTOP: 6:51am On Aug 13, 2022|
immediately that your friend called, you should have said you borrowed her the money so that they will work towards paying back. that will also dissuade them from such calls
|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by padi94(m): 7:53am On Aug 13, 2022|
|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by padi94(m): 7:56am On Aug 13, 2022|
Apologise to the husband and move on, anytime she call you, tell am say you no get ... Simple
|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Truvelisback(m): 8:10am On Aug 13, 2022|
deavicky:They had had discussion on weda to seek help from u or not. Ur friend might be shy to ask u for help, so she decided to do that.
|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by deavicky(m): 8:20am On Aug 13, 2022|
Truvelisback:he can't be shy we are just more than friend we grew up together we even share cloth those days I even borrow his things more we are just like brothers even some people tot we are. And he does not hesitate to ask me for anything.
|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Theboy21: 8:45am On Aug 13, 2022|
|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Popesuccess: 9:09am On Aug 13, 2022|
No she is not trying to cause problem, she just decided to tell him which is the right thing to do.
|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Popesuccess: 9:11am On Aug 13, 2022|
ahnie:you are right. shame did not allow the husband to ask himself and pride made him to warn him stylishly.
|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Truvelisback(m): 9:34am On Aug 13, 2022|
deavicky:That was then. I.e When he had not gotten married. Now, he is married and he doesn't want to bother u.
|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by deavicky(m): 10:25am On Aug 13, 2022|
Popesuccess:why will she do a thing like that after telling me otherwise.
I'm thinking maybe the guy man has refused to disburse the money amicably so it cause some rifts.
|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by AfroKnight: 11:08am On Aug 13, 2022|
I will tell my friend before sending any money. You and your friend’s wife should never have a secret. Why would I be hiding my dealings with a friend’s wife? It makes no sense. I’ll tell him what she asked for then I’d ask if I can send money to him.
I personally don’t like such women who put you in uncomfortable situations. If they do that to me, Me too I will put them in uncomfortable situations to balance it up.
|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Nobody: 11:18am On Aug 13, 2022|
It was planned by the husband and the wife on the premise that most men has soft spot for women.
|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Mom007(f): 11:45am On Aug 13, 2022|
Qtrpst4:She didnt plan it with the husband but probably had to explain the source of the sudden funds to her husband and she had to fess up. It shows a healthy relationship between the husband and the wife because some wives will lie or begin to insult the husband and tell him to mind his own business. Pls do not feel too bad. You know how you men are when your pride as a man and your ability to care for your family is threatened... But as women, our priority is the welfare of our children and we can go over and beyond sometimes. Adults can swallow pride when there is nothing else but children can not. Thank you for coming through for them Oga OP. Times are hard and unthinkable things are happening. May God reward you.
|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by Mercury12(m): 11:47am On Aug 13, 2022|
|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by goziem1982(m): 12:20pm On Aug 13, 2022|
Bros move on, you have rendered a help to a friend. You will be blessed.
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|Re: My Friends Wife Wants To Put Me In Trouble by BATified2023: 12:56pm On Aug 13, 2022|
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